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BabyDreams

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  • I'm into..
    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Diapers
    Tickling
    Bondage
    Cuddling
    Gags
    Humiliation
    Master / Pet
    Master / Slave
    Messing
    Pleasure control

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  1. I guess like everyone else? 🤔 In the top bar click "+ Create" to pop a menu, then "Status" to have a post interface show up:
  2. cant-talk-right-now-im-making-piss.mp4
  3. The FetLife experience for initiating solely on the site is awful. If you're a woman you get a million messages, and 99% of it are dudes hitting you up for IRL meeting and casual sex, or rp/cybersex, or straight up opening with a full on sexual fantasy that you have a feeling was typed with one hand. And if you're a guy you send out a million well thought out messages with a decent profile to back it up, and you get a single digit response rate. Maybe one or two meaningful chats out of a hundred, and you know that you're one out of a dozen that's trying to rizz her up. So I don't really know if this is the place to cast nets as a fisherman, but might worth a try to put yourself out there. Just please don't put your genitals as your profile picture 😄 If you use it to find events or groups, participate, and add people that you connected with there - so as someone cleverly said before: Kinky Facebook 🙂 - then it is really good for its purpose. Also I mostly use it to browse for softcore ABDL content, and when I occasionally ask the poster (privately or publicly) what's that diaper or where did they get that onesie or plushie - and they are very happy to answer, and usually a timely manner. Of course if you live in bumfuck nowhere (or just not in the global west) then there are no events to go to, so your mileage may vary. You might want to consider hitting up the largest city that you can comfortably travel to; more people in close proximity means more kinky people to connect with.
  4. You guys need a waterproof mattress protector - the best ones wrap around it a bit, not just sit on top of the mattress with straps on the corners - then put something absorbent on top to actually soak up the liquid. Think about having a dedicated wetting bedding or blanket (or multiple) for this. Have a test run or two with water beforehand, because a lot of mattress protectors aren't really waterproof, just more or less water resistant. So it will soak through with time and pressure.
  5. Rinse them out ASAP, soak in cold water, then after like 30-60 minutes rinse out again. After this you can resume normal operations and wash them together with other clothes, as usual. If you don't let the pee "dry in" and ferment then it is actually very easy to get rid of. If you let it sit and get smelly then things can get much harder - especially if the urine wasn't clear or lightly tinted, but had more filtered content (so it was more yellow in general), or had something special in it (like you ate asparagus, or lots of vitamin B). Like think about wetting the same set of clothes multiple times, letting them dry, wetting them again, day after day. Could be fun, but unless you're into the smell I'd recommend aganist it. You'd need longer soaking times and some type of cleaning agent in the water. The detergent that you'd use for washing in the first place is a good start, but I use a non-chlorine based sanitizing agent for clothes. (Browse your local store for suitable products.) For the actual washing use the longer cycles. Maybe wash it twice, if one did not get rid of the smell. It's still not super hard, but can be an annoying chore. But at this point these would be stinky piss clothes for me forever - I'd never use them for anything else but wetting, and wouldn't wash together with normal clothes. You might want to consider having dedicated wetting clothes, if you plan on doing this somewhat regularly.
  6. Could be that you're simply into submission/dominance type of roleplay? This is definitely a sexual dynamic that many people enjoy under the wider BDSM umbrella. Bladder control is also a niche inside BDSM, where the dominant controls the submissive person's fluid intake, and also where and when they can pee, when they have to hold, what punishment they get on failure, they have to start and stop peeing on command, etc. It can be part of petplay, or ABDL roleplay, or just in and of itself. Adult baby roleplay can also has a huge element of dependence. But all of these are consensual roleplaying scenarios where people set up the boundaries beforehand - there is room for exploration, but the sub is ultimately in control. I feel what you're describing is not an online roleplaying, or live roleplaying of this, but you fantasizing about the real thing, right? 😇 Well, people do that all the time, too! I don't really know what do you mean by "okay to have as a kink"? People fantasize about getting abducted and violently raped for real, and worse - and no kink police comes for them 😄 Don't do nonconsensual things to people, don't push your fantasies onto strangers online, and that's about it 🙂
  7. I don't know how gay you have to be to start referring to half of humanity as a specific type of demon from Warhammer, but okay 😄 I guess you lucked out with the diaper fetish, since you'll have to start wearing anyway once your old pooper gets abused enough 😇 Practice makes perfect, king. It will never be easy, but you can learn how to relax a bit, enough to do the deed. Also do yourself a favor and buy something like a box of Tena Slip Maxi diapers. Yeah-yeah, roommates and all - look up where you can buy a pack in-store, walk in, pay with cash, and put them in sports bag with a pack or two of wet wipes. Wear outside of your residence, change in public toilets. Look up how to do a diaper change beforehand. Point your dick down and between your legs, try to release slowly and/or in small bursts. Wipe affected areas with wet wipes when changing back to underwear. Believe someone who used all kinds of poor substitutes and handcrafted bullshit instead of proper diapers for years: nothing compares to real ones, no matter the hassle. And the mentioned brand cost between one and one-and-a-half USD per piece in a box of 24. If you can afford a device to post here you can afford them. Every minute of your time spent on inferior imitations of a diaper is wasted - so don't. You'll thank me the first time you'll convert a whole bladder's worth of pee into a warm and squishy diapered crotch and butt 🤭
  8. Yeah, you're missing the "About Me" tab on people's profiles. It's right there next to the "Activity" tab.
  9. You're missing the point by thinking that you're the only one talking about the human ability to create original work. When in reality I do that too. Using AI even without editing the result after is also something that creates original work - you just don't like it because of your idiosyncratic beliefs about art. Usable AI generation made something previously hard easier and more accessible, but that does not invalidate neither handmade or generated art. It simply enlarges the whole art space; it makes more art. Sure, it annoys people who thought that everything will be the same forever, but that's their problem. AI is a tool like any other - a digital drawing tablet, a reliable supply of pigments, etc. People are using it to create art, and due to the nature of the tool it gives a lot of newcomers suddenly the ability to start expressing themselves. This leads to a few teething problems that require fixing, also the tool itself is still maturing (like think about how the first daguerrotypes needed minutes of exposition), but that's about it. It's not the end of the world. No, this is not by my logic, but by your purposeful misrepresentation of it. I'm really curious what are those reasons. What makes art art for you?
  10. Funny, I thought this is a discussion that we already had as a species when photography became widely available. Sure in some sense it became much easier and accessible to have your (or the entire family's) portrait made with photography for instance, and that change in some sense devalued the work of those who cultivated the art of portrait painting for decades. But they acquired those skills to fulfill a demand in the first place, not the other way around. And it is not easy to do great work with photography either - it still requires skill and practice to take it to its height. And it turns out you still need a huge portion of the very same visual knowledge for photography that is needed to produce handmade "traditional" art. Only some part of the overall set of skills is replaced with another. And who denies the artistic merit of photography today? Is it less valid to use a drawing tablet where you can work with layers and have an undo, compared to a pencil on paper, and scanning the result? Surely no one would say so. What's different with using AI generation and editing the results? It's not "fair" to your friend, who draws by hand? Though shit; nothing in life is fair 😉 Okay, dumping dozens of barely differing versions of the same general composition is a common teething problem of new AI artists, and proper categorization is a valid issue. But I see too many horsebreeders standing on the traintracks here - which is hilarious by the way, please don't stop! ☺️ AI generation is a tool like any other before it, and people will use it (with all the pros and cons) whether you like it or not, grandpa.
  11. You can order samples online, that's usually 2 diapers per pack. It's much easier to conceal them in low numbers compared to those huge packages of 10 to 24 diapers. If getting your own packages is the problem, then order it to a pick up box. They became super popular during 2020 and onwards where I am (not sure what's up with the area where you live). Or maybe get a PO box for a fee? You can get your own mail there too, and it can be super useful for later in life, too. Can be a nice step up in independence. And as far as diaper play goes... well, if you can make time for "normal" holds and wettings, then you can do the same for diaper play. Logistically it can be much easier, because you just bag it when you're done and throw it into the trash. No need to do laundry - unless you leak, and as a newbie you're likely to, lol 😂 But with a little practice you can contain everything, greatly easing up the cleaning process. Neither was I for like more then a decade, then I tried it out 🤭 I still like wetting and messing in various clothes and positions, it did not made that go away. But diapers are a completly new dimension. There isn't a guarantee that you'll like it, obviously. But if you're already in the neighbourhood fetish-wise with omo and wetting then it is worthwhile a to give it a try. I sure wish I did it sooner 😅 ... And with that, my padded butt evangelization is over 🙃
  12. Diaper. It is my fav because it's soft and fluffy on me even before wetting, and it's fluffier and also warm after. Costly ones hold more.
  13. Well, only you can explore your unique anatomy and reaction to stimuli. Humping a pillow or huge plushie wearing a dry diaper, a wet diaper, while holding, peeing into while wearing nothing or underwear - these are all great to try out! 🙂 What I'd suggest is to get a couple extra pillows of various materials and firmness. Try a few types out both under your head and between your legs, then have a dedicated humping pillow that you or others in your family doesn't use normally - this way if it gets a little (or a lot) wet it's not a problem. As a great humping enthusiast let me give you a little advice: never let anyone besmirch this great activity. It's great fun, I do it alone humping a pillow, I do it with a partner humping them, I do it with sex toys and without, I do it slow and quiet, I do it fast and loud, etc. Humping might be how some start masturbating, but it can also be a lifelong thing 😇
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