petitewonder

When marketing finally understands me, but not for the product they are trying to sell. This isn't the first time I've seen almost orgasmic expressions of relief cross someone's face once they've made it to a bathroom after really needing to pee. (And people wonder some develop an omorashi kink lmao).

I think an accident can happen to anyone, if an expected circumstance is stopped by an unexpected circumstance. For example, many adults have a daily routine. Let's say someone gets off of work at 5:30 PM, they live about 30 minutes away from work, closer to 45 minutes with normal levels of traffic, and they usually pee right when they get home. If the traffic lasts 60 minutes, they will probably still be okay, maybe their urge is slightly stronger, maybe not. But if the traffic is caused by a huge traffic accident, someone famous being in town who maybe the person didn't know about, or any other reason that might cause significant delays in traffic, they might end up wetting. A novel experience could also cause a wetting. For example, hot tubs or pools or natural bodies of water can sometimes increase the urge to pee for some people; if you have an annual beach trip and don't go swimming much the rest of the year, you might not think to account for that change of environment. Being super focused on something can do this as well. This happens to me every now and then with my ADHD (not normally a wetting (happened once, maybe twice?), moreso that I don't realize how badly I have to go and then I have a more urgent need), but I feel like it could happen to anyone, like a college student studying for a huge exam, or someone staying late to work on a big deadline at work. That could lead to an unintentional neglect of one's physical needs. Sometimes meds can contribute as well. I consider myself to have a strong bladder most of the time, but one time I was on a medication that made me leak a bit by accident.

The majority of the time, I don't think most women would pee deliberately on the floor. Those that have a pee or omo kink might do it if there is a drain on the floor, or if it's in a gym shower (also with a drain on the floor, of course). As a short woman, if I have to give a pee sample at the doctors and the toilet in the bathroom is on the higher side, I might not sit on the seat at all/directly on the seat in an effort to get better aim, and I can only assume other short women do this too lol.

(Long list of tips from a former on-campus living college girl) Do you two have roommates? (Or are you two roommates?) If it's just the two of you: Activities - Make the person who will be the wetter drink a lot of water at the dining hall (or in your room if you eat in there). Tea and coffee can be considered diuretics that might make you need to pee more. You'll want to pay attention to how badly you need to pee/what your threshold is. You probably don't wanna be at a 9 in a public place. Then, when back at your dorm room, hold until wetting or until needing to use a non-traditional item to pee in (like a container for example), or onto the floor. - Eat lunch outside where you can sit in the grass. If you're able to subtly, make the other person desperate until they pee in the grass. (In this case, the person would wear a skirt and a bathing suit bottom or just underwear underneath.) Dark pants where you can't tell if wetting has happened (you'll want to test beforehand) also work, but you'll likely want to do so outside, where a puddle on the ground wouldn't be visible, like in grass or on a rain-covered sidewalk. - If you're interested in leaking in public, I'd recommend incontinence pads or adult diapers, if that's what you're comfortable with. Anything labeled "Overnight" is going to be most absorbent. I'd look into period and incontinence underwear too. You can do pretty much whatever you'd like in your dorm room, as long as you're cleaning things properly (see cleanliness below). Cleanliness Bed Look for tips on here in terms of mattress protectors, cleaning, etc. Imo, it's better to avoid the bed altogether, but if it's something that one or both of you really like, go for it, just take the proper precautions for the mattress. Containers Get a large Rubbermaid-type container to hold water and soap, and clean smaller containers in there, or, use disposable containers. To get rid of the water and soap, slowly soak it into the towels and do what you would do with the rest of your clothing. Floor Regardless of what kind of floor you have, you should make sure you have something that blocks the flow from the door (like a towel, etc.); otherwise, the pee could flow under the door and into the hallway. Carpeted floor: 1. Protecting the carpet. Do what you can to make sure that it's covered; absorbent pet pads or towels and opened trash bags or other plastic underneath. 2. Cleaning. You'll wanna make sure to take care with this. Look up advice on here or on Google on how to get out heavy urine stains (just to get a better idea of types of products, brands, etc.). DO NOT USE VINEGAR. Non-carpeted floor: 1. Towels, pet pads, bath mats (they have some cheap ones at Wal-Mart). etc. Anything that minimizes the spread of the pee can make clean up easier. 2. Cleaning. You'll wanna make sure to take care with this. Look up advice on here or on Google on how to get out heavy urine stains (just to get a better idea of types of products, brands, etc.) DO NOT USE VINEGAR. Laundry The scent of urine can really stick to laundry (clothing or towels) so you'll want to wash it as soon as possible. You'll want to do one of the following: - Option 1: Do laundry at the university when no one else is around (3-5 AM on week days usually seemed to be that way in my dorm, but yours may be different). - Option 2: Do laundry at home when you go back to visit (if you do go back to visit and if it gives you more flexibility with times when you can do it privately); you'll want to do your activities a day or two before. - Option 3: Buy cheaper clothing you won't want to use again or clothing from thrift stores; people will vary on their opinions on this. You can throw them out when you're done, or, you can look into textile recycling in your area; people will vary on their opinions on this as well. Additionally: - Use a laundry detergent with a nice scent or that lifts odors out of clothing that won't irritate your skin. I recommend two wash cycles with cold water on the heavy setting, and one drying cycle. Use dryer sheets as well. - Get a small bottle of Febreze to spray the air after as sometimes the scent lingers. Other - Storing Wet Clothing/Towels Before Washing or Throwing Away. You'll want to use plastic bags with a seal (like Ziplock bags) to store them in, and then store those in like plastic grocery bags, or somewhere they won't be seen. (Roommates or not, we typically had inspections in our room). - Sound. Be mindful of how thin your walls are. You might want to play music or put YouTube videos on in the background to help with muffling the sound, because through dorm room walls in some places, you can hear EVERYTHING including splattering. - Don't pee in your trashcan. Unless it's a singular wetting and you can put the bag in another bag. Or you'll be carrying a heavy pee-filled trash bag into the hall that's suspiciously leaking from the heaviness of the bag. Trust me. - Buy cheap chairs from Wal-Mart or thrift stores instead of using the computer chair in your room. Plastic is better because it's easier to clean off. Don't get something too heavy/awkward to remove from the room later on. - Be mindful of when room inspections are. Idk if you had these, but we did, and you probably already know this but...extra reminding myself was usually my best best lol. If I can help to answer any questions you have, let me know!

Water and coffee. Coffee hits me so hard and I'm always drinking water so it can be quite the combo lmao.

So, on Friday, I had had some holding/wetting fun, had taken off my wet panties, but left the rest of my outfit on (t-shirt and skirt). I wasn't planning on doing any more holding/wetting stuff the rest of the day (in part because I'd gotten kinda sick and tired of doing pee laundry lmao) but uh... I ended up getting super distracted by my laptop and was laying down, reading stuff on it for a few hours, forgetting that usually after a holding/wetting, the very next pee is a bit more...free flowing? Basically, holding is harder, and then everything goes back to normal. But I was just so engrossed in what I was doing, I forgot to pay attention. (I have ADHD, just recently diagnosed a few months ago, despite being in my 30s lol. Throughout my life (not realizing it until my doctor pointed it out) I've had to sort of compensate and modify things to be able to teach myself to pay attention properly; so, basically, as long as I write down everything I need to do (or I WILL forget it), and keep that list, any kind of fidgeting implement, and my laptop all relatively near each other, I can manage to get things done (even if it's not a perfectly linear path lmao). And I take breaks and need to move around a bit so usually I don't have any issue with bathroom things. However, what occasionally happens, is that if something has really really gripped my attention, I hyper fixate and everything else drowns out around me). So, after being on my laptop, I went to the kitchen to start dinner. Now, sometimes, what will happen is if I'm laying down, I don't realize I have to pee or I don't realize how badly I have to pee until I stand up. But it's not usually at like, a critical, about to wet myself level. I knew I wouldn't be able to hold it while I cooked. So I quickly walked to the bathroom but not too fast but then a spurt came out. At this point I didn't want to wait to put on underwear and wet, and just wanted to use the toilet or shower, but with the spurt and how badly I had to go, I wasn't confident I could make it that far. I think I either leaked again and then reached for a towel to throw under me, or, I grabbed a towel to throw under me and leaked onto the floor in the process of leaning over to reach for it (can't remember exactly). I then decided (now that my floor was protected lol) to try to enjoy at least a little holding until I couldn't anymore but any little thing I tried to do made me release more until I fully exploded.

I think it's just because of the fact that adults do have accidents sometimes? Lol. (Obviously moreso if they are incontinent). But I mean, if you go on Tik Tok or Facebook, there's plenty of videos of people who are laughing and peeing their pants because they got a bit too tipsy at a party, some people who just end up peeing whenever they laugh too hard (often if it's a mom who has had kids), etc. It's often thought of as humorous in these instances. In a situation where there is like, toxicity in a movie or horror films, I've seen wetting used to highlight the sheer magnitude of the other person's fear. And I think that because no one in any of these videos or films are shown to be enjoying what's going on, people might not realize it can be tantalizing to those of us with an omo kink, or even someone with a broader watersports kink. I do think that kink is being talked about in a more mainstream way now; I mean, I've seen references to BDSM and foot kinks on sitcoms. Usually if I've heard any mainstream reference to watersports, it's golden showers more than anything else (South Park, for example).

There's nothing wrong with that . As long as kinks/fetish activity occurs between safe, sane, and consenting adults, it's totally fine to like what you like. It's not harming anyone. There are some women who do wear pads for bladder leaks. (Idk the difference between them and menstrual pads tbh, but they are in the same aisle). Plus, I've definitely seen porn of girls peeing with a pad in their undies, so you're definitely not alone!

This is an interesting question; I don't hold my crotch now because I know it's not as effective for me as other ways of holding. I don't really have accidents and haven't for most of my life so the urge to crotch grab wasn't there, but also I was told not to put my hands down there. My guess would be an attempt at physically trying to hold back the flow of pee? As @peer_pressure said, I don't think that there is a universal equivalent. I usually have to pee a decent amount when I wake up, but that might just be an everyone thing? Lol.

I think for me personally, it's the intensity of the urge, the more out of my control it is. Although when it comes to desperation vs. wetting, I can't really separate one from the other in my enjoyment of it, because wetting is the climax of the desperation, but purposeful wetting doesn't do much for me without the rush of desperation.

This is an interesting question because a lot of the time, I've heard the opposite, where someone is shamed by their family for wetting themselves and talking about bathroom needs is taboo. I have heard though, in some other cases, of families who are just more comfortable and open with that sort of thing; i.e. okay with wetting themselves when in the car on a road trip and there is a need to go, peeing freely outside while camping, etc. which to me is similar to families comfortable farting in front of each other. Just a more relaxed attitude about bodily functions. I would think that it would make sense that a variety of environmental factors from one's family could potentially contribute to developing an omo kink, but there also isn't a whole lot of research on kinks and kink development out there (I'm curious about this kind of thing so I look up articles when I can lmao). The current consensus seems to be that while there are several theories that exist on how kink's develop and are commonly discussed (something non-sexual gets fixated on and becomes sexual later, crossed wires in the brain, etc.), there isn't enough research that has been done in general that supports one theory as more likely than the others.

Yeah lol. Only to the point of having an accident once because I was also super sleep deprived. But yeah if I'm super focused on something, needing to pee, remembering to drink and eat enough etc. might get forgotten lol. A lot of times, if I'm laying or sitting down, I won't realize how bad I have to pee until I stand up.

Hope you're doing okay; please feel free to DM me if you want to talk about it

You can find them pretty cheaply at some thrift stores.

1) When you are bursting, do you squirm and wriggle? (Can you pretend to be calm without moving?) Yes, I squirm a lot; I try to avoid getting this desperate in public as much as possible, because I'm afraid of underestimating my holding abilities lol. I also tend to fidget a lot and have really bad anxiety in general so sometimes movement is the only thing that *will* keep me calm. I can't stop moving all together, but I would likely try to make the movements more subtle so as not to draw attention. 2) When you are bursting, can you hold your pee without grabbing your crotch? Yes, but I usually have to cross one leg over the other or have my thighs pressed together. The act of separating my legs would make it so I couldn't hold anymore. 3) Has anyone around you ever noticed that you are bursting? (If so, were you desperate because of the urge at the time?) I try not to make this obvious. Unless I'm commiserating with someone (and even then sometimes I won't), I always feel guilty for having to go and struggle to voice it, and questions or statements like, "you can hold it just a bit longer" make me second guess myself on how badly I need to go and like I'm overreacting and being dramatic. I will 100% avoid mentioning it out loud and if someone were to notice and ask me, I'd downplay it or reply jokingly. If someone were to ask me and were being concerned, I'd be embarrassed in the moment but likely feel a different way about it later. 4) Do you ever rush to the bathroom because of the urge? Yes. Idk why I'm so scared of potentially wetting myself in public, despite the fact that I go out of my way to ensure this doesn't happen, despite the fact that it's never been an issue for me. I guess I'm worried about being out of control. (Which makes it appealing in fantasies? Idk. Kinks can be psychologically confusing sometimes lmao). 5) When you are bursting, do you have strong anxiety about leaking your pee? Yes, especially if there is like...idk how to describe it other than like a strong pulse/jolt/pressure against the release point? 6) Please select all of the following (1 to 3) that apply. You have a small or weak bladder. You have a weak sphincter muscle. Your pee spurts very vigorously, especially when you are bursting. Do you think these(1 to 3) have anything to do with you being frantic when you are bursting to pee? None of these do apply to me lol. But I can see how they might for others.