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surrealexp

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About surrealexp

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    Fidgeting
  • Birthday 12/17/1990

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    he/him

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  • I'm into..
    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Tickling
    Watersports
    Bondage
    Cuddling

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  1. If you want to get precise, you'll leak until either: 1. Your bladder shrinks enough that your body stops sending 'contract' signals to your bladder muscle. 2. Your sphincter muscle becomes capable of resisting the force of your bladder contracting. The muscle contractions aren't nearly as precise as you're thinking; and they're not solely based on the amount of liquid in your bladder. Some liquids irritate the bladder more than others and will cause contractions at a lower volume, for example.
  2. Imagine a muscle failing when you're lifting a really heavy object. It doesn't give out all at once, right? It just isn't quite enough force to lift the object. This is the same thing that happens with your sphincter muscle when you leak. Bigger leaks are just more severe muscle failures, but it takes a lot of fatigue to give out completely. Not feeling pain is good. If you feel pain, it's a sign that you're hurting yourself. If you can leak without getting to a painful state, you're less likely to be doing any real damage.
  3. I can think of a few things that I went into my initial interest: When classmates would wet themselves in school, it was always the girls. My young brain took this to mean that obviously girls couldn't hold it as well as boys and I became fascinated about why that might be. I naively assumed it was because girls didn't have anything to squeeze. This led to some interesting questions and I spent a couple years playfully teasing girls when they'd mention they had to pee. An 18 year old girl in highschool that had to pee more urgently than I'd ever seen and we were only 10 minutes into class. She was forced to wait for the remainder of the class but her body language is one of the most vivid memories I have from that year of highschool. Having a small bladder myself and frequently getting into predicaments where I was way more desperate than I should be. Despite all that, I've still never actually seen a genuine wetting as an adult.
  4. The best thing I've found is back to back holds, preferably using rapid desperation. If you find yourself unable to lose control from one hold, empty your bladder (at least halfway) and start holding again. Most muscles in the human body fail after a certain "time under load", and your sphincter is no exception. It might take 2, 3, or even 4 holds, but if you're not giving your sphincter time to recover in-between, you'll eventually lose control. You can think about it like any other muscle: it's pretty easy to hold a 5lb weight in front of you for 5 minutes, right? But if you try to hold it in front of you for 5 cumulative hours, even if you take tiny breaks, you're going to start to struggle. As far as your bladder/sphincter are concerned, successive holds are the same as one long megahold.
  5. I've seen ups and downs for it. During the early 2000s, it was pretty easy to find amateur content. People posted it constantly thinking it was just gross and/or funny. Things like: "Haha, Amanda totally wet herself!" After that, people learned that those videos attracted a bunch of creepy comments and would inevitably get sexualized, and they seemed to show up less and less. Nowadays it seems like there's more amateur content where people do it just out of sheer curiosity and with an understanding that it's a sexual thing. It still seems like there's very little of it compared to any other fetish out there though. BDSM and other amateur porn is in limitless supply, but I'm still lucky to find 5-10 videos a week that I haven't seen before, and maybe 1 a month that seems really off the charts.
  6. One of my favorite ideas: Genuinely get to a 10/10 and then do a good 30-60 minute workout, preferably in tight form fitting grey leggings -- squats, glute bridges, yoga, stretches, crunches, etc. Hold on through any leaks. This has been done a bit, but it's usually in overproduced low-desperation scenarios. I'd love to see this from someone who's willing to hold to their absolute limit.
  7. As someone who has used creatine supplements extensively, this is true. Creatine has no calories and won't make you gain fat. But it will make you retain extra water, which many perceive as fat. Eventually you will pee out this retained water if you don't continue to supplement with creatine. However: creatine's waste product creatinine is one of the main waste products that your kidneys eliminate. In fact, the amount of creatinine in your pee is one of the ways doctors measure kidney function. Speculating: creatine may actually be part of the reason your kidneys work harder/faster after drinking one of these.
  8. I can enjoy both equally but there's a caveat; few of the current professional producers are producing the kind of content I'm looking for -- extreme holding until pee is forced out with involuntary bladder contractions. I've seen a few producers try, and those videos are every bit as good as an amateur video if not better because of the high production quality. As @TVGuy has pointed out in the past, this type of extreme desperation wetting just isn't practical in a professional setting. It can take all day while you're billing models by the hour, sometimes the models "lock up" at a certain point of desperation, and sometimes models just aren't willing to endure that much if they aren't into omorashi themselves. Therefore, this scenario is seemingly 100x more common in amateur videos since they're able to film on their own time, in their own home, and many of them can achieve a true loss of control. The other thing that gives a small edge to amateurs is that there's a certain extra charm that goes into a video when someone doesn't wet themselves too regularly. A little extra nervousness, a little more surprise when the accident happens, etc. Professional models very quickly get used to the sensations of peeing themselves and you lose some of the unique expressions from someone who does this maybe once, twice a year.
  9. Thank you, glad this one isn't lost forever!
  10. Seems I'm kind of in the minority here, but I vastly prefer someone with a weaker bladder. There's something cute about hearing "I need to pee again" every 15 minutes. Omorashi play takes a very long time with people who have an iron bladder, and people with strong bladders often seem unable to authentically lose control.
  11. I naively figured that VK would never go through a purge, so there were quite a few videos that I haven't been able to find since pages there got deleted. There was one in particular that I've been looking for: A fairly petite brunette girl did a "pee diaries" type video. It was a compilation clip of her peeing. In one of the clips she wets her leggings. Many of the others are nude peeing, including two clips which are obviously taken in an airplane toilet. I don't believe this was professional content or on a banned list, but feel free to remove this post if the request is out of line.
  12. I think your personality and the image you try to portray to others plays a big role in how humiliating wetting experiences are. People who try to portray a dominant, in charge, in-control-of-their-life personality are obviously going to have a real rough time with a wetting accident. It goes against everything they try to portray themselves as, and to that kind of person it would be extremely humiliating. The people I know who can easily shrug it off are the ones who are completely carefree and don't take themselves too seriously. Type B personalities, if you've heard that term before. When I think about people in my life, I can actually very easily sort people into groups that would be mortified by wetting and people who would find a way to laugh it off. The context of the wetting matters a bit too. A conscious decision to "let it flow" is going to be way more palatable than losing control against your will.
  13. As a guy: Back. If I was a girl: Side with one leg forward and one more neutral. If we go outside of lying down, though, I'd pick kneeling, regardless of gender. It's a great way to maximize the amount of things that get soaked.
  14. Rapid desperation usually takes a couple hours to really kick in, especially if you're dehydrated. Your kidneys take some time to adjust their working rate. Don't worry, though, once your body catches up it should react to the sheer amount you've drank and step things up a lot. It's the moment that people usually refer to as "breaking the seal" when they've drank a lot.
  15. I have a lot that come up over and over again; all of these would be something that I'd act out with a willing partner. In recent years a lot of my fantasies have changed to this type as opposed to witnessing spontaneous desperation in public. I've written about this one a bit: Going on a long roadtrip with a girl that has had a-lot-too-many giant waters or sodas. We agree to drive to our distant destination with only one bathroom break along the way; whatever happens in terms of desperation and wetting is left to fate. After only a few minutes, she starts to realize that this is going to be a lot harder than she thought. Trying to make good use of the one bathroom break, she tells us to avoid the rest stop ahead: "I can hold it, we'll wait for the next one." After that... we hit brake lights and a complete stand-still traffic jam. Her eyes widen as she realizes that she's really in trouble. Inevitably this situation ends in a full loss of control and wetting in the car. Inspired by a particular video I saw that crossed bondage with omo; a girl lets me restrain her ankles to the feet of a chair and her wrists behind her back and behind the chair. Within the consensual space of the situation, she can either ask me to bring her a sip of water or "beg" to be allowed to go pee. I can do things like tickle her, press on her bladder, and any other number of minor challenges to make the urge more severe. We do this until she reaches an absolute loss of control. Full bladder control; a girl lets me have full control over when she can pee over the course of a day, including while out doing very public things. In general, I ask her to wait a little longer than she normally would, little things like: "you want to pee now but go to the store and do your grocery shopping first and you can pee when you get home." Not overtly desperation, but tempting fate more and more until some interesting situations develop. And they would develop. I like working desperation play into the normal activities of the day. Cuddling wetting. In my last relationship, we'd spend a lot of time just cuddling in bed. I'd love to see a woman just get desperate and release in a casual, intimate situation like this. Nothing particularly unique about it, just something that comes up a lot. Helping a girl hold while she loses control. I don't even particularly care what the context here is; just having my hand there when the spurts happen would be an amazing experience.
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