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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Cottonjenny in The smell, love it or hate it?   
    I like it from the point that can be humiliating if someone else notice it. My shoes sometimes smell like pee, because they are hard to clean and eventually they start to smell. In the presence of people and lack of other strong odours, sometimes someone notice that smell. They usually can't tell that my shoes are causing that smell, but it is still humiliating that they notice it and might suspect me as a cause of smell.
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    CarmenCD reacted to ridcully in Wife fright wetting in public   
    So, my wife is not into this kink in anyway that I am aware of, and I've been with her for many years... I spoken on here about her handful of accidents over the years, 90% of them alcohol related, and one due to just trying to hold on for too long (She's a teacher and normally has 'teacher bladder' syndrome where she can go for a whole day without peeing, but on one occasion, was caught out and didn't make it...)
    So it is a very rare occasion that my wife would normally even get close to losing control and wetting herself.
    She teaches Drama, and so we go into London often to see shows in the West End so that she can keep across what's current in theatre. Last weekend we went to see "Stranger Things - the stage show". Ordinarily she is not a fan of anything scary, or that might make her jump (She is on a hair trigger for that sort of thing, and will squeal and jump quite easily..) but because the staging of this show has been highly praised, she decided to brave it and go and see for herself.
    We arrived at the theatre in good time, and so went to the bar beforehand. She had a large glass of wine, which she would normally before a show, but this was more to steady her nerves on this occasion.
    I won't give away any spoilers or plot points here, just in case anyone else here was planning on seeing it (Do, if you can..it's good!) but during the first act, after tension has been building for a while, something happens that makes the whole theatre jump and scream together. My wife, as usual did just that.
    This time however, just after everyone had calmed down, I heard my wife swear under her breath. I leaned over to her and whispered if she was ok. She leaned back and whispered into my ear "I'm pissing myself" 
    My heart rate rose (as did other parts of my anatomy...!) and I looked down into her lap. In the darkness of the theatre I couldn't see anything at all, so I whispered. "Was it just a little bit? I can't see anything" She leaned back again and said "I'm still pissing...now I've started I can't stop...I've totally lost it"...
    Not long afterwards we reached the interval. As soon as the lights started to come up in the auditorium, my wife almost leapt out of her seat to get to the toilets to deal with the damage. As she passed in front of me, I saw the fact that the whole of her backside was soaked, and it was quite obvious in the light blue jeans she was wearing... I was by now struggling to hide my growing erection!..
    About ten minutes later she came back from the toilets, now with her jumper tied around her waist. She was bright red and avoiding eye contact with everyone. She had also got another glass of wine in her hand and was shakily drinking it! I asked her if she'd managed to sort everything out.. She sheepishly admitted that she hadn't arrived at the toilets first, and had had to queue with some other women. The woman behind her in the queue and asked if she was ok, as she had obviously seen the evidence of what had happened. My wife said she was fine, but needed to try and dry things out. At this point, much to my wife's embarrassment, a conversation struck up around her. with several women admitting that they had come close to accidents, and commiserating with her for not being able to hold on. It was one of these women who suggested to my wife to use her jumper as cover for what had happened, and also to take a handful of paper towels back to her seat, so that she didn't have to sit on a completely soaked chair for the rest of the show.
    She finished the rest of her wine in silence, silently fuming with herself that she had had such an accident, and also too embarrassed to look up in case anyone around us had seen her jeans before being hidden. 
    The lights then went down for the second act, he last words to me as the did were a whispered "My seat is soaking..it's all cold...!"
    I struggled to concentrate much on the second act, as I was playing the situation over in my mind constantly, and wishing that I had somewhere private to go to relieve some of the tension that was building up inside of me! 
    Mid way through the second act, there is another point where something happens that makes everyone jump and squeal. (It's that sort of show!) My wife, again joined in with this reaction. This time I looked around at her, just to see how she was. I fully expected her to be looking sheepish at the memory of the first half. What I didn't expect was her look of shock, and then for her to lean into me and whisper "I've f**king done it again!" 
    Now my mouth went dry, and I whispered back "What? the same as last time, or just a little bit this time?" She leaned in and said "It's all come out...I'm soaked again.." She then paused and said "Well at least my seat's warm now!"
    The rest of the show passed by in a blur for me now.. There were some other scares, and I checked with my wife each time, but by now she had clearly emptied her bladder, because there were no further accidents. 
    At the end of the show, when the lights came up, she asked if we could hang back and wait for everyone else to leave. We did that, and when we were the last people in the auditorium, and the usherettes were coming around with bags to clear up litter, she stood up. This time the wet patch was clearly around her crotch and had soaked down between her thighs too. There was no hiding what she had done. As an usherette passed by in the row in front, my wife sheepishly said "You will probably need to dry that seat out before it can me used again. I had a little accident" The usherette, who was probably 18 or 19, around the age my wife teaches, looked at my wife, looked down at her piss soaked jeans and said "Don't worry madam, thank you for telling us. It's not the first time we have had to sort that out, and I'm sure you won't be the last one." And then in a kicker that twisted the knife, she said "It's usually the teenaged girls though. You are a bit older than who normally wets their pants!"
    We then left the theatre, my wife doing a walk of shame that even her jumper couldn't fully cover. 
    She insisted on going to s bar, because she was very grumpy and wanted to drown her sorrows. I was dispatched to get the drinks, while she went to the ladies to try and dry herself a little for our drive home. 
    About an hour or so later, she was quite drunk. I by now had plucked up the courage to ask her about what had happened, and she was drunk enough to talk about it.
    She said that there had been a moment in the first act, where something had happened (no spoilers here!) and she'd jumped a little. She said at that point she had felt like she was about to lose control, but had clamped her thighs and pussy muscles together and regained her composure. She didn't think anything of it, because she normally has complete control over her bladder when sober, and so dismissed the incident from her mind. Then the first big jump had happened, and she said as she was squealing and her heart was racing, it took a couple of seconds for her to realise what was going on. She said that she felt her knickers getting warm and wet, and couldn't understand what that was (for a split second she even wondered if she had suddenly started her period) but then as the wetness spread and continued to flow, she had realised what she was doing, and could do nothing to stop the flow. She said that in the second half, when the big jump happened, she didn't notice the wetness, as her knickers had never been dry, but it was the warmth that made her realise that she had leaked again.
    I was struggling to stay focussed and act nonchalant, but then in her drunkenness, she leaned in to me and admitted that as soon as she had felt the hot gush in her knickers, she had briefly regained control, but then had decided that as she was so wet anyway, and as it was inevitable that there would be lots of other little leaks, she decided to get it over with, and just let go in her pants there and then! 
    I was slightly shocked by this admission. She laughed at my expression, and just said "Well. It could have been worse! I could have shit myself as well!.. I did that when I saw Nightmare on Elm Street when I was 18!" (Way before I knew her...more's the pity!") 
    I was then sent off to get her another drink from the bar, and on shakey legs I managed to get there and back without spilling much!..
    By the time we left the bar, she was quite drunk. It was colder, so she put her jumper back on, and even though her jeans hadn't fully dried out, and the wet stain was still visible all over her backside and between her legs, by now she didn't care who was looking at her and guessing what she had done.
    We had a walk back to the car, and it was quiet chilly. We hadn't gone far before the cold had an effect in her bladder, and she started to complain that she needed to pee. 
    With my heart in my mouth, I 'joked' "Well, you've peed yourself twice tonight, why would another time be a problem?!" and I laughed, to try and hide my suggestion behind a completely-not-serious-at-all-honest joke type comment. 
    She laughed as well, and told me to f**k off..her standard response if I'm making a joke at her expense.. and we carried on walking toward the car..
    A few moments later though, she stopped and said "You know what...what the hell..." She spread her legs apart a little, and then in the street lights I saw her jeans start to glisten and a large wet patch re spread around her crotch. I nearly had a heart attack!
    Several passersby turned to look at what she was doing, the puddle leaking at her feet making it quite obvious what was happening. A couple of girls stopped and looked with their mouths open and then scurried off laughing..
    After about a couple of minutes she looked at me and said "Right, if you tell anyone that I pissed myself three times in one night, I'll kill you." and then we continued our walk back to the car!...
    So..that was my Saturday night...I think I will be reliving that evening many, many times over in my mind!
     
     
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    CarmenCD reacted to wetgarth in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    I have some days when I just seem to need to pee of England!. I can visit the toilet and do a meaningful pee moments before I set off. Within less than 30mins I am despirate to pee again and the urge comes on suddenly and intensley. When I do find somewhere to pee, it not a little dribble either but usually a bladder full. No rhyme or reason to it. Other times I have driven hundreds of miles without needing to stop. I'm  ususally fairley conciuos about not drinking too much tea/coffee etc before a drive as well.
    It's a standing joke in our house - how long will I last on this journey before a necessary stop !
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    CarmenCD reacted to elboss903 in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    Yes, the same thing happens to me many times when I go on a car trip.
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    CarmenCD reacted to Mary127 in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    This happens to me too. If I’m ever in the car with someone else and the drive is longer than 20-30 minutes, it’s a little embarrassing because even if I just peed, my weak bladder and the vibrations of the car give me the the urge again.
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    CarmenCD reacted to GotaSecret in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    I've never had an accident while driving, but I always get desperate quickly when in a car. And it's a very insistent, almost painful, bladder fullness so I can't just ignore it either. From what I can remember it's always been like this for me, since I was a child.
    My theory (like you mention as well) it that it’s something to do with the vibrations of the car, and maybe also the way you sit in a car that does something to my pelvic floor. Maybe tense muscles or something. It doesn't fully explain why my bladder seems to fill so quickly though, because it's not just a feeling of having to go, I actually pee a lot too.
    You also write that you always pee before starting the drive, and I've actually been thinking if that has something to do with it. Like with rapid desperation where you drink and pee more often so that the kidneys start producing more urine. Those "just in case" pees might mess with the urge to pee maybe? I still don't think that's the whole explanation, but it's something I've thought about because I also always pee before going somewhere by car.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from slothmallow in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    The other thread about car wetting accidents get me thinking and I decided to ask how common is my problem, I experiencing it for most of my life. It is not about wettings, but about desperation caused by car motion.
    Vibrations in a car when driving are doing "miracles" on my bladder. I often have to stop and pee only minutes after I left the parking lot. And I always pee before I leave the apartment or wherever I am.  Not that I left with a full bladder. I often have to look for a gas station or a mall after I go somewhere with the car, because I get so desperate so quickly, that I would have a wetting accident, if I don't stop and pee. And it is not just a spurt, I have to pee a lot. Luckily there is a gas station near my apartment and I can stop there when I start the journey from home, but when somewhere else, sometimes can be a challenge finding a place to pee in a hurry. And it is embarrassing when I'm not alone in a car. We just left and I'm already looking for a bathroom. It is not happening every time, but often enough to be a problem. Especially if I drank or eaten one of daily meals in last hour.
    It is strange that bus ride doesn't have the same effect on my bladder. In a taxi or when someone else is driving happens too, but not that often then when I'm driving and it is easier to hold it for a while in that situation.
    Anyone else have the same problem?
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Marco in Do people notice?   
    Most people won't notice. It also depends where are you. If people are waiting for something and are bored, the unusual behaviour of other is much more likely to be noticed than when not. And crossing your legs is not that strange anyway. Until you don't pee your pants after that, will mostly go unnoticed. Women also cross their legs on many occasions anyway. If men do it, is more noticeable, I think.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Bismiris in Wetting yourself while driving   
    It happened to me while driving on a highway when I couldn't stop beside the road, but I don't recommend you do it on purpose. It is hard to clean the car. I had to pay for professional cleaning to get stains and smell out.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from WetCathy in Urge to pee after you start driving   
    The other thread about car wetting accidents get me thinking and I decided to ask how common is my problem, I experiencing it for most of my life. It is not about wettings, but about desperation caused by car motion.
    Vibrations in a car when driving are doing "miracles" on my bladder. I often have to stop and pee only minutes after I left the parking lot. And I always pee before I leave the apartment or wherever I am.  Not that I left with a full bladder. I often have to look for a gas station or a mall after I go somewhere with the car, because I get so desperate so quickly, that I would have a wetting accident, if I don't stop and pee. And it is not just a spurt, I have to pee a lot. Luckily there is a gas station near my apartment and I can stop there when I start the journey from home, but when somewhere else, sometimes can be a challenge finding a place to pee in a hurry. And it is embarrassing when I'm not alone in a car. We just left and I'm already looking for a bathroom. It is not happening every time, but often enough to be a problem. Especially if I drank or eaten one of daily meals in last hour.
    It is strange that bus ride doesn't have the same effect on my bladder. In a taxi or when someone else is driving happens too, but not that often then when I'm driving and it is easier to hold it for a while in that situation.
    Anyone else have the same problem?
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from j2319 in Who else likes to sit in their puddle?   
    I don't really like sitting in a puddle, but I have to do it sometimes. Usually when I'm playing omo games during work from home and I loose it in the middle of the Zoom meeting or when I set myself up for tasks like "You have to sit at the desk until xy hour" or something similar. I must admit that it is kind of sexy and humiliating at the same time.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from j2319 in Diapers and work trip   
    I was not a bedwetter as a kid or later, except occasionally. Maybe a couple of times per year and usually not even a flood, often just a big leak.  Protective sheets were more than enough to keep the bed safe. But I stopped wearing diapers during sleep quite late, when I was more than 5 y/o. I had problems with bedwetting until that age. And waking up in the middle of the night to pee was a common occurrence most of my life.  My bladder just won't sleep always when I'm sleeping. More frequent bedwetting appeared only in my early 40s and gradually became so frequent that I started wearing diapers. Basically I stopped waking up when I had to pee. I don't know why and medical examinations didn't revealed anything particular that would help. It just became a new reality for me.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from WetNick88 in The smell, love it or hate it?   
    I like it from the point that can be humiliating if someone else notice it. My shoes sometimes smell like pee, because they are hard to clean and eventually they start to smell. In the presence of people and lack of other strong odours, sometimes someone notice that smell. They usually can't tell that my shoes are causing that smell, but it is still humiliating that they notice it and might suspect me as a cause of smell.
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    CarmenCD reacted to Kat_ie in make me the hardest outfit to get out of   
    I should go buy one of these... I've never thought of about the omorashi aspect of this
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    CarmenCD reacted to Luminous in How to incorporate omorashi into sex.   
    So one thing me and my partner both like.: One person is sitting. The other straddles them, facing them (so you’re in their lap, facing them). The person sitting on top just lets go and wets themselves, but it ends up wetting both of you.  After that, the person on top can grind against the other.
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    CarmenCD reacted to slothmallow in Diapers and work trip   
    Sorry that you are going through this. ❤️ Like everyone else, I think option 3 is the best. Could you bring some extra plastic bags like @j2319 does, hide them in the plastic bag, then put them in the bathroom trash so that no one can tell what's in there? Or, is that too suspicious? If that feels too suspicious, I like the idea of keeping them on and then disposing of them in the public bathroom. I hope that everything goes well for you! ❤️ 
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    CarmenCD reacted to John_John in Diapers and work trip   
    Option 3 but do this: have a separate bag for dirty clothes and just put them there until you can dispose of them
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    CarmenCD reacted to j2319 in Diapers and work trip   
    I can see that being a tricky issue with carrying only a small bag as you leave.  We usually are leaving at separate times for breakfast or to head down to the lobby to leave for the job site.  So a few times I have just walked out with the plastic page.  You can't see it in it so it just looks like normal trash.  And then toss it in the first trash can I come across.  Also it it was the last day of our stay I have put it in the trash can in the room usually trying to get it to the bottom or at least under the top layer.  
    Sorry you are wetting so frequently .  Growing up I was bedwetting very frequently.  Like in elementary school it was just about every night.  In middle school I was wetting my bed 3-4 nights a week and in high school I was still peeing in my bed 1-3 times a week with it less by senior year. 
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from slothmallow in Diapers and work trip   
    I have a dilema and need an advice. I wear diapers (overnight pull-ups) on a daily basis during sleep and I pee in them often. Now, I have to go with 3 co-workers abroad for a few days and company booked us 2 rooms with separate beds in a hotel. They don't know about my bladder problems and I don't really want them to know about that either, but I'm afraid I won't be able to hide a diaper from a co-worker and he will notice it. 
    I basically have 4 options:
    1. Ask my boss for a separate room and I will have to explain her why and she will have to tell that to her boss, to approve it. And they will probably book just one extra room for me, what will raise questions among co-workers.
    2. I can ask co-worker that he will keep a secret, but I'm not sure if he will. He is pretty loose lips.
    3.Wearing a diaper under a comfy pyjama and hope he will not notice or look in the trash where I will put used diaper in the morning.
    4. Don't wear diapers and hope I won't have a wetting accident in my sleep.
    Last two I'm afraid they will not work. More often than not, I pee in my sleep nowadays and we will be in the hotel for 2 nights. If I wet the bed, it will be very embarrassing. Him not noticing a diaper in the trash, is also questionable, because I don't know what kind of trash can will be in the bathroom for sanitary products. Can be a very small one or a normal trash can with open top.
    What would you do in my case?
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Diaperdaddy84 in Diapers and work trip   
    I have a dilema and need an advice. I wear diapers (overnight pull-ups) on a daily basis during sleep and I pee in them often. Now, I have to go with 3 co-workers abroad for a few days and company booked us 2 rooms with separate beds in a hotel. They don't know about my bladder problems and I don't really want them to know about that either, but I'm afraid I won't be able to hide a diaper from a co-worker and he will notice it. 
    I basically have 4 options:
    1. Ask my boss for a separate room and I will have to explain her why and she will have to tell that to her boss, to approve it. And they will probably book just one extra room for me, what will raise questions among co-workers.
    2. I can ask co-worker that he will keep a secret, but I'm not sure if he will. He is pretty loose lips.
    3.Wearing a diaper under a comfy pyjama and hope he will not notice or look in the trash where I will put used diaper in the morning.
    4. Don't wear diapers and hope I won't have a wetting accident in my sleep.
    Last two I'm afraid they will not work. More often than not, I pee in my sleep nowadays and we will be in the hotel for 2 nights. If I wet the bed, it will be very embarrassing. Him not noticing a diaper in the trash, is also questionable, because I don't know what kind of trash can will be in the bathroom for sanitary products. Can be a very small one or a normal trash can with open top.
    What would you do in my case?
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from j2319 in Diapers and work trip   
    @j2319
    Great advice. Thank you. But in my case, I can't get rid of wet diaper as a trash outside of the hotel. When I will leave the hotel, I will only have laptop bag with me and it is not big enough to conceal wet diaper in it. So, I have to get rid of the diaper in the hotel.
    You are lucky to pee in sleep only a few time per months. It happens to me 2-3 times per week. 
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    CarmenCD reacted to j2319 in Diapers and work trip   
    I have a for real bedwetting problem still too.  I pee my bed a few times a month (most recent was last night) and I have to travel for work sometimes.  I often have to share a room with a co worker.  So here is how I handle it.  
    Since I do not flood the bed when I bedwet I can use the boys GoodNites XL and I pack them in my backpack.  When it comes time to go to bed I go into the bathroom with my backpack since it has all my stuff and I brush my teeth and do normal getting ready for bed stuff.  It is then when I put on my GoodNites .  I wear sport boxerbriefs over them like under armour and then loose shorts or trackies over them.  A large T completes my stealth mode of wearing a GoodNites without my co worker ever knowing.  
    In the morning thankfully most of the times I am dry and it is just a matter of getting out of the GoodNites in the bathroom after getting up and putting it and the boxerbriefs back into my backpack.  I take a shower and get dressed like normal.  If I happend to pee the GoodNites during the night then the only difference is that I put the wet Goodnites into a plastic grocery bag that I have packed in my backpack and stuff it back into the backpack.  Then shower and get ready like normal.  I try to dispose of it in an outside trash can somewhere.  It looks like I ma just tossing some regular trash.  
    Hope this give you an idea of how to handle it and to let you know you are not alone in goign stealth mode with bedwetting on work trips. 
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from j2319 in Diapers and work trip   
    I have a dilema and need an advice. I wear diapers (overnight pull-ups) on a daily basis during sleep and I pee in them often. Now, I have to go with 3 co-workers abroad for a few days and company booked us 2 rooms with separate beds in a hotel. They don't know about my bladder problems and I don't really want them to know about that either, but I'm afraid I won't be able to hide a diaper from a co-worker and he will notice it. 
    I basically have 4 options:
    1. Ask my boss for a separate room and I will have to explain her why and she will have to tell that to her boss, to approve it. And they will probably book just one extra room for me, what will raise questions among co-workers.
    2. I can ask co-worker that he will keep a secret, but I'm not sure if he will. He is pretty loose lips.
    3.Wearing a diaper under a comfy pyjama and hope he will not notice or look in the trash where I will put used diaper in the morning.
    4. Don't wear diapers and hope I won't have a wetting accident in my sleep.
    Last two I'm afraid they will not work. More often than not, I pee in my sleep nowadays and we will be in the hotel for 2 nights. If I wet the bed, it will be very embarrassing. Him not noticing a diaper in the trash, is also questionable, because I don't know what kind of trash can will be in the bathroom for sanitary products. Can be a very small one or a normal trash can with open top.
    What would you do in my case?
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    CarmenCD reacted to yellowsailgg in Diapers and work trip   
    option 3 in my opinion because you could probably get away with wearing an adult pullup underneath all day.  it's better than hoping you won't wet and if you really have to you can keep wearing and wait until you leave the room and try to throw away in a public bathroom or maybe take it off and hide it in some clothes  or a seal-able bag then into your luggage.
     
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from moiamigo in make me the hardest outfit to get out of   
    You should wear long tight women's dress with a zipper on the back. It is hard to get out of, especially if you can't grab a zipper and you need someone's help or a "tool" to do it. Under the dress, wear women's body suit, pantyhose and over them full body pantyhose.  If you have a corset, put that on also.
    Other good option instead of a dress is a shirt with lots of buttons and tight nonstrechy women's jeans that are hard to take of.
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