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ParadoxicEros

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  1. Not really a single accident, but still probably my most embarrassing moment related to having accidents. Up until I actually realized I was into omo at 14, I generally did very well with not having accidents. My bladder was quite strong when I was younger, and on top of not deliberately drinking too much, I didn't even need to pee that often throughout the day. So, imagine 11-year-old me's surprise when I woke up one morning to find myself absolutely soaked in piss. I had wet the bed for the first time since I was 5 or 6. Now, the sensible thing to do would be to inform my parents because they'd be able to get me diapers or a mattress cover or something. However, 11 year old me was an anxiety-riddled mess, so I just decided not to tell. I managed to keep the secret for a year before my parents found out and my mom got me a mattress cover. That was by far the most embarrassed I've ever been about anything omo related, though there are a couple times I've peed myself that have been embarrassing.
  2. So, I haven't really been too present on this site for a while just due to how hectic the start of this year has been; Getting back from a long trip, starting my next semester of college, all that jazz. However, something happened a couple days ago that I really feel I should share. So, as I've off-handedly mentioned before, I live in a decent sized apartment with a roommate. He's been my best friend since long before we shared an apartment, and while he's known for a long time about my reluctance to use the toilet, I've always claimed that it's a sort of laziness thing, so he's had no idea it was a fetish thing. So, a couple days ago, I was making us dinner in the kitchen, and had left my phone on the side-table next to the couch, where he was sitting. Then I heard my phone buzz, and without thinking, I asked him to check who it was. He picked up my phone and I saw him look at the notification and his face turned to a confused and shocked expression. "First of all, since when do you have Discord?" I immediately had realized where this was going and my heart sank a bit. "Second of all, what the HELL is this message?" Turns out, the message I had asked him to check was a message from an omo roleplay (hi, @BENAir01 😅) There's really no way out of that, so I was forced to come clean about being into omorashi. Luckily, other than the usual awkwardness of having to discuss a fetish with your best friend, he took things decently well. The thing he was the most upset about, according to him, was the fact that he never even considered that as a reason for why I did it. We had a very long discussion about it over dinner and he did end up reading a small excerpt from that roleplay out of curiousity, and ended up laughing at it and jokingly offering to buy me diapers. So, it certainly could have gone worse. I'm curious if anyone else has been found out in a similarly awkward/dumb way?
  3. In my experience, while I can't say exactly why, women are much more common as the subjects of fetish pieces for most, if not nearly all fetish circles. I'm a gay dude and I only ever look for male-based content when it comes to fetish based items, and no matter where you look, what fetish your indulging in, and how specific your searches are, you still end up in piles of female-dominated content. The main platform I use is DeviantArt when it comes to fetishes outside of Omorashi, as it's the only big forum-ish site I can find that’s good for fetish content but isn't plastered with genitalia (I'm asexual, despite my kinkiness, so I can't stand being on those sites for too long). Most of the users I follow/watch on Deviantart post exclusively male content of various fetishes, with a couple exceptions that post a mix of both male and female content. Based on my recommended page, it's clear that DeviantArt has a perfect understanding of what content I'm looking for, as my entire recommended page falls under fetishes I have, there's just one thing: The recommended page is still almost entirely female content, with the only exceptions being male content made by users I already follow. So, while it's clear that the recommended page has picked up on what I like, there's not nearly enough male content for it to exclusively put that on my recommended page. The same is true for tags for any given fetish, even tags that use the word "male" often still have female content in them that is tagged with male tags for seemingly no reason except for what I assume is algorithm-boosting or something similar. All this to say, whatever makes male content so much harder to come by in most places, it's far from exclusive to Omorashi, and probably isn't something specifically related to Omorashi (such as your "men are usually more permitted to pee outside" idea). I'd honestly say that Omorashi on this site is closer to a equal male-female balance than any fetish on DevinantArt. ----------------------------------------------------------- Theorizing on reasons aside, this forum piqued my interest on the topic, so I actually decided to go through my recommended page on DeviantArt and see what the gender distribution was for the first 100 things recommended to me just out of interest what the actual distribution was like. Out of the 100 I counted... - 85 had women as the main subject - 13 had men as the main subject - 2 had both men and women as the main subject Other people besides main subjects were present in 27 pieces, and out of those... - 16 of them featured other women - 7 of them featured other men - 4 of them featured other women and men So out of the 149 figures present, 80.5% were women, and 19.5% were men.
  4. I had it happen once this last semester. I was sitting in the lecture hall and was bursting but it was in the middle of the lesson during what sounded like the part I definitely couldn’t miss, so I ended up pissing in the middle of the hall and hoping nobody would notice. I don’t think anyone did at the time but my wet pants were definitely obvious as I left the lecture hall.
  5. Oh I’ve definitely gotta add this to my list of fantasy fetish house ideas. Having a secret room to go absolutely wild with it sounds unimaginably fun.
  6. I’m asexual and demiromantic so it’s not like I’m actively looking for any sort of relationship right now, but if I did get a boyfriend I’d love him to have a large bladder to contrast my small one, and a indifference to the toilet to match my own. The idea of having a boyfriend who casually makes huge puddles while going about his day would be a dream.
  7. Not omorashi, but once posted a fat fetish thing on my main insta’s story. Luckily, I don’t think anyone viewed it but it was up for a good 10 minutes before I caught it and deleted it. Absolutely terrifying.
  8. Kitchen sink at my grandparents’ when I was 15. My parents were out on an anniversary date and left me with my grandparents for the evening. Their house only had two bathrooms, which for the most part was never an issue. However, in this specific instance I was bursting but both my grandparents happened to be occupying both bathrooms. I was gonna piss myself any minute so I made the hail mary decision to hoist myself up onto the kitchen counter and try to quickly do my business in the sink. I managed to get away with it, climb down, rinse the piss off the dishes in the sink, and then act like I was doing something else entirely. My grandparents never found out. This memory resurfaced for me pretty recently due to the fact that my grandparents were hosting like, 20 of my family members at a Christmas party at their house, which is a very questionable choice for a two-bathroom house.
  9. Oh, they had quoted me the first time around. The must have edited their post to fix it.
  10. Link what? Me pulling a muscle while trying to do the pose? I’m not sure why you’d want to see that if I’m honest.
  11. I’ve never heard of the Jack-O Pose before, and after looking it up, I have one, simple response. How the hell can anyone actually do that pose??? I tried it and I feel like I pulled a muscle or something.
  12. It’s Really Detailed Explanation Time!™ I don’t think I can cite anything specific because I can’t even confidently say when it began. My tweens and early teens were kind of a mess in the sexuality and fetishes department. From 11 to 15 I was going through a sexuality-based crisis because I realized I might have had a crush on a boy in my class, which is definitely not a straight thing to do. I also kinda realized that (based on my vague knowledge of how other kids my age thoughts), I was behind on the whole “Thoughts of sex, masturbation, and general romance” department with the exclusion of this one boy. Plus the added bonus of someone using they/them pronouns on me and getting a slight euphoric feeling from it on occasion. For reference, as of right now I identify with being demihomoromantic, asexual, and a genderfluid demiboy (a few years ago I wouldn’t have known any of those words). At the same time, I started having some kinky thoughts. I’m very certain where some of my fetishes came from and when I realized them. For instance, I have a fat fetish from when I was younger and had a habit of putting blankets up my shirt bc it made me look fat, and realized it for certain around the age of 13 because of the aforementioned crush I had. With omorashi, however, the story is different. I cannot tell you where it came from or when I 100% went “oh shit i’m into this.” I do know of various circumstances that could have led me down that road, but I cannot say with confidence which one started it or truly made me realize: It could’ve been that I had started bedwetting again, and tried to hide it from my parents. It could’ve been the few incidents I personally witnessed, such as my friend wetting himself while in line for the bathroom or kids pissing in the gym locker room for a dare. It could’ve been a subconscious thing I always that just finally made its way to my conscious, giving me fleeting thoughts of piss-related mischief. It could’ve been that it developed off of one of the random other fetishes I have and I just didn’t notice. It could’ve been that my poor memory just straight up forgot what started it but kept the fetish. It could’ve been something in relation the parallel sexuality and gender crisis I was going through at the same time. Or it could’ve been something else entirely! All I know is that at some point in the summer of 2016 it clicked in my head and I started acting on the fetish deliberately. All I know is I’m an asexual person with too many fetishes that the hormonal 2012-2016 me developed.
  13. C pretty much nightly, though I’m not great at remembering most of my dreams so it could be A or B on occasion. I also probably count for D because I also wet the bed when awake sometimes if I happen to be chilling in bed when my bladder calls.
  14. I’m a demiguy/demiboy, more specifically semi-genderfluid between being a guy and being agender (that’s a lot of words for explaining a gender, I know). I will admit that I have used the women’s room in some very specific circumstances (I’m leaning towards agender, I’m presenting in a feminine enough way that I hopefully wouldn’t make anyone in the bathroom uncomfortable, and just generally in a scenario where I can’t just piss my pants instead). I’ve done it only four or five times that I can recall. I gotta know: How are the ladies’ restrooms are always significantly cleaner than the mens’?? The difference is wild.
  15. I pee in the bed during nearly 100% of nights, and pretty regularly throughout the day if I happen to be in the bed at the right time.
  16. Nonchalantly pissing in public will always be one of the best experiences. Great story!
  17. 5 or 6 i believe. I did have bedwetting issues from 11-14 but i didn’t get put back in diapers for that
  18. (Everything I say is very much ignoring whether it would be hygienic or not because fantasy is fantasy) I would probably want a house that would allow pee to just sit around in a large/deep puddle on the floor because I've always just liked the idea of being able to slowly flood a room or building every time I need to pee. Plus, if nothing absorbed pee that'd probably mean easier cleanup anyway. Maybe some kind of drain system that can open and close so it can clean easily if I'm having people over (more specifically family members. Part of me wants to say I'd just have no toilets outright but I also need to poo so that's probably not gonna happen. A big fridge for a lot of drinks to fill my bladder with (and also because I eat a lot, but that's besides the point.) Privacy measures for both inside and outside the house, because even though I'm very open about wetting, I'd still like privacy just so I can pee while pantsless as well. I'm sure I'd be able to think of more if I thought about it for a while but that's mainly what I can think of off the top of my head.
  19. I’ve convinced people by proxy more than I have by actively telling them too. I’ve found a lot of people will become more willing to try it after they see you doing it a lot, and with how open I am, that’s pretty much everyone I know. It’s only happened a dozen or so times total, and generally the reaction was a general sense of “It’s definitely not something I’d start doing more but I didn’t hate it I guess.” My friends generally seem to more enjoy watching me do it than participate themselves.
  20. It plays a pretty significant role for me, seeing as most everyone I’m acquainted with knows about my reluctance to use the toilet; but in a weird way it’s not something I think about too often anymore. It’s become more of an instinctive thing to just wet myself on the spot, so I don’t find myself actively thinking about it too much outside of being on this site/roleplay. (Though, I am currently visiting a lot of my relatives so trying to make sure I don’t instinctively piss myself has been in the front of my mind 24/7 recently.)
  21. I wasn't terrible at Spanish but definitely wasn't great at it either. Music and Math are the only two classes I've been consistently good with honestly.
  22. I can't really come up with any moment I've personally experienced in my youth that would have sensibly lead to any fetish I have. The closest I've been to that kind of situation would be my parents finding out I was bedwetting when I was 12, but even then that wasn't really anything I'd consider close to trauma or anxiety, just embarrassment. However, I have a hard time with memory of a lot of events from when I was of single-digit age, so it's totally possible that my fetishes stem from things I otherwise can't really remember. I do think it is a potential thing that could happen, partially because so many people make the connection between trauma and fetishes that I can't really say it definitively isn't true at this point. I'm of the belief that fetishes can stem from any general "key moment" from someones youth, but it doesn't necessarily have to be of a negative thing. It could stem from something positive just as well as it could from something negative, it just has to be something significant that happened. A scene from a favorite childhood TV show, general associations with significant people from your youth, something minor that happened during a sad memory, etc. There just has to be some strong emotion connected to it and it could become a thing. But I'm not above the idea that some people just get the idea in their heads from a very early age, I just think that some significant memory, good or bad, can stimulate the brain in such a way that a person can develop a fetish without starting out with one. I really just think that fetishes can stem from a lot of different places. Hell, I'm pretty sure some of the fetishes I have are just because people in online circles associate them with other fetishes I already had.
  23. In real life, I prefer transparent or just a bit of color because it won't have the strong smell. In fiction, especially artwork, darker colors (maybe not that darkest one though) are my preference because they give more visual impact and such.
  24. All the time! Public bathrooms are gross (at least the men's/boy's ones) so I just tend to avoid them when I can. Why go into a gross bathroom when I can instead enjoy a nice wetting? Plus, if I'm in area I'm unfamiliar with, like a park or something, finding a bathroom tends to be hassle that I'd rather just avoid by using my pants instead. Not wanting to bother with restrooms due to those reason is actually one of the main reasons I started just being an open wetter around my friends.
  25. I'd assume it's either what @SpaceWonderer had already said, or it's just some instinctive gut reaction to the tension and pressure a full bladder makes.
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