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somerando

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  1. Are you a person whose libido declined at some point?   If so, do you still find some aspect of holding or peeing enjoyable?

    No, it's generally pretty active, but I have no desire for sex with anyone in any capacity. I'm actually generally extremely sex-repulsed. I find other peoples' genitals to be generally unpleasant, conceptually.

    That's not to say that I think people who like sex are repulsive, I just have no desire for it and actually become uncomfortable at the thought of sex with a partner.

    Do you enjoy some aspect of holding or peeing separately from sexual feelings?

    It's uh. Pretty much entirely a sex thing for me. It just sort of causes physical sensations I find pleasant.

    Do you use omorashi as a substitute for sexual pleasure?

    It's basically my Only source of sexual pleasure, because it's one of the few things that stimulates me in that way, from a purely mechanical sense.

    Nothing else, and nobody else, really elicits a physical response from me, and I'm aromantic on top of being asexual, so there's also no partner involved to prompt me into sex for any reason.

    Some people have a low libido.  If they're comfortable that way, do you consider them OK -- a normal variant within the human range?

    As long as you're comfortable with it and there's no danger to your health, I don't see why it wouldn't be okay.

    What do you understand "asexual" to mean?

    I experience no attraction to other people. The uh. The plumbing works, so to speak, but I have never, EVER looked at anyone and thought "Yeah, I'd have sex with them." I've seen people and gone, "Oh well they're pretty!" or "that person's cute." but it's sorta. . . detached from any desire. I'd talk about people being pretty the same way I'd discuss a painting, or a landscape being pretty. It's all purely aesthetic.

    Sex itself is repulsive to me, and the thought of having sex makes me nauseous. I don't care if other people do it but it's 100% Not For Me. Nothing about it seems pleasant. I don't like being touched, I don't want sex, I don't like being kissed or even really hugged. 

    Should we count enjoying peeing activities without sexual arousal as within omorashi?

    I would say yes. It may be both purely sexual and entirely born of physical stimuli, but I'm all for letting people enjoy things in whatever capacity they want.

    Does a person belong here by virtue of feeling at home and abiding by the site's standards?

    As long as they're following the rules, sure.

    On 8/18/2021 at 1:16 PM, China Girl said:

    Not to be insensitive, but a lot of the people here who are asexual seem to suffer from autism or such other mental conditions. Do you think asexuality is linked to those conditions?

    I couldn't weigh in on this myself, seeing as I'm not autistic. I am neurodiverse in that I have ADHD, which has some overlap between in experiences. I know a lot of the symptoms overlap between the two. But I don't think my neurological disorder has anything particular to do with my asexuality.

    That said studies about ADHD have shown that people with it do have a tendency to have reduced synaptic response to melatonin, which can lead to insomnia and non-24 sleep cycles, so it's not necessarily unreasonable to think that there could be some link between ADHD and response to other hormones. Unless I can find an actual study on it, though, I wouldn't say either way.

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