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ParadoxicEros

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  1. As someone who is asexual and aromantic/demiromantic, as well as a person who holds multiple ‘fetishes,’ the whole situation of the seemingly mismatched qualities both those traits present bugged me for a long while. Eventually, for me, it just came down to the fact that my asexuality and my ‘fetishes’ were completely separate things for me. The fact that I have ‘fetishes’ doesn’t change the fact that I’m not sexually attracted to people. The fact that I enjoy omo doesn’t change the fact that I rarely experience romantic attraction. To some degree, it could be argued some form of autosexuality, seeing as I only really enjoy omo via my own experience. I enjoy reading stories and having a friend join me in wettings on occasion, but not in the same way I enjoy my own peeing. I wouldn’t say omo is a substitute for sexual pleasure, because I don’t really seek sexual pleasure to begin with. I’d say its more of it’s own degree of pleasure. I’d say low-libido is a perfectly normal and fine thing for a person to have. Everyone’s different, after all. In my eyes, “asexual” at its core is just having lower-to-no desire to act in sexual behaviors compared to the average person. People can define what counts as ‘sexual behaviors’ as whatever they see as correct. It’s likely that an asexual who participates in omo probably doesn’t see it as sexual or as a ‘fetish.’ As for whether an asexual who enjoys peeing is part of the omo community; I’m already here and nobody can stop me. In regards to my own thoughts, I’ve always kinda had gripes with whether the words like fetish or kink still apply to people like me, as they’re definition revolves heavily around the sexual aspects of it (hence why I left it in quotes in the above mentions.) Does an asexual person who does the same things as a person with a fetish also have that fetish? Can it be called a ‘fetish’ at all? I’ve always used the word fetish because there’s no good non-sexual alternative word that still makes sense. When trying to find a better word for it, the best fitting word I’ve ever come across is hobby, and while it honestly fits in my eyes, I don’t think saying I have a “pissing hobby” gets across quite the same way as “omo fetish” does.
  2. I mean, I’d just enjoy the concept of some form of “No-Toilet Day” where you are inclined to go the whole day without pissing in any toilets.
  3. I’m an avid lover of exaggerated amounts of pee so I’m inclined to say I enjoy the list you gave. Plus, in general, I’m more likely to enjoy the story if it has more than just the wetting as the story. Humor, good characters, an interesting setting, etc, all make a story more enjoyable imo.
  4. My typical wettings are numerous and usually dependent on the schedule I have that day. On days I don’t have to go anywhere, it’s usually just wettings at my desk and on my bed for the most part. Saves time for not having to get up and go to the bathroom and come back. Days where I have class usually are my driest, because I don’t have to confidence to pee in those large lecture rooms with all those people even though it’s unlikely I’d get noticed if I prepared correctly. When I have errands, I do sometimes wet while walking between places, most often on the way home. It’s nice warmth against the cold weather. If I’m out with friends I’m definitely wetting a few times while out and about with them because they’re chill with it and I’m not gonna pass up the opportunity.
  5. As someone who’s favorite wetting scenarios are those that are fully casual, I’ve managed to actually get a reputation in my friend circles that I’m “not one to bother with toilets,” and very often have and still do casually wet around people I’m acquainted too, just as long as I’m not crossing boundaries or making people uncomfortable. This is especially true of my closer circle of friends, who at this point barely acknowledge it. It’s just “Oh, he’s peeing again,” and then continuing with whatever we’re doing. I’m very lucky to have friends who aren’t easy to gross out, and instead find it amusing. I remember one time back in High School, I was walking with a friend to their house. I had never been to their place before, and the discussion was generally about the stuff I can and can’t do and what not to say or do in front of his parents, and one thing that got casually mentioned is “I’m fine if you decide to pee yourself, as long as you’re in my room and clean up before my parents see you.” I just nodded along at the time, but in my head I couldn’t get over how casually that got mentioned in passing. I loved it. (And obviously I took my friend up on the offer.)
  6. While I’m not gonna just outright say that it isn’t true that omo is more common on PH, that scenario sounds like it could be the Frequency Illusion; You notice something the first time and then suddenly keep noticing it again and again now that you’re more aware of it happening. It could have been that they’ve always been somewhat common, but you just happened to take notice to it now, so it seems more common.
  7. The most I can say is that it gets increasingly tempting to use a display toilet whenever I come across one, though I don’t think I ever will for the sake of decency.
  8. I’m the weird person who enjoys cleaning, so if i’m peeing on my own stuff in my own space, then I’m not terribly inclined to have layers of protection over things. I’m down for doing the laundry or cleaning the floors in the sake of enjoyment. I do have a liquid-proof mattress cover under my sheets, but anything above that isn’t protected in any way. I also just generally have a stash of towels on deck for if I really shouldn’t be making a mess at a certain place or time. Basically, for me, having a cover on the stuff I’m peeing on takes the fun out of it, so I just opt for the clean up later.
  9. To some degree, I wouldn’t be surprised if omo was headed in that sort of direction towards mainstream-ness or the like (I’d say a fetish having a large platform that is exclusively for said fetish is a pretty big indicator of that in the first place), though I doubt that we’re gonna reach the “norm” status for a long time. I’d say a lot of what you listed might be a combination of two things; A) In general, openness towards discussion of fetishes and kinks has become more common, not just with omo. Being open about the things your into isn’t as taboo as it used to be, so lots of fetishes are probably going through similar steps towards mainstream. B) There’s the whole thing of “confirmation bias,” which would mean that you’d pay more attention to what’s going on with the fetish circles you’re in as opposed to the one you aren’t. You aren’t regularly going on PH and looking up kinks that you aren’t into, I assume. Both points, in combination, make it likely that you’d mostly notice the increase in openness in the context of omo specifically rather than other fetishes. As much as omo being the norm is a fantasy for me, I don’t think omo would manage to be the one to take that spot out of any fetish. There’s a lot of more common fetishes out there that are likely leagues closer to that finish line than omo currently. Plus, it would take a huge culture shift for that kind of thing to happen in the near future, which isn’t something you can exactly count on to just happen suddenly. Obviously, I’m no sociologist, so I can’t truly say I know exactly how this kind of thing plays out (not that sociologists can truly predict things anyway), but I do exist in multiple fetish circles, and can say that I definitely feel like similar movements have and are happening with other kinks, so I don’t think it’s just omo. Regardless, I think the claim that omo is becoming more ‘mainstream’ is true, though I don’t think the whole ‘omo is WAY more common and will become the norm’ thing has any chance of happening for a long while. (I could be wrong, though, and gladly would relish in that.)
  10. As a fan of the concept of hyper/infinite wettings, I think I'm probably obligated to say that long pees are definitely better by far. Plus, there's more relief, more time peeing, and it makes a bigger stain!
  11. I mean, no matter who it's coming out of, the pee is still the same, so I can't imagine sound would ever give anything away.
  12. I mean, that’s certainly true to some degree. A lot of people I’ve known are just generally open in the various things they do (though I can’t say I’ve known any people who openly admitted kinks)
  13. I've never been directly open about having a kink for it, but it's common knowledge in my circle of friends that I'm not one to go out of my way to find a bathroom. At most I've just said that I don't really care enough to go find a toilet just to take a piss. I wouldn't be surprised if any of them have pieced together that it's fetish thing, but as far as I know, none of them have. As for family, absolutely not. Being blood-related to someone is a lot more permanent than being in the same group of people, and I don't want anything like "Still wets pants as an adult" on my permanent record, so to speak. It'd make Thanksgiving awfully boring, I'd say. I don't have a partner (and I'm not exactly looking for one), but I'd imagine my theoretical partner would probably know about my pissing habits looong before we started dating with my openness to the whole thing.
  14. I'd agree with the sentiment that being in the higher end of the teens and wetting would probably be the most embarrassing. More specifically, I'd probably assume 18 to be the most embarrassing. You're newly an adult and still having accidents? That'd be super embarrassing.
  15. I'd rather be with friends for sure. They're far more aware of the fact that I don't bother with the toilet than my family, so it'd be less of a shock to them. I'd prefer almost anything to being witnessed by my family.
  16. In my experience, though I seem to be the odd man out based on the other replies, if I pee in a dream, I've definitely peed IRL. I don' have many piss-related dreams, but I can't recall a single one that didn't end with me waking up to a wet bed (occasionally I wake up and am still actively pissing). To be fair, I don't have the best bladder control even when I'm awake, so that probably factors in a decent bit.
  17. The most I could recommend is just doing it on a hardwood floor, plastic, or some other easy-to-clean surface or object (aka not carpet.) Especially if you're not expecting to be alone at home for long, having an easy way to clean before you get caught is vital.
  18. Being 19 (aka very young compared to a lot of people on this site 😳), I've only been aware that I'm into omo for roughly 5 years, so I haven't had as much time to have experiences with other people yet. I've only had about a dozen experiences I can recall in which there was another participant around (mostly just friends joining me because they find it funny). That said, I have had a much larger number of witnessed scenarios, though I don't think that quite counts as what you're looking for. Finding a person who will participate by request is hard and frankly kinda scary for my social anxiety sometimes.
  19. I don’t think he is, I think he just finds the whole thing funny and kinda interesting. He doesn’t know that I’m into it (as far as I know) and thinks I’m just lazy and doing it for the humor. His reaction to the pictures was just along the lines of awe at my “dedication to the bit.” I did jokingly invite him to come over and see in person, which he very understandably turned down lol
  20. I actually did this to a degree one November a few years back; 16 years old I believe. In lieu of the fact that being asexual gave me a free-pass on No Nut November, I decided that a piss-themed one was more fun, so I made up some rules for it; 1) If I'm at home, I have to pee either somewhere in my bedroom or my bathroom, so long as it wasn't into the toilet. I couldn't use any toilets in the house and definitely wasn't about to pee in the middle of a public space in the house. 2) If I was out of the house, while I still tried to avoid toilets, if I had to use one in public, I was allowed to use them. 3) Just as most boys bathrooms at public high schools are, the bathrooms at my school were gross and usually pee-covered regardless, so I felt that banning myself from peeing into the toilets at school was a fair rule as well. 4) I still had to poo in the toilets, but I'd just aim my piss out of the toilet to keep it going. And so, for all of November I made a complete mess out of my room. It wasn't really a hard challenge seeing as I usually peed in my room a fair amount normally. I did at one point tell my best friend (who was well aware of my "toilet aversion") about what I was doing, and later in the month sending him pictures of my soaked room to quell his curiosity. I was kind of sad to stop doing it at the end of the month, but decided I had been risky enough with it already and didn't want to push my luck with not getting caught.
  21. Was about to start answering when I remembered I always sit down out of laziness, so I can't really answer any of the other questions because sitting doesn't require aim
  22. It’s happened to me so many times I’ve sorta stopped realizing it when it happens. The first few times it happened to me it was definitely an interesting sensation. For the most part it just felt the same, but without the part where you’re like, actively making yourself pee. But now I just don’t really feel it at all, except usually if i’m somewhere cold, bc then the warmth is very noticeable. I’m much more likely to realize because someone points it out to me (usually my roommate) rather than just noticing myself at this point.
  23. Along the lines of what others have said, it's really a case of how much agency you have over the other person' desperation. If it's a case of something like Your friend is at your place and wants to use the bathroom but you won't tell them where it is, that would be a case where you have agency in it and are forcing them into the situation for your own pleasure at their expense. That would 1000% fall under the non-consent category. The same goes for scenarios like not pulling into a gas station so a person can pee or secretly peeking at your friend taking a wiz in a bush when they can't get to a bathroom in time. If you have control over whether they're desperate and choose not to let them relieve themselves in a bathroom when they ask, that's not consent in any way. If it's a case of something like You and your friend are somewhere you've never been and neither of you can work out where a bathroom is, that would be a case where you don't really have agency and aren't really forcing them into the situation. I don't really think that would be non-consensual because there's really nothing you could do in that situation to help them (unless you'e doing something like distracting them so they don't see the bathroom). This would be the same as being on a long walk/hike with no bathrooms anywhere or looking away from a person taking a leak when they ask you too. Really, if you were doing something desperation-related to a friend in a non-consensual way, then you'd probably be able to feel that strong guilt in your mind that what your were doing is morally græy at the very least. (Small note, pee fetish or no pee feitsh I think a person is drawn to look at the squirming/desperate/peeing person by virtue of the human brain's habit to look at things in motion or sources of sound when we notice them, so I don't think looking at a desperate person is that bad of an act unless they've explicitly said not too.)
  24. Lucky for you, I'm not familiar with the series so I have zero grounds to make any comments. It was fun read though!
  25. I'm a little scared to ask because I don't want to fall down a rabbit hole rn bc it's past midnight, but... What is Cookie Run?
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