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hemakesherwet

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  1. Yes, this. I've heard many times, don't go looking for a partner who has this fetish, it's almost impossible that everything else will also align. Finding the one who is happy to indulge with you just because you like it, and be cool about everything, is more than enough.
  2. Sad to see that your dad didn't talk to you about it positively, but this was the common tendency to think about fetishes one generation up, that they're something that has to be overcome in favour of the regular sex, so don't blame him too much.
  3. It was *very* long ago (I'm a parent myself now) and my parents probably knew but never told anything about it, neither intruded into my intimate life otherwise. They didn't tell me about intimate things either though so I had to figure it all out myself. Probably still more positive in this than negative.
  4. Yeah nosy parents are not nice we should all respect our boundaries. As for noticing things well there are always many interpretations, and just being into omo makes you interpret things this way. While it very well could be something else, eg some women just squirt heavily during sex or have mild incontinence. It's all normal (as is our fetish).
  5. Oh it's so much easier for the ladies. Who knows how many of them secretly doing it under their skirts without anyone noticing. As a guy I found that some fabrics don't show wetness. Especially technical / sports fabrics. So I just stick to these. We'll, they still show but not a lot. People aren't usually looking into each other's crotches and it could be dark. For the sports fabric it can also be discounted as sweat from the exercise. But yes any public wetting is a risk of being noticed, but aren't you trying it for exactly this reason?
  6. If nothing else works, diuretics (hopefully not an off-topic here, use according to instructions only. If not available, do the rapid desperation - same result but takes longer to build the effect) will fill you quick beyond the point of holding it. If it becomes painful, stop and do a second hold - with the help of the above it won't take longer than another 30 minutes. Multiple holds back to back will weaken the muscles and you leak or wet. Remember to hydrate. Another benefit is that the pee becomes quite diluted and as a result stink less and causes less risk of infection.
  7. Is it just me that I find women pumping weights like that is quite attractive, even without wetting. So strong and muscular... Death by snu snu if you date one.
  8. Just date normally, like you would without any fetishes. Keep moving on. And you'll eventually find someone kinky enough to indulge in your fantasies. They don't have to be in it, just accept that you like it, be happy making you happy, and be ready to do things. This broadens up the selection a lot. It applies to both men and women. In some aspects it's easier for women as men are more kinky. In other aspects it's easier for men as they can move through the "dating candidate pool" (lol, don't take this literally) quicker. Don't forget all other things you do while dating: looks, confidence, goals etc. Hope this helps.
  9. Trying to read between the lines... You want a partner for your play and fantasies. Well the only way is to start dating (with everything attached from your attitude to looks to confidence etc) and you will eventually find one who's kinky enough to indulge in your fantasies. Meanwhile, just do it on your own, it's also fun.
  10. Yeh, work and sex life don't mix. It's even out of question to date any ladies from work (to avoid any complications) not to mention the boss-subordinate scenario. It's a good theme for a bedroom roleplay though. Anyone done that?
  11. Oh it's sometimes overrated how visible the wetting is. Do it in the dark sports shorts that won't stain or under the skirt - no-one notices, literally no-one. Just go straight into the shower and chuck it in the laundry along the way. Playing in bed or where the stains are visible (isn't this also the part that turns us on) becomes tricky of course. Teach your kids to respect your bedroom privacy. Lol, easier said than done really.
  12. You can consider going to the public laundromat if your concern is the wash frequency. Can become really costly tho if you do it every week with just a few items.
  13. Love it. Now on my list of things to do if I manage to find an Omo girlfriend (still in progress). That little trickle down your leg is soooo cute.
  14. I dated a lady who knowing of my fetish always announced her needs like "I'm about to pee / poop myself", or "I need the toilet quick", or "I'm bursting", "my stomach feels like a big fish tank", even when she wasn't so desperate. Needless to say I loved that. She wasn't doing other Omo stuff but just these words were enough.
  15. When I really need to pee while sleeping I always have the same dream where I need to pee and looking for a toilet but the toilets either filthy, like surrounded ankle deep in filth, or have glass walls and there are people around. I usually wake up from the urge but a couple of times I managed to use that toilet and woke up peeing my underwear. Enough to make the front of it wet but not enough to make a puddle on the bed. Which is great because my female partner wouldn't like it. Apart from that situation, I peed in my dreams (last time it was this week) and it didn't result in any actual peeing in real life.
  16. Well, depends on your preferences but yes holding pee should be in moderation. Not just OAB, but for other issues also. If you're comfortable playing with #2 alternate one pee hold with a few of... Other ones. Or get your partner to do other things pee-related, but not hold. Pee on each other's lap, dare to wet secretly in public, pee during sex, wet deliberately without holding - opportunities are endless.
  17. Yes indeed it is. Omo play causes some mild urge incontinence for a week or two. It's like going from none to 9 on a matter of minutes and if you won't find the toilet you might leak. No full wettings though. Pretty exciting actually but can cause inconvenience of course. That's why I practice #1 Omo sparingly and introduce more #2 play, as I feel that #2 causes less harm to the body when done right.
  18. Sometimes there's a bit of a tingly feeling in a penis and you feel that the flow will come very soon with the muscles. Very often though it's just holding, keep holding but hey why there's warmth in my underwear? It just leaks regardless. Both feel amazing.
  19. This is an absolutely gorgeous video, even from the position of a straight guy. I'd suggest, would be great if there's less holding with hands during the start of the wetting, but still great. Actually better than many staged female clips.
  20. Thank you, this answers a lot and also hints on what to look for in a potential future partner.
  21. Thanks, you re-established the hope in me to find a matching female soul.
  22. Amazing point, thanks for sharing. Actually yes, I tried to imagine the header of this site depicting male character instead of female and immediately understood what you're meaning. Yes, as I commented in the other thread, just seeing guys peeing or in general makes no attraction for me (no disgust either), while in the Omo situation it's going to be quite sexy anyway.
  23. For me really I just discovered it, "hey someone peed their pants, why does it feel so unusual". Was happening at the same time I was discovering the sexuality in general, so no idea which came first. I prefer when woman holds (either one) for me. Love when it is combined with other restrictive play, like ropes and tying up. Yes I'd love to hold and lose it as well, but it feels the same way as masturbation feels compared to a sex with a partner.
  24. Why does it feel good? How good? Most ladies who were willing to share their thoughts with me told full bladder is painful. Or is it on the pleasure-and-pain mix good?
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