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    DesperateJill got a reaction from Neural_link in Could gender neutral restrooms be the way of the future?   
    I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from BladderLad in Could gender neutral restrooms be the way of the future?   
    I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from Kei in Little Red Riding Hood Needs to Pee   
    I have to admit I have been still in a little bit of a fetish slump and haven't been in a fetish mood lately but the other day I just came across this really short one on my list and I got some good ideas for it, so I decided to go with it, so I hope that you all enjoy. Nothing really new to add because lately I have had a lot of computer trouble and somebody ended up hacking my Amazon account and just a whole bunch of troubles that have been a lot of stress lately and that sort of kills my desire for my fetish. But I came across this story on my list and decided to go with it and I think it works pretty well as a short fairytale story involving desperation. Enjoy! Can also be read in my blog at https://desperatejill83.livejournal.com/14706.html

    Little Red Riding Hood Needs to Pee
    "Now Red I want you to go immediately to your grandmother's house and bring her this picnic basket, and I don't want you to get distracted doing anything else along the way, do you understand?" Red's mother said.
        "I understand mom, I will get right to grandmother's house and I won't take any detours for any other reason as I know that she really is looking forward to this delicious basket full of food and drink," Red said as she put on her little red hood and immediately started going on her way to her grandmother's house.
        As she was walking to her grandmother's house though she realized that her grandmother actually lived pretty far away so it was probably going to be a long walk, and as she was walking she was realizing that all that walking was making her extremely thirsty, so she started taking some of the lemonade and some of the juices out of her grandmother's picnic basket and started drinking them. "I'm sure grandma won't mind if I drank just a little bit, she's old and probably won't even notice, and I know that she has overactive bladder so she probably shouldn't drink too much anyway," she said as she quickly guzzled down the drinks.
        As she continued walking however she found herself getting thirstier and thirstier and drinking more and more. Naturally this led to something else.
        "I could really use a bathroom around now!" she said but as she looked around she could see that there were no bathrooms on the road to grandmother's house, so she figured she had just better keep walking and hope that she gets there sooner rather than later before she found herself in a true bathroom emergency.
        Although she was trying to take her mind off of the fact that she had to go to the bathroom she found herself stopping every couple of moments to cross her legs and dance in place. Now she was getting positively frantic.
        "Hey Red how are you doing," Gretel said as her brother Hansel started tagging behind.
        "Well I was going to bring this picnic basket full of delicious food to my grandmother's house but unfortunately while I was carrying it all there I started to get really thirsty, and well I really need a bathroom," she said hopping up and down and pulling on her red hood.
        "Speaking of which that reminds me I could use a bathroom," Hansel said as he whipped it out and began peeing on the tree next to them as Red gritted her teeth as this was certainly not helping.
        "We were actually going to go to this house that we saw that is made of gingerbread," Gretel said.
        "Do you think that it will have a bathroom?" Red asked as she continued hopping up and down in place.
        "Well it's a house made of gingerbread, so I don't see how it would have a plumbing system, because if you had a toilet and flushing it that would sort of make the gingerbread all soggy, I just don't see how the mechanics of it would work," Gretel said.
        "Okay then I guess I will just continue onward to grandmother's house, as I am sure that she has a bathroom that isn't made of cookies or candies," Red said as she continued on her way. All of the sudden that's when she saw a small little man that she recognized as Rumpelstiltskin.
        "Well well well it looks like someone needs a bathroom, care to make a deal with me?" Rumpelstiltskin asked.
        "Oh no, I'm not making any more deals with you," Red said as she danced in place as she didn't need this interruption on her path to grandmother's house.
        "Okay it's your loss," Rumpelstiltskin said as he shook his head. "I mean I'm sure I could take some straw and spin it somehow into something like a porta party or something out of it, but whatever."
        She had to admit she was really tempted to take Rumpelstiltskin's offer to heart but she knew that she shouldn't do any business with him as it always tended to end really badly. So she continued on her way even though the pressure in her bladder was growing more intense with each passing moment.
        "Hi Red how are you doing," Little Bo Peep said as she came along with her sheep.
        "I'm going to my grandmother's house but I could really really use a bathroom really bad," she said.
        "Yeah I know what that's like, one time I went to take a bathroom break and I lost all of my sheep, but luckily I eventually managed to find them, but I'm not going through that again, I'll just hold it," Little Bo Peep said. "Anyway good luck to getting to grandmother's house."
        "Thanks," she said as she continued on her way. As she walked through the dark and scary forest she was starting to realize that this fairytale world that she lived in could really use some more bathrooms in their infrastructure. Sure it may be a magical fairytale kingdom but even fairytale people have to go to the bathroom sometimes, and the people who planned this community obviously didn't think that through. She thought about petitioning the King to do something about it but she heard about how the king Jack fell down and broke his crown and then Jill came tumbling down afterwards, and was still all broken up about it so it was probably not a good time to get on his bad side with all sorts of complaints.
        She tried to take her mind off of the incredible pain in her bladder but that's when she finally saw it, it was her grandmother's house!
        "Jesus finally!" Red said as she practically went running to her grandmother's house and knocked on the door as she stood there jumping up and down ready to piss herself.
        "Well what a pleasant surprise," grandmother said as she opened the door. Maybe it was just because she was overwhelmed with the desire to go to the bathroom but she thought that there was something different about her grandmother that she couldn't quite place her finger on.
        "It's really nice to see you grandma but you see I really really need a bathroom!" she said practically ready to explode.
        "Please come in, let me see what you brought in that delicious picnic basket," grandmother said.
        "Sure grandma but first I really really need a bathroom," she said before her grandmother grabbed her arm and she realized that grandma wasn't going to let her go to the bathroom just yet. She loved her grandmother but that was one thing she didn't like about her grandmother, she always wanted to talk to you before she even let you use the bathroom, but right now it was certainly an emergency.
        "Come granddaughter, I am sure that you can wait just a moment to go to the bathroom," grandmother said as she led Red into the living room and by now she was grabbing herself and twisting her legs like crazy.
        Even though she thought that maybe it was just her hallucinating from the fact that her bladder was stressing her out so much that she thought maybe the urine was going to her brain, but she noticed there was definitely something different about grandmother, now she was sure of it.
        "Grandmother what big eyes you have," she said as she noticed her grandmother's eyes seemed a lot larger than she remembered them being.
        "The better to see you with my dear."
        "Did you say pee?"
        "No, I said see, why are you so fixated on urine? A young girl shouldn't be talking about her bladder like that, in my day it was unbecoming."
        "And grandmother what big hands and big feet you have and big teeth, and oh dammit you're a wolf aren't you?!" she said and practically pissed herself when she made that realization but she luckily clutched her legs together at the last moment so only a single drop or two got out. Luckily she had been doing her Kegel exercises in case of just such an encounter with some kind of supernatural creature or monster. She really made a commitment to not pissing herself in fear whenever she saw something unexplained, as she didn't want everybody making fun of her like they use to about the last time she pissed herself when she saw that dragon.
        "You shouldn't use language like that in front of your grandmother!" Grandma Wolf said as she waved her finger dismissively.
        "You're not my grandmother, you're a giant wolf and you're probably about to eat me!"
        "Guilty as charged," grandma Wolf said before she grabbed little red riding hood and stuffed her down her throat. Grandma Wolf smiled as she patted her stomach when all of the sudden she didn't really feel so good and immediately began spitting up little red riding hood who look a lot more relieved. "You pissed in my stomach didn't you!"
        "Well it serves you right, you went to eat me and I told you that I had a full bladder!" She said and as grandma was gagging and coughing she realized that that was probably her opportunity to get out of there and ran all the way home.
        When she got home she was standing there and that her mother could see that there were wet spots on her pants and shook her head.
        "Oh Red I thought that you were better than that, you haven't had an accident in a long time, not since you had seen that dragon," her mother said.
        "I'm sorry mother but it was just when I was walking to grandmother's house I got really thirsty and I ended up drinking all of the juice in the picnic basket, and then by the time I got there it turned out that grandma had been eaten and replaced by a wolf who then ate me, and then as soon as the wolf ate me I pissed myself," she said practically out of breath.
        "Well I guess I can't blame you for that then, and at least things turned out better for you than they did for Hansel and Gretel."
        "What happened to Hansel and Gretel?"
        "You don't even want to know!"
        Red simply shook her head and thought to herself that that gingerbread house probably didn't have a bathroom after all.

    I guess seeing as I again I mostly write speculative fiction it was probably inevitable I was probably going to do a fairytale story involving pee desperation, and I just sort of got the idea of Little Red Riding Hood going to her grandmother's house but needing to go to the bathroom along the way. Originally it was just going to be a really short one where she gets to her grandmother's house and then when she sees her grandmother is actually a wolf she was going to piss herself, but then I sort of padded out by having her meet all of these other fairytale characters which I think made it better, and then I thought it was pretty funny that the grandmother eats her and then she goes to the bathroom and that ultimately ends up saving her in the end, but not so for poor Hansel and Gretel…

    I can honestly see myself writing more stories along these lines such as Cinderella Or Sleeping Beauty, or something else like that, there's a real lot of potential when you start thinking of all these fairytales and how you can adapt them to a situation where a woman has to go to the bathroom. And I even somehow managed to get a reference to Jack and Jill in there, so I still managed to get Jill in there I guess even in a story where I didn't name the character after myself!
     
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from dabboi in Could gender neutral restrooms be the way of the future?   
    I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from WetFunOne in Do people notice?   
    I think that people here who have the fetish are more likely to notice or speculate, but I think that the average person probably doesn't notice or doesn't think about it. And I cross my legs plenty of times when I don't have to go to the bathroom because I just find that comfortable. But it's true if I see someone else coursing their legs I wonder if she has to go to the bathroom, but I would say that probably in most cases she does not. I think that people like this tend to be more self-conscious about it because we notice it more so we seem to think that other people probably notice it as well, but I think a person without a fetish probably doesn't notice all that much in all honesty. I do know a lot of people with the fetish also are on the spectrum and I think that people like that tend to notice these things more than other people do, and I know I definitely read a lot into situations that probably isn't actually there and probably feel more self-conscious than I should.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from gottliebeln in Could gender neutral restrooms be the way of the future?   
    I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from vizzing in How often do you masturbate?   
    @vizzing
    "It’s wonderful you see where you’re at as a positive thing. Being able to be more productive, and all that.  I can relate that in the throes of inspiration much of the rest of my life is comprised. For one, writing is time consuming. Then there’s the characters plaguing me while I’m trying to sleep. I’m glad you’re embracing your life as it is today. Are there any particular stories you’ve written that your proud of that you could point me to…for inspiration."
    I don't think there's anything wrong with omorashi writing, and I can sometimes be very productive when I am on a fetish binge if I channel all of that into my fetish writing, a good fetish binge will get me a novella or a new book in just a few days, but I always feel better when I'm working on my more serious stuff under my own name instead of just, you know another story about a woman not getting to go to the bathroom in various different circumstances. I guess it is the difference between I could be writing this deep philosophical novel about human contact with aliens or a dystopia with thick political commentary, so every time I just write yet another story about a woman not getting to pee it's like yeah I enjoy the stories but I feel like it's taking away from more serious things LOL. If you click the link to my blog I have all of my omorashi stories in my two blogs, there are about 40 stories I think altogether.
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    DesperateJill reacted to vizzing in How often do you masturbate?   
    It’s wonderful you see where you’re at as a positive thing. Being able to be more productive, and all that.  I can relate that in the throes of inspiration much of the rest of my life is comprised. For one, writing is time consuming. Then there’s the characters plaguing me while I’m trying to sleep. I’m glad you’re embracing your life as it is today. Are there any particular stories you’ve written that your proud of that you could point me to…for inspiration. 😉
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from vizzing in How often do you masturbate?   
    @vizzing
    I have never really had a partner so masturbation has pretty much been my only sexual outlet I suppose, and that often frustrated me but I actually think that the sexual slump I am in a sort of a good thing, the way I see it I wasn't really going to get any kind of real-life action one way or another, and I always sort of looked at it like this, if you know you're not going to get to eat wouldn't you rather just not be hungry at all? The truth is when I get on a fetish binge it tends to be really unproductive and it disrupts my sleep in my entire life, so the fact that I have gone nearly half a year without a major fetish binge or even a really minor one is perhaps better as I think that it makes me more productive, at least more productive with my serious stuff, although fans of my omorashi stuff I guess will be a little bit disappointed. Once again it's no lack of material it just sort of I haven't been in the mood to write it lately. I guess I have just been more serious and more focused on stuff that I published under my own name rather than the erotica I published under my pseudonym. I am sure that one day soon I will eventually get back to writing more fetish material but for right now I think that taking a hibernation from the fetish for a while has actually been something of a good thing.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from inlovewithpee in Do people notice?   
    I think that people here who have the fetish are more likely to notice or speculate, but I think that the average person probably doesn't notice or doesn't think about it. And I cross my legs plenty of times when I don't have to go to the bathroom because I just find that comfortable. But it's true if I see someone else coursing their legs I wonder if she has to go to the bathroom, but I would say that probably in most cases she does not. I think that people like this tend to be more self-conscious about it because we notice it more so we seem to think that other people probably notice it as well, but I think a person without a fetish probably doesn't notice all that much in all honesty. I do know a lot of people with the fetish also are on the spectrum and I think that people like that tend to notice these things more than other people do, and I know I definitely read a lot into situations that probably isn't actually there and probably feel more self-conscious than I should.
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    DesperateJill reacted to Hedgehogs in Why do women wait in line instead of going to a nearby restroom   
    Yeah, it's kinda sad. At university as well. Massive line for the lady's as there are more females there AND they have no urinals (8 or so in a row at the main restroom). And once saw a lady just desperately run to the males at a comedy show saying she can't hold it anymore and could not wait in line any longer. 
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    DesperateJill reacted to vizzing in How often do you masturbate?   
    Wow, I can feel this. Sorry you’re going through a sexual slump, and I hope it’s only temporary. I can definitely relate to fetishes being the main driving force sexually. When I masturbate, it’s the only material I use. 
     
    For the past two years my partner has been unwell and we’ve only been able to share intimacy a small handful of times. Hopefully she’s through the worst of it, and it’s only a matter of time before we’re back able to be with one another again more frequently. 
     
    That being said my own drive has been reinvigorated through this abstinence and it’s caused me to get creative and write most of an erotic fiction novel. It wasn’t planned, but I’m kind of proud and have a few fans (see More Than a Costume in the Omutsu Stories section). I hope you find peace, inspiration and your drive again. 
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from vizzing in How often do you masturbate?   
    @slothmallow
    "I'm also odd in that, I only ever feel sexual arousal when it comes to omo. Like, nothing arouses me but omo content. If I read/listen to/watch mainstream erotic content that has nothing to do with omo, I just feel bored."
    I think that that is true for me as well, I'm really only turned on by omorashi and my other fetishes for tickle torture and embarrassing nudity, almost none of my sexual fantasies actually involve physical intercourse with another human being. I definitely go through structures where I can be obsessed and other times where I can go very long stretches without having any interest, and I am currently in one of my longest stretches as I don't think I have had much interest in any of my fetishes since about October. Usually at least once every two months I have at least one week where I can barely concentrate on anything else but my fetishes, but for the last five months I don't think I've had a single incident like that and maybe that's for the best has I think it makes me more productive, even though for fans of my fetish material there's a lot less of it produced. Again I mostly only write my fetish stuff and fetish stories if I am really very much in that mindset. When I'm in that mindset I could write an entire novella  and like two or three days sometimes but otherwise I just don't have the interest to do so. Occasionally I will have a fetish day where I'll produce a short story what a long fetish binge lasting 7 to 10 days is where I end up writing a longer stuff and I haven't had any of those lately. In fact ever since turning 40 I don't know what it was but I feel it my sex drive and general interest in my fetishes has majorly plummeted in general. Again I wouldn't say that I'm asexual but I'm definitely in an asexual stretch right now.
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    DesperateJill reacted to Gatto-Italiano in Questions (for women) about realism for my potential ENF stories.   
    Thank you so much! I was really hoping you would reply! I’ve seen some of your posts and knew you liked ENF too. 
     
    I knew it’s impossible to cover everything with just 2 hands. And I guess the dominant hand goes to the crotch first lol. And the thing you said about being bottomless makes a lot of sense.  
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from Gatto-Italiano in Questions (for women) about realism for my potential ENF stories.   
    I have a similar fetish for this so these are interesting questions I suppose.
    First off, if a woman is nude and covering herself, what hand would cover the chest? And which hand would cover the crotch? (Assuming they’re right handed). Also would covering the butt be reasonable too? 
    think it probably varies as you could either use either hand to cover yourself but I think that probably most people use whatever hand they write with. I have actually never actually given this much thought or really noticed even though I have saved a lot of such pictures myself. But if you are using one hand to cover your breasts and the other to cover your crotch I don't know how you would also cover your butt too as you only have two hands!
    Next… sometimes I see artwork where a woman will only cover her chest and knock her knees enough to use the thighs to cover the crotch, is that realistic? That seems kinda unnatural. 
     
    I have tried doing this myself in private and I feel that just using your thighs to cover the crotch doesn't do a sufficient job of covering without also using your hands.
    Is it more embarrassing to be topless or bottomless? 
    I think bottomless just because even when you are wearing clothes you can kind of see the size and shape of the breasts, and there are some places that allow topless beaches but not full nudity, so I think that there is something more forbidden about being bottomless.
    How come sometimes, artists only show a woman covering one half of herself? Is it possible they just wanted to show off more of their body? Or does the person drawn only care about covering one part? What do you think?
    I will say once again you only have to hand so you can only cover-up so much. You can't really cover up your chest, your crotch and your ass all at once you pretty much have to make a choice.
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    DesperateJill got a reaction from Shadowdevil in Could gender neutral restrooms be the way of the future?   
    I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.
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    DesperateJill reacted to Ms. Tito in Don't be this guy   
    Send him to the penis explosion chamber NOW
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    DesperateJill reacted to slothmallow in How often do you masturbate?   
    I can really relate to that. 
    I'm also odd in that, I only ever feel sexual arousal when it comes to omo. Like, nothing arouses me but omo content. If I read/listen to/watch mainstream erotic content that has nothing to do with omo, I just feel bored. 
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    DesperateJill reacted to Angusburger in School bathrooms: Is five minutes between classes enough time for girls to use bathroom?   
    Also for standadizoed exams during short breaks but the examiners will just extend the break. However, it must be anxiety inducing for girls already nervous about the exam who have to wait in line. I still remember during the SAT there was a line for both genders, but 5mins into the break there were no lines for men’s but still a super long
    line for the girls. And some guys were making comments like “wow sucks to be a girl” or “why do girls take so long”
     
    Just on exams, beyond lines, the other advantage men have is when taking exams with a limited time, it’s faster for guys to pee during the exam so guys have more time to finish the exam than girls. I still remember a few times on hard exams without enough time and had to pee so bad that It was much faster for me to use the restroom than the girls and guys have larger bladder so we can hold more and have a lower need to pee to beign with 
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    DesperateJill reacted to DesperateQueue in School bathrooms: Is five minutes between classes enough time for girls to use bathroom?   
    The only realistic way to deal with this problem in my opinion (since adding more bathrooms is not realistic) is to stagger the bathroom breaks, but that would essentially mean allowing students to use the bathroom during class (only one student out at a time, to prevent long lines from building up during class, so that they miss as little class time as possible).  That can be a problem as well, because even if you have teachers that allow students to use the bathroom during class (and I know some school and teachers don’t allow this), there is the constant battle of a student missing something important, such as what the next homework assignment is, or when the next major exam is.  Another possible example might be that the student in the bathroom is missing the teacher go over an example for a complicated math topic, and there isn’t enough time for teachers to stop class 15 times an hour to deal with bathroom issues.
    And while it is possible for the boys bathrooms to have lines from time to time, it’s very small compared to the long bathroom lines the girls have to deal with between classes and at lunch (especially if students aren’t allowed to be late nor use the bathroom during class).
    Unfortunately, it just create a bad situation (especially for the girls) because it is difficult to focus on the lecture being delivered if you’re having to think about doing anything possible to avoid peeing your pants.  So unless you have good bladder control, you’re really at a disadvantage.  I wonder if there is a study that shows how well boys do in various classes compared to girls.  I believe that girls are just as capable of learning complicated topics as boys, BUT if they are having to concentrate on not peeing their pants, then it’s tough to concentrate on the topic at hand.  That essentially means that girls are at a disadvantage in learning the material UNLESS they are able to get their bladder under control where they don’t need to use the bathroom at school at all (except for maybe lunch time).  And if it comes to physical education classes, it’s even worse, because it is very difficult, if not impossible, to give it your all for physical activities if you’re trying to avoid peeing your pants.
     
    Basically, this is a long way of summing up the following:  Students that get sick often (and therefore has to miss class) and/or have to use the bathroom frequently (which means either missing class time to use the bathroom, or not being able to concentrate in class because of needing to use the bathroom) are at a disadvantage when it comes to trying getting high grades in their classes (or even passing the class in some cases).
    So if you think about it, it’s not hard to see how a student’s success in school in general (or a specific class) can be partially determined by how often he/she has to miss class time either because of dealing with the flu, covid, common cold, to something as basic as needing to use the bathroom.
    And if you are trying to use the bathroom between classes, you pretty much have to run to the bathroom as quickly as possible as soon as class is over (especially if you are a girl) so that you have a chance to get to a stall before a line builds up.  And depending on how many stalls there are in the bathroom, and how much time between classes, even if there are only a couple girls ahead of you in line, that might be all it takes to put you in danger of being late to your next class.  So then you have to make the tough decision of whether to wait in line to pee and possibly be late (and deal with the consequences) or to go to class without peeing and hope you can make it through another class period, and it often depends on how badly you need to pee as to what decision you make.
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    DesperateJill reacted to DesperateQueue in Do any men feel bad or guilty when we waltz past the female restrooom line and go into an empty mens room? Ladies, should we feel bad?   
    Good point.  I can see how you might feel guilty in that situation, but remember that it’s not your fault that the girls have a long bathroom line while the boys have no wait at all.  So don’t feel bad or worry about it.  I blame those long girls bathroom lines on the building constructors that don’t take into consideration that girls typically need twice as long on average to use the bathroom (plus they need to pee more often than boys), yet they typically have fewer places to pee in their bathrooms than the boys have.  The other thing to consider is that some  girls do #2 in addition to #1, and there is no telling how long that can take, so that may be part of the reason the girls bathroom line is moving slowly.  As for boys, they typically won’t do #2 unless they absolutely have to (and it’s probably a good thing, because there are typically only one or two stalls in a boys bathroom).  I personally don’t see the issue with allowing some girls to use the boys bathroom if there are no boys in the boys bathroom and the girls bathroom line is super long, but that will only help a little bit, because there typically aren’t very many stalls in the boys bathrooms, so unless the girls are willing to expose themselves and attempt to pee at a urinal, that won’t work very well.
     
    I think you both summed it up pretty well.  For the few times the boys find a line at the bathroom, they might wait it out if it’s a short line, but otherwise, they’ll wait until they find an opportunity without a line, which typically isn’t that far away for boys.  The exception might be if they’re about to have an accident if they wait much longer, which is not very common for boys.  Besides the fact that boys typically have more toilets and urinals in their bathrooms, they also have the added advantage of being able to pee near a tree or bush if they absolutely need to.
    But for girls, it goes without saying that because of their anatomy differences from boy, that on average, it probably takes them twice as long to pee as it would for a boy.  It’s also harder for them to hold it for long periods of time, and there typically are fewer toilets for the girls than there are for the boys.  You might ask the question why are there fewer toilets for the girls when they probably need to use the bathroom more often?  My theory is that the floor space for boys and girls is typically about the same, and toilets take more space than urinals, and each toilet needs to be enclosed in a stall.  Plus, you have have at least one toilet in each bathroom that’s handicapped accessible.  By the time you get that in there, you might only be able to have toilets on one wall of the girls bathroom (whereas boys can have urinals on one wall and toilets and sinks on the other wall of their bathrooms).   If you had stalls on both walls  of the girls bathroom, it would be tough to have enough space for a person in a wheelchair to enter a stall.  The girls might have a few sinks on the wall with no toilets, but it’s hard to imagine there being space for toilets along both walls.
    Of course, even if the line is super long, the girls are more likely to wait because they’re about to pee their pants, or there aren’t a whole lot of opportunities to find a bathroom with no line for the girls, so they pretty much have to wait it out somewhere and hope for the best.
    As I’ve said so many times, waiting in line for the bathroom is an inconvenience, whether you are a boy or girl.  However, where it really rears its ugly head is if you’re about to have an accident (such as a girl is about to pee her pants), and you encounter a long bathroom line and you are on a time sensitive schedule where you don’t have time to wait in line.  This could apply in a school situation where you only have 4 or 5 minutes between classes to use the bathroom and get to class on time, and it’s worse if your school has rules that don’t allow you to be late to class nor use the bathroom during class (since that’s what you’re supposed to do between classes, never mind how unrealistic that may be with the long girls bathroom lines between classes).
    It has often been said that men are more impatient than women in general.  Unfortunately, I can believe that, because men aren’t accustomed to having to wait in long lines for the bathroom the way women are.  Most men get frustrated about how long it takes women to get ready, whether it be using the bathroom, applying makeup, or anything else, but if we haven’t been in their position, it’s hard to understand why it takes them so long.
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    DesperateJill reacted to NatalieT in Why do women wait in line instead of going to a nearby restroom   
    Literally every women's public toilet always has a stupid line so there is no point trying to check others.
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    DesperateJill reacted to Hedgehogs in Why do women wait in line instead of going to a nearby restroom   
    I once saw a large line in a pub as a male, for both males and females. I just thought, what the fuck. That never happend. Walked to a lady, she had her legs crossed, said now I finally somewhat understand you're struggle. Walked off. Returned 20 minutes later, no lines for the males, still for the females.
    So yeah. The chance of a line for the ladies is just larger. So you stay. As a male you are more inclined to think, the hell with this, I'l just go later.
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    DesperateJill reacted to Kat_ie in Why do women wait in line instead of going to a nearby restroom   
    Its just normal to expect a line so why be bothered by it; the likelihood of another bathroom being different is lower if the line is within "normal range"
     
    (Its not that deep)
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    DesperateJill reacted to Dribbled in Why do women wait in line instead of going to a nearby restroom   
    The women’s bathrooms are usually always occupied or have a line, so as a woman it’s not that likely that I would be able to find another bathroom in time. 
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