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surrealexp

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  1. Here's some napkin math: Assume that the average person has 1 full loss of control accident in their life between the age of 20 and 60. Obviously some people will have many more, some will have 0. Even if most people have 0, a person who has 10 will bring that average up. Probably isn't great info on this anywhere. This is 40 years, which is 350,400 hours. So, on average, a person has one accident per 350,400 hours based on the initial assumption. There are about 4.1 billion people in the world between 20-60, according to a quick Google search. If the assumption is correct, this means, on average, about 11,700 people between 20-60 have a full loss of control accident every hour. Obviously all of this changes heavily based on the initial assumption. You can do the same thing for a wider or narrower age range if you can make a good guess about how many accidents people have during those years.
  2. I haven't told anyone IRL, but I've told some friends online. I've noticed that people are more understanding and receptive to just regular peeing and wetting compared to "holding your pee until your body involuntarily releases." Unfortunate, because that last part is the biggest turn-on for me. If I were to tell someone in real life I would probably progress through those stages gradually, though, since it builds up to the most extreme part of the kink.
  3. Almost all of these seem to be true, maximum desperation and loss of control. My favorites: in the first file in the bunch, a girl holds with her legs up and pussy spread. She leaks A LOT before losing it. In the third file, a girl loses it while pacing around and standing up, through her hand. Her body language suggests that it's a genuine uncontrollable gush. I'd pay good money to see uncensored versions of these, shame that'll never happen.
  4. I saw a comment on vk saying that this girl went by blondepeegirl. I also think, based on her voice and body, it might be the same girl as this clip:
  5. Absolutely no one knows, but the older I've gotten, the less I care. And also I feel like my friends these days wouldn't give me much crap for it. I wouldn't go into extensive detail when telling someone, but I'd probably just say something like "yeah, I find girls peeing kinda hot" and leave it at that unless they really asked a lot of questions. Most of my friends these days are pretty open, and even if it wasn't their thing they wouldn't really judge me for it. I've also come to realize that my friends have some of their own weird kinks too, and most people are into something that isn't quite 'normal'.
  6. I'm recently in my 30s - I've had my fair share of vanilla relationships and casual experiences, but never a relationship with someone who was even the slightest bit into pee play, let alone the holding and desperation aspect which most people find uncomfortable. I've been with a couple people who would entertain letting me watch them pee, or peeing with the door open, but nothing more than that. The most I've gotten is those natural moments in a relationship where your partner ends up desperate due to random circumstances, which I got very turned on by, but never led to what I would call a true omo experience. Kind of a shame - finding someone with a pee kink seems fairly rare itself, and being willing to get desperate to the point of having a real accident is even more niche than that.
  7. Saw omogirl13/pottypantsgirl again on Twitter too and got unrealistically excited. She's one of the best creators I've seen, and one of the few who goes for that real loss of control. I was actually going to set up a Twitter account to respond to a post of hers asking for ideas/requests, but didn't want to tie my phone number to a kink based Twitter account. It didn't occur to me to save them, but it sounds like she changed her mind on putting that content out there anyway. Hopefully she comes back on some platform
  8. Yeah, I won't pretend I wouldn't be aroused by it. I'm still going to do what the situation calls for - help the person feel comfortable, whatever. But I can't change the fact that an uncontrollable accident is pretty much the pinnacle of this fetish for me. Obviously it depends a little on circumstance - I'm only turned on when it happens to an adult woman that *should* still have full ability to hold her pee and is an age/body type I'm attracted to - i.e. 18-50 without major medical issues that would cause incontinence. Being turned on and feeling empathetic/bad for the person are not mutually exclusive, and I can still suppress my arousal and do the right thing for the person.
  9. People have definitely done this, you can find quite a few videos online. Pee can contain bacteria - it usually doesn't - but there's a small risk of messing with the bacteria in her vagina or her getting a UTI. It's pretty unlikely though if you're hydrating well and she pees/washes up once you're done.
  10. Definitely - it's that loss of control part that I'm always curious to hear different people describe. Whether planned or not, if you're genuinely losing control, this is a good thread for it.
  11. This is one of my favorite things to think about/ask people when they have a truly involuntary wetting. What are the sensations for you? What's going through your head? Do you feel your stomach drop or a sense of panic? Bladder spasms? Do you feel your holding muscles open and close rapidly until you can't close them again? Steadily increasing spurts? When do you know it's over and you're going to lose it? We've had similar subjects before, but I don't recall any that really focused on the personal subjective sensations. I'm curious to see how it differs from person to person.
  12. Never heard of mrsflood before but after browsing her manyvids - wow. She might be one of the best amateur producers I've seen. Looks like she really holds to her limit for most or all of her videos.
  13. For me, when I was younger and in school, I remember quite a few situations where girls I knew had to pee extremely desperately. I didn't associate it with anything sexual at the time, but I remember I could never take my eyes off these situations, and I always remember being a little excited at the possibility that they wouldn't make it and would wet themselves. At some point I looked it up online and realized that it was totally a thing -- WettingHerPanties was the big site at the time, and I just went down the rabbit hole and reinforced the fetish from there.
  14. I've never wanted to find an original vid more. This is a great clip
  15. I've heard a few different reasons from the women I've talked to about this (unfortunately not IRL friends, but online): Like other people have said, doing something humiliating - but somewhat deliberately - is a way to deal with humiliating experiences in the past that happened outside of a person's control. You're reliving that experience on your own terms. I'm definitely a believer that fetish stuff stems from childhood situations, either personal or witnessed. A lot of the girls I've met into humiliation are very submissive and get off on the idea that they're satisfying their partner by doing the humiliating thing. Even if they're embarrassed or humiliated, they know deep down that someone else is loving their situation and get off on that idea. The adrenaline rush. Being embarrassed/humiliated causes an intense range of emotions -- heart pounding, adrenaline, etc -- and it can be a bit of a 'high' compared to vanilla sex or more common stuff. From the point of view of someone more dominant, I definitely find it hot to see embarrassment associated with wetting, as long as the other person is into it/consenting to putting themselves in the embarrassing situation. That's why public wetting videos are some of the hottest out there - like the LoveWetting tram desperation videos and stuff where some models definitely do lose control with a ton of people around. Also, from the viewer's perspective, when someone is embarrassed/humiliated by wetting, you know they actually have an incentive to put their entire effort into avoiding an accident. It's the main driver for real "loss of control" accidents. People without that embarrassment are much more likely to just give up early and let it happen and laugh it off. Again, in a consensual situation, this makes for the best desperation/wetting content in my opinion.
  16. Kind of. For me there are basically three levels of attraction: attracted, neutral, actively disinterested. If I'm disinterested it doesn't do much for me. But if I feel neutral or attracted to someone, seeing desperation or wetting makes me *much* more physically attracted to them. Not just in the moment but it becomes a permanent association. My two longest relationships, once I had witnessed them desperate a few times, my mind would pretty much constantly revisit those moments and it just reinforced the physical attraction I already had. I'm also out and about at events quite a bit, and there are plenty of girls that don't immediately stand out to me. But if I happen to overhear a "I have to pee so bad" or similar, my head is instantly turning and I'm 110% interested as long as she isn't completely unattractive.
  17. I've seen a lot of amateur desperation and genuine losses of control at this point, and I can agree that the commercial signs are almost a counter-signal to genuine desperation. It's a decent indicator to me that it's fake and probably not a real wetting. That said most amateurs I've seen on the verge of an accident do have some very clear signs and are not that subtle. It just isn't the extremely overacted pee dancing you see in commercial films. It's pacing, subtle movements, worried looks, rambling incoherently, heavy breathing, trembling a bit, turning red a bit, hunching over slightly, etc. Unfortunately for commercial producers I think it's really hard to actually 'act' these signs without just authentically getting your models desperate. Everyone varies, some people are super expressive, some people just stand rigidly until it happens. I think for me that's part of why I've always liked amateur content over commercial stuff. You get the range of reactions, not just the stereotypical 'gotta pee' dances.
  18. I agree for the most part. Big production studios will rarely produce 'authentic' accident videos because they take forever to produce, don't sell as well as other pee content, and often quickly get leaked online. Candid stuff plays with ethical boundaries and most people are generally aware that putting anything related to pee on the internet will end up attracting fetishists. Honestly just like feet - most people are aware that feet are sexualized by a lot of people. If they're not, they find out right away when they get a hundred creepy messages. There's one thing that's much more abundant than at any prior point on the internet: easy ways to contact amateur-ish creators (OnlyFans, Fansly, ManyVids, Reddit, Twitter) to make custom content. It's usually pricy, and buying custom videos is a roll of the dice, but I'd say nearly all of my favorite omorashi videos -- outside of a few generous creators on this site -- originated as a custom online. These creators are usually much more open to spending time on a video like that since they aren't producers paying models by the hour and trying to knock out as many scenes as possible.
  19. 1) Tight workout wear. Biking shorts, yoga pants, leggings. The tighter fitting the better. Preferably cotton and light colored. 2) Birthday suit accidents. Loss of control, but wearing nothing. 3) Joggers/sweatpants/pajama pants. Less tight fitting, but usually thick and often show wetness well. 4) Light, skintight jeans. 5) Shorts 6) Thick cotton bikini/boyshort underwear. Like Calvin Klein panties or similar are amazing. 7) Everything else I really can't overstate how far above the others tight workout clothes are, but everything else is great too.
  20. Yeah, this is a huge turnon for me. Not even supplication so much as just hopeful panicked begging to find a bathroom. I really like it when it's to no one particular, almost like a hopeful prayer to whatever deity they believe in: "Please let me make it to a bathroom" I much prefer this to the people who get agitated/angry/express pain when they're desperate. I feel like I see both a lot in videos. It's much more of a turnon to see urgency, asking, even begging to use the restroom than it is to see someone who seems to genuinely be in pain or in a foul mood.
  21. I would say nearly all of the genuine desperation I've witnessed as an adult has been at or after events with a lot of alcohol. Not because people are drunk, but because they're just rapidly drinking beer after beer and it goes right through them. Throw in limited bathroom access and people get in trouble.
  22. 100% agree with this. I feel like one of the best ways to identify a 'real' loss of control versus an acted/fake loss of control - the little flinches as it happens. Someone who is having an honest genuine accident is always a little taken aback when the leaks and wetting happens.
  23. If it got bad, girls would usually make it clear. If it was only like a 5-7/10 they would put up with it for a while. I didn't really know any girls that were too shy to admit they had to pee once it got urgent. In the most memorable case, I remember a girl skipping the bathroom only to get extremely desperate later and pop a squat somewhere after being extremely vocal. I agree though, lot of similar stories from college. I think if you're drinking water super slowly and don't have to go badly, waiting an extra 60-90 minutes isn't so bad, but I'd love to hear about situations where it did get bad.
  24. I saw this a lot when I was around 18-24. If it was super urgent, most of the guys I knew would wait for the girl. But there were definitely cases where people groaned about it and the girl felt embarrassed to hold up the group - so she just dealt with it and trudged along. I only remember a couple desperate scenarios arising from it; usually the girl just found a bathroom with a shorter line a little later on. That said, I bet this sort of thing has created a lot of genuine desperation scenarios if you look at a large scale. Girls passing up large lines only to be stuck holding it much longer than they anticipated
  25. I think there are a handful of different expressions people make and that's one of my favorite things about it; seeing how different people react to their need. I really enjoy the worried/panicked "I'm not gonna make it" look rather than the "I'm in pain, my bladder is so full and hurts" type of look - I seem to see both of those a lot.
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