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CarmenCD

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    CarmenCD got a reaction from slothmallow in Last time you wet yourself?   
    Yesterday. I was crossdressed and waiting for a bus to go home after clubbing with my friends. I was very desperate after I left the club already desperate and would not make it home without peeing. I decided to pee down my legs on the grass next to bus station. I could probably hold it for a few minutes more, I think, but would then definitely lose it on the bus and that is something I rather avoid it when possible. It's very humiliating and not nice to do anyway. 
    No one noticed when I was peeing, not even my friend standing next to me. I was wearing a skirt and 8den skin colour pantyhose. It felt so good when pee was running down my legs and the pressure in my bladder went away. When I didn't want to sit down when we entered the bus, he asked if my panties are wet again.  He knows me and my bladder problems. I didn't deny and he didn't ask more questions.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from white_cream in Preferred Clothes When Wetting?   
    My favourite are panties, pantyhose and a skirt. It feels best and it's less obvious when i do it in public. When I'm wearing pants, I prefer tight pants, like skinny jeans or some other tight women's pants.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from env in How to have legit accidents   
    Try wearing diapers all the time at home and pee in them every time you feel the need to pee. You do the same during sleep. If you wake up, just let it go and go back to sleep, don't bother changing the diaper. And don't wait and hold it, just let it go whenever you fell the need to pee. This way you will get used to peeing right away after you get the urge to pee and peeing in your diaper. Eventually you should get so used to doing that, it will became natural for you to do that. Basically you will try to unlearn to hold pee when you're wearing the diaper.
    At least this is my experience. I started wearing diapers when sleeping, because I had occasional bed wettings and I hated cleaning the bed. Now I pee in the diaper when sleeping almost every night and rarely wake up when I have to pee. I believe I got used to this and my brain don't even bother to wake me up to pee. I can still hold pee when I’m awake. 
    Just a warning. Later learning back to hold pee over night can be a problem. I tried and failed. But I have a genuine problem holding over night anyway. Before I usually woke up to pee in the middle of the night, now I don't wake up when desperate. But maybe that's just me and my weak bladder.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Holdit in do i need to wear underwear while wearing diapers?   
    No. Diapers are your underwear. 
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    CarmenCD reacted to TVGuy in A funny thing happened while filming for HD Wetting   
    Just recently we wrapped up another shoot for HD Wetting.  Things went fairly well, but there was one moment that was a bit funny that I thought I would share with you.
    For those of you who are familiar with HD Wetting, you may remember our model Sosha.  Sosha is still involved with HD Wetting, but has been helping out behind the scenes lately as a production assistant. 
    For this shoot we were filming at a house located in a forested area.  The property was fairly private, though there were a few other homes in the vicinity, there were no neighbors super close by.  We had been filming indoors all day, but were just about to move outside for a handful of scenes.  As the models, the rest of the production crew, and myself wrapped up the indoor scenes Sosha went outside to start prepping for what was next.  She quickly returned, however, eyes huge with fright.
    "I think there is a wolf outside!" she stated, clearly scared.
    "A wolf?" I asked, a bit skeptical.  There are only a few wolves known to be in the entire state, and none of those were anywhere remotely close to where we were currently filming.

    "Well, something in the bushes right out there howled like a wolf," stated Sosha.
    At this point I was pretty sure she just heard a neighbor's dog howling, so I asked, "Are you sure it wasn't a dog?"
    "I've never heard a dog howl like that," she answered.

    With Sosha following behind me I went outside to investigate.  I peered into the bushes where the howling supposedly came from, but didn't see anything, so I moved closer to investigate.  Just as I started walking towards the bushes I heard a rooster crow in the distance.  Focused on finding the "wolf," the sound of the rooster barely registered with me.  But Sosha, however, jumped at the sound and cried out, "There it is again!"

    "That was the howling that you thought was a wolf?" I asked.
    "Yes," she said, nodding vigorously.

    "That's a rooster," I said, trying not to laugh.
    "Oh," she responded, "Well, I knew it wasn't a dog!  You can't expect me to know these things, I didn't grow up out in the country or work on a ranch like you.  I was raised in the city."

    So... There was no wolf, and the rest of the shoot went on, uneventful.  It was just a little funny, so I thought you might all enjoy it.
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    CarmenCD reacted to megaLOmess in Gender Euphoria   
    So recently I have finally been accepting myself as transfem. Today I had one of the most gender affirming moments. I went out in Shorttalls, kneehigh 6in platforms, and a D-cup breast plate. I've been going out more and more as myself.
        I went to the mall to buy a new bag, TJ Maxx for a belt and outfits. And, finally I went to Dollar Tree for caffeine, snacks, and blu rays. As I was leaving Dollar Tree a woman held the door for me. I said, "thank you." In my saddly still deepish voice. 
         They then responded with, "you're welcome m'am." 
          I was silence out of shock and giddiness from the situation. It just made my day and wanted to share.
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    CarmenCD reacted to TVGuy in The US Supreme Court   
    For those of you who have been following the recent decisions of the US supreme court, I thought it might be nice to have a topic where people could vent, post questions, or share concerns.
    I, for one, am fearful that this court could herald nothing short of the collapse of the United States.  This is based on how the court may rule in West Virginia v. EPA.
    If you don't follow US politics, or are unaware of what is going on or how things work, here is a basic rundown of whats been happening and where we are at right now:

    The US has three branches of government- There is the executive branch, which is the president and agencies under control of the president, the legislative branch which is made up of the house and senate, or collectively known as congress, and the judicial branch, which is our system of courts which, at the top, is the US supreme court.
    It is the role of congress to legislate, to come up with possible new laws.  Both the Senate and the House have to pass a possible new law, or bill, to send it to the executive branch, where the president can sign it into law, or veto it.  It is up to the courts to interpret the laws, and to decide if a law is constitutional if it is challenged.  Ultimately, if a case is controversial, it could make its way to the Supreme Court, which has the ultimate authority to interpret the law behind the case, and to apply constitutional tests to any laws.  The Supreme Court has the power to strike down laws that it sees as unconstitutional.
    There are nine justices who sit on the Supreme Court and decide cases.  These justices are appointed by the President of the United States when there is an opening on the court.  The appointment is a lifetime appointment.  A justice must choose to step down, or die, in order to create a vacancy.
    The legal reasoning for deciding cases is supposed to be consistent, with the court looking at how prior cases were decided and applying the same kind of logical reasoning to newer cases.  Lower courts try to follow the reasoning of the Supreme Court so that justice is, ideally, applied consistently.

    For most of recent history, the court has been evenly divided politically.  With four more liberal justices, four conservative justices, and swing justice in between.  However, over the past several years, conservatives have worked to put more conservative justices on the court.  In 2016 the conservative senate refused to follow their constitutional duty to hold a confirmation hearing for Obama's supreme court nominee, blocking Obama from nominating a justice to the supreme court and keeping that position open until Trump could nominate a more conservative justice.  Ultimately, Trump was able to appoint another two justices to the court, meaning that of the nine total justices, three of them were appointed by Trump, which moved the political leaning of the court heavily towards conservatives.

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    We are now seeing the results of the first cases to decided by this new conservative court, and the results are, at least for me, extremely concerning.
    Most recently, the court has overturned the previous Supreme Court decision in the case of Roe v. Wade, the landmark case that established a right to an abortion.  It is now possible in some states for a child to be raped and forced to carry her rapist's baby.  Further, that rapist, in some states, may be entitled to parental rights.

    The court also struck down an over 100 year old gun law, limiting the kinds of restrictions states can place on guns.  So far in the US we have had 281 mass shootings this year, which we are only 172 days into.  Almost 100 more mass shootings than there have been days in the year.  But, the court has now severely restricted the ability of states to pass laws to try and limit these shootings.
    Another highly concerning recent decision has to do with Miranda rights.  Miranda rights are the name given to the rights an individual has in the US when they are accused of a crime.  Things like the right to an attorney, and the right not to answer questions without legal representation.  However, the Supreme Court has now ruled that you aren't entitled to any kind of recourse if your Miranda rights are violated.  Yes, you still have your Miranda rights, but if they are violated you can't sue, or do anything about it.
    In yet another case the court ruled that the state had to provide public money for private religious education.  This is the first time in the history of the United States that public funds must be given to support religious institutions.

    Justice Thomas, in the court's opinion that struck down Roe v. Wade, also wrote that there are other cases in the past that the Supreme Court likely decided incorrectly, and should be considered to be overturned.  These decisions include the ones that established the right to same-sex marriage, the right of consenting adults to be able to have whatever kind of intimate relationships they want in private (premarital sex, for example, could be outlawed), the legality of birth control, and the definition of obscenity(porn and omo could be made illegal).
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    At the beginning of my post I expressed specific concern over the case of West Virginia v. the EPA.  In this case, the State of West Virginia is challenging the Environmental Protection Agency's authority to regulate air pollution.   The legal grounds for this challenge is that West Virginia doesn't believe the EPA has the constitutional authority to regulate air pollution. 

    Throughout the history of the United States congress has delegated authority to various agencies, many of which are someone independent. For example, the IRS which collects taxes.  This case argues that congress doesn't have the constitutional authority to delegate power to separate agencies.

    The court could decide that yes, congress does have this authority, and then nothing would change.  However, the conservative interpretation of the constitution suggests that this isn't the case, or the way conservative justices would likely rule.  They could issue a narrow opinion, that only deals with this specific case, but they could also rule that congress doesn't have the authority to delegate any powers.

    If the later ruling does come to pass, than any agency established by congress would be powerless.  As these various agencies are essential how the government is able to do any work, it would essentially be the collapse of the US as a country.  The IRS would be powerless to collect taxes, the Justice department would have no authority, so no federal law enforcement of any kind. No CDC, no national health agencies, no department of education, no medicare, no social security.  This would even git rid of the federal reserve, which issues our currency, so the US dollar would be no more.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from John_John in Does your partner know?   
    Officially no one knows about my fetish. I always denied it, if asked, but most of the people that know me, know about my weak bladder and numerous wetting accidents I have. And some of them could be prevented and those usually raise eyebrows and questions. Usually people ask, if I saw a doctor about my problem and why I don't wear protection. Friends and parents often question my persisting that I don't want to pee in public and rather wet myself, if I can't find a bathroom.
    Not only my close friends, but also neighbours often see me wearing wet clothes and some of them even witnessed my wetting accidents. Grocery store personnel near my home also see wet patches on my pants from time to time. I was never asked by any of them, if I done it on purpose, but when you see someone who constantly have problems controlling their bladder and don't wear diapers, what would be your first thought?
    Crossdressing friends definitely know that something is not right, because if it would be only medical problem, I would wear diapers to stay dry. I have too many accidents when crossdressed and do too little to prevent them from happening, to be normal behaviour. But officially, everyone accepted that I have a weak bladder and wet myself from time to time, because I can't hold it long. Sometimes I get remarks like "just pee your pants, why wait" when I moan about my desperation or "you should really wear diapers" when I have a wetting accident.
    Does this "acceptance" of the situation also mean that they know about my fetish and just don't want to talk about that?
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Iosis69 in Has anyone else ever had a spouse/partner/ex go around telling other people what you're into without your consent?   
    I think that could happen after a bad break up of relationship.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from ed2 in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    When you wet yourself wearing a skirt, you can often hide that, with diarrhea poop, not a chance. It run down my legs all the way into my shoes. It also made brown stain on a skirt on my ass. Not even shoes were spared. It happened on the bus. You can imagine the embarrassment. When it exploded, everyone near me looked at me and witnessing the event. I got of the bus at the next stop and walked the rest of the way home, but thinking back, it would be less embarrassing just staying on the bus and I would be much sooner at home.
    On the other occasion it happened when I was wearing red pants and brown stain went from my ass down my legs too. I was already in the public bathroom, but couldn't make it into the stall. Walk back to my car was a real embarrassment. 
    On both occasions I didn't have any spare clothes with me to change and make it less obvious what happened. Even if I would have them, I couldn't clean myself well enough in the public bathroom not to smell.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from ed2 in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    I'm not into scat at all, but had a poop accident twice in my adult life (diarrhea) and it's much more embarrassing than wetting your pants and way harder to cleanup yourself on the road. When you wet yourself, you can wipe yourself with cleaning tissues and change your clothes and you're good to go. When you poop in your pants, you need a shower, if you don't want to still smell after you change your clothes. With cleaning tissues you can't clean that sufficiently. At least I couldn't when it happened. Well, maybe it's enough, if it's a hard poop.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from white_cream in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    When you wet yourself wearing a skirt, you can often hide that, with diarrhea poop, not a chance. It run down my legs all the way into my shoes. It also made brown stain on a skirt on my ass. Not even shoes were spared. It happened on the bus. You can imagine the embarrassment. When it exploded, everyone near me looked at me and witnessing the event. I got of the bus at the next stop and walked the rest of the way home, but thinking back, it would be less embarrassing just staying on the bus and I would be much sooner at home.
    On the other occasion it happened when I was wearing red pants and brown stain went from my ass down my legs too. I was already in the public bathroom, but couldn't make it into the stall. Walk back to my car was a real embarrassment. 
    On both occasions I didn't have any spare clothes with me to change and make it less obvious what happened. Even if I would have them, I couldn't clean myself well enough in the public bathroom not to smell.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from white_cream in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    I'm not into scat at all, but had a poop accident twice in my adult life (diarrhea) and it's much more embarrassing than wetting your pants and way harder to cleanup yourself on the road. When you wet yourself, you can wipe yourself with cleaning tissues and change your clothes and you're good to go. When you poop in your pants, you need a shower, if you don't want to still smell after you change your clothes. With cleaning tissues you can't clean that sufficiently. At least I couldn't when it happened. Well, maybe it's enough, if it's a hard poop.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from NotGraeme in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    When you wet yourself wearing a skirt, you can often hide that, with diarrhea poop, not a chance. It run down my legs all the way into my shoes. It also made brown stain on a skirt on my ass. Not even shoes were spared. It happened on the bus. You can imagine the embarrassment. When it exploded, everyone near me looked at me and witnessing the event. I got of the bus at the next stop and walked the rest of the way home, but thinking back, it would be less embarrassing just staying on the bus and I would be much sooner at home.
    On the other occasion it happened when I was wearing red pants and brown stain went from my ass down my legs too. I was already in the public bathroom, but couldn't make it into the stall. Walk back to my car was a real embarrassment. 
    On both occasions I didn't have any spare clothes with me to change and make it less obvious what happened. Even if I would have them, I couldn't clean myself well enough in the public bathroom not to smell.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from NotGraeme in Dear scat fetish-ers   
    I'm not into scat at all, but had a poop accident twice in my adult life (diarrhea) and it's much more embarrassing than wetting your pants and way harder to cleanup yourself on the road. When you wet yourself, you can wipe yourself with cleaning tissues and change your clothes and you're good to go. When you poop in your pants, you need a shower, if you don't want to still smell after you change your clothes. With cleaning tissues you can't clean that sufficiently. At least I couldn't when it happened. Well, maybe it's enough, if it's a hard poop.
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    CarmenCD reacted to Jaieee in Wetting shorts outside   
    I live on a busy street, but far enough away that cars don't notice me. Some drivers might catch a passing glance, but that's about it. There are a lot of plants and shrubs around that I can partially stand behind, but someone walking on the sidewalk has a great view of me. It was a beautiful day so I decided to try wetting outside since I haven't lived here long.
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    CarmenCD reacted to John_John in I lost a bet and have to choose a punishment   
    We may have steered you wrong with this one
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from John_John in Incontinence pads   
    Technically I'm not a girl, but lately I wear them too, whenever I consider that toilet will not be widely available and don't want to risk a wetting accident. My bladder became too unpredictable and have more problems holding than I had before.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from April Nine in Anyone have experience with timed locks?   
    Beside time locks, a good way to lock yourself is number combination padlocks. You set the number with your eyes closed, lock your belt and than try to guess the number. 
    I done this numerous times. If you go out and try to use a public bathroom is even more fun. I locked my belt and went for a walk to the city. When I was already desperate, I started looking for a public bathroom. When I found one, I went into a stall and tried to guess the combination while standing next to the toilet or even sitting on the toilet. I rarely managed to unlock my pants before I wet myself, but I have a weak bladder. People with normal bladders should have more success. I used 3 digit number lock, but for those with strong bladders, 4 digit locks might be better.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Kiwi_Rebecca_C in Does being tickled make you need to pee more?   
    Definitely. In normal situation only a little tickling won't make me laugh so much that I would lose it right away, but any activity that makes the body tense, doesn't do good to my bladder when it is full. Tickling is one of them too.
    If the person tickling me is persistent enough, it can still lead to a wetting accident. It happened in the past, when my bold statement that I'm not sensitive to tickling challenged 2 of my friends to start tickling me in the right places. One was holding me, other was doing the tickling. After only a minute if not less, my pants were wet. It might not happened, if my bladder would be pretty empty, but on my misfortune, it was pretty full at the time.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Gamerman in What do you like to do while holding it   
    I do whatever I'm doing at the time. From watching TV, working, doing chores or walking. One of my favourite things is standing in line. That makes me go even more and  it's harder to hold it. It's is a special feeling. Only thing I don't like to do when very desperate, is applying makeup. It's hard to do make up well, when you can't stand still. And driving. I'm always afraid I will have an accident because of distraction caused by my bladder.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from John_John in Does being tickled make you need to pee more?   
    Definitely. In normal situation only a little tickling won't make me laugh so much that I would lose it right away, but any activity that makes the body tense, doesn't do good to my bladder when it is full. Tickling is one of them too.
    If the person tickling me is persistent enough, it can still lead to a wetting accident. It happened in the past, when my bold statement that I'm not sensitive to tickling challenged 2 of my friends to start tickling me in the right places. One was holding me, other was doing the tickling. After only a minute if not less, my pants were wet. It might not happened, if my bladder would be pretty empty, but on my misfortune, it was pretty full at the time.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from John_John in For the guys, wetting sitting or standing?   
    I probably wet myself in all possible positions already, willingly or by necessity, but I prefer to do that when standing. Pee running down my legs feel so nice, especially when I'm wearing a skirt and pantyhose. And after the fact, people usually don't even notice what I done, what is also a good thing.
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    CarmenCD got a reaction from Asologic in Car acceleration made me pee   
    Well, I'm sure I would pee myself in a falling plane or while skydiving, if anyone would made me do something like that, because I get easily scared and extreme sports are not for me. Friends made me try bungee jumping once and I started to spurt in my pants when standing on the edge and visible made my pants wet. And I visited the toilet and peed before I went up the ladder.  I was standing there for a few minutes and couldn't made myself jump. After that the person in charge told me to climb back down.
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    CarmenCD reacted to Cristiano97 in Car acceleration made me pee   
    I think it is simply because you experience an unusual force of gravity in an instantaneous and unexpected way, which makes your body mainly pay attention to physical balance over secondary actions such as resisting the urge to go to the bathroom.
    there are cases of people who practice extreme sports like skydiving, cases when you drive high-speed vehicles like a falling plane that happens, there are even stories of Formula 1 drivers like Schumacher who urinated on the cars during the race
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