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Here's some napkin math: Assume that the average person has 1 full loss of control accident in their life between the age of 20 and 60. Obviously some people will have many more, some will have 0. Even if most people have 0, a person who has 10 will bring that average up. Probably isn't great info on this anywhere. This is 40 years, which is 350,400 hours. So, on average, a person has one accident per 350,400 hours based on the initial assumption. There are about 4.1 billion people in the world between 20-60, according to a quick Google search. If the assumption is correct, this means, on average, about 11,700 people between 20-60 have a full loss of control accident every hour. Obviously all of this changes heavily based on the initial assumption. You can do the same thing for a wider or narrower age range if you can make a good guess about how many accidents people have during those years.

I haven't told anyone IRL, but I've told some friends online. I've noticed that people are more understanding and receptive to just regular peeing and wetting compared to "holding your pee until your body involuntarily releases." Unfortunate, because that last part is the biggest turn-on for me. If I were to tell someone in real life I would probably progress through those stages gradually, though, since it builds up to the most extreme part of the kink.

Almost all of these seem to be true, maximum desperation and loss of control. My favorites: in the first file in the bunch, a girl holds with her legs up and pussy spread. She leaks A LOT before losing it. In the third file, a girl loses it while pacing around and standing up, through her hand. Her body language suggests that it's a genuine uncontrollable gush. I'd pay good money to see uncensored versions of these, shame that'll never happen.

I saw a comment on vk saying that this girl went by blondepeegirl. I also think, based on her voice and body, it might be the same girl as this clip:

Absolutely no one knows, but the older I've gotten, the less I care. And also I feel like my friends these days wouldn't give me much crap for it. I wouldn't go into extensive detail when telling someone, but I'd probably just say something like "yeah, I find girls peeing kinda hot" and leave it at that unless they really asked a lot of questions. Most of my friends these days are pretty open, and even if it wasn't their thing they wouldn't really judge me for it. I've also come to realize that my friends have some of their own weird kinks too, and most people are into something that isn't quite 'normal'.

I'm recently in my 30s - I've had my fair share of vanilla relationships and casual experiences, but never a relationship with someone who was even the slightest bit into pee play, let alone the holding and desperation aspect which most people find uncomfortable. I've been with a couple people who would entertain letting me watch them pee, or peeing with the door open, but nothing more than that. The most I've gotten is those natural moments in a relationship where your partner ends up desperate due to random circumstances, which I got very turned on by, but never led to what I would call a true omo experience. Kind of a shame - finding someone with a pee kink seems fairly rare itself, and being willing to get desperate to the point of having a real accident is even more niche than that.

Saw omogirl13/pottypantsgirl again on Twitter too and got unrealistically excited. She's one of the best creators I've seen, and one of the few who goes for that real loss of control. I was actually going to set up a Twitter account to respond to a post of hers asking for ideas/requests, but didn't want to tie my phone number to a kink based Twitter account. It didn't occur to me to save them, but it sounds like she changed her mind on putting that content out there anyway. Hopefully she comes back on some platform

Yeah, I won't pretend I wouldn't be aroused by it. I'm still going to do what the situation calls for - help the person feel comfortable, whatever. But I can't change the fact that an uncontrollable accident is pretty much the pinnacle of this fetish for me. Obviously it depends a little on circumstance - I'm only turned on when it happens to an adult woman that *should* still have full ability to hold her pee and is an age/body type I'm attracted to - i.e. 18-50 without major medical issues that would cause incontinence. Being turned on and feeling empathetic/bad for the person are not mutually exclusive, and I can still suppress my arousal and do the right thing for the person.

People have definitely done this, you can find quite a few videos online. Pee can contain bacteria - it usually doesn't - but there's a small risk of messing with the bacteria in her vagina or her getting a UTI. It's pretty unlikely though if you're hydrating well and she pees/washes up once you're done.

Definitely - it's that loss of control part that I'm always curious to hear different people describe. Whether planned or not, if you're genuinely losing control, this is a good thread for it.

This is one of my favorite things to think about/ask people when they have a truly involuntary wetting. What are the sensations for you? What's going through your head? Do you feel your stomach drop or a sense of panic? Bladder spasms? Do you feel your holding muscles open and close rapidly until you can't close them again? Steadily increasing spurts? When do you know it's over and you're going to lose it? We've had similar subjects before, but I don't recall any that really focused on the personal subjective sensations. I'm curious to see how it differs from person to person.

Never heard of mrsflood before but after browsing her manyvids - wow. She might be one of the best amateur producers I've seen. Looks like she really holds to her limit for most or all of her videos.

For me, when I was younger and in school, I remember quite a few situations where girls I knew had to pee extremely desperately. I didn't associate it with anything sexual at the time, but I remember I could never take my eyes off these situations, and I always remember being a little excited at the possibility that they wouldn't make it and would wet themselves. At some point I looked it up online and realized that it was totally a thing -- WettingHerPanties was the big site at the time, and I just went down the rabbit hole and reinforced the fetish from there.

I've never wanted to find an original vid more. This is a great clip

I've heard a few different reasons from the women I've talked to about this (unfortunately not IRL friends, but online): Like other people have said, doing something humiliating - but somewhat deliberately - is a way to deal with humiliating experiences in the past that happened outside of a person's control. You're reliving that experience on your own terms. I'm definitely a believer that fetish stuff stems from childhood situations, either personal or witnessed. A lot of the girls I've met into humiliation are very submissive and get off on the idea that they're satisfying their partner by doing the humiliating thing. Even if they're embarrassed or humiliated, they know deep down that someone else is loving their situation and get off on that idea. The adrenaline rush. Being embarrassed/humiliated causes an intense range of emotions -- heart pounding, adrenaline, etc -- and it can be a bit of a 'high' compared to vanilla sex or more common stuff. From the point of view of someone more dominant, I definitely find it hot to see embarrassment associated with wetting, as long as the other person is into it/consenting to putting themselves in the embarrassing situation. That's why public wetting videos are some of the hottest out there - like the LoveWetting tram desperation videos and stuff where some models definitely do lose control with a ton of people around. Also, from the viewer's perspective, when someone is embarrassed/humiliated by wetting, you know they actually have an incentive to put their entire effort into avoiding an accident. It's the main driver for real "loss of control" accidents. People without that embarrassment are much more likely to just give up early and let it happen and laugh it off. Again, in a consensual situation, this makes for the best desperation/wetting content in my opinion.