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  1. I am dying to know how you guys discovered this together in the pre-internet days. Will you / have you shared any stories of your history with this person? How did this ever come up in conversation? Who broached the topic? I wonder if I ever would have even disclosed my pension for wetting to a partner if I hadn't already discovered these wonderful online communities that helped to normalise it.
  2. I can recount multiple childhood memories that are clear as day for me to this day. 1) playing in my back yard with my sister and all of a sudden she says "Can you tell I peed my pants." I looked at. Her crotch and noticed a softball sized wet spot. 2) at daycare, a girl sat on a tire that was on the ground in the sand box, as if it were a toilet, and peed through her black pants. She was staring at her own crotch as the black fabric glistens. She then got up, got back on a tricycle, and wheeled away. 3) a bit older, in school during recess, a friend complaining that he had to pee. I told him just to go inside and pee .. but he replied "look at how far the doors are. I'll never make it!" A bit of a struggle and finally he said "Uh oh. It's coming out!" And he full on peed himself. We just kept playing like nothing happened. 4) older still, we had family friend visiting and I was playing with their kid in the back yard(about the same age as me) when I noticed his pants were wet. I asked him if he peed his pants, and he said he did. So I proceeded to wet myself too. Idk why lol. We continued playing. We had this large plastic baseball bat that he was driving into my wet crotch... And I remember it feeling good so I started grinding into it. This is the first time I remember experiencing genital arousal from wetting. These are just a few... I am sure there are more lol. Interesting that despite these experiences I am only into self-wetting and female wetting. Surprisingly, male omo doesn't do anything for me at all.
  3. I would bet there are some communities on fetlife worth checking out
  4. I would bet there is a genetic component to it. I do remember in my early childhood, hearing my mom threaten to pee on my dad. I don't remember the context or anything, just a really vague memory I have. I also remember my mom talking about her childhood memories going down into a ravine with a friend and peeing their pants, and also peeing into the heat register. I think in these cases she was reacting to some of my strange pee shenanigans and thinking "it's just something that kids do." I remember my sister having a fixation with pee. Two times when she peed herself deliberately, and also times she would try to make me pee my pants. When I finally I did, I remember the look on her face while she stared obsessively at my wet pants. For my family members, I don't think it is sexual--or rather I don't think they've awoken the sexuality of omo. If they were to discover wetting porn, perhaps they may find themselves intrigued and turned on by it, but otherwise they probably don't think much about it. I know I didn't until I accidentally discovered wetting porn on the web.
  5. Yup. I've told all my sexual partners and they were each willing to play to some degree. Even my first girlfriend--high school sweetheart--who was pee shy and kind of grossed out by it obliged me on a couple occasions. My wife doesn't seem to be into it per se, but she participates any time I ask and sometimes unprovoked. We were once staying in a hotel, for example. This hotel had a pool. And beside the pool was a shower, so you can rinse off before getting into the water. Before turning on the shower, she stood there in her bathing suit and pissed herself. Why? So she could enjoy watching me with a raging boner--difficult to conceal in my swim trunks in a public place. I'd be happy to offer advice on how to raise the topic tactfully with your partner. Moreover, I am not going to advise you not marry someone because they won't participate in your kink, but your relationship better be damn well satisfying in other aspects because I suspect this is something that will always be with you, always hanging over you, potentiating resentment.
  6. Idk, I've only ever had partners oblige me because of the sexual aspect of it. It seems the allure for non-omo partners to participate is because they get turned on by how turned on we are, and not necessarily by the act itself. We are asking them to go way outside of their comfort zone. It follows that it would be disappointing to not be rewarded with the instant gratification of getting stuffed by a rock hard cock. Just my two cents.
  7. Looks incredible. Did you have to do much cleanup after?
  8. I was driving through Montreal and I recognised a mall just off the highway that my ex-girlfriend (my old high-school sweetheart) and I had shopped at when we had visited Montreal many years ago. I decided to stop at the mall for nostalgic purposes. While eating in the food court, I did feel a slight urge to pee, so I figure--what the heck. I'm not from here. I'm not going to see anybody I know. Plus these shorts don't really show wetness very well. What's the risk. So I let out a dribble. Not much, just enough to feel a bit of warmth in my crotch while I ate my lunch. When I finished my meal, I got up and took a peek at the seat and noted a very small wet spot--about 3 cm in diameter on the hard plastic seat. The plan was to head outside to finish the job. But while walking through this very large mall on the way to the nearest exit to my car, I noticed a lot of people looking at me, some even gazing at my crotch. I started to become paranoid when mall-security gave me the eye. But I brushed it all off as being self-conscious--I didn't pee that much, people shouldn't notice unless they're really looking. Then a Janitor approached me, toting an actual mop and bucket, and said something to me in French. I have no idea what he said (maybe he was asking me where the puddle was, perhaps?), so I just shrugged and continued on my way. When I left the mall I stood next to my car and finally looked down at my shorts to inspect the damage. It turns out the pee wasn't as small as I had thought it was, and the shorts didn't hide it as well as I had assumed they would. At this point, shielded from the masses by my car's open driver side door, I emptied the rest of my bladder into my golf-shorts, put a plastic bag down on my seat. I drove away, leaving my puddle in the asphalt of the sprawling parking lot.
  9. There's a certain wetness pattern where the wetness sort of fades in instead of spreading, before beading and running down the leg--if that makes sense. I can't think of any videos that depict his but it's very rare. The first time my ex wet for me, this is what it did and so I think I've been chasing that dragon ever since. But I love love love how it spreads to the back and up the butt...there is just something innately feminine about that IMHO. But I don't know if it has to do with technique, or with the clothes, the underwear, or even the amount of force. But I think it largely has to do with the anatomy -- the angle and positioning of the urethra. My ex used to wet more to the front but with my wife it is barely visible from the front... it's almost disappointing until she turns around and her ass and the back of her legs are soaked; it is a nice sexy surprise.
  10. My wife and I were having a conversation while laying in bed about how our daughter is destined to be a bit of a derp. She told me that she once rolled out of bed just to see what it felt like. She then told me in the same innocent spirit that she once intentionally peed in the bed to see what it felt like. I railed her pretty hard after that story.
  11. I think being turned in by having a full bladder is a pretty common female experience. But I don't think many categorize it as a fetish, and instead just brush it off as a quirk associated with the female anatomy. I have had women in the past tell me having a full bladder turns them on and that it enhances penetrative sex, but it is not the same fixation that I suspect many of us have. I also imagine enjoying the experience of wetting is less common for women.
  12. I've been told the same thing in the past. I don't really get to wet often anymore. Because life. But when I do, I now throw a little nature's miracle in the wash to be safe.
  13. it's because you gotta look cool while u pee -- never know who is watching
  14. I convinced my high school sweetheart to try a few times. She had severe bladder shyness and wasn't able to do it at first. But she did invite me to the bathroom a few times and I would put my hand under her stream or otherwise just watch. One time I convinced her to keep her panties on but just move them to the side. As soon as she started peeing I told her to release her panties so she could wet them that way. The next time, as soon as she started peeing I had her stand up and pull her pants up. We were making out in the bathroom and suddenly I could hear the rap-tap-tap of her pee dropping through her pants and hitting the floor. I remember it so well to this day. She didn't enjoy it at all. After we broke up, I hung out with another girl who crushed on me hard. I think she knew about my fetish because anytime she announced that she had to pee, I would quote Dumb and Dumber "just go, man!" Until eventually she flirtatiously replied "would that turn you on?" She may have seen my browser history or something? One night after a few drinks downtown, I walked her home, the whole time she talked about how badly she had to pee. When we got to her house she pleaded for me to come inside because her roommate wasn't home. I remember her pleading, "Please! I have to pee so bad!" I am convinced she knew about my fetish and was going to test the waters, but I got scared and bounced. My next relationship I disclosed my interest fairly early and she just said "I'm not going to pee myself" and "this isn't the first time I've heard that." So I left it alone. Never brought it up again. But one day at her apartment, out of the blue, with no warning she went into the bathroom and peed herself. She said she "forgot to pull down her pants." My next girlfriend was initially appalled by it because "kids do that." So again, I left it alone. One day, we were out shopping and she had to go, and she quickly grabbed her crotch and said she was going to do a "pee dance." She mentioned a bit later that she was going to pee her pants, just like in "my fantasy." She then just nonchalantly mentioned "I like your fantasy." She refused to call it a fetish. That day she found a toilet and peed normally, but there were several occasions of pee play that followed. The first time she peed herself, I remember stripping off her wet jeans, pulling down her panties, spreading open her legs and seeing a string of grool stretch across her labia. Her clit was red and engorged. I went down on her, and she started grinding her crotch into my face so hard I could hardly breathe. She climaxed in a matter of moments, and then we had incredible sex, several times per day for the next few days. She eventually disclosed that she found herself turned on by having a full bladder. This had apparently start d after having a UTI. She never dabbled in wetting, but it turns out she enjoyed it. She always insisted on my hand being on her crotch when she wet. The last time we ever had sex, we had gone out for dinner and drinks. During the cab ride home she kept moaning and whispering loudly that she had to pee. I had my hand up her dress rubbing her pussy, which was already quite wet. I was whispering in her ear "just go." She wouldn't do it in the cab--i am sure the cabby appreciated that. I am also sure that he could hear us--we weren't exactly being discreet. When we got home I asked her to change into her tightest pair of jeans, and she completely soaked them! Unfortunately we had other issues and the relationship didn't work out. She moved out while I was out of town for work. I do wonder if she ever plays or fantasized about it anymore. She left me with some great spank bank material! My next girlfriend had a strange kink of her own:breast feeding. She often asked me to pretend she was nursing me. She also had a thing for sibling intimacy. Suffice to say, she was understanding. We had a strange, short, and kinky relationship. But her level of crazy was higher than I was ready for--it didn't work out. She was a tiny Asian from Hong Kong. She had the cutest dimples, and a Chinese accent. I miss the hell out of her sometimes. I broached the topic in much the same way with my wife. Just plant the seed and let it grow. The first time she tried it was at the beach, in the water. Another time was at a pool in a hotel. It had an open shower, and as she was showing she just looked down, spread her legs, and started peeing. I've since asked her to wet herself in a few different situations, and always follow with a few days of really good sex. I don't think she's really into it, but she certainly doesn't mind! Though, any time she indulges me, she goes around singing "the things we do for love" afterwards. My success strategy is to just be honest, and don't push too hard. Everyone I've ever told eventually came around, on their own terms. Also, I've never peed myself in front of a partner. For whatever that is worth.
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