petitewonder

This is the sort of male desperation I quite like to see or read about!

I wish I could pinpoint an exact event or experience that was *the* tipping point, but I have several very formative memories from when I was younger: - There was a girl when I was in kindergarten who would always cry when she went to the bathroom and a teacher would have to come in and help her. I was fascinated and always tried to peek in and figure out what was going on. - I had friends who told me they were bedwetters and had to wear pull-ups to bed. I remember being very fixated on this and I felt excitement over it and I wished that it were me. - There was a girl in my n

- More scenes (in that sense, I mean, I see a lot of scenes in videos that features women like desperate wetting in a car, or locked outside a bathroom etc. but less so for men). - Escalation of desperation - Whining, moaning, grunting (as others have said) - Rubbing through clothing (as others have said) - Desperate around other people

I feel like many people got into omorashi from a non-omorashi source but that featured omorashi scenes so I can understand how this aspect might stick with people.

Just got this potty over the weekend. Fisher Price brand. I like the idea of "trying" to use a potty, but wetting myself, and then having to be put back in diapers. It's pretty sturdy; I'm only 5'1 and my torso is longer than my legs so I can sit on it relatively comfortably lmao XD I'm curious if anyone else here likes/uses potties? And if so, what do you call them?

Spoilered for those who don't want spoilers but...lmao.

When it comes to this particular kink, for me personally, I feel like it's more to do with whether or not I like the desperation scenario and find the desperation itself to be believable.

Exactly what it sounds like; my brain has no idea what to do when people outside the omorashi community purposefully engage in omorashi-type activities.

I feel like when it comes to fantasies (or videos posted with the permission of the wetter), I definitely prefer seeing genuine desperation out of need. At the same time, I feel like that offers me the freedom of distance. I've heard people say they need to pee irl, but never to the point of desperation, and I'd be lying if I said it didn't affect me. But as I haven't witnessed a genuine desperation/wetting scenario, I don't know? I don't like seeing others distressed and I would do everything I could to help them should that situation arise but would I privately enjoy

I think if it was a mutual accident (like same car, stuck in traffic or something), where the level of desperation was similar, or, if one was able to go and the other wasn't, that would definitely fit into fantasies for me. The latter of those two could even involve a power dynamic roleplay, or one could refuse to pee because the other person can't, so mutual accidents in solidarity XD

I haven't really tried this but I like the idea of it and I think I'd like the idea of reading it in erotica/seeing it in porn. Especially as part of a truth or dare scenario.

I'm no expert on horror, or being able to tell when someone's creations reflect their kinks lol. I have to wonder if maybe the pee scenes are there to conjure up memories of similar physical situations to create a more immersive experience. But, as many people here have explained the way even just a scene or episode in books, cartoons, etc. have contributed heavily to the development of their kink, it makes me wonder how that could affect someone creating something themselves.

I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and have found that I and others with it also have a tendency to hyperfixate/obsess. I don't think there's anything wrong with having obsessions or hyperfixations. I just think it's another variation of humanity, where those who don't hyperfixate have their feelings of interest and acts of engagement more widely spread across various things, whereas those of us who hyperfixate tend to have those same feelings and actions, but with a more narrow focus. To echo what Trekkie said, I do think a lot of people (myself included) may feel shame for havin

Do you have any recommendations?