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DrBorderline

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  1. In the grand multi-dimensional Venn Diagram that represents kink and fetish content, some overlaps between different interests are larger and some are smaller. Then all of them are further reduced by the overlap with people who have the ability to make such content, meaning the time and equipment and the energy and drive. That's why folks on this forum have to sift through media from all eras and regions to find wetting and diaper content like prospectors panning for gold (no pun intended) compared to more vanilla types who just want to see people try to fit their bits together.
  2. Not to get too paranoid survivalist on main, but I think these laws are just blatant power grabs by aspiring dictators. Doesn't matter if it's federal level, state level, or somebody on the local township board, there's always people who can't be trusted not to abuse power. It doesn't help that this lines up with a lot of theocratic christian nationalist talking points, either; I'd bet thirty dollars that the actual plan is not to prevent children from seeing illicit content, but to cultivate a list of adults who try to access it for the purposes of blackmail, harassment, or worse.
  3. Took Spanish in high school and haven't used much of it since. Tried to teach myself German and Italian in order to read some books I couldn't find English translations of, and at one point I tried to learn Klingon as well. None of them really panned out.
  4. The Wintermute story mode is an interesting and compelling narrative hamstrung by Hinterland (the developers) trying to shoehorn a linear gaming experience onto a survival sandbox. It made my best friend, who loves survival simulators and who was the one who introduced me to The Long Dark in the first place, swear off the entire game permanently. That was how poorly it was implemented. Fortunately they are doing better with the mini-quests in the Echoes From The Far Territory DLC. Another game that might be suitable for holds is 7 Days To Die, which my best friend also got me playing. It is a post apocalyptic survival simulator with a big focus on zombies, and one of the mechanics is exploring old ruined buildings for salvage to build better gear and supplies. A lot of zombies can and will ambush player characters in creative ways - the devs get more devious with every major update - and there have been times I was so startled by a sudden appearance of a Screamer or Spider Zombie that if I HAD been holding at the time, I probably would have had to stop playing in order to clean my chair up. (There is also the seven day Blood Moon / Horde Night event where the zombies swarm and you have to fight them off, but those rarely last very long no matter how hectic they are.)
  5. I've occasionally done holds while playing The Long Dark, with the rule that I can only get up to use the toilet once I find a toilet or outhouse in-game. (And if it's a flush toilet, draining the potable water from the tank, as that's an important resource in a survival simulator.) There are a number of regions with no such facilities but I've never gotten stuck in any of them long enough to have an accident. Yet.
  6. There's a couple of things on a couple of different metrics that irk me, for good or ill. No moral judgment attaches to any of this, of course. Different Strokes for Different Folks. In power dynamic play, I don't like it when the top berates, belittles, or otherwise dismisses the bottom. I know there are people who really get off on being told they screwed up or are inadequate, and that's great for them, but it really drags me down. Semi-related, I tune out very quickly when reading erotica that involves any sort of dystopian police state, even if the power structure enforces the kind of things I like. What can I say, my anti-authoritarianism is stronger than my fetish. In omo / omutsu content, I am averse to watching videos where the people in them are addressing the viewer / looking directly at the camera. I don't actually know what that's about but I think it's a false alarm from my instincts trying to keep this part of my life secret and then freaking out because it seems like somebody knows what I'm doing. And much as with DesperateJill, I don't like seeing semen all over the place either, but it's harder to articulate why that bothers me. It can't be for cleanliness or hygiene reasons, obviously, given my other kinks.
  7. Zip ties and those little luggage locks. Strong enough to secure a jeans zipper / buttonhole fly / belt loop arrangement, but weak enough to be destroyed easily in a genuine emergency and cheap enough that it's no major loss to do so.
  8. Haven't done it, but for some reason in the last three or four months I have started fantasizing about wetting during a road trip, with and without protection.
  9. There is a series of short stories on the Smashwords website by an author named Allister Remm, about a facility that churns out sex slaves via hypnosis and psychological conditioning. One of the tools the facility uses involves urethral inserts that act as remotely controlled sphincters; I don't specifically recall if they were used for forced retention or remote controlled wetting, more that it was primarily used to condition the implantees to ask permission for even basic bodily functions.
  10. Out of all the unrepressed memories I still have access to, the one that fits the bill and is chronologically the earliest would be the book How Do You Go To The Bathroom In Space? by ex-astronaut William R. Pogue. There were sections on waste management hardware in different spacecraft as well as spacesuits, and of course an easy solution for NASA to over engineer was the existing adult diaper. There were other things before that I know but none of them are clear or easy to articulate.
  11. "Machinima" was the technical term for using video games as settings and video characters as puppets for media, popularized by series like Red Versus Blue and Freeman's Mind among many others. I think it got copyrighted or trademarked or something, or was adopted as a company name and tainted by unscrupulous business practices. It takes less production resources than a live action set, but still depends on the presence of real actors to provide voice overs and proper character actions - which also means it needs scripting and storyboarding and other organizational tools used for such media. Though I suppose an improvised live VR chat environment would be a way to get around it, or at least minimizing it; even improv requires a certain minimum structure to keep from falling into complete chaos. (Vtubers use VR models in place of facecams when recording or livestreaming content, to use one example.)
  12. I have gone to great effort to make sure nobody knows about this in my other social circles, for reasons that most people here would understand. The level of secrecy involved is comparable to the work I put into hiding my survival gear and food caches. At the same time, I know that even the best opsec and infosec practices (operational security and information security, basically fancy ways of saying something is "need to know" for those not familiar with the abbreviations) can fail, so if somebody did ask if I wanted to get involved in something like that with them, my first thought would be that I had made a mistake someplace rather than the other party sharing a common interest.
  13. If you're looking for a physiological explanation, the most common is that the nerves for genitalia and the nerves for the urinary tract are in close proximity so it is easy to get signals crossed, but there are plenty of kinks out there that don't have any such correspondence. Like so many things in life it boils down to individual reasons that vary with individual experiences. In my own case I think it got tangled up in power dynamics, like a lot of my other kinks, which has happened to many other people as well. Some folks try to recreate a scenario out of their control, but this time calling the shots, which is often the case for people who had accidents growing up. For others, having an accident in a (relatively) consequence free environment is a way of recovering agency they didn't have when they were younger and held to arbitrary or unrealistic standards. After more than a decade of introspection I think I fall in the latter category, and of course there are even more potential scenarios to explore; the dichotomy between those two extremes simply makes it easy to explain.
  14. There are a lot of different factors in play, from physiological like bladder elasticity and abdominal volume for the bladder to expand into (or not if there's other organs in the way) to endocrine / hormonal effects that change the settings on the body's machinery, to environmental in the form of temperature and even air pressure, psychological / neurological in the case of nerve signals to and from the bladder and sphincters, and of course pharmacological impact like diuretic medication (some blood pressure meds and HRT are at the top of a LONG list). Trying to categorize, let alone track and measure, all of these factors for a single person would be a staggering scientific challenge even before doing anything with the data - we're likely to get a Unified Field Theory of physics before we get a Unified Theory of Continence. Though that DOES give me an idea for a story....
  15. The holidays have run me ragged even without my living space being filled to Maximum Safe Occupancy levels. So much to do and so much of it relies on waiting for other people whose schedules are in turn held up by holidays or the weather.
  16. As much as I like hypnosis and mind control, I don't have any readily accessible resources that might be useful for your purposes; over the last eighteen months I've been devoting an increasing amount of time and attention toward the topic of hypnotherapy in general, and that has eclipsed the fetish angle substantially. I can, however, point you towards more generalized resources that, while not an instant hypno wetting fetish kit, might aid you in building something for your own purposes from scratch: Hypnotism by G H Estabrooks is a general overview of the field first published in 1943, so some of the conventions and terminology are out of date, but it's a suitable starting point. Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins is a DIY starter guide to Neuro Linguistic Programming, which overlaps with hypnosis mostly in praxis as a form of indirect induction but can produce similar results. The Pregnant Man And Other Cases From A Hypnotherapist's Couch by Deirdre Barrett is more a collection of case studies than an instructional guide, but several of them do demonstrate how dramatic the impact of hypnosis can be on a suitable subject, especially the titular patient. Some of these can be found digitally, others can likely be ordered from physical bookstores.
  17. I was following along in my head right up to where the parentheses were taken care of, but then assumed that the order of operations mandated that multiplication came first, so 10 - 5 = 5, multiplied by 5 equals 25, then divide the original 25 by that to get 1. The same result as the proper process but I may have gotten there via three left turns instead of one right turn, if you know what I mean. On a broader level I've always thought these kinds of viral things were an indictment of the educational system; either people weren't taught in the first place, or the school prioritized teaching styles that made favorable grades (and with them school funding) rather than actually making sure the students could retain or use the material.
  18. Sorry for the long delay in replying, the holidays have been a train wreck for me on multiple levels. The best example I can think of right now is actually the first one I ever read and expanded my horizons in this way. It was an erotica story on the textfiles.com website featuring a woman who always wore catsuits or leotards. She described to the narrator (her new paramour) how she would lock the catsuit on before leaving her home and also lock the crotch zipper shut after putting a vibrating egg inside; because she couldn't orgasm from just vaginal stimulation, by the end of the day she would always be flustered and distracted proportional to the speed / power of the vibrator. Because the catsuit could be covered with other clothing easily enough, she could do this in public on a regular basis; the question of what she would have to do if she had to use the bathroom after locking herself up was never addressed but my imagination filled in the gaps easily enough. Another story, also on textfiles.com, featured a woman whose metalworker husband crafted a set of metal gloves / gauntlets that perfectly conformed to her hands while being completely inflexible, and thin enough to be concealed under elbow length opera gloves. The story features a romantic evening out where the husband is a perfect gentleman with the holding of doors, pulling out his wife's chair, and taking care of almost everything else to conceal that his wife physically can't interact with the environment in any way that involves grasping objects. While watching a movie, he notices his wife is squirming a lot and it turns out she needs to use the bathroom but cannot physically remove her own clothing, and they can't both be seen in the same public restroom, so it appears that she is being set up for either a very public wetting accident or a wet ride home in the car until the husband improvises a solution. In terms of practical activities within the scope of what most people have access to as far as tools and materials? There are four ways to go: Belts and collars, wrists and ankles, clothing layers, or specialty items. Belts and Collars: These are the elements that apply themselves most directly to Omo / ABDL overlap, by making it impossible for the wearer to undress themselves sufficiently to use a toilet. Collars more specifically are applied to clothing like bodysuits and leotards that are all one piece of fabric that can only be removed a certain way, and are harder to conceal without the use of heavy coats or turtleneck shirts, but by the same token may simply be accepted at face value as part of a larger punk / goth / alternative fashion style. Belts are more varied but still work primarily on long or short pants / trousers that A. incorporate built-in belt loops, and B. cover the crotch region to prevent them from being pulled down / aside for normal bathroom use. Belt materials can be rope, metal chain, metal cable, or even non structurally robust materials like yarn or twine, useful in BDSM style power exchanges as proof that the wearer did not violate the keyholder's restrictions, but easily cut through in an emergency. In most situations all of these can be concealed by a more conventional belt on top. Locks can be padlocks, combination locks, bike locks, or in the case of string or twine elaborate bows and knots that can't be easily reproduced by the wearer. Consider also the logistics of a luggage lock that combines a three digit combination with a master override key, or applying the lock to the back of the waist instead of the front or side; getting a key into a keyhole one cannot see is difficult without practice or training, but inputting a numerical or letter combination without being able to see the dial requires above average flexibility and multiple mirrors. Wrists and Ankles: The latter largely consists of locking on shoes, socks, or stockings, particularly if one or both partners has a kink / fetish / paraphelia for a specific type of footwear, clothing, or material. Ankle cuffs worn above normal footwear, where they would be concealed by the ends of jeans, cargo pants, etc. can still be used as anchor points for string, rope, chain, or other materials that go into or around footwear to prevents its removal. For public wear, transparent fishing line can and has been used. This is often done when the footwear is uncomfortable to wear for long spans of time, as in the case of high heels. Wrist cuffs are more commonly associated with conventional bondage set ups, but can be used to secure gloves of varying types for public wear. There are, of course, dedicated bondage mittens that completely remove the ability of the wearer to use their hands, which can be an exciting head game all by itself as the wearer is free to move about the environment but unable to interact with it in any but the most crude and simple ways. (Including working the buttons / zipper / fabric of the clothing they need to correctly use the toilet.) Clothing Layers: This is simply combining clothing in such a way that it takes a disproportionate amount of time and effort to remove it. As applied to Omo / ABDL overlap, the simplest clothing combination in this context refers to wearing a leotard over tights or leggings - while the leotard's crotch can be manipulated to allow urination if there is nothing underneath, wearing tights precludes this solution because the leotard must be removed first. This can also mean wearing tights beneath conventional outerwear simply to add another obstacle between the wearer and the bathroom; multiple layers of such clothing articles can make every bathroom visit a marathon. In a broader sense, fabrics can be layered multiple times in such a way that they restrict movement in general; this is not enough to be noticed by an outside observer, but the additional layers of fabric around joints can mean that almost any motion (including ordinary walking) takes more effort than it normally would. Of course, the more layers of clothing a person wears, the more body heat is insulated, so this is most practical during the winter months and potentially dangerous during hot summers. Specialty Items: There are three items that particularly lend themselves to locking clothing / Omorashi / ABDL play. These are chastity belts, lockable plastic pants, and diaper lock belts. Chastity belts are more or less self explanatory, and depending on the design can make proper use of a bathroom very difficult even if they are functioning properly. (I vaguely remember reading a story where a woman was in denial about her weak bladder until she was challenged to wear a chastity belt for a week, and being unable to properly hold herself, cross her legs, or otherwise use anything but her own bladder strength to hold her pee meant she was functionally incontinent until the keyholder removed the belt; she went from two or three accidents a month to at least one accident each day. Can't remember title, author, website, or any other details unfortunately.) Lockable plastic pants are essentially conventional plastic pants used as an extra layer of security with diapers, especially cloth and fabric ones without built in waterproof outer layers, but they have either built in chains and locks or belt loops built into the waist and leg holes to secure them further against tampering. These can also be made of rubber, vinyl, or some other waterproof material, and depending on the noise factor may be viable for public play. Finally there are dedicated diaper lock belts, based on institutional medical wear that do exactly what the name implies; they go around the waist and between the legs to prevent the wearer from removing what is underneath. Typically they are too bulky for public use, with the possible exception of underneath a dress or skirt of sufficient dimensions to conceal it completely. They can of course be used without diapers at all. As a final thought, there is a variation of locking clothing onto a person, and that is sewing them into the garments they wear. This features in the backstory of the titular Wendy in Wendy's Week In Diapers, as her overprotective mother did not trust her daughter to not get pregnant on a date and made it impossible for her to disrobe until she came home and had the seams ripped out. (Thereby forging the connection in Wendy's brain between diapers, sex, and bondage. Whoops!) This is much more time consuming and resource intensive to set up, and more time consuming to get out of even with the right tools, and almost requires the use of diapers during long public outings: Locks can be picked, bypassed, or just plain broken apart in an emergency, but somebody who has to tear apart their clothing in order to use a toilet may end up damaging it to the point where it can no longer be worn, or no longer covers what needs to be covered in order to avoid charges of indecent exposure. Walking around with a large wet patch might seem like the lesser of two evils in comparison. Hope some of that is useful, and Happy New Year!
  19. I have only ever had one serious relationship. It did not work out, partly because of geographical limitations and work / school obligations making it impossible for either of us to relocate or commute, but mostly because we needed different things from the relationship and we were not in a place where we could each give those things to another person. We broke up, got back together again later, and then broke up again. It always sucked to break things off. We were friends before that, and we are still best friends long after. In that we were extremely fortunate.
  20. I think I'll throw my vote behind one of the Ur-Classics: It's A Wonderful Life.
  21. There are so many video embeds in this thread that I actually can't get any of them to load. Not sure if that's a problem on my end or not.
  22. There's a sort of paradox involved for me. There's a simultaneous violation of social rules which is a form of power, in tandem with catharsis from not having to abide by those rules. I don't know how to explain it clearly without writing a psychology PhD thesis.
  23. A mix of factors, but there's definitely some sort of synergistic tension between deliberately violating social taboos while also feeling shame for not upholding social norms. It's complicated.
  24. The top row looks good to me. The more fabric there is, the more the wet spot can spread.
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