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Coilysnake

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    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Diapers
    Bondage
    Crossdressing
    Cuddling
    Exhibitionism
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    Hypnosis
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  1. That’s second time I’ve seen this advice today, there must be something in it! I’d rather find a person that will compromise on ABDL but likes the same sort of things as me outside kink. Makes sense to find that person first and see how much mileage there is in the kink.
  2. I’ve seen versions of this advice many times. It’s probably good advice. Thank you!
  3. I told my wife after we had been dating for a few months. Much like you OP I built it up as this huge secret until I eventually revealed it. She kinda just shrugged. In fact I think she posted on Daily Diapers and asked how she can make me happy. Turns out that she’s not that into it but she indulges me from time to time. She wears Drynites (Goodnites) on her period, at first because I asked her to but it seems like it’s habit now. She never “initiated” play but she’s tolerant of it and occasionally allows me to diaper her after sex. We’re in the process of splitting up but we’re good friends and live in the same house. It’s been 15 years 🤣. The splitting up is not ABDL related, it’s never been mentioned. Anyway, I’ve decided that my next partner MUST be into it - I don’t want to spice up another vanilla relationship. I’ll choose someone (or they will choose me?) who’s got more kinks than a headphone cord.
  4. I went to visit a pro mommy in the UK about 6 months ago. I booked a 3 day visit and sent her all sorts of ideas for what we could do. To her credit, as a professional, she didn’t do everything on the list because as she said “your eyes were bigger than your stomach” 🤣 A few things happened which is why I didn’t post immediately and no names will be mentioned. I had a fantasy about when I arrived which was that she would immediately immobilise me, strip me and put me in a diaper. In fact when I arrived I was visibly nervous. I’d brought some alcohol with me so she asked if I wanted to have a drink before we started. As requested she told me how naughty I’d been, took me to the changing table, fitted me with a catheter and chastity cage, diaper etc etc. She then immediately took me to the shops 😳 I got her two bottles of champagne and a crate of beer for me. I found I had difficulty staying “in role” after we got back so instead we both got absolutely smashed and chatted for hours about our life stories etc. This is where it gets fun…. We lay on the sofa together and one thing lead to another. I ended up licking her out, inserting a giant butt-plug, diapering her and vibing her. A lot of fun was had by all, although unfortunately due to my position (catheter and chastity cage) I wasn’t able to fully indulge. She woosily marched me to the changing table to change me for the night but… we were both so drunk that we didn’t know where the keys to the cage were! Ever the professional, In the end she took the old catheter and cage out, re-catheterised me, put me in my night time diaper and locked me into the crib. We found the keys, they were underneath me on the changing table and revealed when I stood up 🤦 In the morning she woke me by vibing the diaper… She had planned a whole day of revenge including suppositories, another public outing and a vibrating buttplug. Sadly I wasn’t accomplished enough in the buttplug department to accept that or the hollow buttplug she had lined up for me (too tight, wouldn’t fit). If anyone is wondering, yes the suppository worked and the humiliation was delectable being also extremely hung over. She said she NEVER drinks at work and never will again. I was the exception 🤣 The other two days were great, lots of spanking, being spoon fed, cuddling etc but the first night was absolutely the best. She’s a great person and knows exactly which buttons to push. I’ll be back! I’d 100% recommend visiting such a person in the future!!
  5. My relationship of 15 years is coming to a mutual end. It’s sad but it’s fine, but we both think we’d be happier on our own or with other people. We’re still very good friends and continue to support each other. We just sort of drifted apart. We think it will take a year or two to financially untangle. I told my soon-to-be ex but current wife about my ABDL side almost right away (17 years ago?), she was fine with it. She doesn’t partake herself very much but she understood. It hasn’t been a factor in our decision. All very sad but probably necessary for both of us. Anyway - This leaves me in the exciting position of choosing a new partner sometime soon. This time I want to make sure I find someone that shares my values as well as my fetish. ABDLs are vanishingly rare and straight female ones are rarer still. Finding that one person who is into ABDL (and other kink) who is emotionally stable and about the right age and finds me engaging and attractive and either lives in or wants to live in the UK must be… Well… Maybe there’s 1? I am a lurker by nature, I lurk on Fetlife, Tumblr, X and here. I know that one never meets anyone by simply lurking but I don’t want to be that creepy guy that messages people either. I’m a sociable introvert - so I can turn it on if I have to but I’d rather be quiet. My question to this lovely community is: How does one go about dating when one is looking for a very particular fetish? Has anyone had any success? Where do I go? What should I do?
  6. All of the medical brands have something. If it’s a nappy style (with tapes) are you bothered about the backing material? In my experience on Amazon if you buy a case of a medical brand they don’t repack it, so if that’s a concern, don’t buy a case. If it’s a single pack they put it in an Amazon box so you’re fine. Many of the online retailers (.co.uk sites) will offer discreet shipping or do it by default. It’s a big concern so there’s usually something on their sites about discreet shipping.
  7. TLDR: Masturbating in a diaper with a vibrator is the best. Nothing else comes close, not even sex. I have a penis. I do it all the time. I prefer it, it feels much better. I’ve found it works better when wet. I don’t do it at home because of the noise. I stay in hotels a lot, the wand is in my overnight bag. I sometimes wonder if my neighbours in the hotel can hear me… so far, no complaints. The first time I tried it I wondered why I ever bothered masturbating in the traditional way, it’s that much better.
  8. That is Little Fina from Tumblr I think. Maybe ask her! She’s a commercial painter/decorator
  9. My partner wears Drynites (Goodnites in the USA). When her sister came to stay she found them in the bathroom and my wife explained, so now the sister wears them too. likewise, my wife knows I like her wearing them so tends to wear light leggings or even white leggings or shorts. She’s very good to me…
  10. On another thread someone suggested mesh pants (like Tena Fix) over cloth. I’ve found that wearing underwear over them seems to reduce the absorbency by introducing pinch points. Not all plastic options are noisy but ABDL ones do tend to be louder than medical ones. Maybe just buy a few different options and experiment with them? Good luck 😉
  11. Picked up the remaining packs today, newer style but still plastic backed with landing strip. These are the ones with green dots instead of a solid stripe. I think these were phased out about 7 years ago. Note how the packs contain the same number (28) but are almost half the size of the old packs due to the slightly slimmer design of the diaper. There were 19 today, so in total I’ve got 37 packs!!
  12. I’ve tried everything in cloth backed (medical grade) and they really don’t work for me. I think maybe they are for immobile people? Even the hybrid ones don’t work very well for me. The Tena Slip Active Fit doesn’t work either. The tapes are very wide so they get in the way, and the back sheet stretches and tears. My work involves a lot of driving following by a short amount of actual work. Getting in and out of the car a few times seems to destroy anything cloth backed entirely, they just fall off. Oooh, going to a quiet place like you’ve mentioned might be fun. I have some vintage attends - the ones with 3 tapes - and I have to say they are deafening. There would be no hiding those in public. Easily the loudest diaper I’ve ever heard. My caveat of outside or in a shop absolutely wouldn’t apply. Everyone within 30 feet would know for sure. The Tena ones that I prefer, although plastic and with the landing tape, are pretty much silent for every day use - but alas they don’t make them any more 🙁. I’ve collected an awful lot of them though which should keep me going for a few years. I think I’ve got around 50 packs total.
  13. I’ve commented on another post that I’ve tried the cloth backed ones and they always stretch. For discretion I find the plastic backed ones actually work better than having a cloth backed one making a big bulge in your pants because it’s slipped down at the waist. I think that although it is possible to hear the plastic, it’s much louder to the wearer than anyone else. At shops or outdoors I’m certain nobody can hear it. ”Not caring” is a massive part of it. Nobody has ever said anything to me, ever. I think because I look like I don’t care, so they shouldn’t care either
  14. I don’t have experience with those. I found that for me, anything cloth backed stretches over time and it becomes quite uncomfortable trying to stop them falling down. Plastic backed are a much better option but can suffer a similar problem (with me) - because the adhesive tapes don’t stretch but the very thin plastic backing does which can cause it to tear. With both of these observations I’ve noticed that for the most part if you’re just walking you’ll probably be ok but if your driving or sitting this is where you get the issues. What I’ve found works best for me is something plastic backed with a landing tape - like the amazing vintage Tena slip I posted about recently. For discretion the very thin Tena Slip Plus absorbency is great, but alas they don’t make them like they used to. Fortunately I’ve sourced a few cases of those which should keep me going for a while. The Tena Slip Maxi (same vintage as I’ve already talked about) is a great performer but NOT discreet - too thick. For day to day when I’m not too worried about discretion but need the performance the Tena Slip Super (again, sadly the older model) is perfect. If anyone can recommend something similar that’s currently on the market I’d be interested to hear. ABU SDK2 is quite thin and has the landing tape but the single tape design doesn’t work well for me. Hope this is helpful!
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