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jibbyjamie

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  1. i love analogies like this lol i'd say I'm cast iron. I can hold it, hold it, hold it, seemingly without limit, until suddenly either my kidneys light on fire (😞) or my bladder contracts and forces it all out in one high-pressure stream that I'm basically powerless against. also regarding compression, pressing my bladder basically does very little most of the time (a fact that greatly annoys me at times).
  2. i'd be much, much more into doing this with a woman (more relatable feeling, and more discipline) but i'd be curious about doing it with a man too just to try it for the control aspect i think. though i'd probably turn it into a holding contest so i could assert my dominance lol (and i hate that i have to explicitly say this but since some of you on here need get a grip: neither this nor any of my previous posts are an invitation to dive straight into my DMs and ask/"offer" things)
  3. interestingly i have witnessed people teasingly challenge each other to wait another half hour or to have another drink first. it always seems to be received in such good fun that it often makes me a bit sad that me as the person who would love nothing more than to challenge people like that could probably never do it exactly because i'm too much into it. there's not a chance i'd be able to keep a pokerface. i've even seen someone push a desperate person's bladder once (and seen the girl squirm as a result) and it being well-received. oh how i wish i had the charisma to pull that off (or for the person to have done it to me instead, as a second-best option lol). i'd say direct and open is so much better, as it seems like there are ways to pull it off too. i've definitely on occasion done things like guiding people to the public bathroom that i strongly suspect will be closed, never with the intention of actually causing them severe discomfort or an accident or something but just because me being a weirdo i do enjoy the knowledge that someone I'm spending time with is in need. but i always end up feeling guilty about it, even more so afterwards, because it just doesn't seem ok to be so sneaky about it.
  4. Puts pressure on the perinium, so yes. I assume the reason guys don't understand this is cause for them there's body parts in the way that prevent them from getting the same relief/being able to apply the same amount of pressure.
  5. i don't have an accident (usually), rather my kidneys light on fire or i experience other severe pain. i do see this as a clear sign that this is my maximum. i strongly doubt that a maximum bladder capacity of over 1l is common, and im fairly comfortable in saying 2l is extremely rare (and probably unhealthy).
  6. ive done some experimenting with this, yes. from the top of my head, roughly: - first urge: 200-300ml - strong urgency where i would normally say i really need to go if i were in a place where the option were available: 400-600ml - dying: 700-1100ml especially that last one has a rather big margin on it.
  7. from what i found, all of the research that points at this uses a self-reported level of urgency as the metric. so the point where people say they feel an urgent need. i obviously don't know about this for anyone else (though i wish i did) but for me from this point to actually leaking is about double the volume. i'd say take it with a grain of salt. i'm fairly certain that at least for many women the point where we feel like we really need to go (and where if we were able and allowed to, we'd definitely go) is not even close to the point where we'd actually decide to go if we were under some sort of societal or social pressure to hold it.
  8. tbh there's such a thing as void rate, and i suspect it varies wildly between people. without knowing the volume, i'm not sure the length of time someone was peeing for says very much. i can never help but be intrigued whenever i hear or see a particularly long pee i'll admit, but some people just take a very long time to only void moderate amounts.
  9. so I think I might be a bit of an anomaly here. I'm a cis female, who normally considers herself heterosexual. but when it comes to the internet and videos and stories etc, specifically related to this fetish, i'm "almost" only attracted to (cis) women because based on what I see or read I can feel or relate to what they are feeling myself. with men, the parts and/or experiences are just different and so i can't relate to the feelings and it just doesn't really do much for me. plus the fact that based on what i see out there in the real world, i just don't think men have the same amount of discipline required to hold it to such great lengths that women do. the caveat to this is that i do think (though this is more a fantasy than something that i've had the chance to experience) that if i were sexually involved with a man and got the chance to "experiment" a bit on him... rawr? the difference there being that i'm already attracted to him (and the fetish has no involvement in that), and that this is a person who i get to play with (control) in-person rather than just reading or watching. so it could probably spice up what is already there with a man for me, but i don't find it attractive or arousing in and of itself like i do with women, who i am not normally attracted to outside this fetish (and if you're confused reading this it's because it still confuses me too).
  10. This is obviously one of the more fascinating topics to be discussed on this forum. Personally, I'm convinced that holding it is 99% a matter of willpower and pushing past discomfort, and less of a physical feat for most people. It's why I'm fascinated with "output volume" and couldn't actually care less about wetting (even find it off-putting). When you read into the currently published bladder statistics, they are often based on measured volume when a person *says* they really need to go. I'm convinced that the average bladder volume is actually far, far higher (and again, wouldn't be convinced if contrary to popular belief it's actually higher for women than for men, due to societal factors) than the scientific average volumes we see published everywhere in situations where people really have no choice but to hold it (which is what really counts). Anecdotally, and I wish there was more data on this, for me the point between "I *really* need to go" and actually leaking in terms of volume in my bladder is more than double.
  11. Well I meant social media, messaging, TikTok, ... more so than phone calls. I think because women have to sit down and wait for a bit anyway we just tend to whip out our phones and end up spending more time on them than we did peeing.
  12. Let's just say that if there was no phone signal in the toilets I think the issue would be resolved quite quickly...
  13. I think this is part of it, and the part of me that feels victimised by this situation would like to agree, but I think it's more likely to be an issue of cost. Street urinals are much cheaper to build and maintain than sit-down toilet cubicles with lockable doors and flushing mechanisms and such.
  14. i guess i don't know if this is the case for every woman, but i can tell you that at least for me "plugging"/blocking the hole does not work. it can be made to work, but it's a feat of trial and error, and in public situations where this could buy you the few extra precious minutes to get you to safety there isn't exactly space for the error part of it that will undoubtedly happen. something you can try in a private space, but definitely not an option in a public and/or clothed environment like it would potentially be for men (even if it looks strange/rude). somewhat beside the point but i was wondering if this were the case for guys too (or for other women for that matter, i suppose): i noticed that for me, on the rare occasions where i do manage to "block the exit" with a full bladder, it feels extremely good to attempt to forcefully push the pee out while the exit is blocked (again, when it works). it causes my bladder to start cramping/contracting quite hard, but in the same way that an orgasm would radiate out to your whole body (so not in a painful way like i'd have expected). has anyone ever tried this? to be clear, i'm specifically talking about voluntarily and forcefully trying to push the pee out, not about your body trying to do so involuntarily because you've been holding it for too long.
  15. So maybe I'm just ignorant here, but I'm a bit curious because I feel like I might be about to learn some things... Women have some tricks like tightly crossing their legs, sitting on their heel, ... that help us hold it, to a certain extent, but in the end we'll still wet ourselves. There isn't really much we can do about it if our bladders decide it's coming out now. Men, on the other hand, literally have a tube hanging out of their bodies. A (most of the time ;) ) fairly soft tube, in fact. So... when a guy feels like they're about to wet themselves and can no longer hold it... Can't they just physically pinch their penis, squeezing it enough to physically seal off their uretha so nothing can come out? It's an ability I'd give a lot for, but then I noticed that I almost never see or read about anyone doing this on these corners of the internet, so it makes me wonder what I'm missing. Both the penis and the uretha are soft, so you should be able to pinch them shut, right? Or is it that somehow this hurts too much? (You'd be able to do it without closing off the blood supply, I'm pretty sure, right?) Basically just curious what would happen if a guy has a full bladder, his bladder is deciding that whether you like it or not we're emptying right now, and he decided to just physically seal off the exit (either by pinching it or by putting a finegr on the hole or something if that's possible)? Any insights?
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