wettingman

I have made some male desperation and peeing/ wetting videos. Although reaction pales compared to females doing the same, I do have some followers that always give positive feedback. They particularly enjoy me talking about my desperation. What I do , pee dancing dick holding is 100% real, and never has any acting. When I am squirming around and holding myself it's because my pee genuinely feels like it is going to come out as I struggle to hold it in. As far as it not something you would see in public, I don't want to embarrass myself by drawing attention to the fact i need to pee very badly. I have given myself a quick grab if I think I can get away with it unnoticed. But generally I just tighten my sphincter as much as possible and hope for the best. I have experienced situations where I have started to pee in my pants, but I did nothing but look for a restroom, hoping nobody noticed. I usually just leak/ spurt a bit resulting in an obvious wet spot but nobody seemed to notice or care. I think it would be different if I made my need obvious. Speaking of my pee videos I know I would create some a month or so ago but have not. I was not home until now, so I was not in a situation to have some fun. Now I am.

Everything in moderation. Holding your pee beyond your normal 'go point' will definitely strengthen your bladder. I think holding it until your bladder is almost painful is a good idea. However, while postponing going pee until your bladder is painfully full and you are about to pee yourself does seem to help your capacity by stretching your bladder, and strengthen your sphincter the gain is relatively short term. Think of a bodybuilder who stops training and lets himself go. All those huge muscles turn to flab. Same with your bladder. If you frequently hold your pee until your bladder is painfully distended and you start to wet your pants , as you get older your bladder will lose some elasticity and become unable to contract and empty completely and lead to UTIs . This is what happened to my ex-wife. She leaks unexpectedly. I also learned too much pee play caused unexpected leaking when I didn't want it. But don't let that discourage you . Hold your pee , practice kegels, and enjoy the sensation of a full bladder. Just don't overdo it. Kegels are important to controlling OAB. I used to hold my pee a lot , and frequently not always for fun. For several years I have dealt with prostate issues and OAB. I take medication for both. I can't hold it like I used to, but still enjoy a good hold.

Great story of simultaneous desperation. Did she know you leaked. If so what did she say?

Back in the early 80's I was hospitalized for an abdominal hernia repair. I was a stretcher waiting for the operating room to become available. For some reason there was a long delay. Being semi-sediated, and it being long ago I don't know how long exactly. I do remember laying there in the hospital hallway, forever I,had to pee. Eventually I had to go badly. I could not get up because I was semi-sediated and there was no privacy in the hall. For this reason plus the fact I was still pee shy ,and could not go with people around, and didn't want people to know I needed to urinate, I remained silent. I went into surgery with a very uncomfortable almost painfully full bladder. I woke up a few hours later with my bladder screaming in pain because it was seriously distended, because I still had not urinated. In addition I was in pain from the surgery as the anesthetic wore off. I had no choice but to tell the nurse that I had to pee very badly. She brought me urinal. I could not go laying down. After a while she let me try standing, still nothing happened. It was frustrating that I had to pee so bad, my bladder and penis throbbing , but I couldn't even leak a drop. After falling to be able to urinate after some time and numerous failed attempts, she was still not confident I could walk on my own without a risk of falling, suggested coming in the bathroom with me. I declined because I knew I couldn't go with her there . I just wanted relief so i begged her to let me go in alone, and she agreed. In my mind she seemed disappointed. However I still just stood there, pee seemingly pressing on my pee hole , but nothing came out. I tried repeatedly but eventually got tired and returned to bed still painfully full. Some time passed and after numerous attempts I still could not go. She finally catheterized me a normally painful process, but I was so full with many hours of urine in my distended bladder I didn't notice. All I felt was sweet relief as the pressure disappeared. She commented wow you really did have to go when she saw the huge volume of urine in the urinal. Not long afterward I had to go badly again but still couldn't so she catheterized me again. Later having fantasized of a woman watching or helping me pee, I regreted not having her come into the bathroom with me to at least attempt to go. Maybe she wanted to watch me urinate and this was a perfect opportunity. Could I have gone pee that way ? Probably not, but I like to think I could and she would have enjoyed it . To this day, I wish I had tried, maybe we could have become pee friends since she also had a pee fetish in her personallife. . I had to settle for knowing she held my dick twice as I peed even though it was through a catheter and I couldn't feel it coming out.

Usually I experience first tiny one or two drops leak. They are barely noticeable, don't even get my underwear wet . I just feel a drop seep past my clenched sphincter and through my pee hole. I feel it run across the tip of my penis. If I can grab my dick directly I notice the tip is wet, but nothing else. If I squeeze , and shake it side to sideI can regain control for a short while, but it will happen again. These are just my bladder's final warnings to go pee. Before long the leaks became bigger and my briefs start getting wet as I struggle to hold it a bit longer. Eventually the leaks become bigger spurts that occur with increased frequency. Now my pants are getting really wet. If I continue to struggle to hold it, the spurts become a steady unstoppable stream. Lately sometimes I arrive home having needing to pee for a while, as I am driving home. As I unlock the door I go from needing to go badly to a slow but steady, unstoppable low pressure stream , skipping right over the leaks and spurts. This can can continue all the way to the toilet and even as I free my penis from my pants, meaning I get some pee on the floor as well.

I think just making it means my pants are still dry, and my briefs have no more than a small wet spot. Just making it also applies if I start peeing uncontrollably the split second I free my penis from my pants, but have not aimed at the toilet and a spurt ends up on the floor. Almost making it to me is when I can't stop my pee from coming out on the way to the toilet. My underwear may be wet from a spurt or two but my jeans only have a small barely noticeable wet spot , like no bigger than a quarter. Perhaps I should be able to stop the flow before reaching the toilet .A wet spot that can be covered is almost making it, although anything that gets your pants wet is kind of an accident although a small one, so Ill call it almost making it. A full accident is when even with my sphincter is clenched as tight as I can manage pee continues leaking out even slowly getting my pants noticeably wet and continues as i free myself from my pants. This does happen sometimes when I arrive home. It is rare that I will have a full flow high pressure accident, unless I figure screw it my pants are already wet past my knees ,and I just let go completely.

It definitely is. I love the sensation of my pee pushing to come out, as I struggle to hold it in. Eventually I lose the battle and start leaking. That is the best part, being in wet pants still trying to hold it but eventually letting go. I hope to read more from you.

You write of somr amazing pee adventures. I like how you deliberately let more pee out into your already soaked pants. I have done that myself.

Starting in my teens, when I hit puberty I was only interested in female desperation and peeing/ wetting. My girlfriend- wife now ex provided me with plenty of both for years. At some point in my twenties I became interested in holding my own pee until I wet my pants. It didn't happened for years. No matter how full I was I didn't have an accident. I wondered if it was even possible and if not why not. I never wanted to just let it out , peeing in my pants deliberately. Eventually I decided to endure the pain , figuring it would come out eventually. After hours of desperation and pain it finally did. I peed in my pants because i couldn't hold it. I have done it many times since without so much pain. After we got divorced, I masterbated to my memories of my ex- wifes stories . I no longer had a pee partner .But as they played out I focused on holding my own pee until I wet my pants. I imagine a female enjoying my struggles to get aroused. Now I mostly get off to long richly detailed, highly descriptive stories , or well done videos of desperate females eventually reaching their ability to hold and start peeing. I also get excited knowing women are enjoying my content.

I dont have specific pants to wet in. Which ever I am wearing at the time will do. Most of my deliberate hold until I pee in my pants are spur of the moment decisions to not go when I need to. As I have aged sometimes I have an unplanned accident in public. I wear jeans or sweats 95% of the time. They are just what I am comfortable wearing. I wear cotton briefs or boxers briefs underneath. I don't enjoy wetting other types of pants because so much of my pee is wasted. It just runs down my leg and onto the floor.. I like jeans and to a lesser extent sweats to wet along with cotton underwear because of their superior absorbency. Since my wettings are mostly random I can't say exactly how many of the pairs I currently have I have peed in.

Exactly what I have tried to say. The pain is excruciating, not fun and leads to permanent danage. When I was in my teens and twenties I was extremely pee shy. I could not go pee with people around. It hurt ,not only my bladder and penis but my kidneys as well. My whole abdominal area cramped. I was concerned about damage. @JibbyJamie. Yes when I was in these situations I tried to push my pee out, begging for relief. At most I dribbled a little . It hurt was frustrating and not at all fun. I have never been into public wetting, and to do so especially back then would be hugely embarrassing. However, while I didn't try to let go or push it out in my pants *, if I did wet myself at least it wouldn't hurt anymore. I always have enjoyed holding my pee until I can't, but not like that. * Well I did once while driving. My then wife was in the car. I could not do it.

@DesperateJill You are the exception to the rule. You're any excellent writter with many stories. But most of my favorite hot pee stories from when I joined are no longer such active participants. I am still here and contributing but not so many new pee stories. Initially I had many stories from my pee holding ex-wife. I don't have as many untold stories of my own experiences. Like you said when I post the most I am horney. As I said due to age my sex drive has unfortunately declined, as has my ability to hold my pee. I just can't hold it like I used to . I sometimes leak without enjoying the over full sensation. Sometimes I can still do it though.

Great and unique female peeing video. I don't recall seeing a woman do that from a tree. I agree zooming out to show the whole stream to the ground eould be awesome. It is something I have enjoyed doing in my younger days. Very enjoyable video nonetheless. Thank you.

I can and do squeeze the tip of my penis when the first sensations that my pee is going to come out occurs. The odd thing is at this point there is no pee actually there. It is still held back by my sphincter. The sphincter is located at the base of the penis, not the tip. I have used my fingers to open my pee hole to look at thats point and nothing is there or comes out . I find that squeezing my dick at this point does briefly hold back anon pressureized leak, but the effect is purely psychological. Kind of latch key urgency that makes your desperation much worse as you try to open the door or approach the toilet in reverse. There is nothing in the urethra itself that holds the flow back. Once urine leaks past the sphincter, it is coming out no matter what. Squeezing myself may hold my pee back briefly when it is a small leak not under pressure. It will dribble out when I let go though . Its like squeezing a hose with the water on trickle. Once a bigger bladder spasm pushes urine under pressure into my urethra the force is unstoppable. Like others have said its like overfilling a balloon. The agony is excruciating. Like shoving a hot barbed poker un your penis and twisting. An involuntary reflex will force me to let go immediately. My pee then comes gushing out uncontrollably. I love holding my pee until I can't and it comes out involuntary. Ihave done it ,but not overdone it all ny life. I squeeze my dick, pee dance, squirm, and hold my penis between my legs when it feels like my pee feels like it is going to come out. I really enjoy that sensation. However, I do not do extreme things that can cause permanent damage. Some have mentioned using some ourside mechanical means , such as a clamp, to squeeze a penis tighter than a man physically can. I have also read of females using a urethra plug to achieve the same thing. I think this is extremely foolish and dangerous. You are using some outside means to attempt to override what the body needs to do to protect itself from serious , permanent damage. I don't understand willingly understand undergoing that degree of torture. Your kidneys are still producing urine. It has to go somewhere. It is likely it will back up in your ureter into your kidneys . The damage can be permanent. You can eventually end up on dialysis or need a transplant An repeatedly severely over stretched bladder can rupture under severe circumstances. It can also rest on your urethra blocking the flow of urine requiring catheterization. Very likely is your bladder will become so permanently stretched that it wiil be unable to fully contract and empty, resulting in frequent UTI. Have fun but Everything in moderation.