DesperateJill

Okay so I am sitting outside here in my van without a toilet and I have to go to the bathroom really really bad and I just sort of noticed something. I feel it as my bladder fills I become more sensitive to all the other sights and sounds around me, like when you are full you have to become more vigilant of all the stuff around you. It's like every little sound seems like it's enhanced like you can hear the annoying rushing of the water or the birds chirping or you can feel every little movement just because your bladder is full. Am I the only one who has experienced this or has anyone else fo

I do think everything should be put into context though. Like right now I am at my job without toilets and if there was an outhouse available or a porta potty and it was overflowing and there were bugs flying around I think I'd still slammed my ass down on it rather than wait another 2 1/2 hours to relieve myself!

"What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences?" I personally feel all desperation is a bit mean-spirited because you are taking advantage of the fact that a person is in an embarrassing and uncomfortable situation and that they are vulnerable and stuck in that situation. When they are gentle and encouraging it's not as brutal but when they are teasing you that immediately

I can say for me paradoxically the situations that are the most exciting are also sort of partially the most undesirable ones because those are the most embarrassing ones, but I am turned on by the embarrassment of it. So to be desperate when I know people are enjoying seeing me desperate makes me self-conscious about every little move that I make. When I know I can't get to a bathroom that just makes it so much more intense. But to me being desperate alone doesn't really have any exciting effect. The very presence of others no what makes it exciting, paradoxically by making it extremely embar

By that I mean does it matter if other people are around when you are desperate or not and does that affect your enjoyment or lack of enjoyment of desperation? The way I see desperation isn't really exciting without the awkward embarrassing social component of other people knowing you are desperate. And if you are desperate by yourself I feel like it's not really that intense seeing as nothing is really happening, but when you are desperate around other people and interacting with them, particularly if they don't also have to pee, that makes the situation somehow more intense. In fact just the

In my case it would come down to an equation weighing how badly I have to go to the bathroom versus how disgusting the porta potty is. If I had to go really bad unless the porta potty was extremely just horrifying I would probably suck it up and use it. But if it was really disgusting and I didn't have to go so bad I would probably just hold it as long as I felt I would be at a toilet in a reasonable amount of time.

Under controlled circumstances such as if I am chatting with someone at home where the toilet is always five minutes away and I can always give up whenever I want to go to the bathroom? Yes it can be fun. Stuck at work all day for six hours without any possibility of using a toilet when I'm ready to explode? Not so much.

I definitely think it's harder to hold when you are standing up in general because when you are standing you are tending to be in motion, whereas you are seated you are not moving around and jostling the bladder as much. However when I am sitting on the toilet specifically then the natural instinct to want to release starts to come up because I think your mind automatically associates toilets with going to the bathroom. And I started another separate thread at one point where I felt that women end up having to poop more often simply because when we sit down to pee there is that conditi

"I wonder if part of the reason for this as well is that female scenarios are just more common? It's been discussed on this site a few times how men are able to pee more freely while women might have to hold it, so female desperation/wettings are probably something people are more likely to encounter in real life, making them feel more relatable and believable. And when people encounter an omo scenario in real life, maybe that's their trigger to discovering that they're into it." I largely agree with this. I think that female desperation is just a whole lot more common. Although there are

"You're going home, but the need to pee is real. Would you rather 1. Take the bus. Although there would be no bathroom to use 2. Go on foot, takes longer, but you might find a place to pee." 1) I wouldn't go to the bathroom outside so I would definitely prefer to take the bus because I would be home sooner but I really don't like walking because I'm very lazy! On a similar note would you rather 1) Be really desperate to go to the bathroom and have to wait three hours to get to one but you would be in privacy where you can hold peacefully without people necessarily no

"Also it no longer has the threads I haven't read all of in bold. Same with my notifications." I had the same problem as well but it seems like it has gone back to normal now so maybe it has gone back to normal for everyone else as well. But maybe everybody has individual differences. That was the only thing that I really noticed but now it seems to be fixed so it's no longer a problem.

"^^That look she's giving could easily be "I peed in this already." I think that that is true. There is no possibility of her going to the bathroom without taking that entire suit off so I could picture herself just peeing in it seeing as it probably wouldn't even come through the material, so she could easily be wetting herself without anybody knowing.

In my case I think it was just being stuck in lots of frustrating desperate situations all the time, especially in situations where others could go to the bathroom and I couldn't. It would really frustrate me and aggravate me but I also found myself masturbating to it when I came to sexual maturity, as all of my fantasies seemed to involve frustration and embarrassment of being desperate to pee, and whenever I had a full bladder I felt really excited and horny. So for me I think it was sort of like a coping mechanism that became eroticized.

Women desperate in line for the bathroom, women in situations where they can't pee but others can and it's super frustrating and anything involving Asian women. Really I like most female desperation situations but those are probably like my top three that just make everything better than ones that I use in perhaps a majority of my own stories.

"I know you had many experiences where your cousin got to go but you didn’t but was there ever a time this was because they peed in a bottle? I assume they did the bush thing before. Have you ever considered to buy a shewee?" When we were really little and went on really long trips upstate the boys have those little car urinals to pee into and I had nothing and had to wait until the rest stop, so that was quite frustrating needless to say!