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  1. mugfulloftea

    Wetting Dares [NEW]

    This is one of my favourite threads, it's just difficult to think up new challenges. The dares in these threads are in a few categories... the coin or dice games where it's up to random chance when or if you get to pee, dares where you have to accomplish a task like household chores or grocery shopping while desperate, and dares that make you do something in public with a chance of getting caught. Here's a couple of ideas I can think of. When you need to go, roll a dice, or alternatively use a random number generator on your phone to get a number from 1 to 6. This determines what you are allowed to do for the next hour. If it's 5 or 6, you may use the toilet as normal, once. If it's 3 or 4, you may go into the toilet but you're not allowed to undo or remove any clothing, you're only allowed to pee through it. If it's 1 or 2, you're not allowed to go to the toilet at all. Bursting for a pee but just rolled a 1, 2, 3 or 4? Too bad. Your choices are holding it or wetting yourself. Once you've rolled the dice you can't roll it again for an hour. This challenge can be done in any setting depending on how brave you're feeling - it can be at home, or in town, or when out with friends. I think it would work best if you play it for a day or a whole evening. Alternatively, if you prefer a public embarrassment sort of dare, there's something I do occasionally which makes me let strangers know I'm desperate, which I'm usually quite shy about doing. I get desperate for a wee and go to a train station which has either no toilet, or a toilet which is locked in the evening. Then I get out my phone and make a pre-arranged call to someone I know who's also into this. The setup for the conversation is that I'm meeting him at the station but he's running late, and I'm stuck there until he arrives. This could be either that you're meeting at the station to get a train somewhere together, or they're arriving on a delayed train and you're meeting them - whichever makes more sense. During the conversation I'll ask him to hurry up because I'm bursting for a piss and the toilets are locked. He'll ask me things like "how desperate are you" and "can't you hold it till I get there" etc. Of course I have to reply to these, and anyone else on the platform within earshot can hear. I've done this a couple of times with someone I know online who likes to make me desperate and wet in public. Both times I eventually pissed myself. Of course I have to tell him I've done that... "oh god, it's running down my legs!" Personally I find this dare takes me a little out of my comfort zone but it's a lot of fun. I did it late in the evening when there weren't too many people around. It's awkward in that you need another participant, but if you don't have anyone to do this with, you can always have a pretend phone conversation instead - what's important is that you're on a train station platform talking about how badly you need to go!
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    You should choose for me.........

    I found a service station and hurried into the loo. I sat on the toilet and peed through my jeans, hoping that the wet spot wouldn't show up so much. But then after I stood up I realised there was a little more to come, so I let the last of it run down my leg. Here's the video, where you can see how obvious it was - I had to walk back to my car like that with nothing to cover myself with. Luckily the service station wasn't busy! Service station wetting dare.mp4
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    Live Action Omorashi

    The toilets are closed I'm afraid. Looks like you'll just have to cross your legs and wait... unless you want to do it in your pants in front of everyone, of course!
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    Live Action Omorashi

    The toilets are out of order. If you're that desperate, you'll have to use your pants as an emergency urinal. Don't worry, I'm sure it won't show.... much 😁
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    You should choose for me.........

    Still love this thread! 2 for you. For me... 1. Get desperate, drive somewhere and wet myself in a service station toilet. I must empty my bladder completely without undoing or removing any of my clothes. I'm only allowed to wear jeans and a t-shirt, no jumper or anything to hide the wet patch. I must record it and post the video as evidence, including a view round the cubicle to show I don't have any spare clothes with me. 2. Ride on a train while wearing women's skinny jeans and heels. I must be at least desperate enough that I can't stand still without crossing my legs. The journey will be for a few stops in one direction, then I have to get off and do the reverse journey.
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    You should choose for me.........

    I did it this evening. The first public toilet didn't have a light inside so I couldn't see anything. I had to walk about 10 minutes to another public toilet, while bursting to go. This second public toilet was closed. It was on a street that's usually quite busy, but it was after dark so there were only a few people around. I stood on a patch of grass and discreetly had a much-needed leak. I stopped peeing when the trickle reached my knees. Pretty sure nobody noticed anything. It took about 20 minutes to walk home, and despite the leak I was still desperate. So on the walk home I had no choice but to wet as I walked - that's a good sign of how desperate I was, because walking usually helps me hold it quite well. I've attached a video taken on my long, wet walk home, and you can see how visible it was under the street lights. It was similar every time a car went past with its headlights. By the time I got home, my jeans were soaking wet all the way down to the ankles. By the way, I love the whole idea of this thread! desperatewetwalkhome.mp4
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    You should choose for me.........

    Ooh, definitely 1. I did that myself once when I was bursting and the toilets were locked. Enjoy, and good luck! I'll do one of these: 1. One evening, wear a pair of women's blue skinny jeans, get desperate to pee and drive to a public toilet. If the toilet is open I must sit on the toilet and wet myself without undoing my jeans - if the toilet is closed for the evening (quite common) I must wet myself outside the door until the pee reaches below the knees of my jeans. Then return to my car and drive home. 2. The same in black skinnies, but no car - I have to walk there and back home.
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    How old are you?

    35.
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    obvious desperation

    Many times I've been desperate in public to the point where I can't stand still. Often it's because I've deliberately gone out to be desperate in public. In my experience it's very rare for anyone to comment on it or even notice, but it has happened a couple of times. Once, a few years ago, I was driving, maybe 20 miles from home, and I was bursting to pee. It was late evening. I stopped at a supermarket somewhere on the edge of a town. The supermarket itself was closed, but its petrol station was still open. So I pulled in. At the time I was a bit shy about just going in and asking if they had a toilet, so I parked up next to the petrol pump and started filling the tank, hoping there would be a toilet inside the kiosk, while squirming and crossing my legs. When I finished filling the tank and went in to pay, I couldn't immediately see a customer toilet. I didn't want to look like I was looking for one though, so I just walked up to the counter. There were two women behind the counter, maybe in their 30s or 40s, who were smiling as I came in and seemed to have shared a joke just before. While I was paying with my card, I couldn't stand still. I was trying to act casual but it wasn't really working - I was bobbing up and down and standing with my legs tightly crossed. One of the women was looking down at my legs and smiling. I caught her eye and smiled back, thinking that she probably knew I was bursting but that she wouldn't say anything. For a moment I thought she might instead have been looking at my jeans. Often I wear women's clothes if I'm going out and won't meet anyone I know, and here I was wearing some very tight, light-blue, women's skinny jeans. Then she said "Are you okay? Do you need the loo?" I felt myself blush bright red, and said "is it obvious?" with a nervous laugh. The other woman offered to let me use the staff toilet, and I said "yeah, I could do with going to the loo..." which was a huge understatement! I used the staff toilet and came out very, very relieved! The staff member who let me use the toilet kept staring at my women's jeans as I walked past... I just smiled and thanked her, but I was pretty embarrassed by the whole thing! Another time, just a year or two ago, I was at a railway station, again bursting for the loo. By this time I'd lost most of my shyness about letting other people know I needed to go. I tried the toilet door on the platform, but it was locked. It was only a small local station, and they lock the toilets in the evening. An older woman on the opposite platform - the platform for the train I was waiting for - saw me try the door and called over, quite loudly, to ask if I needed the loo. Of course I replied that I did. She suggested I go in an alleyway somewhere, because there weren't any toilets anywhere nearby, but I said that I was okay, I'd just wait for the train, and crossed over the footbridge and sat on the bench on that platform. Again, I was wearing tight women's skinny jeans. I didn't think I looked that desperate, but I was crossing my legs and bouncing my leg up and down. The woman came over to me and offered me her empty drinks bottle ("it's not good for you to hold it... go round the corner and do it in this if you want, I won't look..."). That was quite embarrassing, but even so, the pressure in my bladder tempted me to try it. Nevertheless I declined, saying I'd just wait and use the toilets on the train, it's only 10 minutes or so. In reality I was really desperate and thought I might have to spurt in my jeans before too long. We chatted for a while until the train came, and I was getting more and more desperate, and she obviously knew it. She was very nice about it, I think she just found the situation funny. Eventually the train arrived, and I darted in, found a loo which was luckily open, and had a much-needed pee. I'd spurted in my jeans a little, and it wasn't too noticeable. When I came out I sat down opposite her. She asked if I'd found a loo, I said that I had, but I don't think she noticed my wet jeans. Again it was quite an embarrassing experience at the time, but now I quite like looking back on it.
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    What do you want from wetting videos

    For me, it's desperation and wetting in tight skinny jeans. Public videos are my favourite, with subtle but visible leg-crossing desperation. Even better if there's some sort of storyline to it, with the model in a scenario where they can't get to a toilet. The public LoveWetting videos are some of my favourites. Also the reaction of the model to their desperation or wetting is important. To me, indifference, laughter, or mild annoyance are hot. I don't like it so much if they act upset or distraught. Deliberate desperation and wetting are very hot! I'm into male and female desperation and wetting. One thing I'd like to see, which seems to be very rare, is a cute guy desperate for a piss in public, but with someone else denying him access to a toilet - could be a girlfriend/boyfriend, or a shop assistant insisting the toilet is only for staff, or someone else.
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    Surprise leaks

    I understand. I thoroughly enjoy putting myself in desperate situations which sometimes lead to wetting, even in public, as long as it's on my own terms, in a scenario I feel safely in control of. I'd hate it if I ever wet myself outside my omo life, such as at work or in front of people I knew, and I certainly wouldn't get any enjoyment from it at all. If I've had some desperation and wetting fun one evening, I have noticed that the following day, when I need a pee it's a more urgent feeling than usual. I think it's more of a psychological thing than fatiguing of the bladder muscles. It's like my bladder/brain has temporarily learned that my clothes are okay to pee in, so the next day it's harder to hold a full bladder for the same reason it's harder to hold while you're in the bathroom looking at the toilet, or when you've arrived home and you put the key in the front door lock. I get the same thing when I wear certain clothes, mainly tight skinny jeans, and especially women's jeans - I definitely associate those clothes with wetting, so I find it harder to hold when I wear them. As I understand it, bladder control uses an involuntary sphincter muscle and a voluntary sphincter muscle. The voluntary muscle is weaker, but you have full control of it. The involuntary one is stronger, but it's controlled by your brain without much conscious input from you. It will relax when your brain is happy that it's okay to pee. (If you've ever had the pee-shyness thing, where you can't go because there are people nearby or whatever, it might be because your involuntary muscle couldn't relax. On the other hand, when you're squirming in front of the toilet desperately trying to get your jeans undone as you feel the first few drips trying to escape, you're using your voluntary muscle because your involuntary system has seen the toilet and decided its work is done. ? ) So when you're not consciously thinking of holding your pee, your involuntary muscle should be doing it for you. In your case, it sounds like it relaxed because it thought it was okay to go, perhaps as a result of too much wetting causing it confusion between what is and isn't a toilet ?. If I were in your situation I'd have a break from wearing diapers for a while and see if the problem goes away. Had you wet your diaper that morning? Perhaps you were wearing clothes you'd normally associate with wetting?
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    completely soaked in public

    That was a hot experience, thanks for posting! The wetting wouldn't have looked that obvious in black jeans once it dried enough to stop glistening - when you wet in public it always feels more obvious than it is. Did anyone notice your wet jeans on your way home?
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    Wetting Dares [NEW]

    Drink the amount you normally would at a party. You may also visit the toilet whenever you feel the need to pee. But when you're in the toilet, toss a coin. If it's heads, then you may pee as normal. If it's tails, then bad luck - your clothes are locked in place. This means you may not remove, undo or reposition any item of clothing on this loo visit. So you must flush the loo as if you've peed and walk out with your bladder as full as when you went in, or find a way to pee through your clothes. Hopefully this will pose some interesting choices to make. You came out of the bathroom 15 minutes ago, you didn't pee, and you're bursting. Do you go to the loo and try your luck again and risk arousing suspicion by going to the loo too often, or just sit tight and try not to think about it? And... you're in the bathroom, visibly squirming, and the coin lands on tails. Do you pee through your clothes or rejoin the party still fidgeting and crossing your legs?
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    Any Asexuals Here?

    1. I think I've always known I was asexual. And yes, when I was younger, other people my age would talk about who they wanted to have sex with, and I wouldn't. I didn't want to have sex with anyone. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be able to find somebody physically attractive, though. 2. Yes, and yes it does. For me it's mostly related to omo. 3. Yes, it's possible to be turned on by someone wetting or desperate, and even relate that to the person who is desperate. For me, all asexuality means is I wouldn't want to have sex with anybody, even though I might be turned on by watching a cute girl or guy needing to pee. Hope this helps ?
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    [Male] Desperate Tight Grey Jeans Wetting

    Love it. Really nicely fitting jeans!