petitewonder

Based on my own experience, I think some women do this as the result of a swelling of their abdomen because the sensation feels uncomfortable? Like, I will also rub my stomach if I have a stomachache or if I'm getting cramps, whenever there is a sort of "bloat" to the stomach. I agree with Isn1 as well, that it might be more about pulling the waistband of the pants/panties away.

Most often 1 or 2.

Watching videos of other peeing if the video is focused on someone rushing to get their pants down, or if they are peeing a lot, sometimes even if there is like a moan of relief. Stepping in cold water (even like, a puddle or something). After swimming in a pool for awhile, even if I've gone to the bathroom outside of the pool recently.

Yeah, this one really sticks out to me. Also an episode of Animaniacs where Wakko keeps squirming and running around saying "I need to potty." There are likely others, probably that fit under what TV Tropes refers to as a "Potty Emergency" with barely making it or being unable to hold it any longer resulting in a "Potty Failure." It was often a character who really had to go and then was like "nevermind" or "I don't have to go anymore" etc. I think the furthest back that I am aware of was "Once Upon A Potty" (but that was direct-to-video).

I always find that I have to pee more when getting out of the pool? Lmao. I mean, I'm not drinking the water but I'm submerged in liquid so that might be why. Several times I've had to just go through my bathing suit on the toilet out of desperation.

I...have a lot but I think it's because I tend to notice details more than anything else? Lmao. Hopefully it's nothing too odd-sounding. The wording might be a little awkward but just to clarify, anything involving interacting with another person directly would have to involve their consent/them being a bit shy/embarrassed but not full on distressed: - A sharp breath sucked in through their teeth. - All the little sounds of desperation: grunts, heavier breathing whimpers etc. - All the little sounds when the body decides to let go for the person (the sounds tend to be more staccato and staggered when this happens because of the element of surprise whereas the sounds of desperation can either be longer or rhythmic, almost like there is silent bargaining with the universe going on lol). - Any sort of leaking really (bonus points if visual wet spot) (bonus bonus points if I were to be asked to verify if a wet spot is visible or not) (super bonus points if audible). - Audible, loud wetting. (The idea of knowing someone is wetting themselves prior to being able to visually see it is very appealing). - Giving someone my sweatshirt or jacket to tie around their waist, or helping someone walk away so they are as least noticeable as possible. - "A little bit just came out/I just peed a little in my (panties, underwear, etc)/etc." - "I don't think I can hold it much longer." - "If I move I'm gonna pee myself." - "It's coming out." - Lying about having to go when visibly, very clearly, having to go. - Me being able to comfort and reassure the person that it is going to be fine because car seats and furniture and clothing can be washed. - Resting hands on the thighs while they try to not to grasp themselves through their clothing but they are getting to the point where they might have to. - Slight distress/panic at leaking. - Someone telling me not to give them a hug after because they don't want me to get wet too and me reassuring them that then they won't be the only one (and then them allowing me to hold them). - Squirming, especially if the person is trying not to make it look obvious. - Sticking their hand down their pants to be able to hold themselves better. - The other person glancing at me for my reaction and me reassuring them. - The spread of wetness in jeans.

100% agree on audible spurts! I wish there were more vids that had this aspect tbh.

Where's the fanciest place you've wet yourself? (Leaking in your underwear in the lobby bathroom in a super nice hotel where each stall door is a full on wooden door with its own handle; wetting your bathing suit in the sand at a very exclusive beach resort because there weren't any bathrooms etc. etc.)

That's an interesting mental image lol Definitely not what I expected but it sounds like it might feel nice XD

I have absolutely no idea how to tell this because like, I'm always trying to hide this particular interest so I end up overcompensating by being less involved in any kinds of conversations about it, for fear that I might reveal myself. Which kind of makes me wonder if maybe a marked lack of response or mentioning it would be a giveaway? Lol. On the other hand, if I'm watching unscripted content, and there's a large amount of pee jokes (especially if it's like, specific scenarios being described) I start to get a little suspicious lmao. But at the same time there are a lot of adults who find potty humor to be very hilarious so then I think I'm probably projecting...but idk lmao.

I like the idea of assisted peeing or assisted holding. Just any general contact with that area which requires pressure or different positioning. I like the caretaking aspect that could be involved here and it sounds very intimate. I've definitely fantasized about helping a guy out while he's having trouble removing a costume (or fancy dress) and needs my assistance. I've never tried this before but I've heard you can feel the pee moving through a dick? The idea of being helped also appeals to me, especially because like, if the other person is assisting me and I make a mess, it's not totally my fault lmao.

I enjoy sitting wettings (but the sort where the person is actually sitting normally and not in an unusual position like laying on their lower back with their legs spread; not that there's anything wrong with it, it's just not my preference). I think I like the idea of sitting as one would on a toilet but without it being a toilet and having an accident. I find it harder to hold when sitting; for me, if I were trying to conceal that I needed to go, I'd end up looking more obvious sitting as opposed to standing. I feel like there are often more times in day to day life when one is sitting as opposed to standing (of course with variations depending on the person's job). I like the idea of the puddle not necessarily being visible, but I either can hear someone else wetting themselves in like an arm chair because I'm sitting near them, or they have to tell me why they can't stand up at that particular moment. I like the idea of wetting unprotected indoor furniture or another sitting...apparatus? Lol. But not the clean up that would come along with it. I think that a way to deal with that would be to use beach chairs or plastic patio chairs outdoors that could be more easily cleaned. There would be a thrill in a visible puddle as well on a more flat seat but I like the idea of it being just myself and another person there as opposed to a large amount of people. I think it would also feel nice. I like wettings where the person accidentally sits down on a closed toilet seat and starts to drip onto the floor before they realize and open the toilet. (This happened to me once after a really long road trip when I was younger lmao). I also love car wettings as well. I think I associate being seated with obligations to remain seated and therefore that puts the person in a more desperate situation. For example, if you're stuck in a traffic jam, and sitting, there's no where to go and if the car slowly moves forward and there's a bump in the road... Plus if someone is wearing a skirt or a dress and they have it tucked under themselves they'd wet through that too. Lmao I'm now trying to figure out all the places one might sit down and wet themselves.

Based on what I've seen across the Internet, if you have a vagina, you're more likely to leak *before* reaching the toilet (various reasons for this), and if you have a dick, you're more likely to leak *after* reaching the toilet (I think it's something like it's hard to tell if it's all out?). What are your thoughts on this?

So, I like the idea of holding my fiance's dick and standing behind him when he's desperate to pee (maybe after leaking a little) and aiming it (properly in this case) towards the toilet; but I'm like 7 inches shorter than him in height so what's the best way to see what I'm doing?

I had no idea this was a thing lmao XD Cool to know!