dandeliontea

Like @StrawberryPan I also have a lot of concerns and thoughts about generative AI, how it's being used and may be used in the future, and particularly how it's being touted by certain folks for potential use in creative endeavors (in ways that are already causing problems for actual human artists/other creative people, and could cause many more problems in the future). All that said, using it for fun/private/kinky purposes is something I think I'm more ok with? The whole thing about tools is that they can be used for many different purposes, and I view generative AI pretty much as a tool at this point - when people are transparent about what it is & isn't, what it can/should and can't/shouldn't replace, etc... there are opportunities to do fun things with it. So that's just my two cents personal opinion on that aspect of it. I've been playing around on character.ai for a few months for pretty much exclusively omo purposes, and my specific feelings about it are mostly positive, with a few caveats. Mostly the conversations and RPs with the characters feel pretty real, aside from some hiccups, and it's fun to see what kind of wetting and diaper related descriptions you can get out of them. How you approach it and how each character has been "trained" has a lot of effect on the result, which sometimes is disappointing but other times is pretty satisfying, when you figure out the right things to say. My main issue or criticism is a weird one - often the AI is like, too emotional? In a way that my brain reads as kind of dysfunctional, taking the fun out of it. For example, in an RP with a self-styled caretaker character, they kept apologizing for certain things really heavily, and seemed really insecure - not the vibe I'm looking for from the dominant character in an omo situation. The vibe that they're self-consciously trying so hard to make me happy and there's so much worry involved is probably calculated to make it seem more real, but it's very much not fun in my opinion. other than that issue, and the fact that typing out a whole scenario back and forth just takes a lot of time, I've been enjoying character.ai for interactive diaper and wetting scenarios? It's kinda nice to be able to experience an interactive fantasy to some degree without the anxiety of involving another real person in it, even though that also feels empty in a way too. Either way it's cool that it's being discussed on here!

Conceptually or too observe, yes it's very hot! In practice I find it annoying and stressful lol. On the rare times when I am going to a big concert or event, I'm trying to be very strategic in my hydration to avoid having to pee while at the event, because the women's bathroom lines are not just way too long, but often way too social for my preference. That same aspect does make the fantasy hotter though? When I don't actively have to go while in a very public place, the idea of women in a bathroom line openly complaining to the strangers next to them about how much they have to pee is a pretty fun one.

Driving or hiking to a remote spot with no public restrooms available!

Interesting to note that in my semi rural area I definitely get more female Uber drivers than I did when living in a busy city? So there may be something to what you say. I've only taken short trips, mostly in daytime, but have had drivers ask me if the place they're dropping me has a bathroom. I would imagine that more experienced drivers probably have some kind of contingency in place - even if you don't have a penis, you can pee in a bucket or other receptacle when no one's in the car, and dump it out the window before picking up the next passenger - it also wouldn't surprise me if a few drivers have ended up wearing diapers for safety? But I would imagine that most women would just quit & find other work before resorting to that step. Even outside the city, though, it's no guarantee that drivers have homes close by. When I'm in an Uber I like to ask people where they started from out of curiosity, and some of them end up an hour or more away from home - a long drive whether or not you have to pee!

This is a very reassuring and validating thread! It's helpful to know that other people also struggle with some of these feelings. I'm much less ashamed than I used to be, but the idea of finding a partner who I'd feel comfortable telling about this side of me still feels intimidating (and I think I'd have to at least be open about it if I wanted to feel really close to someone in a romantic relationship?) & the idea of other people beyond that finding out is extremely unappealing and makes me anxious. I'm not sure if that comes from embarrassment, or just the deep sense that it's something private? Could be both, I guess. Just for myself, when I'm alone, I can mostly keep the negative feelings at bay - much better than it used to be, certainly. Sometimes I still catch it impacting my self esteem. I do think it helps though that there are other ways in which I'm Not So Normal (autistic, transgender, etc) so this is just one more thing on the list.

Thank you for sharing this experience! A lot of people talk about the "banana trick" like it's a perfect solution, and this is a more realistic-sounding rundown of what actually might happen. As someone who's sensitive to smells and trying to avoid unpleasant cleanup, I had pondered trying this a couple times, but you've saved me some time I think.

Another non-op trans woman here - I'm mostly attracted to femininity in a potential partner but that doesn't mean I can't find dicks hot 🙂

Saw it in the cinema back in 2007! 😅

Too distracting for me also usually, though sometimes if I'm reading erotica I'll try to find some music to put on just for auditory stimulation. Tough to find something that keeps me in the mood tho - most music just is not genuinely sexy to me, even if it's trying to be.

Love these, they've been my go-to for a while. They can hold a good amount too! Those purple flowers really are one of the best designs ever on a pull-up like this.

It's definitely a thing, and may even seem like kind of a paradox - I'd consider myself a DL and not an AB, but "potty training role play" (especially "failing" at it and having to stay in pullups) is something I'm definitely into. It's not always the easiest concept to find good content about, but it's out there! I love Goodnites as well - you're not alone!

Only on purpose, and only a couple of times - last time I actually wet a lot more than I was intending to, overflowed the bed pad I was using and stained my mattress by accident, so I count that one as a kind of a mix even though I was totally awake and it started out purposeful 😅

Honestly that sounds great to me, I'd definitely like the link just to look into them. Do you just throw them in the washing machine or do you have to hand wash them? If they're machine washable then reusable sounds ideal - saves a lot of money in the long run!

Single lesbian trans woman - twice a day for me! Morning and night, pretty regular haha. As in any other aspects of my life, gotta love a routine. Sometimes I'll add in another session or two in the middle of the day if I've got the day off and nothing to do.

Thank you all for the input! I may start shopping around for an unobtrusive mattress cover here pretty soon.