BabyDreams

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  1. @Thudmaster here is the source: [Team Harenchi (Goya)] Hakobune no Eden | Eden's Ark [English] [Digital] // [Teamはれんち (ごや)] 方舟のエデン [英訳] [DL版]
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    Wetting with or without underwear?

    Cute underwear is like half the fun in omorashi for me. The other half is diapers - or does that also count as underwear? Anyway, it's definitely with underwear for me, swimwear included.
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    omorashi dislike

    When people misunderstand it, and mis-tag simple peeing content as omorashi. Where is the squirming? Where's the whimpering? Where is the wetspot on clothes? As far as omorashi itself goes... maybe the clean-up, when I wet by myself? I could get used to a mommy doing all that, and giving me punishments for it instead. Also, there isn't enought time to do it, at least for me. Not in a well-fitting diaper, when you're in bed under a blanket 😊
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    Adult or Child?

    Take a wild guess.
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    Best way to lose control ?

    This is a long-standing problem of mine, too. Sadly, I can hold really well - I'm practicing it since childhood 😄 - so almost always I stop holding I do it voluntarily, out of fear of hurting myself, and to stop the pain. (Messing is a different story, but I understand that most people aren't into that, so I won't go into it.) This is not very much fun, when all you want is a few happy little accidents. I found two workarounds so far: Tickling Pros: You'll laugh a lot, and it is a unique wetting experience overall. Cons: You need a willing partner to participate, because you can't tickle yourself. And even if you got one, you might not be ticklish enough to actually lose control. It's fairly straightforward: you drink a lot, your partner tickles you when you need to pee, and you wet yourself (hopefully). You can do you-lose-you-get-tickled type of games, incorporate physical dominance (you can be held down by the partner and get tickled that way), bondage and other BDSM stuff, you can drink alcohol, etc. If you're into any of those. This is a very intimate thing, since you don't just pee by yourself, but someone makes you pee yourself. There is a huge potential for humiliation, roleplaying, babying, etc. if you're into the psychological angle. It can help tremendously to "get into the mood" with this method, so you can loosen up a little, even make it easier to leak. It might not be a 100% proper losing control every time this way, but it can work out for you nonetheless. And I might be biased, but this type of laughing wetting is probably the best type of wetting ☺️ But certainly the most wholesome. Overstimulation Pros: You get to cum, then lose control, then cum again, then lose control again, then... you get the point. This can be done by yourself. Cons: It might not work for you, and it can get painful after a while. And you need a proper vibrator for it - that might cost you some money. This method isn't a hard concept either, you just have to find the right toy and the right level and mode of stimulation. The key part is, that you somehow attach the vibrator to a sensitive spot of yours, like under the head of the penis with guys (like just barely letting it touch the head), and very close or on the clit with girls. Use rubber bands, nylon stockings, tape, whatever - keep experimenting, even if you got some results. And if you can reliably cum this way, then this method is just handsfree masturbation where you keep going after you cum, while you have a full bladder. Some (most?) people get very sensitive after an orgasm, and if you keep up the stimulation after, then there is a good chance that you'll legitimately lose control. Hopefully before it gets painful. Be advised: you might need some nonzero level of masochism to keep it up after cumming; you might be very inclined to stop there. That's why I recommend that don't just simply hold the vibrator by hand. I found that pulsating type of vibrations work a lot better. The constant type just numbs me, but maybe that's just me. Of course if a partner holds the device, and runs it on and around your sensitive spots then constant can work fine, too. You can try to do it with a detachable showerhead, if the jet of water is good for you, and if being warm and wet already doesn't ruin the wetting for you. And again, you can gamify it with a partner, use restraints, BDSM gear, etc. I actually discovered this method this one time when I was restrained and forced to cum, when my partner kept going with the vibrator. Managed to replicate it a few times since, including solo play. When it happens I legitimately can't stop peeing no matter how hard I try (I love it 🤭 ), and it happens even if I haven't felt any urge to pee before starting. I'm all ears if you try these, and if anyone has other or better methods. (I know about catheters, but that's a bit hardcore for me.)
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    Situational desperation levels?

    Honestly, I didn't really notice any difference in my holding ability based on whether I am home or not. The only situational change in my desperation level happens when I'm transitioning from one to the other. Namely, when I'm fumbling with my keys like an idiot for what seems like an eternity - that's when I'm 200% sure that I'll wet or mess myself right on my doorstep, with the key already in the lock. Then I (usually) don't, but somehow I almost always get weaker in this situation. Or the urge suddenly grows for some psychological reason? I don't know. Another transition that proved to be dangerous to my clean and dry underwear is when I'm at a public place and have to run to get into a toilet, and I step into one. Public ones are the worst, occupied or not. Smells like pee already, high chance of water splashing, and I'm like a few seconds away from relief. And my body is like "Yeah, this is the place, let's give up already." Yeah, thanks buddy. I haven't inspected my clothes for flood damages in a while anyway 😅
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    Where are your favorite places to wet yourself ?

    For maximum convenience: sitting in a bathtub or on a tiled floor. Or just wherever, but wearing a thick diaper. For maximum enjoyment: in a bed. Diapered or not. With some BDSM stuff involved, or not. While being tickled within an inch of my life, or not. Any combination of these, really 😅 But I'd like to try the kind-of-public stuff a little bit more, too, like hiking on a lightly travelled forest trail.
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    Feeling less attractive about diapers

    Interest in kinks come and go, so fluctations like this is entirely normal, with or without a partner. Anyway, congratulations on finding someone; enjoy your time with her 😉 This might not be a very popular opinion on a site like this, but I think weird sexual interests correlate a lot with social ineptitude. (Please understand: this does not mean that one causes the other in either direction, it's just that they sometimes go somewhat hand in hand, I think.) This leads to a lot of people (certainly not all kinksters of course, just some of them, but still a notable number) kind of replacing normal sexual behavior (like seeking out a decent partner, and developing worthwhile relationships) with fetish-related activities, and elaborate practices of masturbation. Not to be judgemental - I do it to a large degree, after all 🤨 - but it's important to keep a perspective on your life. Especially if you are a person who never had a long term relationship, or any sex at all before. Spending years indulging in specific fetishes on the internet in this situation might not be the best for you. (Please note @ShallowBear52 that I'm not talking specifically about you here, this is just in general.) So of course your interest in solo diaper time will wane, if you have another - let me dare to say: healthier - outlet for your sexuality. And good for you 🙂 I hope you guys will hit it off and have a great time together - sexually and otherwise!
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    Messing without messing

    Underwear is cheap, so why not buy a bunch of "play clothes" for her? Try to go for something that's not a thong, so like hipster briefs, "grandma panties". These by design have a lot of butt coverage, so they are good to wet and mess. You can try interesting clothes to mess in, like yoga pants, stockings (the two-legged version that go up and over the waist), etc. If you put a few sheets of paper towel into the panties, centered on the anus, you can "catch" the poop with it. That way it doesn't directly goes into the threads of the clothes, and this makes it a lot easier to clean up. It also decreases the nasty factor somewhat. It helps if the butt has no hair - less surface are for the poop to stuck, so again, easier clean up. Offer to clean her up after - messing might not be her thing, but she might get hooked on the babying part? Or control her bathroom use, if you guys are into that? In general, she might not be into messing itself, but there are a bunch of "neighbouring" kinks that can be up her alley, and can be enjoyed by both of you.
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    Another desperate wetting in panties

    That feeling when it turns out that even 2 hands aren't nearly enough 😅 I love that puddle by the way ❤️
  11. Don't you think that this is an extreme overreaction? 🙃 Do you know who else has moments when they feel disgusting? Everyone else. And I don't know one straight guy who watches "normal" straight porn - obviously not a huge sample of people there, just a few guys who I asked and who answered. But it's either some fetish stuff, or girl-on-girl. "Lesbian" is the leading overall search term on pornhub year after year - check out their "Year in Review" posts that they do each year. A female body is a huge fun factory indeed, but at least you can trivially pee through your fly and standing up, and can't get pregnant 😄 Ain't a negliable difference, if you ask me. Also, a wise man once said: don't envy someone, if you're not ready to change into that another person in every aspect. Just keep this in mind, because it's very easy to envy this little thing here and that another little thing there - a job, a partner, a car, a body part - and feel shit all your life because of it. Even if it would be technically possible to truly change your body, would you do it? Would you take everything else, too, just because "sex doesn't sound as enjoyable now"? How much of it did you even had so far, honestly? (And as of now you can't even do it. You'll never be a healty, normal, fertile woman of (at least) average beauty, even with infinite money. Maybe next century, when we can build up whole new bodies, or something.) You sound like any other normal straight dude in a normal straight dude body. Watch lesbian porn, pick up some sport where you can meet women, chat up the cutest one, and try to make her laugh. And +1 for tomboys, because they are cute as hell 😍
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    Favorite part of holding your pee?

    This is a really interesting question to me, because my attitude toward holding is a bit weird, and very similar to what I experience with tickling. You see, I love to be tickled. But the second someone starts tickling me, the only thing on my mind is how to stop it (covering up ticklish parts, begging, threatening, crying - roughly in this order). As soon as it stops, there is this brief moment of relief, when I can stop squirming and laughing - which is probably the best part. But I'm not sure, because right now I'm not being tickled, and let me tell you: I'd love to be 😊 And then as soon as it starts I hate it, I want it to end. Then it ends, that's very good for a bit, I can finally breathe normally again - but as this relief fades my first thought is that "But why did it stop? I want more tickles!" This is how I feel about holding, too. I love holding. But when I'm forced to hold (so partially due to some circumstance outside of my control) I can't stop thinking about when and where will I be able to pee next, how much of a moron I am for getting into this situation in the first place, and what can I do differently in the future to prevent this happening again, ever. (Hint: I won't do anything differently 😂) This is somewhat similar with self-initiated and self-maintained holdings too; I mainly keep up my spirits during them with thinking about how good the release will feel. Then I either make it to the goal or not, but the most enjoyed part of it is when I can finally relax, and let out that deep sigh and say to myself: "I'm so glad that I don't have to hold it anymore." But then of course I can't wait for the next holding, that I might start planning almost immediately after the last one. Humans and their minds, right? 🙃
  13. Very nice choice of clothes there 😘 Nice experience overall, I'm glad you have fun! Aaah, pee shivers are one of the best parts 😊 This is honestly my first time hearing about diaper extenders - is it a bigger PVC backing with tapes, and no filling? Is it the slightly pinkish part with the bow decoration on the pictures? And the carrot-flower-bunny-on-white is the baby diaper? Sorry for being a bit stupid - I have a problem visualizing it. But I'm very interested, because most of the cute diapers that I'd love to wear doesn't fit me either. Can you link where you got it? Also, I love the plushie shelf in the background; would cuddle the shit out of that penguin 😃
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    How Do You Pee in the Shower?

    If I just have to pee while showering, then I just let it go while standing there - no big deal. It's just part of the baseline shower experience 🙂 Did my fair share of wettings standing in the bathtub, too. But if I'm feeling really naughty, then I plug in the drain, sit down that my butt is at the lowest point, and pee that way. There's just something about feeling the warmth and wetness slowly progress towards your knees as it tickles your thighs, and then possibly beyond, that makes it an unique experience. And sitting a bit in your own puddle afterwards is very nice, too. I'd recommend it particularly to people who like the smell of pee; I smell mine the most in these situations. And of course you can spice it up in various ways: you can do it naked or in your wetting clothes, you can do a hold or not, you have the option to masturbate before, or during, or after peeing (those are inclusive 'or's 🙄), you can include sex toys, or a pacifier if you're a baby, etc. Just one warning: please watch out, because there are a lot of household accidents that happen in the bathroom - and who wants to get rid of omo evidence before the flatmates get home with a broken leg? The cleanup is easy; I give the tub a light scrub afterwards. And if you have a heated bathtub, the pee doesn't get cold for quite some time 😁
  15. What I love about diapers is stuff like this (may or may not based on real life events 😅) : When I wake up on a weekend morning while it’s still a bit dark. It’s raining outside. I don’t have to go anywhere that day - could very well sleep in, but I woke up in the first place because I have an uncomfortable bulging bladder. Lucky me went to sleep in the thickest and most absorbent diapers that I had at home, and it’s still completly dry. So I can just switch to the most comfy pose, and let go. I'm listening to the sounds of rain as the warmth fills it up - no leaks, just a warm crotch and butt I have to push the last few little gushes out, and as I do that I get the pee shivers 🤤 (They are quite strong for me, and I love when it happens!) After finishing I hug my favourite plushie, wiggle around a little just to feel the wet diaper around me, and go back to sleep for another hour or two 💤 When I am playing video games all evening, and it’s so much fun that I forget that toilets even exist. Or pee. I fill up with it regardless, because of all the soft drinks consumed, and I start fidgeting in the seat without really noticing it. I am doing that for close to an hour now, and then either someone in voice chat makes me laugh so hard that I start leaking, or I get to a particularly hard and exciting part where I can manage this feat all by myself 😁 This makes me panic at first, obviously, but a few moments later I realize that it’s okay to have accidents now. I don’t even have to hold it at all, if I don’t want to. I managed to slow down the flow to a trickle by now, but I decide to stop holding it back. Pee gets flowing out again in full force, and it hisses into the ever-thickening diaper. I mute the mic quickly, so I can be sure that no one hears it over the comms. Change can wait until bedtime - and I have so much to play before that! But also smaller things like these: When I can feel it being thick aganist my butt as I sit in them (even before, but especially after wetting). When I can feel a normal poop "arriving", instead of clamping down I can just choose not to, and relax. Turns out that (at least for me) it just comes straight out most of the time without even consciously pushing. Probably really disgusting (I know that most probably aren't into 💩 , for good reason), but I like the release, like the sensation aganist my anus, like sitting down on it - and it's even more humiliating then peeing yourself 😊 I can just feel strangely safe and adorable in them - more so if they have cute patterns ❤️ 🎀 They go well with other cute clothes, too, like skirts and fluffy socks!