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    D0nt45k got a reaction from RDFan2020 in Is it okay to be a virgin at my age?   
    By "wrong partner", mostly I'm referring to abusive, manipulative, or overly narcissistic partners.  The really dangerous ones can be really hard to detect until it's too late.
    I've found this out the hard way.

    Also, don't worry about your coworkers.  imho it's unprofessional to talk about your love life in the workplace anyway (and a lot of managers agree with me).  If they bring it up, just say "this isn't the right place or time to discuss these sorts of things."
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from nappypants in Is it okay to be a virgin at my age?   
    Don't rush things if it's a relationship that you want.  The consequences for choosing the wrong partner can be very dire these days (especially if you go all the way and get married - you're basically betting at least half of everything you own and will ever own that somebody will stick with you for the rest of their life), so it's generally better to vet a potential partner by hanging out with them platonicly before getting involved with them romantically.
    As for what a potential date thinks about your sexual experience, from what I've seen, most women don't really care about a man's body count...well, okay, they might, but it's a lot less important compared to other factors than you might think.  If you think they will...here's a thought: you can lie (I don't usually condone this, but we all know people lie to their partners in relationships, especially if they don't know each other very well), just keep it believable - say you've had a few flings over the years rather than claiming you have threesomes every single night, you know?  They'll probably believe you, then if it actually comes time to perform...well, let me put it this way, you would be amazed how many "studs" out there have absolutely no fucking clue how to please a woman in bed, so do your homework first and your partner may be pleasantly surprised that you even know what a clitoris or a g-spot is, let alone where they are.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Will1994 in Experiences on FetLife   
    To me, FetLife comes across more as a site for people wanting to show off, satisfying their more narcissistic or exhibitionist tendencies, rather than anyone actually looking to hook up.  It may or may not have been that way when it started, I don't know for certain, but it's what it is now.
    You're better off looking pretty much anywhere other than that site.  You'd have better luck on the social media site formerly known as Twitter, or any of the other mainstream social media sites.  At least then you have a larger pool of users to draw from and thus, theoretically, higher odds of getting a response.
    And that's not even getting into all the catfishing.  Both sexes do it too.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Pisaj in Experiences on FetLife   
    To me, FetLife comes across more as a site for people wanting to show off, satisfying their more narcissistic or exhibitionist tendencies, rather than anyone actually looking to hook up.  It may or may not have been that way when it started, I don't know for certain, but it's what it is now.
    You're better off looking pretty much anywhere other than that site.  You'd have better luck on the social media site formerly known as Twitter, or any of the other mainstream social media sites.  At least then you have a larger pool of users to draw from and thus, theoretically, higher odds of getting a response.
    And that's not even getting into all the catfishing.  Both sexes do it too.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from nappypants in Is it okay to be a virgin at my age?   
    Oh, and another thing that might make OP feel better.
    Most people who feel the need to brag about their sexual conquests aren't having anywhere near as much sex as you think they are, in fact they may be completely bullshitting you.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from RDFan2020 in Absolutely disgusting...   
    I remember that, and it wasn't just news stations, almost all channels, even children's channels, were co-opted for the broadcasts.  That was a very surreal morning...
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Binu in My Addictions might be ruining my Life - (WARNING {sensitive topic: Drug abuse })!! not really Omo related )   
    Want my advice?  Try sublimation.  Take up a hobby and whenever you feel a craving for something, instead do something else.  Eventually you'll train your brain to associate the dopamine hit you used to get from responding to your addiction with whatever hobby it is you've taken up.

    Forgot to add something earlier.  Speaking from experience, this does work.  I took up miniature painting/tabletop wargaming as a hobby around the time I decided I wanted to lose weight.  Whenever I felt hungry when I shouldn't, I'd take one of the minis I'd acquired and I'd paint it until the hunger stopped.  Paired with altering my diet (and a bit of medication), I've lost about 70 lbs this way in the last year.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Varys in Autistics' Thread   
    Yeah, it can happen to guys too.  Of course, in my case, I wasn't scared of everything so much as everything annoyed me.
     
    Ugh, I hate studying.  I am psychologically incapable of forcing myself to give a damn about things I don't find interesting (though I've learned to be able to feign interest sometimes for the sake of humoring people, but my patience has its limits).  It's even worse when I know the other person is wrong and especially when they're lying.  Plus, you can bet that if the thought crosses my mind that there must be a better way to do something, I'll stop at nothing until I find it.  Sometimes this pays off, other times you wound the wrong person's pride and get fired.
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    D0nt45k reacted to PPP in List of Pixiv Tags   
    I came across an old archived 4chan thread with a very helpful list of tags to use on pixiv, plus a bit on how they worked. I'll link to it at the bottom. Anyway, here's the list:
    おしっこ - pee
    オシッコ - pee (Same word, but written in katakana.)
    おしっ娘 - pee, only used for a girl (Not a real word, but pronounced the same with the こ replaced with 娘, a kanji that refers to a girl or young woman.)
    おしっこ我慢 - pee holding, desperation
    おもらし - wetting
    オモラシ - wetting (Same word, but written in katakana.)
    お漏らし - wetting (Same word, but written with the actual kanji.)
    積極お漏らし - intentional wetting
    失禁 - incontinence, wetting
    恐怖失禁 - fear wetting
    おねしょ - bedwetting
    小便 - pee, piss (A more "proper" word for it than おしっこ.)
    尿 - urine
    放尿 - pissing, urination
    野ション peeing outside, heavily implied female (You'll see that ション bit in other tags too. It's an abbreviated form of 小便, in our case.)
    立ちション - peeing standing up (Fun fact: it's technically also the male equivalent of the above 野ション. In pornographic contexts, however, you're more likely to find girls peeing standing up.)
    連れション - peeing together
    お花摘み - "picking flowers", a somewhat outdated female euphemism for peeing. Though it does appear as a tag, it tends to be more successful when searching titles and descriptions.
    しーしー - a childish term for pee (The white noise sort of sound you might make to nudge someone into peeing.)
    しーしースタイル - holding someone up by the back of their knees while they pee 
    やり手水 - holding someone up by the back of their knees while they pee (The more used version of the above.)
    黄金水 - "golden yellow water" (Most commonly found as 東方黄金水, a Touhou exclusive pee tag formatted to sound like a game title.)
    東方黄金水 - touhou pee
    燃料漏れ - kancolle peeing, "fuel leak"
    聖水 - holy water (Like, the stuff you might find in a church. As a fetish term, generally hinges around golden shower stuff.)
    浴尿 - golden shower
    飲尿 - piss drinking
    野外放尿 - peeing outside (Less commonly used than 野ション.)
    水中放尿 - peeing underwater
    尿ジョッキ - peeing into a beer mug
    採尿 - peeing into a receptacle, like a drinking glass or bottle or paper cup
    ボトラー - peeing in a bottle
    ずらし放尿 - peeing with the crotch of one's panties/swimsuit/clothing pulled aside
    着衣放尿 - peeing through clothing
    限界放尿 - peeing after reaching one's limit, with a very full bladder (Usually not wetting.)
    少女と小便器 - a girl using a urinal
    床ション - peeing on the floor
    外ション - peeing anywhere other than a toilet
    ハミション - missing the bowl while peeing in a squat toilet
    はみション - missing the bowl while peeing in a squat toilet (Same as above, hiragana instead of katakana.)
    トイレ - toilet
    トイレシーン - "toilet scene"
    ペニスにピス - peeing onto a penis
    けもにょ - furry peeing
    And how it works:

    A note on syntax. In my pre-built search strings, you'll notice I have the terms enclosed in parentheses. Why is that, you ask? Because while it makes no difference in a normal search, it allows you to add modifier terms with ease. Here's a quick rundown:
    >blah bleh blih
    Returns only things that has all three tags.
    >blah OR bleh OR blih
    Returns anything that has at least one of the tags.
    >(blah OR bleh OR blih)
    Works exactly identical to the previous.
    >blah (bleh OR blih)
    Returns things that always have blah, and also have at least one out of bleh and blih.
    >I want to keep it simple.
    (おしっこ OR 尿 OR おもらし OR お漏らし) finds the bulk of this sort of content.

    >It's not like I'm getting billed per tag, give me the real stuff.
    (おしっこ OR オシッコ OR おしっ娘 OR おもらし OR お漏らし OR オモラシ OR 失禁 OR おねしょ OR 小便 OR 尿 OR 野ション OR 立ちション OR 連れション OR お花摘み OR しーしー OR 黄金水 OR 聖水 OR ペニスにピス OR OR ボトラー OR 燃料漏れ) covers nearly everything, while omitting some redundant or less useful tags.

    >I have nightmares about dying while there still exist anime pee pics I haven't seen.
    (おしっこ OR オシッコ OR おしっ娘 OR おしっこ我慢 OR おもらし OR お漏らし OR オモラシ OR 失禁 OR おねしょ OR 小便 OR 尿 OR 野ション OR 立ちション OR 連れション OR お花摘み OR 積極お漏らし OR しーしー OR 黄金水 OR 聖水 OR ペニスにピス OR OR ボトラー OR 放尿 OR 野外放尿 OR 飲尿 OR 浴尿 OR 水中放尿 OR ずらし放尿 OR やり手水 OR 尿ジョッキ OR しーしースタイル OR 東方黄金水 OR 採尿 OR けもにょ OR トイレ OR トイレシーン OR 少女と小便器 OR 床ション OR はみション OR ハミション OR 外ション OR 限界放尿 OR 燃料漏れ OR 恐怖失禁 OR 着衣放尿) is pretty darn comprehensive.
    And the thread itself:
    https://desuarchive.org/d/thread/9192074/#9192080
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Rose_T in Every Anime and Cartoon Wetting Scene I Could Find   
    I know it's an old comment, but the one telling a story was interesting.  Of course as much as I would've liked getting to see more...shall we say "detail", obviously that's not going to fly on Youtube...but then again, you would be amazed how often things like outright nudity fly under the radar because they're tagged as stuff like "shaving tutorials".
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from hanpi in For Christians: how do you manage your fetish?   
    You are saved if you repent, at least as I understand it.  Yes, you're going to fuck up sooner or later, we're only human, but the point is to make an honest effort to be the best person you can be, to be magnanimous when you succeed, and penitent when you fail.
    I agree though, in the grand scheme of things, looking at naughty images on a computer is pretty mild...well, as long as it doesn't cross certain lines.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from hanpi in For Christians: how do you manage your fetish?   
    Not a Christian myself, but I was raised as one.  If I had to describe myself with a label, "Deist" is probably most accurate - I think there's some sort of higher intelligence out there, I'm just not sure what it is.

    Tbh I don't think the Big Guy Upstairs is gonna hold it against you all that much, if at all, for having a fetish that's harmless under most circumstances.  Now, if you try and force it on other people or indulge to excess, then there might be a problem, but then the issue isn't having a fetish, it's your lack of self-control/empathy for other people.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from p33sh33tz in What's the word for incels who don't hate women but still can't meet anyone?   
    And to add insult to injury, if we fuck up at any one of those points, it can be considered "sexual harassment" (which is itself often a double standard, I've found - if she likes you, it's flirting, if she doesn't, it's harassment), and the consequences of even being accused can include, but aren't limited to, losing your job, getting assaulted by white knights, or even fines and jail time, all on an accusation of a "crime" with a subjective definition.  That's not even getting into the other risks that men face that women don't have to put up with nearly as often.  For many guys, it's just not worth the risk, the pain, and the humiliation, and they check out entirely.
    The double standards don't help either.  As far as society is concerned, when a man can't find a partner, it's his fault, but when a woman can't find a partner for identical reasons...it's still our fault, somehow, for...having standards, which is something only women are allowed to have?  If that's not the intent, that's what we're being told anyway.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Uroguy in Favorite Pokemon?   
    My favorite?  Well, I've always had a soft spot for the Chikorita line.  I started with Gen 2, I picked Chikorita as my starter, I don't care if they suck.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from DerekOmoso in Thoughts on the 3 'Olympic' class ocean-linera?   
    Also note that it was entirely possible to refit some of these ships to use oil-fired boilers (as had been done to a number of warships).  Would it have been feasible to refit Olympic to burn oil?  Yes, the better question is if it would've been practical?  Well...I guess it depends on if this happens before or during the Great Depression.

    Even if not, in another timeline I could see her getting the Queen Mary treatment.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from DerekOmoso in Thoughts on the 3 'Olympic' class ocean-linera?   
    You would be surprised the kinds of people you find in the most random of places.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from Calvin1 in Post a word, beginning with the last letter of the previous word!   
    Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from OldWetGuy in Kinky Superpowers   
    Hmm...the ability to implant a fetish into the mind of another person.  Other than the obvious application I could think of a lot of mischief I could get up to with this one.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from OldWetGuy in Thoughts on the 3 'Olympic' class ocean-linera?   
    Also note that it was entirely possible to refit some of these ships to use oil-fired boilers (as had been done to a number of warships).  Would it have been feasible to refit Olympic to burn oil?  Yes, the better question is if it would've been practical?  Well...I guess it depends on if this happens before or during the Great Depression.

    Even if not, in another timeline I could see her getting the Queen Mary treatment.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from DerekOmoso in Thoughts on the 3 'Olympic' class ocean-linera?   
    They were engineering marvels for their time - in fact their designers underestimated just how well-engineered they were (at the inquiry following Titanic's sinking, somebody asked what would've happened if Titanic rammed the iceberg head-on and the engineers thought she would've crumpled and fallen apart from the shock, we now know this isn't true).
    Unfortunately they suffered from some bad luck.  Titanic sank on her maiden voyage, Britannic struck a mine, and Olympic was a victim of White Star getting the short end of the stick when they were forced by the British government to merge with Cunard (the management of the new Cunard-White Star Line were all ex-Cunard, who, naturally, favored their company's ships, resulting in most of the old White Star vessels being scrapped).  To add insult to injury in the last of these cases, the reason Cunard got the better end of the deal was because of White Star losing more of their ships supporting the Entente's war effort in World War I...and then their own government went and screwed them again.  Way to show some fucking gratitude there, huh?
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from DrBorderline in Ever broken a bone?   
    Twice as far as I know.

    First time, I was in third grade, first day of school.  I tripped falling down a hill and fractured my pinkie on my right hand.  It never healed quite right.

    The second time was years later.  I'd been studying Tae Kwon-Do, you see, and I was testing to qualify for...my red belt, I think?  Anyway, I had to break a board with a jumping front kick.  I flubbed the kick and impaled my foot on the edge of the board.  The really impressive bit though?  I got back up, standing on that injured foot, and then proceeded to do the kick correctly with the other leg!

    EDIT: There was a third time, much more recently.  A couple of years ago I broke my big toe on one foot after I stubbed it against some furniture.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from DesperateJill in Ever broken a bone?   
    Twice as far as I know.

    First time, I was in third grade, first day of school.  I tripped falling down a hill and fractured my pinkie on my right hand.  It never healed quite right.

    The second time was years later.  I'd been studying Tae Kwon-Do, you see, and I was testing to qualify for...my red belt, I think?  Anyway, I had to break a board with a jumping front kick.  I flubbed the kick and impaled my foot on the edge of the board.  The really impressive bit though?  I got back up, standing on that injured foot, and then proceeded to do the kick correctly with the other leg!

    EDIT: There was a third time, much more recently.  A couple of years ago I broke my big toe on one foot after I stubbed it against some furniture.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from BartleyZumboza in The US Supreme Court   
    No idea.
    Here's my two cents on that particular ruling: all the SCOTUS ruling on that case did was kick the debate back to the state level where it belongs.  Now the states that want it can have it with even less restrictions than before, and the ones that don't can ban it or restrict it further.
    Note, also, that the original ruling in Roe v Wade was illegal, per the late Ruth Bader Ginsburg of all people (according to a piece she wrote while head of the ACLU).  SCOTUS made up a law that didn't actually exist, that's one problem.  The other problem was that the plaintiff in the case admitted after the fact that she made the whole thing up, and in literally any other court case, perjury would be grounds to throw the ruling out and declare it a mistrial.
    Now, for the record, I'm not even going to get into my own views on the matter, I'm just pointing out that there's a legal way to pass laws, and that requires one of two procedures to be followed.  If the pro-choice crowd wants an abortion law on the books at the federal level, they can have it, they just have to pass it legally through Congress or via a constitutional convention.  SCOTUS, on the other hand, finally did what it was supposed to do.  Their job isn't to pass laws, it's not to "read the room", it's not even to make judgements based on the "greater good", it's to ask one simple question: "is this constitutional or not?"  The actions of the prior court were illegal, so they struck the old ruling down, and rightfully so.

    And to those who might say "to hell with procedure"...be very careful what you wish for, because if you do that and establish a precedent, you'd better believe it'll be used against you later, the Constitution puts limits on the power of government to protect you, not to hinder you.  Never assume that the other side won't gain power one day.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from leepee43 in The US Supreme Court   
    Those justices weren't under oath when they were asked about Roe v Wade.  They had no obligation to tell the truth.
    I know you and so many other people here don't want to hear it, but the US is a federal republic, and the Constitution has this thing called the 10th Amendment, where any powers not explicitly granted to the federal government are the sole domain of the states and the people, until otherwise amended.  There is a process to amend the constitution, you're welcome to use it.  The laws aren't wrong, the people who don't understand them are wrong.
    You want to put forward an amendment to mandate abortion access across the country?  Fine, there's a process to do that.   You don't get to skip it just because you feel like it (and if you do it anyway, mark my words, your opposition will do the same thing to you - if you don't follow the rules, the other side won't either).
    Oh and before you bring up the court that passed it in the first place?  Thurgood Marshall, Chief Justice at that time, was openly and proudly an activist, he abused his unelected position on the bench to pass edicts and admitted as much.  The 14th Amendment does not say anything about bodily autonomy, that's a lie, Ruth Bader Ginsburg of all people pointed this out.  She agreed with the principle of the ruling, but pointed out, correctly, that the ruling was illegal, and that by breaking the law in the first place, the pro-choice crowd gave ammunition to their opposition that ensured the debate will never end.  Shouldn't have broken the law in the first place.
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    D0nt45k got a reaction from leepee43 in The US Supreme Court   
    No idea.
    Here's my two cents on that particular ruling: all the SCOTUS ruling on that case did was kick the debate back to the state level where it belongs.  Now the states that want it can have it with even less restrictions than before, and the ones that don't can ban it or restrict it further.
    Note, also, that the original ruling in Roe v Wade was illegal, per the late Ruth Bader Ginsburg of all people (according to a piece she wrote while head of the ACLU).  SCOTUS made up a law that didn't actually exist, that's one problem.  The other problem was that the plaintiff in the case admitted after the fact that she made the whole thing up, and in literally any other court case, perjury would be grounds to throw the ruling out and declare it a mistrial.
    Now, for the record, I'm not even going to get into my own views on the matter, I'm just pointing out that there's a legal way to pass laws, and that requires one of two procedures to be followed.  If the pro-choice crowd wants an abortion law on the books at the federal level, they can have it, they just have to pass it legally through Congress or via a constitutional convention.  SCOTUS, on the other hand, finally did what it was supposed to do.  Their job isn't to pass laws, it's not to "read the room", it's not even to make judgements based on the "greater good", it's to ask one simple question: "is this constitutional or not?"  The actions of the prior court were illegal, so they struck the old ruling down, and rightfully so.

    And to those who might say "to hell with procedure"...be very careful what you wish for, because if you do that and establish a precedent, you'd better believe it'll be used against you later, the Constitution puts limits on the power of government to protect you, not to hinder you.  Never assume that the other side won't gain power one day.
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