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Also, I imagine people in the military must wet themselves occasionally when they're in high stress situations and don't otherwise get a chance to go.

I don't really feel the conflict personally. My biggest fantasy is of a woman who has a strong bladder and who normally can hold it for a long time, but is then put in a situation where she is forced to hold for much longer than usual and eventually ends up wetting herself. I don't find that less "cool" since everybody has a limit. Small bladdered women have an appeal too, but those who can hold for much longer and then fully soak themselves when they eventually wet, that's so much more exciting to me.

I would love to be that guy.

Yeah, that might be pretty cool. Being able to challenge and dare each other could be fun.

I'm finding this thread a bit odd to be honest. Do most women have penis envy? No, they probably don't think about it that much.

I suppose it's the dirty, taboo part of it that makes it exciting.

At first I was excited just by watching any wetting. Now my interest has become more refined and it's more about seeing a believable/exciting context and women that genuinely enjoy it. I have more of an interest in seeing public wettings now, while before I was less interested in these. I also used to only watch female wettings and didn't realise I liked wetting myself until I tried it. Now wetting myself turns me on more than anything else.

With my current living situation, I don't often have enough privacy to wet, so whenever I do get that chance I always make the most of it.

I'd be interested to see if someone being in a public situation or around others allows them to hold on longer than if they were alone and wetting is not embarrassing. Motivation may make a difference.

Yes, but only if it's genuine. If a woman is dancing in a clearly exaggerated and fake way, that tends to put me off. A woman trying to hide her desperation but still can't stand still, that's so hot.

Even if they did understand, I'd still find that incredibly humiliating. But yeah, casual acquaintances would be bad too.

Around family or friends would be worst for me. At least if you're wetting around strangers, they will probably forget about it pretty quickly, that's not true with people you know.

Most public toilets I've used have been fairly clean and I sometimes prefer to sit down for comfort anyway, so that doesn't make a huge difference to me. As a couple of other comments have said, I think women have more acceptable options in terms of desperation and wetting, which is a bonus if you like that sort of thing. To be honest, both genders have their own advantages and disadvantages.

I have an old pair of jeans that I quite often wet in. I don't always wash them every time, because what's the point?

Bedwetting never appealed to me, it just seems like it would make too much of a mess. So I'd just try to make it.