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Also, I imagine people in the military must wet themselves occasionally when they're in high stress situations and don't otherwise get a chance to go.

I don't really feel the conflict personally. My biggest fantasy is of a woman who has a strong bladder and who normally can hold it for a long time, but is then put in a situation where she is forced to hold for much longer than usual and eventually ends up wetting herself. I don't find that less "cool" since everybody has a limit. Small bladdered women have an appeal too, but those who can hold for much longer and then fully soak themselves when they eventually wet, that's so much more exciting to me.

I would love to be that guy.

Yeah, that might be pretty cool. Being able to challenge and dare each other could be fun.

I'm finding this thread a bit odd to be honest. Do most women have penis envy? No, they probably don't think about it that much.

I suppose it's the dirty, taboo part of it that makes it exciting.

At first I was excited just by watching any wetting. Now my interest has become more refined and it's more about seeing a believable/exciting context and women that genuinely enjoy it. I have more of an interest in seeing public wettings now, while before I was less interested in these. I also used to only watch female wettings and didn't realise I liked wetting myself until I tried it. Now wetting myself turns me on more than anything else.

With my current living situation, I don't often have enough privacy to wet, so whenever I do get that chance I always make the most of it.

I'd be interested to see if someone being in a public situation or around others allows them to hold on longer than if they were alone and wetting is not embarrassing. Motivation may make a difference.

Yes, but only if it's genuine. If a woman is dancing in a clearly exaggerated and fake way, that tends to put me off. A woman trying to hide her desperation but still can't stand still, that's so hot.

Even if they did understand, I'd still find that incredibly humiliating. But yeah, casual acquaintances would be bad too.

Around family or friends would be worst for me. At least if you're wetting around strangers, they will probably forget about it pretty quickly, that's not true with people you know.

Most public toilets I've used have been fairly clean and I sometimes prefer to sit down for comfort anyway, so that doesn't make a huge difference to me. As a couple of other comments have said, I think women have more acceptable options in terms of desperation and wetting, which is a bonus if you like that sort of thing. To be honest, both genders have their own advantages and disadvantages.

I have an old pair of jeans that I quite often wet in. I don't always wash them every time, because what's the point?

Bedwetting never appealed to me, it just seems like it would make too much of a mess. So I'd just try to make it.

Yes, it's the main thing that arouses me. I've never had a genuinely accidental wetting as an adult, so wetting is always something that I do on purpose with the intention of being turned on by it.

Reviving an old thread just to share my share my situation. I turn 30 in a few months and I've never had a relationship or any kind of physical intimacy. I've had a few dates here and there, but nothing ever went further than that. For me the main reason is that I'm Autistic, socialising and meeting new people has never been easy for me (though I'm better at it than I used to be) and the whole process of how to approach a woman and flirt just feels like a foreign language. Also, for any woman to be interested in me, she'd need to be a bit odd and quirky herself, so my chances of meeting such a person are lower. As I've grown older I'm more able to accept a life without romance, I can live without it and find happiness in other things. It still bothers me at times though, especially when I see everyone else around me talking about their relationships which are just a part of normal life to them. But there's not much I can really do other than hope my luck changes some day. Are there woman out there who would date me? Probably. Will I meet such a person at the right time and place when we are both single? Who knows. I certainly don't hate or blame anyone though (other than myself at times) so I wouldn't class myself as an incel. However I don't think most incels are as bad as they're often made out to be. Yes there are and have been some legitimate crazies, but from what I've seen most are just ordinary guys who have been unlucky in the world of dating for various reasons and fallen into a toxic mentality as a coping mechanism. They would benefit from understanding and mental health support rather than automatic hatred.

Dry look, wet feel would be better.

I once wet myself on purpose in a secluded spot of a local park at dusk, my jeans were fully soaked. It wasn't far from home and I managed to get home without anyone seeing me that I know of. It was a massive thrill and I don't know if I'd ever be brave/crazy enough to do it again.

It used to be pretty much guaranteed that I would be the only person in my office on Fridays. I would often let out enough pee to form a visible wet patch on my crotch, then go back to working as usual. Fortunately, I never got caught doing it.

Yeah, I haven't seen any more videos from her other than these.

That comfortably full feeling is great. In fact I often enjoy this more than being genuinely desperate.

Ability to know how desperate someone is/when they last peed, just by looking at them.

I'd also vote for the county fair idea, there's a lot of potential options in that one.

I'd feel bad forcing someone to wet themselves, so I'd do the polite thing and let them go. It sure would be a shame if I had an accident...