Kat_ie

I mean (some/most/idk) we also just cross our legs on a normal basis and doing nothing in line tends to also provoke similar behavior?

I worked at a pop up amusement park for 2 summers; I'd say this type of job is up there. I think most "local" attractions would suffer similar issues: crowded, understaffed, and/or under-equipped. I've held many part-times jobs throughout and this one was up there in terms of hard on my bladder. I contemplating writing a full story on here at some point but I never actually had a full accident so I'll just unload here. In the heat of the summer sun, we'd operate rides and guide visitors for the whole day until midnight. It was a pop up station that would last a little longer than 2 weeks and for both summers I don't remember a single day I didn't barely make it to the bathroom. We had I think 20 minute break times but it wasn't infrequent for help to be needed moving equipment fixing gears and other tasks others than operating rides. That's not that big of a deal though it happens with a lot of jobs I think but the biggest problem was the crowd and the fact that the toilets are portapotties. If we were stationed at non safety critical jobs then it would be very common for people to ask others to cover for them. I don't particularly have a weak bladder, I think it's pretty average, and I would ask nearly daily at least one time. The heat and the talking made it impossible to drink less. I don't remember how much water I was drinking but I knew some people carried and refilled those massive 40 oz water bottles multiple times through their shifts. I could often be found leaning against railings with crossed legs for hours on end and it was almost daily routine to run around the whole set up trying to find the shortest portapotty line. The first couple of days were really painful. I remember on the very first day I didn't go for 5 hours and I was doing a full desperate dance infront of visitors until we were put on break for an hour for dinner. I got used to a pattern as time went on which made it a little bit more manageable. I would ask someone to cover me and pee right around 1pm when the lines to the bathroom was some of the shortest. My pee-shyness and hovering would kind of stop me from being fully relieved but at this point I wouldn't be too desperate either and I just had to empty as much as I could before the crowds started needing the toilet too. I'd take a double shift and so my break would be around 5pm. I would often be painfully desperate by this time but by doing this I had enough time to run across the park and go to a nearby shopping complex to pee. It took anywhere inbetween 10-15 minutes of a walk to get to the Target but portapotty lines by that time would certainly take longer. It was a risky strategy but I made it to the bathroom everyday of the job so uh mission accomplished... even if I never had dry panties.

Theyre gross and anxiety inducing - I've never been able to relieve myself to any good degree at one. Especially if its got like lines of people and its crowded it just feels like I'm being judged and watched and my bladder just doesn't relax at all

I guess like on average it ends with the toilet because I like to hold it 24/7 but if I'm like actively drinking planning it then always a wetting!

I think I witnessed the peak of 'breaking the seal'. I witnessed my friend today drink 5 cans of beers in like an hour/hour and a half and then at least another 4 cans of beer and a liter of water but she lasted for about 6 hours-ish. She was had to go really badly and I think she leaked a lil bit but still very impressive in my opinion. I think her bladder really gave way afterwards though because for the next 2 hours she went to the bathroom every 20 minutes. We were actually timing how long it would take her to go and the shortest was 10 minutes and the longest was 30 minutes with her barely even able to walk to the bathroom without crossing her legs

So many times. I'm usually really really desperate to pee in my dream and barely make it to the bathroom clean and then I pee. Usually I don't like wet the bed, I just wake up REALLY REALLY REALLY desperate after I let out a spurt in the dream (which is often one in real life too)

Its such a good relief to be able to like let go... Its like being able to release the tension and it just feels like a job done. Not in public bathrooms for me though, my bladder never relaxes even while peeing it feels like

I just never thought something like could actually happen. Theres 8 shower + toilet all gender bathrooms for 400 students right now. Next closest bathroom is the one toilet stall per gender downstairs in the lobby. I already saw a small line in the lobby bathroom downstairs. What a week this is going to be

Close calls are great! I don't want to wet myself constantly obviously so this is what I love doing regularly instead- but I still like a full wetting feeling of just loosing control. It also lets me be a lot more desperate

So there is actually a physical thing as a 'small' bladder?

Being knowingly stuck in one place. Exhibit A: elevators

Follow steps that others listed already, the 2nd hold is so much better than the first hold

I've recently wondered, we here love to talk about accidents and often times they are special occasions and/or full wettings. But as a desperation enjoyer who has many reasonable and unreasonable reasons to be holding and desperate, I wet my panties almost daily- just in very inconsequential ways. Something like this is hard to explain or write a story and is moreso just daily life for me so it doesn't get talked about that much. Out of curiosity of how many of us are kind of like me, heres a small poll to check. Whos wetting themselves and how- on a common basis?

Walk to the toilet because its more fun that way.. heh

I'm doing this in my bathtub when I come back from uni this is a great idea. (Although idk about doing this in a public area...)