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  1. Found it, here it is: https://podtail.com/en/podcast/strictly-anonymous/686-fetish-friday-bisexual-rachel-has-a-really-cra/ It's great that she can pinpoint a specific event that started her fetish. I think most of us can only guess why we have it.
  2. I don't think you should be pissing in a hotel bed at all. It's not yours. It's not fair on whoever has to clean the bedding or change the mattress afterwards. Even with a mattress protector, I'm not sure how you're thinking of doing it but wouldn't you also get pee on the sheets and duvet? Someone else has the job of washing those.
  3. A few weeks ago I bought Desperate at the Dentist by Abigail Thornton. The first half of this story is totally my thing - a desperation game that goes wrong. The main character deliberately holds her bladder after work and downs a full bottle of water in the car on the way to a dentist appointment for fun, thinking she can use the toilet there. When she arrives, bursting and crossing her legs, she finds the toilet is out of order and there's no escape. She has no choice but to lie on the dentist's chair while spurting and leaking in her jeans, with inevitably humiliating results. The second half involves sexual stuff and pee drinking and that's not really my thing, but for me, the first half of the story alone was worth it.
  4. I've had an Omo Twitter account for a couple of years, and I've posted a few of my desperation and wetting videos on there. See twitter.com/mugfulloftea I'd love to get feedback and suggestions for new scenarios from anyone who likes them, but I don't post that regularly.
  5. I love subjecting myself to car desperation and wetting scenarios. As mentioned earlier, the more dilute the pee the better, so hydrate with plain water beforehand. My old car had a very faint stain on the seat where I'd wet myself. You could hardly see it, but that was after washing with water and thoroughly drying it. Nowadays, if I'm expecting to wet myself, I plan ahead and put a plastic sheet or bin liner on the seat, and a towel on top of that. Just a towel without a plastic sheet works for small leaks, but if you leak too much or sit in it too long it will eventually soak through and make the seat damp. It's nowhere near as bad as without the towel though.
  6. I think I've told this story on here a few years ago but it is my most embarrassing omo experience... here it is as best as I can remember. I used to test myself by drinking a few glasses of water, getting in the car and driving somewhere unfamiliar, then I'd have to find a toilet. This can be difficult, especially in the late evening when most obvious places like shopping centres have closed. Late one evening I was doing this, and I'd been needing to pee for some time without so far finding a toilet. I had a towel to sit on in an emergency but I was trying not to use it in case any pee soaked into the car seat. I saw a supermarket. Although it was closed, it had a petrol station which was still open. It might have a toilet, so it was worth a try. I also needed petrol. I stopped at the pump and filled up the car with petrol. While I did this I couldn't help squirming and crossing my legs. I was more desperate than I realised. As soon as I'd finished filling with fuel I walked straight into the kiosk where the two cashiers, both women in their 40s, were smiling at each other and looking at me, like they'd just shared a joke with each other. I'm really embarrassed about admitting I need the toilet to non-omo people. I was hoping there was a clearly signposted toilet I could casually drop into on the way out, so I had a quick glance left and right as I walked towards the counter. I couldn't see a toilet anywhere. Oh no, am I going to have to ask? I stood at the counter as one of the cashiers read me the amount to pay. As I fumbled for my debit card I couldn't help curtseying and bobbing up and down, hoping it was subtle. As I put my card in the reader, I wondered if the toilets were behind the counter. I looked towards the back... no clues there. It was looking like they didn't have a toilet at all, and I couldn't face asking right now, so I was going to have to pee on the towel in the car. Then I noticed one of the ladies was looking right at me and smirking, in a sort of "I know what's going on" kind of way. I realised I was still bobbing up and down, and tried to stop. I gave an embarrassed smile back, felt myself blush a little, and looked at the floor. Great, I thought... she knows I'm bursting for a pee and there's no toilet. If I could just quickly pay and get back to the car, I can pee as I drive out. But no... I wasn't getting away that easily. "Are you ok?" said the one who'd noticed my fidgeting. Before I could respond, she followed up with "Do you need the loo?" Oh god, I hadn't realised it was THAT obvious! I blushed bright red and said "um, yeah, a little bit!" She laughed as she knew that was a bit of an understatement! The other lady said something like "I'll show you to the staff toilet." All I could do was say "thanks so much" while entering my PIN. She led me to the staff toilet. I locked the door behind me and started to spurt as I was pulling my jeans down, but luckily it wasn't too visible. Just as well, as I was wearing tight super skinny women's blue jeans which wouldn't hide much of an accident. When I came out of the toilet, the second lady was still there waiting, and I distinctly remember her glancing down at my legs as if to check that I'd made it. She smirked as if enjoying my embarrassment. I mumbled some thanks again and walked back to the car as they cheerily said goodbye, obviously quite amused. I realised they must have noticed I was desperate when I was squirming at the petrol pump, judging from their reaction as I walked in. Didn't go back there in a hurry!
  7. Since I saw this thread a few days ago I've tried to work out what exactly got me into omo, because it's made me realise I don't really know. The best I can reason it out is that it all comes from my shyness about letting anyone know I need to go. At school I never asked to go to the toilet during class, but if I did and I was denied, I'd have felt very embarrassed. Having to sit there for the rest of the lesson with everyone in the room knowing I needed the toilet? For some reason I was terrified of that. So, whenever someone in class did say they needed to go, knowing there was no opportunity for a toilet break for a while, I couldn't help but really, really admire it. I thought it was brave. Especially if it was just a casual remark to their friends, like it was nothing. I'd think, how can you say that and not feel embarrassed? How do you do that? I guess this is why, while I was growing up, my developing fantasies all incorporated pee desperation in some way. I'm asexual so it was never about actual sex - I found something else I admired which I had a strong emotional connection with. Even today, some of my favourite Omo situations involve a person being comfortable with their full bladder (even if not, you know, physically comfortable), and comfortable with others knowing, but is in no hurry to actually find a toilet. Or someone who tries a toilet door to find it locked, then just shrugs and goes back to what they're doing, not caring if anyone saw.
  8. Train stations are great for desperation. A lot of waiting around and toilets not always available. I've done a couple of desperation dares involving train stations. Thankfully, Paddington's toilets are now free, like most of the main London stations. But a few times I've been caught out by other stations closing their toilets in the evenings, and more than once I've wet myself on the walk home from my station after I found the toilet locked.
  9. I stopped at a service station for a coffee on the way home. I also needed the toilet, but I was wearing very tight skinny jeans and a spanx underneath and it would take me ages to undress, so I thought I'd just wait and pee at home. Unfortunately, while drinking my coffee, I realised I was super desperate to go, and my tight, constrictive clothing was really not helping! After finally finishing my coffee I went straight to the toilet, but it was too late. Luckily there weren't many other people around for the awkwardly long walk back to my car... Coffee shop toilet wetting.mp4
  10. I often do (1) and (2). There's certainly nothing wrong with deliberately having a full bladder in public - this doesn't affect anyone. Likewise there's nothing wrong with subtle signs of desperation like crossing legs, light squirming, etc. As long as you're not deliberately trying to get people to look at you, it's natural to squirm a bit if you're desperate. I've occasionally done (3), although usually I'm quite shy about doing it. I don't think it's wrong to ask if a shop or other business you're visiting has a toilet, especially if it's the kind of place that usually has one (petrol station, coffee shop etc). They'll have been asked that a million times already. However, at some point that can stop being ordinary and start to look weird or make people feel uncomfortable, so (4) is more questionable. Outside of Omo stories, someone might ask "excuse me, do you have a toilet here?" but they don't then try to start a conversation, with a presumably unwilling stranger, about how close they are to wetting themselves or how long they've been desperate. Very occasionally, people have noticed my desperation and outright asked me if I need the loo. I just tell them the truth, and once or twice this has led to a comment about how all the nearby toilets are closed, but I'm just replying to someone else asking me things. I wouldn't feel comfortable starting or driving that conversation with a random stranger myself.
  11. I've found that wet jeans feel much more noticeable than they are, especially if they're black or dark blue. In black jeans you can pretty much get away with fully flooding them unless someone actually sees you in the act of peeing. I think the most effective way of disguising the actual act of wetting is to walk normally while doing it, but I find it very difficult to let go while I'm walking unless I'm really, really desperate. The thing you need to watch out for isn't so much the wet patch, but how you act during the wetting and afterwards. Walk normally! If you keep looking down or checking yourself with your hand every few steps, that's far more noticeable than the wet jeans themselves. If you feel nervous about publicly wetting in lighter blue jeans, go into a public toilet and wet yourself while sitting on the toilet. The wet patch will then stay around your lap, ass and upper thighs, and before walking back out again you can fully prepare yourself - absorb the worst of it with toilet paper, wrap a jumper round your waist if it's too obvious, etc.
  12. When I'm desperate enough that I can't stand still, walking really helps me hold it, so when I want to wet myself, I find it very difficult to do that when I'm walking. I have wet while walking before, but usually only when I'm really bursting or I've already wet myself.
  13. Yes, that was it - I was stuck there standing at the checkout, with no option but to squirm and hold it. Fortunately I used the self-pay checkout so there was no cashier, but there were quite a few people around. I'm just glad I managed to hold on enough that the whole gushing down the legs, glistening jeans flood could wait until I got home!
  14. Of course you can. I call myself asexual too and I'm much the same, desperation and wetting scenarios do it for me but the idea of "just" sex doesn't.
  15. Thank you so much for posting this story, it's fantastic. A cute younger guy, absolutely bursting for a piss in the company of a confident and charming older woman, too shy to ask, denied relief twice, ending with a humiliating wetting right in front of her, as she relieves all the tension by taking it completely in her stride and shows plenty of understanding. Perfect. This is where it got really good. I know how hard it is to pluck up the courage to ask to use the loo when it's obviously awkward or inconvenient. He's got no choice but to embarrassingly reveal just how desperate he is, and then just when he (and I) assumed his desperate ordeal was over, his hope of relief is cruelly denied. I love it. Few stories leave me wishing I could experience the story myself as the main character, but I could really relate to James! 😍
  16. I prefer to be dominated. I certainly enjoy other people's desperation, but that's usually because I'm imagining their situation and sharing in the experience. I love being desperate for a piss and being denied access to the toilet by someone who wants to see me wet myself.
  17. Messing Wetting a diaper Messing a diaper Wetting in public Having my bladder controlled by someone else Controlling someone else's bladder Being restrained while desperate Getting peed on Drinking pee Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting Age regression
  18. On Friday evening I was chatting to another omo guy on Discord. He was doing a hold, and I took great delight in teasing him that the toilets were locked, there aren't any other toilets, you'll just have to hold it, etc. I had to go to the supermarket at some point that evening, and I told him I slightly needed a pee. It hadn't been long since I last peed, and he suggested I had a weak bladder. WHAT. I do NOT have a weak bladder! To prove it, I drank two glasses of water before I left for the supermarket, and I didn't use the toilet even though I normally would have done. After chatting a bit more I said I had to go to the supermarket now and I'd be back in an hour. I didn't expect to wet myself, just be mildly uncomfortable. I'm a grown-up, I can hold it, right? At his suggestion, I wore some tight skinny jeans that would show up any leaks. No problem, I thought. I don't even need to go that badly, I'm not going to wet myself in the supermarket, am I? 😏 I sent him the picture and set off for the supermarket. There was just one problem... I'd done a big hold the previous day and wet myself several times, so my bladder WAS perhaps a bit weaker than normal, and it had also got very accustomed to emptying itself into my clothes. A few times earlier in the day I'd had a sudden urge to pee and had to stop what I was doing and go to the toilet. Perhaps that should have been an early warning sign. As soon as I got in my car I was already regretting not going to the toilet before I left. I don't think there was a massive volume of fluid in my bladder, but it was urgently nudging me for release, a bit like when you don't need the loo that badly but your need suddenly increases when you walk into the bathroom and see the toilet. Anyway, in about 5-10 minutes I arrived at the supermarket. At first I was fine, just going round the shelves, taking the things I needed and putting them into my basket. But before long I realised my situation was worse than I thought. I noticed I was deliberately avoiding standing still, and every time I did have to stand still to take something off a shelf I instinctively crossed my legs. By the time I'd got everything I needed, I realised I was occasionally grabbing myself with my hand as well. My urge to go was getting very intense. I only had a couple more items to get, and while I found them I couldn't stand still. It was like the pee was slowly forcing its way down my urethra in spite of my holding it. I thought, oh god, I can't piss myself, I'm in a supermarket, there are other people around... for some reason it was busier than it usually is in the late evening, so it wasn't even quiet. I distinctly felt a spurt gush out into my pants as I did an awkward curtsy while putting the last thing I needed in my basket. 😲 I looked down at my jeans and thankfully it hadn't showed through yet, but I needed to pay for my stuff and leave, NOW. I speed-walked to the self-checkout, hoping that spurt had bought me some time. It hadn't. As soon as I stood at the checkout and was no longer walking, I felt my piss spurt in my pants again and I couldn't stop it. This time the spurt was a few seconds long and there was a wet spot on the front of my jeans. I was facing the self checkout so at least nobody could see it directly, but at some point I'd have to turn around... I tried to stand as naturally as possible and scan all my items, but I was so tense and on edge that I must have looked very uncomfortable. I could feel my face blushing red and my legs quivering as with each item I scanned, a few more drops dribbled out despite my efforts to hold it in, please, just hold it in, just for a few more minutes.... oh god, it felt like everyone was staring at me even though in reality they were probably just minding their own business and hadn't noticed... well, hopefully! I looked down and realised my wet patch had grown. I crossed my legs firmly but it didn't help, except to stop them wriggling. I was still spurting, right there at the supermarket checkout with a load of people walking past. I just had to scan my stuff as quickly as I could and get out of there. 😳 By the time I finished scanning and paying, the front of my jeans had a big wet patch. Luckily it hadn't gone all down my legs or on to the floor, and I don't think anyone actually noticed or said anything, but it was definitely visible. I got back to my car, and... well, you can see what it looked like. I guess it could have been worse! I was all right driving home, because I'd leaked enough to relieve the pressure, but as soon as I walked in through my front door I just started pissing uncontrollably and couldn't stop. It was a genuinely accidental wetting, but it was my fault for deliberately skipping the loo break I needed. With that and the fact that I'd drunk two glasses of water that I shouldn't have had, I realised I'd totally deserved that deeply uncomfortable public humiliation. Next time I'll make sure I go to the loo beforehand!
  19. This is interesting - I'm male and asexual, and I think the exact opposite. I don't want to see genitals - if all or most of a video is nudity I won't even bother watching it. That's not why I'm into this. I love to see the whole desperate toilet-denial scenario. My favourite videos are the ones which have a story and a setting rather than just being a no-context clip of someone pissing their pants. I'd say I usually prefer female content, but now I'm wondering whether that's just because, as said above, male content tends not to bother with the wider scenario. One of my favourite male videos is one that used to be on Xtube by a user called guyerect, hopefully it's all right to post here: hot_skinny_jeans_in_toilet.mp4 The stuck zipper scenario may be an old cliche, and the video goes temporarily out of focus, but the fact that you can see he's in a public toilet rather than alone at home, he's got no spare clothes with him, his wetting is really obvious, and he looks amazing in those jeans, make this video so much hotter for me than a video of better technical quality showing someone (of any gender) just wetting their pants. That last shot where you realise he's about to walk back into a pub/restaurant/mall/whatever in soaking wet jeans was a lovely afterthought. Perhaps the answer is there should be more women producers of male-acted videos?
  20. Yes, I totally understand that videos are better when you can see the whole person, not just a closeup. I don't just want to see someone peeing - that alone does nothing for me. I want to see their whole posture while they're desperate and the wet patch forming on their clothes as they wet. I've made a few videos of myself and posted them on here and elsewhere. I usually try to show as much of my body as possible up to my neck, which seems to be more than you see on most male videos. Much as I love to see someone's facial expressions and hear their voice while they squirm and wet, and much as I know that would make my videos so much better, I'm terrified that one day a friend, acquaintance or someone I work with might find out I make these videos. So I don't think I could ever bring myself to show my face, or anything identifying, in an Omo video. Once your face is out there in one of these videos there's no going back, and that's what stops me doing it. I even sometimes get an irrational fear that someone who knows me might recognise my body somehow and blab to everyone I know that I get off on wetting myself, and more than once I've seriously considered deleting my videos from everywhere I can. What I don't get is why there are so many more face videos of women than men. Perhaps it's because the more professionally produced videos, which are more likely to feature women, are also more likely to use professional performers? Doesn't explain why I've seen amateur "wetting myself in my bathroom" female content showing their face but hardly any male, though.
  21. This happened the other day. I'd decided on a bit of fun, so I chugged some water, waited a while, got in the car and drove around waiting for the inevitable. I've been wetting myself quite often recently, so right now my bladder feels a bit weaker than usual. I don't think it's my actual bladder getting weaker, it feels more like a psychological effect - if I've peed in my pants regularly and recently, I get used to it and it's harder to convince my bladder that "now is not the time". Takes much less fluid to get me to my squirming stage. This meant it wasn't long before I needed the loo pretty badly. Luckily I'd already put a bin liner and a towel down on the car seat, so when the spurts came, they didn't do any damage. I was wearing very tight black skinny jeans, so it wasn't even very obvious once they'd stopped glistening and the pee had properly soaked into them. So far, so good. However, as anyone who's spurted in their pants "just to relieve the pressure" will know, the spurt is always longer than you think, and although each mini-piss gives you some temporary relief, the urgency returns even worse just a few minutes later. It only buys time - sooner or later I had to find a toilet. I didn't want to risk emptying a bladderful of pee into the car seat with only a small towel and bin liner to protect it. Eventually I found a petrol station. I drove onto the forecourt, and parked up next to the kiosk. I got out of the car and nervously looked down at my jeans, now brightly lit by the big white forecourt lights. There were a couple of people on the forecourt and in the kiosk. My wet patch was certainly noticeable, but it had soaked in so at least it wasn't glistening any more. Small mercies. As calmly as I could, I walked to the door, went in, saw the toilet sign immediately, headed into the cubicle and locked the door behind me, hoping nobody had looked at my jeans. I was already bursting again, but of course, me being me, I wasn't going to just pee in the toilet the normal way. Instead, I pretended my zipper was stuck, enjoyed holding myself and twisting my legs together for a few seconds, then as I started to spurt uncontrollably, did the best thing you can do if you can't take your jeans down - sat on the toilet and pissed full force into my jeans. At least this way the wet patch would only be visible on the top of my jeans, not all the way down my legs, and also I wouldn't make a mess on the floor. I've attached a video with this bit - sorry there's no sound. Having fully relieved myself, but with my black jeans now soaking wet on the front and back, all I had to do was leave, walk back to my car, and drive off, without anyone noticing. Easy, right? Well, not really! It was 11pm, and at that time this petrol station closes its kiosk and the only way you can pay for petrol is at the little night pay window. I left the toilet and walked back towards the kiosk exit, to find the automatic doors closed, and one of the staff turning a key which was rolling the shutters down. I stopped a couple of metres from the door, she saw me, she said "oh sorry, I didn't know you were in here, I'll open the doors for you..." So she turned the key the other way and I had to wait there in my pissy jeans as the shutters slowly came up again. I stood a couple of metres from the door, what I thought was a safe distance where my wetting wouldn't be too obvious. Right, so I just have to wait for her to open the door for me, this shouldn't take too long, right? Finally the shutter was fully open, and she tried to open the automatic doors. Nothing happened. She tried a few more times. Nothing happened. She apologised and had to call over her colleague. So there I was, stuck in the kiosk, having just a minute ago emptied a whole bladderful of piss through my jeans in the loo, with two members of staff now both apologising to me and trying to get the door open so I could leave! I was just praying they wouldn't notice I'd thoroughly wet myself. They fiddled about with the door control panel for a few minutes more. Occasionally they said something like "sorry about this, we just need to reopen the doors..." and I'd make light of it and say "oh it's quite all right, don't worry..." I couldn't exactly tell them the truth, that I'd just wet myself and would very much like to get back to my car! By this time, a queue was forming at the night pay window with people paying for the petrol they'd just bought, queueing right past my car. They could all see me through the window of course, but I was pretty sure they couldn't tell my jeans were wet. The two women working on the door didn't say anything to suggest they'd noticed, and they were just in front of me. Anyway, after what must have been five minutes of me standing behind these locked doors in my wet jeans, they finally got the door open. "There, sorry about that!" said. "It's okay," I replied, as I walked back to my car as quickly as I could. My car was near the night pay window, so I knew I'd have to walk right up close to the queue of guys. Then as I approached my car, I saw that a couple of them - perhaps late teens, early 20s - were smiling at each other and looking at me. When I reached my car, I noticed the damp towel and bin liner still on the driver's seat. They'd been queueing right past my car, and they must have seen the towel, and seen me dash into the loo, come out, and shyly keep a distance from the staff when they tried to open the door... 😳 I gave a sort of embarrassed smile at them as I got into my car and drove off. I guess it could have been worse... if I'd been a few minutes later I wouldn't have been allowed in to the kiosk, and I would almost certainly have wet myself right there on the forecourt. Wetting Myself On The Toilet In Black Jeans.mp4
  22. With the heat we've had in the UK these last few days, it's nice to put your feet in a bucket of water to keep cool. I tried this, but I was also desperate for a piss. So I flooded my dark skinny jeans too. It all ran down my legs into the bucket, so I didn't even have to clean anything up! This is the first video I've uploaded for ages - enjoy! WettingJeansInBucket.mp4
  23. I love this! Thanks so much for posting it. Also worth a mention is this video immediately following on from it, where you have no choice but to go to the next class bursting with those same girls who locked the toilets. https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/68475/25107347/ These videos opened up a whole fantasy I never knew I had. Thank you!
  24. This is one of my favourite threads, it's just difficult to think up new challenges. The dares in these threads are in a few categories... the coin or dice games where it's up to random chance when or if you get to pee, dares where you have to accomplish a task like household chores or grocery shopping while desperate, and dares that make you do something in public with a chance of getting caught. Here's a couple of ideas I can think of. When you need to go, roll a dice, or alternatively use a random number generator on your phone to get a number from 1 to 6. This determines what you are allowed to do for the next hour. If it's 5 or 6, you may use the toilet as normal, once. If it's 3 or 4, you may go into the toilet but you're not allowed to undo or remove any clothing, you're only allowed to pee through it. If it's 1 or 2, you're not allowed to go to the toilet at all. Bursting for a pee but just rolled a 1, 2, 3 or 4? Too bad. Your choices are holding it or wetting yourself. Once you've rolled the dice you can't roll it again for an hour. This challenge can be done in any setting depending on how brave you're feeling - it can be at home, or in town, or when out with friends. I think it would work best if you play it for a day or a whole evening. Alternatively, if you prefer a public embarrassment sort of dare, there's something I do occasionally which makes me let strangers know I'm desperate, which I'm usually quite shy about doing. I get desperate for a wee and go to a train station which has either no toilet, or a toilet which is locked in the evening. Then I get out my phone and make a pre-arranged call to someone I know who's also into this. The setup for the conversation is that I'm meeting him at the station but he's running late, and I'm stuck there until he arrives. This could be either that you're meeting at the station to get a train somewhere together, or they're arriving on a delayed train and you're meeting them - whichever makes more sense. During the conversation I'll ask him to hurry up because I'm bursting for a piss and the toilets are locked. He'll ask me things like "how desperate are you" and "can't you hold it till I get there" etc. Of course I have to reply to these, and anyone else on the platform within earshot can hear. I've done this a couple of times with someone I know online who likes to make me desperate and wet in public. Both times I eventually pissed myself. Of course I have to tell him I've done that... "oh god, it's running down my legs!" Personally I find this dare takes me a little out of my comfort zone but it's a lot of fun. I did it late in the evening when there weren't too many people around. It's awkward in that you need another participant, but if you don't have anyone to do this with, you can always have a pretend phone conversation instead - what's important is that you're on a train station platform talking about how badly you need to go!
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