Tellnoone

Yeah, there is a difference, but you´re still speaking from a narrow perspective here. Not everyone finds it sexy to see a woman changing either. But regardless of gender there´s nothing weird about changing clothes before or after a swim. What I also sometimes do if I want to wet my pants where I don´t have access to a lake is to wear shorts that don´t show wetness at all underneath my pants, so I just take my pants off as if the weather is too hot, and keep my shorts on. A guy would get away with that too.

Actually I don´t think it would have happened if I was with a friend, since these kind of omo excitement related bladder spasms only happen when I´m on my own. It´s like my bladder calms down around people and knows when it´s definitely not time for fun. Which is good of course. But sometimes I wish I could wet easier and have these kind of semi-accidents around my partner, but it doesn´t seem to happen either, not yet at least. Need more practice.

It depends on my mindset. If I´m playing embarrassment games with myself, it can be very exciting, but other times it´s almost a meditative thing.

No, I still had a 30 minutes walk home to do, through the village, so that would have been a bit too much for those now very obviously peed pants. Also part of the omo experience for me is the clean-up and change into dry clothes.

I just went out for a walk to see if I could find some mushrooms. I peed right before I left, drank a lot of water, and my plan was to hold it across the woods and then after passing by some houses I'd flood my jeans at some rocks by the lake before swimming, changing and going home. It was peaceful in the woods but not much mushroom luck. I didn't need to pee at all, i just felt that my bladder was slightly starting to fill up. Then I saw something yellow up the hill, I got there and was just going to bend down to pick the mushrooms when there was a sudden urge totally out of nowhere. "Oops, I leaked," I thought. "No wait... I'm peeing!" It only lasted for a couple of seconds before I could stop it, but there was a thin stream going down the inside of my left leg, creating a dark streak almost all the way down to my shoe. Good luck hiding that one with a sweater around the waist. I was like "wtf? I didn't see that one coming!" But then I realised I had wet myself on purpose on every mushroom search lately, often playing the game "as soon as I found some I will wet myself" and then peed through my pants (or in a diaper on one of the walks) while crouching down to pick them up. My bladder seems to learn fast. That's so fascinating! I've heard of mushroom induced pee accidents before, but not of this kind... At least my jeans were dark so I wasn't too worried about the stain, I just enjoyed occasionally looking down on it as I carried on walking. An hour later I had walked through the outskirts of a village and made it to my spot by the rocks with just minor additional leaks, but it was getting harder to hold it when relief was near. I took my shoes off, made sure nobody was on the nearby track, and then I just let go. Turned out I really needed to because the pee was splashing down on the rocks and almost the whole backside of my jeans was the same dark colour when I had finished and peeled them off. I had an amazing nude swim and then I went home feeling great.

After two incidents the last couple of months I have found out that "needing to run fast to catch a train/bus" is a no choice wetting scenario for me. I´ve had no huge wettings, but leaks big enough to soak underwear, and go through pants a little bit. It seems to be my only such scenario though. I can´t really ever see myself have a big desperation accident. I love those kind of fantasies and role plays, but it´s hard to get them realistic.

My partner is too used to it now to ever be surprised. He would probably worry about me if I didn´t wet. But there was of course a time when I was really shy to do this, just like you. Since he knows about your kink, I would recommend that you ask him if he would be ok with you wetting when he´s around. Also, don´t hold back with your emotions around it. Tell him and show him just how much you enjoy it, and he will probaly enjoy seeing you having such a great time. Yeah, isn´t it awesome? Glad to hear that, and how wonderful that you have found a partner to share this with!

This wasn´t exactly my last time, because i wet myself three times yesterday and this was the second one. Was out on a hike with my partner, and of course I couldn´t resist wetting my jeans.

I really don´t think you need to worry about this.

Since this is about urges to pee, I would think it´s more of a bladder-brain-connection thing rather than pelvic floor relaxation, at least for me. I have experienced a bit of this, but only the positive part. I call it "playful bladder". I seem to have taught my subconscious that wetting my pants in different situations is nice and fun, and sometimes that makes my bladder excited and spasmy. I can be out on a walk with no need to pee at all, but I start thinking about maybe wetting myself later during the walk, and that thought alone is enough for my bladder to say "yay, let´s go" and i have a sudden urge and leak into my pants before I can stop it. I find it really hot when this happens. The good thing is, my subconscious bladder connection still seems to know when it´s not appropriate to wet, because this never happens in a bad situation and only when I´m alone. With people around (even my partner unfortunately) my bladder is usually calm and I can hold it for ages. It can still happen though if I´m at work and need to pee and start thinking too much about wetting that my bladder asks "playtime?" and I have to tell it "no no no, not now" and try to steer my thought in another direction.

No, it was much worse... 😅

Clean-up close at hand.

Update: We had a great time yesterday and I have no drama to tell. We started talking about what had happened since last time we met, and after a while my friend said: "So, who was that rain picture for?" "It was for S" "Ok, so you´re still together then?" "yeah, we are. Sorry I sent you a weird picture..." "Oh, no problem", she said, as if she didn´t really get why I would be sorry about that, and then we changed topic. She might be a good actor who just wanted to save me from embarassment, but I don´t think so actually. I didn´t sense any signs of her doubting that picture was anything but rain. And it has made me thinking... What if non-omo's are much easier to fool than we think? If you have never heard of people being turned on by wetting their pants, the thought of someone sending a picture of their peed pants to someone else will probaly make no sense at all and therefore not be the first explanation they think of if they see a picture like that. In this case, the wet patch was such and obvious pee stain. But I say that as an omo-lover who have peed my own pants a 100 times and since young age have been having images of how it should look like in my head. I don´t think non-omo's look that carefully on a wet patch to categorize it as pee patch or not pee patch. During rainy days I´ve actually had friends who posted pictures of their wet pants on facebook to show how much it had rained on their way to work, so it´s apparently something people do sometimes. Taking a picture of your pee accident is not something people do - not in the world outside our community. That´s why finding another explanation should be closer at hand. Anyway, I still got the chance to say I´m sorry, and I´m glad for that, and I´m not worrying about this anymore. With that said, I hope others can learn from this story. Be careful with your pictures, but if you ever end up in a similar situation, use some of all the good advices that came up here.

I love this community, where else could you open your heart about this kind of mistake and have people who fully understands? Thanks, everyone. I think I´ll just see how it feels to meet her, and if everything´s just alright and nothing weird, then I´ll leave it. If not, then I´ll bring it up myself and say "I´m really sorry about that weird picture you got, it was meant for my boyfriend" and not say more if she doesn´t push it or ask. And if she says something herself, then I´ll go with honesty without unnecessary details, (yes, i peed my pants and sent a pic meant for my bf) , and I can actually see us having a good laugh when I explain the panic I got after sending it. I´ll keep you updated. I know you guys love to read about a clumsy scenario like this, and I find it kind of hilarious myself, so don´t worry.

You could be right about this, and maybe I should just let it be. I think the reason for me to consider bringing it up is, that if she knows what the picture is, I would really like to apologize for sending it and make clear it definitely wasn´t for her and I felt bad about sending it. I worry that if nobody says anything there will be awkwardness between us that ruins the night. But at the same time, I think that if something bothers her about this, or if she wonders something, I could probably trust that she´s straightforward enough to just tell me. She has that kind of personality. When we talked about fetishism before, she said she didn´t have any kinks herself, but would never judge anyone who has. She´s very norm critial and hbtq-positive. So I don´t have any worries there. But she still probably doesn´t want to know I spend my evening sending pee-pants pictures to my boyfriend. Thanks, good advice there!