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A waterproof layer under your jeans offers a few possibilities. Latex tights are great but relatively expensive and can be fussy to put on, but I've also recently acquired several pairs of 'disposable' polythene cycling overtrousers and some short rubber boots. I've put on a pair of long-legged neoprene compression shorts, leggings, the latex tights or overtrousers and a pair of normal tights to deaden any crinkling sound, then jeans over the top. Add more layers underneath for more capacity. Drink as much water as possible, pack a bottle and go for a walk, perhaps stopping for a beer or two outside a bar, and when the need arises the underclothes can be soaked but nothing reaches the jeans. Perfection is when everything from crotch to ankles is wet and warm but nobody around is any the wiser.

The right size padlock can 'capture' the button and be hidden by a belt. With a bit of manipulation it's possible to also get the shackle through the zip pull. If that doesn't work then think underwear, like a women's swimsuit over cycle shorts will make it extremely difficult to use a public toilet, a lycra catsuit and corset with the laces locked would prevent toilet use at home.

Assuming you're going to be buying online and there'll be a minimum order or carriage charge, get (tape up) all-in-ones in a selection of capacities, perhaps in a single brand, eg. Abena M1, M2 and M4, and experiment with how they fit and look both dry and when filled to capacity. If it's the right climate and weather for wearing a coat or jacket then try wearing them to the shops a few times to get used to them and learn to feel how full they are, then once you're more confident wear them to work or around people you know. I use different types depending on where I'm going (eg. a smaller capacity if going to work, larger if I'm going out for a beer or overnight) so none of them will go to waste. And wear loose plastic pants over them for additional security. I get mine from AliExpress but most online nappy suppliers stock them, albeit at a considerably higher price.

Partial relief sounds like fun, maybe with a limited volume container to use, so the numbers may need adjusting but what I'm going to try is one day when I'm working from home I'll drink a litre of water over the morning and just before midday empty completely. Then with a bottle of water on my desk, a 100ml glass and a kitchen timer, every ten minutes I'll drink 100ml (so about a pint an hour) and on the hour go to the bathroom where there's a 300ml container, which is all I can use. Thus I'll be taking in twice as much water as I'm allowed to let out. The first hourly break probably won't be a problem but after that, stopping will become increasingly difficult, probably impossible by the fourth. The quantities can be adjusted, probably by reducing the intake a bit, to make the torment last longer. Better still, with a partner (not an option at the moment sadly) she could chain me to my desk and supervise the breaks, catching any spill if I can't stop at the top and adding it to the next glass to drink. A plastic sheet and towels over the chair and floor would ensure I can be kept there all afternoon even if I lose control, and there would be forfeits or punishments afterwards if I wet myself or didn't keep up the pace of the drinking.

Years ago a girlfriend would occasionally tie my hands behind my back for the evening so I was dependent on her for food, drink, pleasure and pissing. She was quite a bit shorter so when she took me to the toilet she'd stand to the side to aim it, not that she'd make it easy as she'd 'accidentally' stroke the tip and reach round with her other hand to caress my balls, and then complain that I was taking too long. For revenge another evening I'd tie her hands and also tie her ankles to her thighs and put polythene and a towel underneath as she'd completely lose it if I tickled her feet.

Once you have the full one-piece leathers and perhaps a rainproof oversuit, stopping for a pee on a long ride becomes impossible, or at least very inconvenient, which is a great excuse, if you need one, for a large capacity nappy. Or if you're into latex, wear a chest-entry full rubber suit underneath and just let go in that. Stop off for fuel or shopping on the way back an no-one around you will be any the wiser.

And lift your bum a bit so the pee can flow more easily into that part of the nappy, then give it a minute to be absorbed by the gel before you turn on your side again.

I disagree about the noise but I always wear plastic pants and high waist womens pants or cycle shorts style underwear. With jeans or leggings on top there's almost no sound unless you know what you're listening for. At the shops or in a bar the background noise will mask it a hundred times over and even in a lecture theatre there'll be subliminal background noise from air conditioning etc. Experiment at weekends to gain confidence.

Yes, take about three small to medium ripe but not too ripe bananas, peel and cut in half so they're half as long, if you have a lube injector then prepare yourself using that or use a finger to get some lube inside you, then lube the bananas and start inserting. It's easiest if you squat and you'll probably find that the first one squashes but push all the material in anyway. The others will probably be easier. Push each one in as far as you can and let it work its way up - standing and wriggling may help. Once they're all in, diaper up and get on with the housework, or if you're braver, garden work or even take a walk to the shops and after a while nature will take its course as the sugar in the bananas irritates the bowel. NB: do not do this, or at least be very careful, if you're diabetic. I prefer marshmallows. Six to ten small to medium (not the large variety for toasting). The effect is stronger and I follow with a litre or litre and a half of warm water enema. Assuming you've already had a BM that day the result is that within the hour I'll lose control and squirt by squirt fill the nappy with slightly dirty water, which is easier to dispose of than one filled with brown banana mush.

A 20mm padlock can usually encircle the button and by looping around the belt tab the button goes through, makes it impossible to undo the button and if everything falls into place it can be looped through the zip too or another padlock can attach that to the first. If the padlock can be positioned behind, on the inside, (tricky but not impossible and not if hooked through the zip) it's almost invisible but a belt or long top will hide everything. Probably not necessary for females but if I can't trap the zip I'll wear some shapewear like a long-legged panty-girdle and a women's swimsuit, leotard or unitard so I can't access my penis to urinate in the usual way. Risks? None that I can think of other than the inability to use a toilet and I've done it many times. Many years ago I often had to work weekends in central London where an otherwise busy office would be almost if not completely deserted, and my then wife would make me wear a nappy under rubber tights and catsuit and then lock my jeans (leather in winter) before having me drink a couple of pints of water and dropping me to the station. The nappy filling up and then leaking in the tights was an excellent incentive to finish the work as quickly as possible so my feet weren't sloshing in piss on the train home, and she'd sometimes insist on stopping for a drink on the way back to guarantee I'd do her bidding as soon as we got home so as to be freed from my wet prison.

You'd use a spoiler anywhere that you're going to write something that could spoil a surprise or give away some information some people would rather not know. For instance somewhere there was a thread about time safes and timer padlocks (in the context of locking clothes to make normal use of the toilet impossible and force a hold or wetting). I commented that some popular designs have a bypass that defeats the point of them, but so as not to disappoint existing owners of those devices, before revealing how to use the bypass I put a spoiler warning and a good distance down the page so they could choose whether to read on.

Nothing like those, but sounds a bit like marshmallows, which I've done several times, and it's probably also down to glycerine. For those who haven't heard of this, you take about six to ten small marshmallows, dip them in lube (it helps to chill them first to make them firmer, and to lube your anus before you begin). Slide them in - the first one is always messy but the rest follow more easily - follow with some water if you like a bit more volume to battle against (I add a litre or so), put on a diaper and plastic pants, then walk to the shops or somewhere some distance away. In my case nothing seems to happen until I've been active for 20 minutes or so, then things get interesting and from about 40 minutes to an hour I'm messing uncontrollably.

Lille Healthcare Supreme Fit? Maybe Maxi? Is that your preferred nappy and why? I've been trying several makes and absorbencies but now thinking of standardising on either Lille or Tena Active Fit when I have to reorder.

A pressure sensor so it could be arranged that the valve only opens when the pressure in the bladder has built up sufficiently, to a 9 or 10 perhaps, and then only releases a limited quantity, reducing to perhaps just a 7 or even 8 so the victim is kept constantly full to bursting. Over time this may well result in increased capacity. Retaining urine for long periods like this isn't healthy so once or twice a day it would drain completely either with or without warning so nappies (or wetting) would become a way of life. Also so the victim doesn't skimp on fluid intake, electric shocks of increasing severity would be delivered if pressure doesn't build up quickly enough.

Something I've noticed in the last 20 years or so is that young men (mainly 18-35) will queue for a cubicle rather than use an available urinal. While amuses me to imagine they're all wearing chastity devices that prevent urination standing up, I assume it's either shyness or complicated underwear? (It's probably fair to mention that more than 20 years ago you'd only use the cubicle in a gents public toilet if you were really desperate for a crap because they were usually in a disgusting state.)