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petitewonder

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  1. I 100% agree on the period front and since I've started wearing those during my period I've never gone back to pads. I've heard people complain about wearing pads because they're like "it just feels like a diaper." But a diaper does a much much better job of wicking away moisture and tends to be more absorbent so if you have a heavier flow, they are especially helpful. PLUS, sometimes pads will like, end up becoming partially unstuck or off weirdly to the side of your underwear so half your underwear is messy now and a diaper prevents that. I toss and turn a lot so...lol And finally, pull-ups and diapers offer a much more comfortable waist area for cramps. In terms of other uses, this summer has been hot af and we don't have central air and I HATE being sweaty, but I also don't like to lay on the couch with no underwear and diapers help cut down on sweatiness down there lmao.
  2. I would prefer natural vocalization over exaggerated vocalization in most cases, but some people can act really well, and some people might be more likely to vocalize if there's someone else there too; I'm unsure what the general consensus is on this but I think people prefer for any vocalizations not to delve too much into the realm of overacting. In many videos I've seen of male omorashi, there is 0 vocalization (I'd go so far as to say most tbh lol); but yeah, it's moreso the helplessness that causes the vocalization. So when I say vocalization of any kind, it can be more on the subtle side or the more intense side, just somewhere in between 0 to 100 if that makes sense lol. If someone posts a video of themselves, my assumption is usually that they are not *actually* in distress, but I do get what you're saying because especially if someone is acting it well enough, the distress can be a detractor. For me personally, I am uncomfortable watching videos where the person wetting is being scolded in an overly cruel way, blamed, or humiliated in front of a crowd.
  3. *facepalm* I can't believe I didn't post the link lol Her name is Bumble Pree and she is a college student who has MS but talks about all the ways she is managing her condition. https://www.youtube.com/c/BumblePree/featured
  4. Shyness, whimpering, a little embarrassment and blushing, crying a bit, trembling, neediness, VOCALIZATION of any kind really; I don't want them to be distraught or utterly humiliated but just moderately upset enough that they let me comfort and take care of them
  5. For me personally, when it comes to general physical attraction, gender and sex aren't factors; when it comes to women or those who lean more towards a feminine side, it's whatever is relatively within a healthy range with a mild to moderate amount of wiggle room on either side. With men or masculine or non-binary individuals, I prefer the slim to moderately muscular range. Outside of porn/IRL, someone's face and how they carry themselves are going to play a much larger role. I'm hoping one day to be comfortable enough with my kinks to purchase a membership on Beautiful Agony (a site where people posts videos of themselves masturbating but only from the neck up). As some others have said, when it comes to this kink specifically, I don't really have any preference in terms of body type; it's more so how convincing they are at being/acting desperate. And it's definitely much more about the size of the pee stream than the pee streamer as well, if you catch my drift lmao.
  6. I agree with DesperateJill that it's likely to do with the taboo and the fact that it is found to be humorous. In the examples you gave of social issues, poverty, sexual violence, murders, etc., there is a victim and a perpetrator (or organization/selfish individuals/people who can change to help others etc. in the case of poverty). These things are frequently discussed as being universally bad (in addition to simply being universally bad), and often involve conversations surrounding reform and punishment for perpetrators. They are also things frequently visible to people. If I've ever seen any incontinence in films, it's usually a symptom of some sort of serious illness or intense fear, and that illness or what's causing the fear is the main focus. Incontinence is something many associate with shame and wanting to deal with it in private where it isn't visible. I've noticed more and more (and I think this is largely due to YouTube and how easy it is for people to post their thoughts nowadays) that we might see more open discussion of health issues in the future. There is one YouTuber I know of who very openly talks about her incontinence in a candid way so that she can help others who might feel embarrassed and lost.
  7. I agree with what everyone has said here; honest communication is the best way to go! I know it can be a bit embarrassing to talk about, but like others have pointed out, she didn't reject it outright. There are also a lot of ways to try out the kink that people who haven't might find more amenable like peeing through a bikini (if you've got like a fenced off backyard) or in the shower.
  8. I would say mostly any type of one piece clothing involving any sort of stuff in the back (buttons, laces, zippers, etc), or, any sort of bottoms with a lose thread that wraps around a button, zipper, etc.
  9. I haven't thought of it this way before but I definitely agree with this! I think there's an element of the (moderately to highly) unexpected that comes into play; for example, if it usually takes someone 15-30 minutes to get home from work, and they are someone who has a late lunch break, they might very well just automatically wait until they get home to go because it's part of their routine, something they don't even think about. But then maybe one day they end up in a traffic jam that they think will only last for 10 minutes but it lasts for over an hour and they end up having an accident. It's impossible to plan for every life scenario so an accident is like, an unexpected result of an unexpected circumstance. I don't know if there is a way to calculate likelihood of an accident or if one setting/scenario is more likely than another, but I'd be interested to see if anyone's actually researched this lol.
  10. I agree with what others have said about pulsating, throbbing, pulsing, and pressure. I also imagine it like water trying to break through a dam/threshold, and there's like a pushing sensation that grows more acute/forceful.
  11. (Also a lady here), having to sit down to pee much of the time can make the idea of a gas station bathroom sort of gross. I can totally understand not wanting to use one. It also sounded more like you two were just having a light conversation, and you didn't expect him to respond so seriously/nervously. But because he responded the way he did, and because this is a kink for you, I think you felt bad and ended up blaming yourself. With the way my brain works, I'd probably do the same thing lol. But you couldn't have known that he'd react that way; but when he did, you didn't call attention to his predicament or try to drive slow or anything, and when you got back, you responded kindly by telling him you didn't need help unloading even though he offered. Plus, people can't really help what turns them on. So I think you're good.
  12. What would your ideal bathroom for wetting purposes look like? Lots of towels everywhere? A huge rug in the middle? A deep sink in case you wanted to pee in there? A drain on the floor? Have you come across one similar to what you're looking for that gave you ideas?
  13. I keep seeing stories on here of people who were made to feel awful for wetting themselves when they couldn't help it and it's honestly heartbreaking. Making someone feel bad for something they can't control is just an entirely different level of cruel. The situation is probably very embarrassing for the person it's happening to without having such an awful reaction from others piled on. This isn't something the person having an accident is doing *to* you, it's happening *to* them. I just feel kind of protective over you all because like, damn, being an asshole to someone because of how their body works is just so terrible. ❤️ 

    1. NotGraeme

      Is it weird that I sometimes have fantasies about someone I like peeing themselves in front of other people and then I come in and help them out when everyone else is making fun of them?

    2. petitewonder

      I don't think that's strange I think that's sweet lol I feel like most people on here would react with helpful understanding if they saw someone they like pee themselves. 

  14. Today I put a puppy pad in a medium-sized basket (pad was bigger than the basket so all sides were covered); being careful to ensure I took it out properly, it was super effective! Lol. Does anyone else have unconventional places to pee? (Moreso deliberate ones or ones you've thought up before trying them, as opposed to one you found during a desperate time).
  15. I've only really leaked in semi-public as an adult, but if it were to happen in public, I'd definitely prefer people look the other way. Even if I was with another person I'd prefer they just not say anything. I don't know much about fetish clubs (just like, vaguely aware that some BDSM ones exist), or even that people did omo play at them so that's definitely interesting! I don't think they'd really be for me but hearing stories about them (fictional or otherwise) would be cool. Oh yeah if it's a consensual, at home roleplay with a partner then the variety of reactions I'd enjoy would increase for me.
  16. Right?!?! I've noticed this often seems to be the expectation or "you're old enough, you should be able to hold it." I have no idea how some people go on super long road trips with no stops or needing to go.
  17. These are good points; I don't have a lot of experience either but yeah I think it would make more sense that people would pretend not to notice. (A party-type setting would be different but in every day public settings, people are probably more focused on themselves). And yeah adults would have more tact than that (but I fully support if they want to have fantasies/tease and name call their partner in private as part of their play lol).
  18. I agree with you 100%. I haven't had the experience as an adult, of another adult wetting in front of me, but my first instinct would be either to help them if it was someone I was with, or look the other way. As much as I enjoy the sort of slight embarrassment/comforting in fantasy and reading, I could never enjoy it IRL if the other person was distressed. I think that's a case with a lot of kinks or a lot of people; there might be more socially taboo aspects that are enjoyable but only played at in a private and consensual setting. Oh yeah if it's a video being recorded and posted without their consent, that's 100% not okay. I was moreso referring to the videos where the people are partying/laughing/joking around or if they are telling the story later and cutting back to video of a party; there's people who definitely have a sense of humor about these sorts of things or view it as part of a "crazy night" but aren't bothered by it. I've read multiple stories on here as well about people being shamed, punished, bullied, etc. for accidentally wetting themselves and it honestly breaks my heart. Like, you're really going to make someone feel awful for something they couldn't help? I had wetting accidents a few times after I was potty trained and my parents were always frustrated/angered by it. I remember receiving less frustration/anger from my parents for pretty much every other unintentional bodily function, but I'm not sure if that's the norm or not. (It doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me either, because as someone who has had to clean up bodily functions at a previous job I had, pee is the easiest to clean and the least smelly by far.) You're right, I think setting definitely makes a difference. I've heard people recount stories of wetting themselves at or on the way to concerts so maybe that's a setting with less of a strong reaction. It probably also depends how crowded or busy the setting is. People are more likely to not even notice if they're focused on something else.
  19. Yeah, that makes more sense that there would be a wider variety of reactions. I haven't had this experience as an adult but kind of wondered if the sort of intense reactions in college party videos were the result of the partying, drinking, etc. I'm glad not everyone is cruel about it but I'm sorry that you've had to deal with bullying and other mean reactions.
  20. I've noticed this in a lot of videos online: Someone will wet themselves and the people around that person will literally start screaming, laughing hysterically, or start asking a lot of invasive questions about it. Now, a lot of times this is in the context of drinking or college parties/spring break, but not always. The reaction just seems so intense? There is not as much of an "ew, that's gross" reaction as there would be with other bodily fluids. I have to wonder if maybe it feels more relatable somehow, or if it's exciting in a taboo way like the way some people like to skinny dip with big groups of friends, or something else. And I mean, for many people here, if we were to witness a wetting, the intensity would be all internal and we'd be trying to discreetly help the other person/make them feel less bad about it. (Oh dang is that gonna make me more obvious? Lol.) Kidding on that front because having an accident when you really don't want to can be embarrassing and I really would wanna help the person. Just curious if anyone had any thoughts on this lol
  21. I've done that with laundry and towels as well but our washer broke recently so I didn't wanna have that lying around lol. (Good news is we should be getting a replacement this week!) There are some women who can pee standing up and jutting their stream forward, but I haven't seen them jutting it upward. I've heard of very few people with vaginas who can manage a bottle or jug and I am honestly mystified by how that is even possible lol. Yeah I avoided the kitchen sink for the same reason and I'd have to climb up there lmao. Peeing in the trash works if the trash is full enough but if it's not and the bag gets a tiny hole in it, it can very quickly ruin your day lmao. Idk how to pee...forward? Basically, idk how to pee in anyway that's not down that doesn't make a huge mess. Apparently it's a skill one can achieve though. Wouldn't that be bad for a plant? I should really get a bucket tho...lol
  22. How big of a container? And yeah a dishpan could work as well I think. Was it difficult to start and stop between the fills? (It's usually hard for me to do that if I'm really desperate but easier if I'm not).
  23. I'm in a second story apartment so we unfortunately do not have one. (I have tried this before though and it's a good idea.)
  24. Ty! It's just my fiance and I and he'd be understanding about it but I didn't wanna leave a mess. Just for me personally, I'd have trouble drinking/eating out of something I knew I peed in, even if I deep cleaned it and fiance would likely be the same way lol. So, I went with one towel but tried to switch positions partway through because I thought it would create less mess but that was a bad idea lol especially because I struggle to slow down once I start. Lesson learned: - Sitting down on a folded towel controls the surface area a bit better; you'll probably leak through (especially if you have to go more than you realized) but it will at least be in just one area. - Do not squat over folded towel; it is messier and sprays further. (Thanks for the advice btw, I got anxious and couldn't think of something so I'm glad I posted on here lol)
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