40sleaker

Whilst I am really enjoying this thread, I also feel guilty for doing so. Very odd things brains 🧠 🤔 Hope you received a big hug

I not even attracted to men but I enjoy your videos, they're very well done. I doff my hat and raise a glass to you and all women like you

Firstly, I am quite a private person, so the thought of putting a video out there publicly makes me very nervous. Secondly, I can't for the life of me understand why anyone would want to see a video of a chubby 45 year old bloke wetting himself. I am also aware of how ridiculously irrational that is given I would love to watch a video of a chubby 45 year old woman wet herself*. Brains 🧠 are very, very odd things. The woman who requested the videos loved them and I got a big kick out of that. *if there are any 45 year old chubby women reading this who have a burning desire to send me videos of them wetting themselves, please feel free 😉

I don't wear them 24/7 but do need to often at night and if I am going out where I know I can't find a toilet quickly. It was very difficult at first as a grown man, really impacted my self worth. What I have learnt to do is rationalise it. You are not alone. It is both normal and common. It doesn't make you a failure or a bad person. It is a part of your body that isn't working quite right. By wearing them you are making life easier and better. Some people wear glasses because their eyesight lets them down. It is the same principle for a different thing. People won't know. Those that do won't care. If you need to talk my DMs are open Take care and be positive about yourself. This doesn't define you

I have done a couple of videos for a lady on here. I enjoyed doing them, but couldn't stand watching them back. I felt incredibly self conscious

Never had a pee dream, I very, very rarely remember any dreams. Usual cause is being in a really deep sleep, drinking too much of the wrong type of drinks or stress

Speaking from experience carbonated drinks like Pepsi are also likely to increase the chances of you wetting the bed. I no longer drink them after about 3pm lol

It starts with some involuntary spurts, because of my bladder weakness it quickly gets to the point where I can't stop anymore. I can slow the stream but my pee comes out whether I want it to or not. It becomes to uncomfortable so mentally and physically I give up and wet myself

Hypnotic and beautiful all rolled into one

Do wonder what became of some of the models and from wettingherpanties. Still the only adult website I have subscribed to. They were such an integral part of my young adulthood I am worldly wise enough to know not everything will be roses but hope most them found happiness and and contentment

Glad you did. Same, although I still felt like a freak at the time lol. One of those that used it is right here typing this message. Loved it when new pictures were added. Dial up taking forever with those strange noises. There was a video of 2 American college girls who were a bit tipsy and one of them laughed so much she wet herself. That was a personal favourite, watched it dozens of times

It's interesting that there seem to be 2 very different approaches to urges. Those that can't bear it in an everyday situation and go to the toilet and those like you and I who would shut it out at all costs even if it meant wetting ourselves.

You seem smart, level headed and in control which is lovely to see. Just be careful, it doesn't happen the way you think it does. Part of my job used to involve serving restraining orders on abusive partners (99% male) and I used think it wouldn’t happen to me, that I knew the signs and i would just walk away. Bodies are weird, my experience of accidents as an adult are completely different to when I was a kid and yes most people will treat you with kindness and dignity. It was a power thing, dry kids would see your issue as a chance to move up in the social hierarchy. Adults in positions of power, abuse that power, which is why they were cruel. They are asserting their dominance over you for their own self worth. It's rotten, but it is hunan nature for some. Now they no longer have power over you, they are an irrelevance. If it makes you feel any better, if 6 women were mean to you as a kid for your accidents, statistically, at least 2 of them have bladder control problems now. If there were 100 kids in your year group at school at 10, at least 4 or 5 of them would wet the bed too. You are not alone, you are not a freak, you are an intelligent, kind hearted, normal woman

You have my full support. I know how you feel, like you I wet the bed until I was 12. I restarted in my early 30s. I am male and in my mid 40s now and so I have experienced more, some good and some bad. My current partner is very understanding and supportive. Others haven't been, one was out and out cruel. You will need to be smart about selecting partners, abusive people will exploit vulnerabilities and you need to be able to spot that, and walk away. What I didn't know then but do now is that that power isn't what you think it is. Kids would tease you for accidents, adults are much more understanding for a variety of reasons and are not judgmental as you think. You have a medical condition, your bladder doesn't work very well and there's not a lot you can do about it. Some people have poor eyesight, some go grey, some bald. You are not alone. Please learn to value and love yourself. If you ever feel low and want to talk my DMs will always be open to you. Don't bottle things up. This site has done me a world of good in coming to terms with my medical condition and my kink. Take care

I now have visions that you use it like a pouch to be released at a convenient moment Very sorry