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sybil

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  1. Look for women who are kink friendly and who are not super wrapped up in gender roles. Share this with them when the time is right. Sometimes they may not take to it right away, or be begrudging about their participation, but just like any aspect of a person you are dating, the more time you spend with them, the more you learn about that and the more they learn about you, and you get to make the choice about whether you continue dating them. Repeat this process until you find someone that you can share this with. Who also has all of the other traits who are looking for! I'm not a man, but the same thing goes for me as a queer woman-- I date women who generally have a positive view on sex and who are either switchy or more dominant. I have dated several women who were ABDLs, but we weren't compatible for other reasons. Was not an ABDL, in fact she had a fear of peeing in public restrooms, but after introducing this to her, she not only enthusiastically participated, but now considers herself an ABDL. I've had other partners who didn't become abdl's but did happily and willingly participate and find it hot in their own way Just take it one step at a time and treat it like any other aspect of a relationship! You're not necessarily going to get someone who wants to wear diapers every day, but it's very reasonable and not crazy. Difficult to find someone who will accept you for it and will participate in it, even if you are a dude
  2. the last burn I was at (a smaller regional burn), one night I saw a guy dressed in a onsie with v ab/dl vibes with what was undoubtedly a diaper bulge in it. not a direct answer to your question but I thought that was interesting!
  3. I honestly don't know on what planet using "f*ck* automatically means "unenjoyable sex", and there are loads of people who use the word casually, so let's not split hairs hair or nitpick at what someone is saying. Its not a word you would use around children or in a professional situation perhaps, but literally everyone I know use "have sex" and "f*ck" interchangeably, and this is adult content we are discussing. If you don't want to say f*ck, that's fine, but let's not be unnecessarily condescending and confusing here at another user, and lets also not assume our own more conservative use of language is the "right way" and applies to everyone. After all, we are on a fetish site, and I think a bit of open-mindedness and license of language (barring racist language or other hateful language) is in the spirit of the environment. We aren't in a boardroom meeting or something. @China Girl your English seems excellent (I'm sure you already know this!) Now, if you wanted to debate whether asking about their sex life was appropriate -- when it was not explicitly shared -- that is perhaps more debatable (I mean I think its fine she asked -- he is clearly an adult and can refuse if he wishes). Again, we are on a fetish site.
  4. I've been wearing during the day the last few days because its simply easier than running to the bathroom every hour while out and about or doing errands or trying to get work done (or even when just sitting at home). I mean, and because diapers are fun. What can I say? So Tuesday I was wearing a long hippy-ish skirt (I love love love long skirts), and the weather was beautiful so I had a short sleeve top. SUCH beautiful weather today. Anyways. When I woke up I changed out of a TENA max I'd slept in (or whatever they're called, the blue ones. They're new to me I just bought them). Put on a transquility ATN with brief spanx over them to be a little more mobile, and by the time I headed out it was already decently wet. But! I wanted to get moving and get my errands done, so I headed out. Drove to the mall (an outdoor mall, just lots of big box stores etc), parked in the parking lot, and walked to the first store with some shoes I needed to return. As I was walking I touched the back of my skirt (a common impulse), and noticed it was a bit wet. Still, I was in the middle of the parking lot so I just went, returned the shoes, and headed back to my car. I grabbed my bag, which has a change, powder, etc, and went to the public rest room in the shopping center garage a little ways away. Went in the stall, noticed the spanx were soaked at the crotch because the diaper had leaked, so I took those off. I was bummed because I like wearing something to keep the diaper on tight when I'm out, it just feels more secure and private and comfortable because you don't have the plastic rubbing against the side of your legs. Also helps a bit with smell. Anyways, that was not good, but I balled the panties up, put them in my bag, wiped myself clean. I was worried, because I generally try to drink a lot of water to stay hydrated and healthy and keep my skin nice and pretty and whatnot (ironically has nothing to do with omo... its just the result of being a former smoker who needs a better oral fixation and would perish if i drank 60 cups of coffee a day instead) So, that's kind of built into my day. So I had brought one of these too-thick blue TENA with me just in case as well as a transquility ATN...so I chose the blue Tena, and went back out to the shopping center, wanting the one with more absorbency so I wouldn't have to stop back in the bathroom before going home. This may have proved futile... but meanwhile, I should mention when I'm wearing I often just get used to letting myself pee as the feeling comes to me, so sometimes I notice and sometimes it sort of just happens by impulse. Its just so much easier than running to the bathroom all the time. This probably is not a good long term habit to keep, but hell, what can I say. This is how I roll I guess? So I went to TJ Max to look for summer clothes. I had time to kill before the phone calls I had to make for work, so I went in there and picked a bunch of stuff out. I realized it was a bit futile trying to pick up shorts and jumpsuits because trying them on padded doesn't give the best idea of what they are gonna fit like WITHOUT a nighttime diaper on your crotch, but hey, what're you gonna do. Warm weather is upon us and I dont have shit for short sleeves to wear. SO I went in the dressing room, tried on my stuff, picked a bunch of stuff to buy, and went back to find some bras and panties (can't try those on so I generally shop for those after I've tried stuff on. I bought picked some bras and some more of these skinnygirl compression panties I like to wear whether diapered or not, which I have been meaning to do anyways. ) I sort of checked and realized I was already really wet. I'd only been in the store for 45 minutes, but I guess the last drink of water from my nalgene had really filled me up. This was surprising because I kinda hadn't noticed it got that wet that fast. I think when you're wearing and peeing constantly your body tells itself to produce more urine. Maybe? Ok, so I stand in line, feeling the stupid soggy thing between my legs NOT held up by anything. Im standing between one man in front of me and two men in back of me, and I feel the urge to pee again and try to hold it back, not thinking necessarily I would leak out of the diaper, but was just starting to get worried I'd gone so much without noticing and just wanted to see if I could hold it. I was also worried I smelled bad and didnt want to create any more bad smell (I dont know whether I did or not, but I sometimes worry). ANYWAYS, I pay, chatting with the cashier, I realize I sort of just let myself start peeing the last bit I had in me. I'd gotten so used to just letting go! Anyways just as I was waiting for my credit card to go through I I felt a single trick run down my leg. This was kind of a strange feeling because I so rarely leak, and if I do, often whatever underwear I wear over the diaper will kind of soak it up. NOT THE CASE. The diaper was NOT having it. I was done peeing but I could feel it just not absorbing anymore and leaking out. As I walked back to my card I felt wetness just keep falling under my skirt on my legs, and some ran down my legs. So my skirt had gotten a bit wet, but I was mostly worried about my shoes! (they are just sneakers but I only have one pair of sneakers...I had just returned the new pair, as I mentioned earlier in the story, because they didnt fit quite right when I brought them home). Anyways, I get to my car, get a change, and go back to the bathroom (again) to change. OK! no more brains to write for today, but thats how the day went. Note, I started writing this on Tuesday night but forgot to post until today, and I dont have the head to doublecheck it 10 times, so if any of the tenses seem wrong, thats why! The moral of this story? You can do anything in a long skirt. Pretty much anything. OK thanks for reading!!!
  5. pro tip, a thought: a vinyl sheet UNDER the padded mattress cover you bought will make the vinyl last longer bc it is not receiving as much friction, and then you can just wash the top cover and wipe down the bottom cover if it has any residue. washing a vinyl sheet will deteriorate it faster fyi, keep this in mind with whatever cleaning supplies you use. Another trick, somewhat unrelated, but great for changing in the middle of the night: Multiple sets of sheets. So like, vinyl, then mattress cover, then sheet, then vinyl, then mattress cover, sheet... or any combo thereof.
  6. i consider myself a lesbian. although *sigh* i admit i do have an unfortunate secondary interest in men. probably like 85 percent interested in women, and like 15 percent interested in men. im also interested in non-binary folks. so like, if im being real, im pansexual. women are 🌹🔥. thats the important takeaway.
  7. WILL DO! *looks down* the pool is....filled with.... pee.
  8. Hi friends! I'm Sybil. No, absolutely not my real name. But it's cute, no? I'm a woman from the eastern US. If you can call early thirties young adult then I am a young adult! I have been a longtime lurker, but I finally decided to take the leap and post here. And maybe start posting more other places? I've lurked on all sorts of different websites and finally decided to just post away. Anyways, as a fetish, I have been interested in all things omo for as long as I can remember. Especially diapers, bedwetting, accidents, humiliation, as they pertain to adults only. Etc, etc, etc. Anyways yes, hi, hullo, good morning, good evening, nice to meet you 🙂
  9. VERY clever. well, if you make it ill join it. or as they say "if you build it they will come"
  10. Yes. I haven't been found out persay, like no one has confronted me, but I know people have noticed things. Accidents, yes. But not always accidents.... anyways. So, a few things. I lived in my mom's basement for a few months in between apartments and she definitely picked up some clues and was nervous one night the house was full so I had to sleep on the couch. She also saw the mattress before she finally threw it out. Also once or twice people in my apartment fixing things noticed something I left out. A couple of times I hired ladies to clean it and I think I left out a bed pad or something? I can't remember, I just remember something being left folded out that shouldn't have been. Too embarrassing so I probably blocked it out. I know when I was living in one apartment my roommates went through my shit and acted super weird after. I moved out soon after. Oh even recently I have a friend who will sometimes crash on my couch bc I live close to their work, and when I'm on vacation or out of town they will sleep in my bed. The last time they were gonna sleep in my bed they told me they were bringing their own sheets. Not that mine aren't always clean but, hm. Oh well. Anyways. I could actually probably think of some more examples, but there goes!
  11. Eastern Massachusetts! In the bad ol USA
  12. why is this a question only for the fellas? im not a fella and id lick the hell out of a pussy wet like that 🙋‍♀️
  13. Loved this! Thank you for sharing! And yeah, I dont know what it is, there's something about the library, you may have inspired me to share one or two library tales myself 🙂
  14. yup, when it happens it happens. sometimes i wish it would happen less 😞
  15. oh yup this has definitely happened to me
  16. Yep, usually these involve me looking for a toilet, or having trouble getting into one (locked door, etc). Sometimes I just let go wherever I am in the dream. This ends up also being what has happened in real life. Buttttt that being said, waking up soaked can happen regardless of what I'm dreaming about. So. There's that.
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