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Honestly, I don't think the pants really matter that much. Like, jeans are a popular option because the show the pee really well and look very pretty as you can see it spreading/soaking through them. But you should really just do whatever you're most comfortable in.

Came here to say this tbh. Other bottom stereotypes include: -other cutesy emojis, such as -cutesy misspellings/nicknames (doggo, etc) -intentional bad grammer. (I sleep now) -uwu -stuffed animals. Also just an animal lover in general but not "scary" animals like sharks, spiders, etc. -enjoys traditionally feminine activities and styles (e.g. cooking and skirts) -eugumoerlumroeu (keysmashing). -pastel colors, and/or traditionally feminine colors like pink and purple. -shy/awkward -doesn't want to pick where to eat or what to do on a date or just generally make dec

To be honest I really don't care unless it plays a role in the events (e.g. something really hard to get off). I'm far more interested in the sensations and emotions. I really couldn't care less what someone is wearing.

I think the previous post is a big part of it, even subconsciously, for most people. A lot of kinks tend to be exciting because they break social norms and taboos, which can be a very exhilarating and primal experience. For example, I remember reading raceplay/interracial type fetishes are actually more common in areas of significant racial divide, or where there is stigma against interracial relationships. This would support the kinky-humans-like-taboo-stuff hypothesis. That aside, for me personally, it's all about submission. Like, holding until you physically can't anymore (I'm not pe

Yes yes yes! Being tied up while holding seems like some really next level helplessness/desperation in a way that I love! Never tried it (yet!) though.

No confusion lol. A bit of nervousness/embarrassment for sure, but I've been too kinky for too long to worry about what I'm in to. Thank you for the reassurance though. Glad I'm not alone! Personally I wouldn't say that it is 'unfortunate' that some people do it differently though. It's great that it can be a diverse kink that lets everyone enjoy it how they please.

Like... 10 minutes lol. The holding and the wetting can be fun. But sitting in wet clothes is not my thing at all.

Yes, I suspect we are quite different on that front. For me the wetting itself isn't particularly exciting. It's more the feeling of losing/giving up control. Like, letting my body do something and take over no matter how hard I try to fight is just a very... exciting experience. The little bit of risk/humiliation aspect is also a serious turn on. But yeah, had I just "chose" to wet instead of letting my body chose for me it wouldn't have really been fun for me. But to each their own, of course. My boots have sort of an inner liner thing that can be pulled out and washed separately. So i

Some of y'all seem to have really specific life experiences of like "Once I saw someone pee and felt something stir deep inside me" or whatever. Like, that's great but I have no such fun story. I've been pretty involved in kink for years. When you are in kinky spaces you come across things and think "Oh hmm... that looks interesting". For me that's pretty much all it was. I think someone shared a story hear on a kink discord I'm in so I followed the link to this place. Glad you enjoyed ^^. Obviously I like it too, otherwise I wouldn't have wanted to do it.

Oh huge turn on. But like, I like to be humiliated in lots of sexual situations so that isn't surprising. Like, a lot of the people here are like "It's terrible! Don't make someone feel bad" and like, yeah. Obviously, irl don't make someone feel bad unless you know that they are into it. But I'm definitely team yay humiliation.

Both are definitely good, but I'd definitely lean toward rough. Like, I'd say the humiliation and teasing aspect is at least 80% of what I like about omo. The actual holding and wetting is (for me) just a tool to help the dynamic and the taboo. Ideally I'd like my partner to really just tease, mock, etc. me about how pathetic and desperate I seem. And to be even meaner if I wet. But obviously post-scene aftercare is important. Like, during the holding and in the immediate aftermath I think meanness is super hot. Like, I want to be flushing until I want to curl into a ball and disap

Maybe not most extreme but a fairly simple one that I'm really into (based on a video I saw a little bit back). Drink a bunch of water, then be tied up and forced to hold for some preset amount of time. Ideally an amount of time where it was realistic that I might be able to make it but also might not. For me, the idea of the challenge/risk is way more exciting than just being forced to wet or whatever. There'd be some sort of reward if I could hold the whole time and/or punishment if I failed. The whole time my partner would just tease me and try to get me to fail. Push on my bl

Lawyer, judge, juror. Really anyone in a court room is going to have a rough time. I remembered hearing that in some places you could get excused from jury duty for "frequent urination" so I decided to do some googling to double check if having to pee during a trial really was a big deal. It seems like the answer is yes, though that it really depends where you are and what your judge is like. You have to ask the judge for permission. I found one case where the a juror asked to pee and there was a very formal "Let the record reflect this man left to pee". Even worse, I found another artic

So, I probably discovered this fetish (or series of fetishes?) a couple months back, and have been lurking around this forum without an account for a little while. I was a bit too nervous/embarrassed to make one. Plus I didn't feel like I had anything to say when I could just read. Anyway, as the title implies I now have a story and telling it won't be the most daring thing I've done today. Anyway.... here goes nothing. So, when I first discovered I was into the whole desperation thingy I tried to make myself hold or wet. But it wasn't really doing it for me. Like it was kinda exc