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squirmandglow

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  1. I'm not a doctor, but here is what I think is what is going on with me, as a long-time omorashi participant. It feels like omorashi has given me a larger maximum bladder capacity, but also reduced sensitivity until a certain point. I feel like I have less control when I'm bursting, which still gets better when I take time off. I think the combination of reduced sensitivity, maybe skipping the bathroom in a low-key way more often than a normal person, drinking more liquid than average, and being comfortable with peeing your pants can lead to some unexpected surprises if you are not careful. I think another problem for people is they do not realize how much the filling rate of your bladder and experience of discomfort is dependent on all sorts of things like how hydrated you were two hours ago, how full or empty your stomach is, blood sugar and electrolyte levels, any bladder irritants in your diet, sleep/stress levels, etc. Put all that together, and you get accidents 😉 Sudden accidents can be frustrating from an omorashi perspective, especially when you are doing it over text messenger or get in a mood and pee yourself after 10 or 15 minutes. But I also kinda think it can be hot when it happens. No one has the perfect omorashi bladder, but to me that's part of the fun.
  2. I'm not a medical professional, but to me it sounds like you're just drinking too much water with an already-tired bladder. Maybe I misread this, but your post said four 24-ounce waters per day. According to the medical literature, the average human bladder holds 600ml (1000ml/33oz is not atypical in omo-land though). In addition, when you're highly hydrated, water goes through you much faster. You've basically been doing lite-rapid-desperation all day while holding multiple days in a row! On top of that, your bladder may be desensitized, so you have less warning than you used to when you get full. I hope everything goes okay and you figure things out! On a slightly different note though, that story was so hot
  3. Hold on (😎) a second. I think omorashi.org history is about to be made...
  4. Idk why this post doesn't have more comments, that photo is kinda amazing
  5. I do not know much about them, but there is a very long thread about them on adisc: https://www.adisc.org/forum/threads/goodnites-innovation-2023.169969/
  6. One other thing you both can do is try to intentionally build up your sexual compatibility over time. Some people seem to have a real psychological aversion to wetting themselves, as it (obviously) brings up feelings of shame and humiliation. On the other hand, teasing someone else who needs to pee is an empowering and kinda fun, normal activity. It's almost like a social game...people tease other people who need to pee all the time! Maybe you can ask her to do a video call while you have a few drinks, and you can do a light roleplay where you're not able to use a bathroom for some reason. Basically, be her introduction to the omorashi scenarios and expressions you like. And if you're embarrassed to pee yourself in front of her, express that and talk about that, so that you can work through feelings of self-consciousness together.
  7. I would recommend tackling the issue of sexual compatibility as honestly and with as much self-knowledge (on both sides) as you can. She probably needs to figure out how she really feels about it (which can be tough long-distance and internally), and you need to figure out how much you want to compromise if it turns out she's just not into it. If it turns out sexual compatibility is a major hang-up or even a deal-breaker, it's much kinder and easier for both of you if you learn about it quickly and talk about it honestly.
  8. I'm not a doctor, but yes, I believe that is a sign of electrolyte imbalance. Personally, when drinking a lot of fluids, I mix in some sports drink or a healthy snack and sometimes take a multivitamin.
  9. I'm going to break the trans Prime Directive here, since I lost a lot of my life feeling and identifying this way. But if you (or anyone else reading this) feels this way, and some things in your life feel wrong in ways you can't explain, you might want to explore this statement further.
  10. Upvoting for the description, I haven't even watched the video
  11. I get it. But over the past year, I have realized that focusing on omorashi as the "root cause" of loneliness/being single was a mistake. Some combination of life events and personal tendencies caused your omorashi fetish, and your omorashi fetish also reinforces habits and feelings of separation and loneliness. Over time, this can create a negative cycle of self-isolation. I think this can be particularly bad for cis amabs, because internally you are so different from others, but externally you are presenting as a "vanilla" cis person. You develop habits of hiding yourself. I recommend going to therapy not for specifically for omorashi, but to begin working on how and why you feel and act the way you do. It is a long, difficult process. But it has given me some renewed hope.
  12. I do a few things that work well: For easy cleanup sitting down, fold 1 or 2 towels in half and put them on top of an extra large trash bag. If you want to do multiple wettings, you can just replace the towels as needed and keep reusing the trash bag. If you don't always like trash bags as a waterproof layer, try getting a few washable waterproof bed pads. I got a few $20 ones from Target awhile ago. Put folded towels on those and you are all set, or put two down overlapping with towels on top to protect your bed at night. Bonus for bedwetting, you can drape a towel over your hips as your first layer of blankets to protect your blankets (results may vary). For washing, I always run a gentle cycle with cold water to rinse everything off, then run another cycle with detergent. I use cold water and low dryer heat to keep bills down and avoid wear and tear on clothes. You also can put a towel down on a hard floor surface and just do a quick floor spot-clean when you're done. I have not tried any disposable pads, but my guess is a larger one with a towel on top might help keep laundry down and help with clean-up. Good luck!
  13. Here is the original Twitter post: https://twitter.com/Hunter85176817/status/1524786831572729858
  14. I really like this story because I could see myself doing something similar. When I need to pee, even if it's really bad, I try to hide it and just wait for a bathroom. And if I can't hold it (not that I've ever had that happen right next to a friend!), I try to hide it and play it off like nothing is wrong, because I know there is a good chance I could get away with it. Thanks for sharing!
  15. In the spirit of peer review, I attempted to duplicate your results with undies, leggings, and a goodnights pull-up. I am typing this post sitting in a puddle. Qualitative observations: Following involuntary loss of bladder control while seated, the pull-up began leaking almost immediately. I soaked my lap, several inches down each leg, the back of my leggings, and the towel beneath me. The pull-up was wet, but far from soaked. Note: for future replication, weigh padding before and after wetting to determine capacity utilization. Omo science!
  16. You have come to the right place :) It's not just salt, it's all electrolytes: sodium, potassium, magnesium, etc. They are required for critical bodily functions (like your heart beating). I am not a doctor, but my understanding is the reason people have died from too much or too little water intake, etc., is because it creates electrolyte imbalances. Some types of diuretics are better about preserving your electrolyte levels than others. For instance, dandelion is a potassium-sparing diuretic. For fetish purposes, I think you can get plenty of mileage out of natural diuretics like dandelion (which can be very, very powerful). Another consideration with diuretics is the duration of effects. I have found that dandelion can impact me for around 24 hours, which is a bit too long in some situations, because I always wake up dehydrated the next day. Diuretics also can put strain on other parts of your body (like your liver) and interact in unexpected ways with other medications. So do your research! For omorashi purposes, you are going to have to drink a lot of fluids. No way around it. Drinking lots of water lowers your anti-diuretic hormone levels and has a diuretic-like effect. (If you have not read about it, you should search for the Rapid Desperation method.) In my experience, once you ramp up to drinking 8-16 oz of water every 15 minutes (around your max rate of urine production, which varies), diuretics become irrelevant. (Conversely, high doses of diuretics without matching water/electrolyte intake is dangerous.) I personally use light diuretics to get my urine production up quickly and let high fluid consumption do the rest, because that's all you need, and when you are done, you can just slow down your rate of drinking. My preference these days is good old-fashioned alcohol, then mostly water with some sports drink thrown in, plus a daily multivitamin just to be on the safe side. Good luck!
  17. To overwhelm your bladder: Get your kidneys producing urine at a very high rate and make sure they sustain that rate of production over a period of several hours. (This is basically the rapid desperation method, search the forums if you don't know about it.) It will take some time. Diuretics can help kick-start the process. I recommend trying dandelion tea. You have to drink a lot of fluids (probably mostly water, maybe some soda/milk/sports drinks for electrolytes). You want to ramp up your fluid intake over several hours. First, you want to be sure you are hydrated (clear pee). (If you want to use diuretics, take them after you are adequately hydrated.) Then, you want to ramp up your fluid intake until you are drinking up to 8-15 ounces (depends on your body) every 15 minutes. You don't need more than one ounce per minute. Once my kidneys get going, I personally can comfortably drink ~60 ounces of fluids per hour. If you keep this up for around two hours, you probably will get desperate to pee more than once an hour. You can use this time to hold until you are desperate to weaken your holding muscles. After a few hours of this, you should be running to the bathroom every 30-60 minutes. That's when you start your hold. Be sure to keep drinking. Be sure to avoid activities that slow urine production. Exercise/sweating is a big one. A full meal of food will dramatically slow absorption of water for a few hours. Keep the following in mind: If you start to feel light-headed or sick, you are overdoing it. Drinking a lot of water can cause your body to run low on electrolytes, which is life-threatening. Your heart needs electrolytes to function. Milk, fruits, veggies, salt, and nuts will help keep your electrolyte levels up. Hyper-hydration can kill you. Don't do this before going out. There's a story on these forums about someone drinking a bunch of dandelion tea, getting an unexpected call from a friend, and peeing themselves in their friend's car. I mentioned the rapid desperation method. This is basically that, except I have found that it can take longer than the official rapid desperation guidelines suggest to get your body producing urine at full steam. Personal experience: I've never had any issues with any of the above, but listen to your body. Successive holds until desperate will temporarily weaken your bladder. If you do this for several days, you absolutely can get to the point where you have very little control once your bladder hits a certain level of fullness. This reduced control can last for several days, so plan accordingly. My bladder control has always recovered after a period of rest, and that seems to be the general experience of most forum posters. Edit/Add: One other strategy for weakening your bladder is to remain well hydrated over a period of several days (nothing excessive, but keep your pee clear) and always put off going to the bathroom until the last minute (starting to leak). Keep this up and your control will steadily diminish.
  18. I got me a Chrysler that seat about twenty...
  19. Count me in as curious about the science behind this.
  20. I'm into it! I'll usually wait until the urge to pee gets distracting and just won't try very hard to hold it. There's something really appealing about the thought of being really casual about peeing with a partner. Like, we're playing a video game together and we need to pee? Why get up, it's perfectly okay to pee your pants. P.S., It's pretty easy to do if you just put down a waterproof pad + towel in advance.
  21. The only omorashi-related VR I've found is a few Japanese videos on sexlikereal.com (actual omorashi) and https://virtualpee.com/ (which really is not omorashi, but does have wetting). The wetting virtualpee videos are a proof-of-concept of how awesome omorashi VR might be in the future when it becomes feasible to make. Watching the full version of this video for the first time made my jaw drop: https://txxxporn.tube/videos/16445833/naomi-bennet-in-soaking-her-panties-virtualpee/?promo=31134 My uneducated opinion is that 180-degree stereoscopic VR would be the sweet spot for VR omo videos. I think the big improvement over 2D video is the introduction of depth, and the producer doesn't have to deal with setting up a 360-degree set. I'm no videographer, but I wonder if 2D and 180-degree 3D videos could be recorded at the same time. I also wonder if something relatively affordable like a Vuze XR plus good lighting would do the trick for testing the waters.
  22. Yeah, this kind of thing happens to me if I hold it too much. If my bladder is tired, instead of starting to need to pee pretty badly but still being able to hold it for a while, I'll get totally frantic really quickly and won't be able to stop it from coming out. It's usually not a problem, because I just watch what I'm drinking and make sure I go to the bathroom regularly before it gets too bad. But I've had a few close calls and a few (private) unintentional accidents as a result. The good news is things always go back to normal after I take a bit of a break. But the few days after holding a lot can be a bit dicey, to the point where I am careful if I know I have something coming up where I might get caught short. Thanks for sharing!
  23. Wow, I wish I had known so I could go visit one last time. My first favorite omorashi site. Farewell, members.easyshag.com, and may your archived contents live on.
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