wettingman

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wettingman last won the day on May 18 2014

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About wettingman

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  • Birthday 05/27/1952

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    Mid Hudson Valley, Eastern New York State ,USA
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    I am a 64 year old divorced straight male.
    I have a huge interest in pee holding, desperation, and slowly wetting my pants because I can no longer hold it in. My pleasure increases exponentially if I have a female who enjoys doing the same to share it with. Finding a desperate, or wetting female , especially one who enjoys it would put me over the top.
    My other interests include camping, watching sports, antique cars, reading and watching TV. I enjoy Classic Rock as well as rock and pop oldies from the sixties through the eighties. I am also a member of AANR.

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  1. If your too shy or embarrassed to just come out and ask him , perhaps you could leave your computer or whatever open to this page where he will see it. Then you can confess yup that's me.
  2. I have lived in the Mid- Hudson Valley, of New York State, in the northeast United States all my life.. I am of mostly German heritage, with some Irish mixed in.
  3. Your pain tolerance isn't necessarily low. When i was young in my teens and twenties, I could hold it forever without an accident or leak. The pain was excruciating. I was disappointed that I could not have an accident, like my then girlfriend/ wife did. Like you I always ended up going also. One evening I decided to ignore the pain and drink extra fluids and just not pee until it came out in my pants. It took several hours, during which we watched a couple of movies. I had to pee the whole time.Toward the end of the second movie although I hurt so much, and my pee felt like it was going to come out, so I did not feel the leak start. I just felt my briefs start to get wet. I leaked and spurted for the last 20 minutes of the movie, then i let it all out. This was not an Ideal way of doing it as I was risking damage to my body. Eventually I got the idea of untraining my bladder. I started by standing in the tub and letting my pee out in my pants on purpose. Nothing bad happened when I wet my pants, so after a few tries my brain got the idea it was OK to pee in my pants in the right circumstances, like when I am in private. As long as you don't overindulge there should not cause you a problem holding when you need to. My experience occurred before I found site like this, so I had to figure it out myself. Hopefully you won't need to do that.
  4. Of course I feel the sensation of my bladder stretching , pressure building pleasantly as it fills. But the real urgency I need to pee now is right at the tip of my penis, at my pee hole. It feels like a huge flood is putting enormous pressure there. I find this curious the male sphincter is at the base of the penis so no urine can be at the tip unless it is actually about to come out. I wonder how many guys feel it that way and why I feel it there. However my primary interest is where the females feel it .
  5. I prefer the word pee to piss.. I love hearing a female say things like: I have to pee so bad.. , I have been holding it a long time,. I can't hold it much longer. , I am about to pee ( or wet) my pants,. it feels like it is going to come out. , the pressure on my pee hole is so strong hurts,( or other things mentioning pee hole. I have to hold pussy with my hand,pushing on my pee hole. Oh God I have to peeeeeee! I have had to pee for hours. My bladder and pussy hurts , I have so much pee in me. I just leaked , I can't hold it. It's going to come out. It's coming out, I have got to stop my pee from coming out. I am wetting ( or peeing ) in my pants! My panties are wet in my crotch or around my pee hole.
  6. Female

    I love long richly detailed stories of desperation. No worries about the story being long, the longer and more detailed the better.. You did a great job relating your desperation and wetting at the library . Thank you.
  7. That is great to hear ; I am happy for you ! You never know you may see it again, especially if you let him know how aroused it got you..
  8. I have done it just to see if I could. If my bladder is really full, it is difficult but not impossible to stop. I leak and spurt a bit but with effort can get the flow stopped. I wait several seconds before zipping up again so I don't leak in my pants. There is considerable discomfort like my pee is going to come out, like it is in my penis, but that sensation does not last long. I would not do this on a regular basis, and certainly not repeat the partial bladder release numerous times in a row, as a half empty bladder , with the same pee in the bottom, likely will get infected. Other than that enjoy doing something different with pee.
  9. It’s almost three months on and the accolades continue to roll in, and deservedly so. Can the points counter show triple digits? Eighty Five points is by far a record for one post, fifteen to go!
  10. If you held it until your back hurt, you probably really stretched you bladder. Once you peed the first time your bladder was not really empty, it had to contract to its normal size first. This usually results in a desperate need to pee again fairly quickly. If you drank a lot doing the rapid desperation this compounds that issue. Plus you tired out you muscles with the hold. So I am very surprised you lasted a few hours before being desperate. No wonder you wet your pants. I would not worry about it yet. Doing holds until you wet , and enjoying it can lead to some incontinence. I had issues with leaking, and one wetting just like yours. Cutting back on the holding and doing Kegels excercises fix that though.
  11. I hope I (we) haven't upset you with our responses. We mean well, and this should not be construed as an attack or criticism .Perhaps you have a reason for wanting to tell your family. Could you not be close to anybody else you can talk to about something so deeply personal? You are not alone in that regard. That is part of what this community is for. . Family members do not need or want to know about our fetishes or sex lives. I realize but do not truly understand how our fetish is not sexual for some people. And I mean this sincerely, perhaps someone could explain that to me , because to me it 100% totally sexual. . People today are more accepting of someone coming out as gay than having a fetish. I never told any family member of my fascination with desperation and peeing, excepting my now ex-wife. In fact the only other person I told was a now ex-girlfriend. My wife was accepting , although not completely understanding; my girlfriend was not. I think this would be a terribly uncomfortable discussion for everybody . The phrase To Much Information applies here. I don't know you or what you are thinking ,but unless I missed something , I don't understand your need to share.
  12. Perhaps you are more interested in others holding, which is perfectly fine. Also you talk of having leaks but not total loss of control. I can leak and spurt for a couple of hours. My jeans eventually get soaked, because they don't have a chance to dry as the leaks become more frequent. But I do not lose total control and empty my bladder Once my jeans are wet or sooner if I grow tired of it I let the rest out. Everybody here likes Omorashi a little differently and it's all good . You just need to find what you enjoy most by experimenting.
  13. For men in reality holding yourself does not physically help. Once your pee leaks past your sphincter at the base of your penis it is going to come out no matter what. Holding your penis that has pee in it is excruciatingly painful. However I believe there is a psychological effect that may help you hold it . Perhaps it depends where you feel the urgent need. Some guys report feeling it in their bladder or at the base of their penis where the sphincter actually is . For some reason I feel the need at the tip of my penis. It feels like my pee is pressing against my pee hole trying to come out, even though I know there is no pee is really there . I really would like to know how common it is to feel the need at the tip of the penis. So, it is a natural reaction, when feeling I am about to wet my pants to grab myself there., until the wave passes. It helps me hold it in. I have tried to not hold myself, to see what would happen and the wave of desperation doesn't end, and soon I begin at least a slow leak. I emphasize this is a psychological effect. But before you blow it off think of the psychological things that make you more desperate to go. A few examples are running water, putting your hands in water, drinking especially something cold, close proximity to a toilet, or relief like arriving home. There is no physical reason for this and yet....... Now of course females plumbing is different due to the close proximity of their bladder/ sphincter and the end of their very short urethra, crossing her legs or grabbing her crotch may briefly stop a leak . I know at least in the case of a cough or sneeze it helps. This won't last long but then there is the psychological effect for them too.
  14. I think more people pee in the shower than will admit it, many for reasons unrelated to omorashi. I do it all the time, by holding it before I shower, then struggle to hold on as long as possible. It is like a wetting without the cleanup. In fact during my teen years living at home it is how I experimented with having an accident. My now ex-wife and I sometimes did this together she would tell me Ï am peeing , can you see it"? I usually could not tell. This was in the age when adults had pubic hair, so perhaps that made a difference. A guy obviously can't hide the fact that he is peeing, but I think a woman can just let go .As long as she is standing in a steady stream of shower water, it should mix in with the water running down your leg.