Hey there!
I am a 20-something year old trans lesbian.
To be honest i'm more into water sports then desperation/wetting, but there is a lot of crossover between these two worlds! The hottest things are peeing on others, getting peed on, peeing on yourself, and watching people pee.
Desperation might not be something I would do, but if you do it that's hot. Especially desperation while having sex. (Fingering/oral)
I hope to have kinky experiences with people IRL some day!
- Cheers