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If it's genuine desperation, the longer the better. I particularly like long form videos where girls cut together updates every 30 minutes or so and then capture the buildup to the final loss of control. I'm happy to skip through the parts I don't find interesting, but I'd prefer that producers err on the side of longer than shorter. You can skip around a long video, but you can't fill in the gaps from a short video. The authenticity is the big thing though. I could watch a genuinely desperate girl all day, but anything faked and I'm usually bored within a few minutes and let down at the

I've found that the trick to achieving a real loss of control is to do back to back holds. Once you start leaking during your first hold, partially or fully empty your bladder and start holding again. You may need to do that a couple times, but eventually your holding muscles will get tired and you'll lose it.

I agree, I think it's doable if you had a 5TB hard drive to record to. Definitely takes a lot of careful preparation, which I'm sure is why it's not done more often. I don't blame anyone for not wanting to deal with that, though, heh.

Yeah, that's definitely the trouble. I wonder if you could achieve it with a combination of going to sleep at 8/10 and some alcohol or a safe sleep aid like benadryl ( not both, combining those is a very bad idea). That usually increases the odds a lot for people. Some people just have such well trained bladders that it doesn't happen though.

This, though I don't see it in videos very often. I'm a big fan of cuddling on its own, but I'd love to see/be with a girl that pees while being little spoon. Girls peeing while laying on their side in bed really do it for me. Something about that position just makes the pee run off in a satisfying way, and you have a great behind view of her panties getting wet. On top of that, I really like when a girl goes to bed at like a 7/10 or 8/10 and tries to hold through the night. It's especially hot to see her peeing while asleep and then when she wakes up to find that her bladder took ov

Thick grey sweats/joggers that keep the wetness close. And boxer briefs. They have to be pretty tight fitting though. There's nothing worse than wetting something baggy that hangs far away from your skin and gets cold or something thin where the pee just goes right through. I prefer if all of the pee stays inside and has to run out the leg.

It's probably my second favorite thing to see a girl desperate in (second only to light leggings that show wetness). I remember a long conversation with a very attractive friend of mine about 5 years ago where she kept asking her friend "How does ANYONE pee in a romper?????" She refused to wear them except on special occasions for that reason. Plus, she was particularly small bladdered, especially when drinking, so there were quite a few fun times with her.

One of the best stories I've read in a while, and an especially awesome scenario. I hope you keep writing!

Anything with a lot of acting for me. I've ordered customs in the past and I've always been careful to specify that I want to see absolutely authentic desperation. A lot of the draw for me is seeing how different women act when they need to pee. I don't care if 90% of the buildup is off camera as long as the frantic part is captured. I've seen enough desperate women in my life that I know what it looks like. It's really hard to convincingly fake all of the signals. I realize that sometimes video producers don't have a lot of time, but letting a girl get truly desperate always makes for a much

Thanks. This might be the best video I've seen in years. You can tell she's losing it by the small drops on the sidewalk leading up to her kneeling. I feel like it's super rare to see a genuine accident like this. Only thing missing is a good look at how wet her romper got... but I'm sure there was some damage since rompers are such a pain to pee in. I'd love to hear what she said leading up to this.

I enjoy the female body in general, so I'm not real picky. Nearly any girl being desperate is hot to me. However, if I had to pick a type: Looks: Athletic but petite, ideally somewhere 5'0-5'6, curves from being fit. Personality: Easily embarrassed, shy but outgoing, bubbly. The type of girl who is happy to talk a lot but embarrassed to bring up things like needing to pee or to be seen holding herself.

I'd have to say complete and total bladder submission is my most extreme fantasy. A girl gives me full control over how much she drinks and when she goes to the bathroom, preferably for a couple of days. I ask her to drink at least 12-24oz an hour, maybe more, and on top of that, we're going to go through all of our normal daily activities -- no sitting around at home in a safe environment. We would run errands, make a trip to the mall, make some long road trips, maybe see a movie or go to dinner. All of this while keeping her as well hydrated as possible and denying trips to the bathroom. She

If you want to get precise, you'll leak until either: 1. Your bladder shrinks enough that your body stops sending 'contract' signals to your bladder muscle. 2. Your sphincter muscle becomes capable of resisting the force of your bladder contracting. The muscle contractions aren't nearly as precise as you're thinking; and they're not solely based on the amount of liquid in your bladder. Some liquids irritate the bladder more than others and will cause contractions at a lower volume, for example.

Imagine a muscle failing when you're lifting a really heavy object. It doesn't give out all at once, right? It just isn't quite enough force to lift the object. This is the same thing that happens with your sphincter muscle when you leak. Bigger leaks are just more severe muscle failures, but it takes a lot of fatigue to give out completely. Not feeling pain is good. If you feel pain, it's a sign that you're hurting yourself. If you can leak without getting to a painful state, you're less likely to be doing any real damage.

I can think of a few things that I went into my initial interest: When classmates would wet themselves in school, it was always the girls. My young brain took this to mean that obviously girls couldn't hold it as well as boys and I became fascinated about why that might be. I naively assumed it was because girls didn't have anything to squeeze. This led to some interesting questions and I spent a couple years playfully teasing girls when they'd mention they had to pee. An 18 year old girl in highschool that had to pee more urgently than I'd ever seen and we were only 10 minutes i