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This might actually be the perfect omo video. Love the long journaling format, beautiful woman, the realest and most expressive desperation I've ever seen. I'm a sucker for videos that show the evolution from slightly desperate to losing it.

Here's some napkin math: Assume that the average person has 1 full loss of control accident in their life between the age of 20 and 60. Obviously some people will have many more, some will have 0. Even if most people have 0, a person who has 10 will bring that average up. Probably isn't great info on this anywhere. This is 40 years, which is 350,400 hours. So, on average, a person has one accident per 350,400 hours based on the initial assumption. There are about 4.1 billion people in the world between 20-60, according to a quick Google search. If the assumption is correct, this means, on average, about 11,700 people between 20-60 have a full loss of control accident every hour. Obviously all of this changes heavily based on the initial assumption. You can do the same thing for a wider or narrower age range if you can make a good guess about how many accidents people have during those years.

Yeah, I won't pretend I wouldn't be aroused by it. I'm still going to do what the situation calls for - help the person feel comfortable, whatever. But I can't change the fact that an uncontrollable accident is pretty much the pinnacle of this fetish for me. Obviously it depends a little on circumstance - I'm only turned on when it happens to an adult woman that *should* still have full ability to hold her pee and is an age/body type I'm attracted to - i.e. 18-50 without major medical issues that would cause incontinence. Being turned on and feeling empathetic/bad for the person are not mutually exclusive, and I can still suppress my arousal and do the right thing for the person.

People have definitely done this, you can find quite a few videos online. Pee can contain bacteria - it usually doesn't - but there's a small risk of messing with the bacteria in her vagina or her getting a UTI. It's pretty unlikely though if you're hydrating well and she pees/washes up once you're done.

Never heard of mrsflood before but after browsing her manyvids - wow. She might be one of the best amateur producers I've seen. Looks like she really holds to her limit for most or all of her videos.

I've heard a few different reasons from the women I've talked to about this (unfortunately not IRL friends, but online): Like other people have said, doing something humiliating - but somewhat deliberately - is a way to deal with humiliating experiences in the past that happened outside of a person's control. You're reliving that experience on your own terms. I'm definitely a believer that fetish stuff stems from childhood situations, either personal or witnessed. A lot of the girls I've met into humiliation are very submissive and get off on the idea that they're satisfying their partner by doing the humiliating thing. Even if they're embarrassed or humiliated, they know deep down that someone else is loving their situation and get off on that idea. The adrenaline rush. Being embarrassed/humiliated causes an intense range of emotions -- heart pounding, adrenaline, etc -- and it can be a bit of a 'high' compared to vanilla sex or more common stuff. From the point of view of someone more dominant, I definitely find it hot to see embarrassment associated with wetting, as long as the other person is into it/consenting to putting themselves in the embarrassing situation. That's why public wetting videos are some of the hottest out there - like the LoveWetting tram desperation videos and stuff where some models definitely do lose control with a ton of people around. Also, from the viewer's perspective, when someone is embarrassed/humiliated by wetting, you know they actually have an incentive to put their entire effort into avoiding an accident. It's the main driver for real "loss of control" accidents. People without that embarrassment are much more likely to just give up early and let it happen and laugh it off. Again, in a consensual situation, this makes for the best desperation/wetting content in my opinion.

Kind of. For me there are basically three levels of attraction: attracted, neutral, actively disinterested. If I'm disinterested it doesn't do much for me. But if I feel neutral or attracted to someone, seeing desperation or wetting makes me *much* more physically attracted to them. Not just in the moment but it becomes a permanent association. My two longest relationships, once I had witnessed them desperate a few times, my mind would pretty much constantly revisit those moments and it just reinforced the physical attraction I already had. I'm also out and about at events quite a bit, and there are plenty of girls that don't immediately stand out to me. But if I happen to overhear a "I have to pee so bad" or similar, my head is instantly turning and I'm 110% interested as long as she isn't completely unattractive.

I've seen a lot of amateur desperation and genuine losses of control at this point, and I can agree that the commercial signs are almost a counter-signal to genuine desperation. It's a decent indicator to me that it's fake and probably not a real wetting. That said most amateurs I've seen on the verge of an accident do have some very clear signs and are not that subtle. It just isn't the extremely overacted pee dancing you see in commercial films. It's pacing, subtle movements, worried looks, rambling incoherently, heavy breathing, trembling a bit, turning red a bit, hunching over slightly, etc. Unfortunately for commercial producers I think it's really hard to actually 'act' these signs without just authentically getting your models desperate. Everyone varies, some people are super expressive, some people just stand rigidly until it happens. I think for me that's part of why I've always liked amateur content over commercial stuff. You get the range of reactions, not just the stereotypical 'gotta pee' dances.

I agree for the most part. Big production studios will rarely produce 'authentic' accident videos because they take forever to produce, don't sell as well as other pee content, and often quickly get leaked online. Candid stuff plays with ethical boundaries and most people are generally aware that putting anything related to pee on the internet will end up attracting fetishists. Honestly just like feet - most people are aware that feet are sexualized by a lot of people. If they're not, they find out right away when they get a hundred creepy messages. There's one thing that's much more abundant than at any prior point on the internet: easy ways to contact amateur-ish creators (OnlyFans, Fansly, ManyVids, Reddit, Twitter) to make custom content. It's usually pricy, and buying custom videos is a roll of the dice, but I'd say nearly all of my favorite omorashi videos -- outside of a few generous creators on this site -- originated as a custom online. These creators are usually much more open to spending time on a video like that since they aren't producers paying models by the hour and trying to knock out as many scenes as possible.

I think there are a handful of different expressions people make and that's one of my favorite things about it; seeing how different people react to their need. I really enjoy the worried/panicked "I'm not gonna make it" look rather than the "I'm in pain, my bladder is so full and hurts" type of look - I seem to see both of those a lot.

I really do prefer to witness holding out of necessity, but I agree with people here - I don't want to see someone humiliated unnecessarily. If I did happen to witness an organic wetting, I would certainly feel bad, but I don't think I could turn off the part of me that finds desperation and wet pants arousing. I think the dream situation for me would be to have an omorashi partner that is okay with unplanned desperation and accidents. As an example, a girl and I are out on a road trip -- no holding or wetting planned. Just as the day unfolds, she happens to consume way too much water/coffee, and she genuinely has an accident on the way home when we're unable to find a rest stop in time. But she isn't humiliated or put off by the result, and we both are very much turned on by the entire experience. In general though, both situations are highly arousing. The biggest factor for me is that I want the desperation to be real and for any wettings to be due to a real loss of control. Planned or unplanned, both are hot.

Huge yay for me -- not me being the one desperate, but being with someone that's willing to engage in a consensual public hold. It adds a real incentive for the person to stay dry until they get to a toilet (to avoid being witnessed in obviously wet pants), and it adds an incentive to be discreet about holding. It's extremely hot to see a woman desperate to pee but doing her best to stay composed and not show the world how bad she needs to go. It's also one of the scenarios that most closely resembles a real life wetting -- not many people actually have a genuine accident in the privacy of their own home. One of the best videos in this regard is the PissQu33n video where she's losing control in the parking lot of a mall (so no damage to public property) and seems to be losing it before she had really planned to. Not right next to people, but in a position where she could potentially be seen by others.

One of the best stories I've read in a while, and an especially awesome scenario. I hope you keep writing!

The best thing I've found is back to back holds, preferably using rapid desperation. If you find yourself unable to lose control from one hold, empty your bladder (at least halfway) and start holding again. Most muscles in the human body fail after a certain "time under load", and your sphincter is no exception. It might take 2, 3, or even 4 holds, but if you're not giving your sphincter time to recover in-between, you'll eventually lose control. You can think about it like any other muscle: it's pretty easy to hold a 5lb weight in front of you for 5 minutes, right? But if you try to hold it in front of you for 5 cumulative hours, even if you take tiny breaks, you're going to start to struggle. As far as your bladder/sphincter are concerned, successive holds are the same as one long megahold.

One of my favorite ideas: Genuinely get to a 10/10 and then do a good 30-60 minute workout, preferably in tight form fitting grey leggings -- squats, glute bridges, yoga, stretches, crunches, etc. Hold on through any leaks. This has been done a bit, but it's usually in overproduced low-desperation scenarios. I'd love to see this from someone who's willing to hold to their absolute limit.