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Honestly not surprised. The minute someones content shows up here, it's an almost certainty that they're going to get messages about it. This site sees a lot of traffic beyond the regular posters. I definitely don't get the vibe that she's into it, but it's cool that she humors it and isn't completely mortified by the weird stuff we're into. Something to remember with Twitch streamers: there's a reason they're on Twitch and not on an actual porn platform. Most of them aren't going to want to do anything too hardcore and just want to tease here and there for donations.

Awesome. Love the way it spreads up the back as well as down your legs.

I like it only when it's real. I go crazy for amateur content where it's a girls first time getting desperate / having an accident. Some of the custom videos that have been posted on these forums have clearly been girls that haven't done it before. The dialogue in those is some of the hottest and most pure representation of desperation you can find. If I were to order a custom desperation video, I would simply instruct the model to get desperate enough that her actions are genuine, and just do what comes natural. Some people talk a lot. Some people don't. The authenticity is what makes it

I don't really have a hard line for it, but I don't consider minor leaks to be much of an accident. If someone is still holding most of their pee back, they haven't had an accident in my mind. Once they have something like a 5-10 second uncontrolled spurt, or start to wet down their thighs a bit, I start to consider it an actual accident. But the little 1-2 second spurts that leave a golf ball sized wet spot don't really count in my mind; those happen for a variety of reasons and the person is basically still in control.

I don't think this is a stereotype so much as a guess based on psychology; one thing that seems to be fairly common among omo people is experiences with either being consistently desperate, or seeing others (especially the opposite sex) desperate. Ex. strict teachers that don't let you pee, road trip problems, etc. I'm sure you could get Freudian with it and say that these are formative experiences that lead into the fetish -- especially when they occur around the time you become interested in sex. My guess is if you knew that someone had a history of having or witnessing desperation/acci

I think a big part of it is probably just how attentive someone is when people are talking about pee or desperation stories. I know that when I'm talking to people, if the topic of peeing comes up, I probably seem just a little too curious about the details. As an example: I was out on a date with a nice girl right before covid hit, and she was talking about the oddly nice bathrooms in Japan, and how it was so different to use the Japanese style toilets when she was visiting there. She described in detail squatting over them, and in general it just seemed like some very personal informati

Personally I haven't felt that way. The level of turned on I get from this fetish is far beyond anything I've experienced from vanilla sex. I don't really care that it consumes my attention from time to time, and there are certainly worse things I could be spending my time on. Plus, I enjoy that it's a kink that can be done a little bit differently every time and has so much more variety than a vanilla lifestyle. I'd say the biggest downside of this fetish is just that it's so niche compared to others. It's very difficult to find partners that will even try desperation/accidents, let alon

Haven't seen it mentioned much, but any kind of pressure on the bladder. Wearing a belt, having a seatbelt on in the car, elastic sweats/joggers. For women, I have to imagine that tight elastic bands on things like yoga pants are pure torture with a full bladder. I've seen a few videos where women get a noticeable spike in desperation trying to button up their pants or pulling up elastic leggings. It's one of the reasons I prefer desperation content where women are wearing extra tight clothing. That, and the wetting always shows up better.

There's no "just my partner" option but I'm mostly into the idea of a pretty girl bedwetting while we cuddle. Big spoon would be amazing -- but also the cuddling position where the girl has her hand on my chest and one leg up and over me would be hot. Not sure there's a name for that, but it's great for regular cuddling, let alone wet cuddling.

Beyond actual childhood, I don't really think age is a big factor in accidents. I feel like it's much more about the situations that you find yourself in; the fluids you drink and the access to bathrooms that you have. I witnessed far more incidents in college than I did before college. If you've ever wandered around on a big party day like St. Patrick's Day or a football tailgate, you know that these often have few bathrooms, long lines, and a ton of alcohol/fluids being consumed. On top of that, it seems to me that a lot of college girls are a bit shy about separating from their main gr

I really do prefer to witness holding out of necessity, but I agree with people here - I don't want to see someone humiliated unnecessarily. If I did happen to witness an organic wetting, I would certainly feel bad, but I don't think I could turn off the part of me that finds desperation and wet pants arousing. I think the dream situation for me would be to have an omorashi partner that is okay with unplanned desperation and accidents. As an example, a girl and I are out on a road trip -- no holding or wetting planned. Just as the day unfolds, she happens to consume way too much water/cof

Like most people on here, I'd much rather do this with someone else. I get some pleasure out of holding, but most of my interest in this fetish comes from seeing a woman desperate and quickly heading towards having a real accident. I definitely enjoy the idea of simultaneous desperation -- especially because it really helps me understand how desperate the other person must be feeling at the same time. But I also enjoy the idea of a dom/sub type situation where I can casually use the bathroom but am able to make a woman hold to her bursting point.

I have fairly consistent dreams where I witness a woman wetting herself -- sometimes there's desperation and sometime it's just this random thing that happens. Usually it's just kind of a nameless, faceless dream person, but often it's a girl that I've interacted with sexually in real life. They're not super specific dreams; in the latest I was walking somewhere and walked by a girl that I couldn't identify, thought something was strange, and then did a double-take in the dream and looked back at her to realize she was peeing herself. My dreams are rarely super detailed, so that's about the ex

I've had this happen a couple times at bars or sporting tailgates. Not men and women simultaneously using the same toilet, but: Once I was in the men's room in a university building that opened its bathroom for tailgaters. The men's line was moving along quite fast, and the women's line was not moving at all. Two ladies busted in to the men's room and said "we're not gonna make it in the other line" and took over two of the stalls. You could audibly hear that they were not joking about needing to go. Similar event at a bar, I was using the men's room and a college aged girl came in,

In my experience, a person's actual limit is still an hour or more after they think "oh my god I'm going to pee my pants." I think it's pretty rare to find someone who holds until a real physical limit unless, like others have noted, it's a real life situation where having an accident would be embarrassing. Like road trips, long lines at concerts, etc. So if you're in that "I'm going to pee my pants" stage, chances are you still have an hour or two left of real holding to hit your actual limit. In reality though, I think plenty of real wettings are caused by the same panic you describe ra