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DesperateJill

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  1. I think that a lot of people get really quiet when they have to go badly enough. Like I remember that one time when I was younger and like there were 60 women on the bus and only 20 of them got to go and the other 40 pretty much had to keep holding it. You could see that the 20 women who got to go towards the front of the bus were all chatty and everything but all of the women towards the back of the bus were really quiet and then as soon as the bus stopped we pretty much all charged for the bathroom. So I think most people try not to draw attention to it even when they have to go pretty bad, I think people only show very obvious physical signs if they are nervous type or if it's really really bad, most of the time I think most people are just quiet and try not to draw attention to it.

  2. @slothmallow

    "I'm also odd in that, I only ever feel sexual arousal when it comes to omo. Like, nothing arouses me but omo content. If I read/listen to/watch mainstream erotic content that has nothing to do with omo, I just feel bored."

    I think that that is true for me as well, I'm really only turned on by omorashi and my other fetishes for tickle torture and embarrassing nudity, almost none of my sexual fantasies actually involve physical intercourse with another human being. I definitely go through structures where I can be obsessed and other times where I can go very long stretches without having any interest, and I am currently in one of my longest stretches as I don't think I have had much interest in any of my fetishes since about October. Usually at least once every two months I have at least one week where I can barely concentrate on anything else but my fetishes, but for the last five months I don't think I've had a single incident like that and maybe that's for the best has I think it makes me more productive, even though for fans of my fetish material there's a lot less of it produced. Again I mostly only write my fetish stuff and fetish stories if I am really very much in that mindset. When I'm in that mindset I could write an entire novella  and like two or three days sometimes but otherwise I just don't have the interest to do so. Occasionally I will have a fetish day where I'll produce a short story what a long fetish binge lasting 7 to 10 days is where I end up writing a longer stuff and I haven't had any of those lately. In fact ever since turning 40 I don't know what it was but I feel it my sex drive and general interest in my fetishes has majorly plummeted in general. Again I wouldn't say that I'm asexual but I'm definitely in an asexual stretch right now.

  3. @DesperateQueue

    "Unfortunately, it just create a bad situation (especially for the girls) because it is difficult to focus on the lecture being delivered if you’re having to think about doing anything possible to avoid peeing your pants.  So unless you have good bladder control, you’re really at a disadvantage.  I wonder if there is a study that shows how well boys do in various classes compared to girls.  I believe that girls are just as capable of learning complicated topics as boys, BUT if they are having to concentrate on not peeing their pants, then it’s tough to concentrate on the topic at hand.  That essentially means that girls are at a disadvantage in learning the material UNLESS they are able to get their bladder under control where they don’t need to use the bathroom at school at all (except for maybe lunch time).  And if it comes to physical education classes, it’s even worse, because it is very difficult, if not impossible, to give it your all for physical activities if you’re trying to avoid peeing your pants."

    I guess it could be a factor but it's hard to say how much a full bladder might influence things. Most studies show that girls tend to do better in school in general than boys, and there was also a study done that showed that people make better decisions when their bladder was full, and that people who delay gratification tended to be more successful in general. Again I'm not going to say that that necessarily relates to women having to pee more and having to deal with a full bladder more, but it's an interesting thought really. Luckily I was always a good student so I was able to concentrate even when I was desperately waiting for a bathroom. Luckily before gym class you were able to go to the bathroom generally because in the girls locker room there were bathrooms, although I'm not sure if that is true of every place but it was true at my school. Even when they locked all of the girls bathrooms during those last two years except for one there was also one open in the gym so on days when I had Jim at least I was able to get an extra bathroom visit out of that.

    @Angusburger

    "Also for standadizoed exams during short breaks but the examiners will just extend the break. However, it must be anxiety inducing for girls already nervous about the exam who have to wait in line. I still remember during the SAT there was a line for both genders, but 5mins into the break there were no lines for men’s but still a super long

    line for the girls. And some guys were making comments like “wow sucks to be a girl” or “why do girls take so long”

    I do remember once when we were taking like the long  Regents exam that was like an all day long test we had a situation where there was like one 15 minute break in the girls bathroom line was like stretching out the door and down the hall and most of the girls didn't get to go while the boys room and all the boys got to go in five minutes more or less, so it definitely happens pretty often and it really does suck a lot.

  4. @DesperateQueue

    "It has often been said that men are more impatient than women in general.  Unfortunately, I can believe that, because men aren’t accustomed to having to wait in long lines for the bathroom the way women are.  Most men get frustrated about how long it takes women to get ready, whether it be using the bathroom, applying makeup, or anything else, but if we haven’t been in their position, it’s hard to understand why it takes them so long."

    I agree with everything you said but I think that this is the point that deserves special emphasis. I started an entire other thread about whether women are more patient about waiting to use the restroom and it definitely seems to be true that women tend to patiently wait for the restroom in matter how long and brutal the line may be whereas guys will usually just find some other place to pee, and I think that in a mixed sex scenario most of the guys get impatient about having to wait for the women. The biggest example that I gave was I remember that there was a stadium where the women campaign for nearly 20 years to get more bathrooms because the lines were like a half-hour long, then they got more bathrooms but then there was a slight increase in the men's line and the men were all outraged so they eventually switch things back so the women got stuck with lines again and then continued waiting. Again very unfair but it's definitely true that women seem to be a lot more patient about these things as I think the women just learn patience a lot sooner than men just because of the sexual inequality in society in general. And I think that women are socially conditioned to be more patient and to put their needs second in most cases.

  5. I don't know I have always thought it was a rather slippery slope, if we start implementing unisex bathrooms in public next thing you know we will have unisex bathrooms in our own  homes! In all seriousness though it seems weird that bathrooms are gender segregated in the first place. As long as each individual stall has necessary privacy it really should not be a big deal, although I know in America there is a lot of transphobia and lots of hysteria and moral panic over that I think that the majority of people would probably get over it pretty quickly, and I have seen an increasing number of all gender restrooms in public places so I think that it's slowly but surely catching on. Whether that will eliminate long lines is difficult to say. I think that one of the few things that might be a detriment is that they might ultimately end up just having one restroom for everyone that was the size of a previous restroom for one gender. But if you can get around that I think that it should probably work out pretty well although urinals make things more tricky and I think a lot of guys would probably miss the  convenience that urinals allow them to urinate more quickly.

  6. @HoldingPrinces

    "I have never seen a school or a place that could provide 'adequate' toilet facilities for all the girls. I don't know any single ladies' toilet which didn't have a long queue. I think practically it's impossible to provide adequate toilets for everyone in the presence of a large female population like a school or a tuition class. So definitely a fair proportion of girls are left without being able to pee, although they have decided to use the school toilets, apart from the ones that won't use the toilets anyway which I mentioned before. I think the best option for a schoolgirl is to train her bladder to last the entire school day without using the toilets at school."

    I know that I made a topic about this all of its own but that seems to be one of the truly maddening and frustrating but has to be acknowledged is the fact that in any large situation where there are large numbers of women who all have a limited amount of time to use the bathroom all at once it is almost an impossibility for the majority of them to use it. So women are very often in situations where they just end up having to hold it in situations where the men are just able to go whenever. Can say that once again it's a truly maddening situation and very frustrating to be and yet I don't really see any real solution to the problem short of  building a really extraordinary number of bathrooms it's probably never going to happen. I have to say it's something I think about often as I have been in that situation numerous times myself but it seems like in a very crowded situation or a time-limited situation it simply means that the majority of women are not going to get to go the majority of the time and then they just end up holding it, once again it's extremely unjust and unfair but yet again I can't see any other possible solution though other than to just be stuck dealing with the situation.

  7. @LifeIsStrange

    "Yeah that's actually the first film in a trilogy, all are available on Youtube in an English dub, despite being kids films they have a fair bit of swearing in them which surprised me. The 2nd film Help I Shrunk My Parents has a brief desperation scene from the mother while she's shrunk but unfortunately we don't really get a resolution to that one."

    I think it sounds kind of like it's a little bit of a ripoff of the Honey I Shrunk the kids movies from the United States that I remember watching when I was younger and got to see again recently, they never addressed the characters having to go to the bathroom that I can remember. I do remember another similar movie called The Never Ending story three where they have two little gnomes who are put inside of a box and they spend the whole movie stuck inside of that box desperate to go to the bathroom and then in the end when they finally get back to Fantasia they end up having to run to the bathroom!

  8. @NudelnmitSoose

    "I think the film you where looking for is called "Help, I shrunk My Teacher" You can watch it for free on YouTube and the pee scene starts at around 25:00 minutes. Btw, it's a German film."

    I looked it up and I have to say thanks for sharing it was actually pretty good scene and I was surprised it was rather explicit for a PG children's film like that! I wonder if shrinking the teacher also shrinks her  bladder more!

  9. @PeePeeMcGee

    "Long form in general though could be exciting. What about a game show/parlor game style? As a lover of British panel shows (8 out of 10 cats, WILTY, QI, etc) this could be an opportunity for multiple settings, outfits, amounts of desperation. Hitting a much broader audience of viewership. I don't think you'd sell a lot individually, but something like this could super boost membership sales. A new episode once a month or something."

    I can say that this reminds me of a story idea I had that I never got around to writing, like the majority of them, called who wants to be a pee holding millionaire where it's basically the idea whoever holds their pee the longest wins $1 million. The closest thing I have ever seen was those giga videos where all of the Asian women would try to hold on the longest but I don't think that they actually won any prizes!

  10. I agree that it does matter how many people for how many toilets and stuff of that nature, but I know that in my school they had 750 girls and only 15 stalls, and then they closed two of the bathroom so it was reduced to five stalls which means that there would only be about one stall for every 150 girls which is absolutely not enough if you only have five minutes between classes.

  11. I always celebrate St. Patrick's Day and my Irish heritage the same way by writing really really weird stories about leprechauns! And it reminded me that I've already actually written three omorashi stories involving leprechauns LOL.

  12. @Golden Guard

    "Yeah, that's the challenge with Songfics. You really gotta choose words that fit with the rhythm of the original song. And that's a really difficult thing to do for an entire song.

    But once you choose them correctly, it becomes such a great work of art!"

    I think that's why I'm a novelist rather than a songwriter. I mean it's definitely you can do it well but it's something that really does take time. The easiest way to do it is to copy and paste the entire song into a document and then just go down the lines and change the lines to something that goes along with the new parody of it. As a person who is accustomed to working really fast and using my speech recognition software where I just keep continuously writing on and on, it's something you really can't do when you're trying to do something else that is like a line for line parody of something, it really just slows you down. It's the same thing that the problem with me getting started on some of my larger projects, when there's so much material that you want to put into it and slows it down because you have to keep constantly checking your notes about what you were putting in there and all of that and it makes the writing go a lot slower.

    I actually remember like nearly 20 years ago this friend of mine and I started doing a version of be our guest called see her chest see her chest and made it all about breasts LOL.

  13. I think that a single stall scenario is probably always the worst of all worlds especially for the women. Like I know I have made other posts about this on here and in my blog and probably also in my novellas LOL, but I do feel the fact that a lot of men's room I only have one toilet but then have a urinal makes it so that the guys you just have to peak and still go quickly if somebody is hogging the  stall pooping. If you only have one toilet for everyone if somebody ends up hogging the toilet for like 20 minutes the line just completely standstill, where at least if you have multiple toilets the line will still be moving even if it's going slower. Plus if you only have one toilet and it goes out of order your fresh out of luck!

    I also forgot to add but even waiting for a single stall that you can hear the person using the sink or flushing the toilet or urinating loudly, it's not as bad as in a multi-stall environment but it's not totally absent from a single one either.

  14. @Golden Guard

    "As someone who recently made an Omo Songfic myself, that sounds like a really fun project and I can't wait to read it and sing-along when you post this!"

    I haven't really written any songs or many song parodies really because I think that when you are parodying something line for line and have to keep the beat with it it takes a long time to writem because you have to really think about it, but I'll admit that when I'm listening to like a song like that on a movie I sometimes find myself singing along and just making up words that have nothing to do with it. So often I will listen to a song or be watching a song in a movie and I'll be thinking of all like these really crazy lyrics to replace them with, sort of like Weird Al Yankovic.

    I don't have a good singing voice though but it would be funny if somebody turn these into actual songs and would actually sing them, as that would be really entertaining. Like recently somebody that I know found this website where they can get an AI to read your stories and he took some of the stories I posted on social media and he turned them into like an audio file, and I thought that it was really entertaining, but it doesn't actually sing the songs, but what they are doing with AI now I am sure that it will probably be a lot easier to have AI  sing songs for you like that.

  15. I can honestly say gave a lot of thought to the Beauty and the Beast and now I think I'm going to have a whole parody about the song Be Our Guest about having to go to the bathroom. Be our guest to be our guest put your bladder to the test continue to hold and until it's in major distress! I should probably watch that DVD I got of beauty and the beast as I haven't seen in a while and it's one of the 300 new DVDs that I have to watch on my list LOL.

  16. @Golden Guard

    "Most authors that write anonymously here don't want people to be able to link their Omo accounts with their main writing accounts. And posting a story on both accounts would make it really easy for someone to put some key words into Google and find the same story on both accounts. So unfortunately, I don't think we'd get the story here if that were the case. I certainly wouldn't dare to do that myself."

    I try to make sure that none of my pseudonyms have any online interaction with real me whatsoever so that nobody will suspect that I am the same person. Naturally I wouldn't publish the same story under two different names, but there are a lot of stories that I look at and I am thinking is this more of a comedy that I would write under my own name or is this more explicitly in omorashi story. Honestly the one about a woman chasing a toilet that won't pee inside of it is more of an omorashi story. Of course I could do that is an omorashi story and then write a similar story under my own name and under a different title and make it somewhat different. I did have sort of another idea for a weird story about what would happen after all of the beasts furniture turned back into people, but they still have some kind of weird furniture fetish! Again when you start thinking about this stuff you can think of lots of ideas.

    But yeah I do have that conflict with some of my stories, I think am I going to publish this under my own name or is it more of a DesperateJill story or under my male pseudonym, a lot of them I sometimes sit there agonizing thinking which one does it fall into. And it said because there are some stories that are omorashi stories that actually would fit into my more serious collections based on topics. Like I wrote that story about a vampire needing to Pee and a robot needing to Pee and I have another one that I was going to do involving aliens, and I am thinking you know if these weren't omorashi stories written under my pseudonym they would actually fit well into my serious collection of stories about aliens, ghost vampires etc. So I do have that conflict a lot where I  look at a story  and I really have to rack my brain about which name I want to publish it under. My general rule of thumb is if it's mostly a fetish story meant to titillate people with the fetish it's going to be  under my pseudonym, but if it's more of a comedic or satirical story it's probably going to be under my own name, but again even in my omorashi stories I can get in satire and comedy and speculative fiction, so there is some overlap between my serious speculative fiction and the weird fetish stuff I write under my pseudonyms. But it's true that if I publish it under one name I can't really publish it under another name because that would give away my identity in the rare and admittedly unlikely case where someone were to read stuff under my own name and under my pseudonym and made the connection.

  17. I remember one time I was in the hospital and I was so out of it while waiting for the nurse to get my antinausea medicine I didn't process the fact until she came back 10 minutes later that she said that she was going to the bathroom, if I were in a normal state of consciousness I totally would have been all over that, but when I am sick like that I don't even process any kind of  fetish thoughts.

  18. I just thought of a really great one going along with beauty and the beast, it sounds more like a crazy story I would write under my own name because it's more insane than omorashi, but I was thinking about how all of the creatures in the castle were cursed to turn into objects like the candelabra and the clock and the cups, what if the  one of those creatures or one of those people were turned into a toilet and basically the toilet doesn't want people using them so the toilet keeps running away from her so she can't go to the bathroom! I have to say really like that one I might put it on the priority list of stories I'm definitely going to write someday, well along with several  thousand other ones on the list, defeating the purpose of a priority list…

  19. @DrBorderline

    "In power dynamic play, I don't like it when the top berates, belittles, or otherwise dismisses the bottom. I know there are people who really get off on being told they screwed up or are inadequate, and that's great for them, but it really drags me down. Semi-related, I tune out very quickly when reading erotica that involves any sort of dystopian police state, even if the power structure enforces the kind of things I like. What can I say, my anti-authoritarianism is stronger than my fetish."

    I have a strong antiauthoritarian streak as well so I kind of do dislike that as well, I do kind of like like humiliation but sort of more the lighthearted kind not the really cruel and demeaning kind. Because one of my other major fetishes is embarrassing non-mutual nudity situations and I have like a whole other pseudonym just for writing that stuff.

    I can't say I have really read stuff that's actually erotica that is said in a dystopian police state, I read a lot of dystopia and I write a lot of dystopia but I haven't combined it with erotica before, although I did want to do sort of like a dystopian omorashi novel the People's bathroom usages strictly enforced. And I wanted to do a serious dystopia under my own name where sexual domination of men over women is sort of enforced by a police state so that when somebody is engaging in female domination they end up being sent to a reeducation camp. So I can see how if you are anti-authoritarian stuff like that can be a turnoff, but it can also be more of a victory when the character actually triumphs over the dystopia, I mean assuming they do, and a lot of the serious dystopia that I write it usually ends on an unhappy note where the dystopia continues and the people are crushed by the totalitarian state that they find themselves in. But not so much of that in my erotica… Well actually I did write one about public nudity as being sort of a punishment in a dystopia so maybe a little bit.

    "In omo / omutsu content, I am averse to watching videos where the people in them are addressing the viewer / looking directly at the camera. I don't actually know what that's about but I think it's a false alarm from my instincts trying to keep this part of my life secret and then freaking out because it seems like somebody knows what I'm doing."

    I think that when anyone addresses the camera's breaking the fourth wall and that sometimes takes you out of the idea that you are engaging in some kind of fantasy, it's like seeing them address you directly is sort of addressing the fact that it's all a set up and that they are just actors and that none of its real and that kind of kills the fantasy.

    "And much as with DesperateJill, I don't like seeing semen all over the place either, but it's harder to articulate why that bothers me. It can't be for cleanliness or hygiene reasons, obviously, given my other kinks."

    In my case I think that is primarily just because I'm a lesbian, so men ejaculating on women obviously doesn't appeal to me for that reason, but I feel like even if I wasn't a lesbian I would still not find that appealing as it seems like it's just extremely degrading to the women and is kind of gross just in general. Although oddly enough I guess the idea of people urinating on each other like two women urinating on each other wouldn't bother me, but I don't know Siemens seems like it's more unhygienic as well because I guess there is the possibility of pregnancy, or it makes you think about that even if you are using protection. I don't know but I just find it really gross but I don't feel the same way about urination as I feel urine is much more sterile.

  20. @ilikeadultvids

    "LOL, I just kind of wish that if a commercial is going to advertise something, maybe, ya know, advertise it?  I was going to say that I blame the Mentos commercials from the 1990s for not making any sense, but at least you can identify it by the song if you aren't watching."

    I have to admit as soon as I saw the mention of that I immediately started singing the song and I remember that clip that they did on Family Guy pointing out about how that commercial makes no sense for John Wilkes Booth eats the Mentos and it makes Peter want to kill Lincoln!

    "But yeah, to be a bit cliche now, but what the heck do boner pills have to do with a man and woman laying in separate bathtubs on top of a hillside?  If he has a boner for the first time in a while, wouldn't he want to share a tub with her?  Wouldn't they want more privacy than a hillside?  These commercials raise questions faster than I can give up on trying to find answers for them."

    I guess that doesn't make that much sense but if I would wager a guess I guess it's because hot tubbing is considered like a sexy thing, and maybe by showing them in a hot tub it's basically suggesting that they're going to have sex afterwards, but it does seem strange they wouldn't be in the same hot tub as that would be the whole point wouldn't it?

  21. I try not to judge people's fetishes, and I'm not sure if I would say it's necessarily my least favorite fetish, but I've always thought the idea of financial domination was just the most ridiculous thing in the world, so basically you get off on somebody spending all of your money? The people who are financial dominatrix  though I say congratulations, you found out how to make money as a prostitute without actually having to do any of the stuff that prostitutes do! It makes me think of that scene in Idiocracy where the prostitute wakes up in the future and the guy is basically wanting to  have sex with the woman and gives her hundreds of dollars and she basically says that she already gave him something, or something along those lines, and that's what I kind of always think of when I think of financial dominatrix. It's a good source for hilarity though when you are writing fictional stories, I will say that much.

     I guess another thing that would be unappealing to me is anything involving sex and food because that to me is just gross, as I find that people eating in general is something that is sort of a turnoff. And again probably just because I'm a lesbian anything with guys shooting semen on women, like whenever I see a video like that it's immediately just like a huge turnoff. But since I'm not into that I don't go looking for that, so it never really happens I suppose.

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