Emma Bailey

Definitely. I actually just got my accident changing kit back together this morning, since I'm having to drive out to in-office work more and more! In my car, I always have, stowed in a bag under one of the seats, a pair of thin-ish sweatpants (since I can wear them in most weather without any problem, and they cover up any wetness that I wasn't able to clean up without staining too bad), some panties (two pairs, because I'm a bit paranoid), a t-shirt (just in case, I guess), a pullup (for if my bladder's being really finicky that day), and some wet wipes and plastic bags (for quick changes). Then, in my purse, I usually try and have plastic bag containing a space pair of panties, a skirt, and another pullup, as well as some perfume for masking any scents and some wet wipes for cleanup. It's a bit of a tight fit and sometimes a hassle, but it's saved my butt a couple of times now so I make it work. Sometimes, when I'm really not feeling confident in my continence, I have even more stuff in the car, but this's usually enough for any accidents I have.

Ah fair fair, it'd probably help with that. Maybe if I have a planned car messing sometime I'll try and get one for it!

Get one of those bum pillows lol. Though I'm not sure if I need to make it easier for me to soil myself while trying to do errands or get to work 😆.

On the time that I wrote about above, it was a solid fifteen minutes of driving and getting to my room. During that drive, there was a lot of very carefully forcing myself not to squish too hard even though I wanted to, and even with all my diligence when I finally got my shorts off there'd been a tiny bit of a blowout around one of the legs. My more conventional car messings, where I actually messed while driving, have all been very weird feeling (in a generally good way), since the car seat provides a lot of resistance and you can't really raise your body up all the much. There's always a point where you find yourself leaning forwards and sorta sitting up in the seat to let it out, and then it ends up smushed around in your diaper pretty much immediately. Definitely the kind of thing I try my best to avoid when I'm only in a pullup 😅.

Glad you liked them; they were both pretty fun little accidents (once I stopped panicking during the car one, at least lol), and I had a good time getting them written out for all of y'all to enjoy!

My memory swings wildly between being either full of holes or basically perfect, depending on criteria that I can't quite figure out, but I'm ninety-percent sure that my last real, unplanned accident was just the last time my dumb butt had alcohol. It wasn't terribly eventful, as wettings go—I'd had, like, one and a half white claws, which is exactly as much as it takes to push me way past tipsy since I have the alcohol tolerance of an underweight squirrel, and I was chatting with some friends online, putting off getting myself into bed and making myself some warm milk and honey, when I just pretty abruptly realized that I was feeling warm and my legs were wet and my knees were wobbly. I looked down, saw my own puddle, burst out laughing, and released the rest of my bladder all over the floor. It was, in retrospect, a very very good thing that I wasn't videochatting or anything lol. My last driving accident, and I'm pretty sure my last real messing accident, was a time a few months back when I had some stir fry and then went to the store without making totally sure that I'd emptied my bowels. I wrote up a whole thing on it here, if you want to take a look:

Last driving to work accident, but definitely not my last accident in general, or even my last driving-related accident 😅.

Now that I'm actually driving in to work again sometimes, I always make sure to have a spare change of clothes, some wipes, some trashbags, a towel, and two different kinds of diapers (a pullup and a full one) in my car at all times 😣. Haven't had any driving-to-work accidents since hybrid started, though!

I think that how I experience desperation is probably a bit more finicky than can be represented by a linear scale, but if I had to put together something that could be slapped into an array... This assumes just standard water at a regular pace (two or so 12floz glasses an hour), since things speed way up if I've had anything with a diuretic effect. 0-3: I'm probably not feeling anything at all at this point. I can't pee if I tried. This is around time 0-20 minutes after using the bathroom. 4: The space from here to 5 is the first pangs of need. This is the point where I realize I need to go. I could probably dribble if I tried. 5: As we hit 5, I actually need to use the toilet. This isn't the point where I start trying to make it to the bathroom, unless they're far away or there's a line, but by now I am figuring out where the bathroom is. This is right around 30 minutes, usually. 6: This is where the need really starts to hit me, at just past half an hour. If I have the choice (and want to 😛) this is where I use the bathroom. There isn't any outward sign, but I certainly need to go. 7: This covers the time from around 40 minutes to an hour. I definitely need to go now, and while I'm not on the verge of leaking or anything, this is probably where I consider myself in the danger zone with regards to both possible leaks from surprise and the possibility of real desperation suddenly hitting me. 7.5: As I move towards an 8, things speed up quickly. I don't need to hold myself yet, but unless I'm stopping myself there might be a potty dance happening (though it's probably just anxiously rubbing my thighs against each other right now). 8: We finally hit real desperation. This is where I really need to make it to a bathroom soon, or risk the consequences. I can still walk without too much trouble, and without leaks, but there's a real risk that I'll suddenly get all-the-way desperate and lose it suddenly. 8.5: As I approach 9, I'm not dribbling, but I have to watch myself for little leaks from any sort of strain (dropping something, walking quickly, etc.). 9: I've put 9 as the point where I have good odds of beginning to dribble. There's no full release, but even if I make it to the toilet now there're decent odds that my panties are just a little wet. I don't always dribble at this stage, but if I start then I probably won't be able to stop until I get release. 9.5: As I approach 10, I probably lose the option to even try and make it to the bathroom. Any motion of my legs has a real risk of causing spurts, and once spurts start they usually repeat, getting worse and worse, until I lose everything. 9.9: This is the point where I effectively can't hold it anymore. The pee's coming out, possibly slowly but coming out all the same. It might not be a jet if I'm still trying to hold, but by this point resisting is futile. 10: I pretty much always lose it before hitting a 10, unless I'm intentionally doing a hold. For me, 10 is the point where my muscles give up on holding and I involuntarily pee at full force, totally soaking my pants and shoes. For me, this is usually around the two hour mark, but I've got a tiny bladder and am just generally not a representative sample when it comes to accidents 😉. It's also worth noting that a lot of this is effected by my circumstances and how hard I'm trying to hold. In a public place I'm going to hold for way longer than in my house, but I'm also going to lose it way sooner if I'm tired or hungry, or even if I'm trying to dash to the bathroom. Heck, as soon as I enter the bathroom while I'm truly desperate there's a small-but-notable chance that I just lose it then and there, even if I could have held it for another ten minutes just before entering. But yeah, good luck with your game! I've played it a bit, and it's pretty fun! I'd appreciate an option to play as a woman, but fun nonetheless!

How often do you pee in a day? I usually go every forty-five minutes, maybe every hour if I haven't drank that much. I can hold for around two hours if I try, but it gets uncomfortable pretty quickly after an hour. Can you hold your pee for more than an hour after you feel the urge? This depends. Usually I feel the need to go around half an hour after I last peed, and I can definitely hold it for an hour after that. However, if I've drank something that goes right through me (soda or anything like that), then I've probably only got around forty five minutes before I'm nearly leaking, and sometimes if I'm distracted by something I don't notice the urge until I'm just a handful of minutes from bursting. Do you have a sudden strong urge to pee? Sometimes. If I drink soda or something, then yeah it'll hit me all at once. Same with if I've been hyperfocused on something and ignoring my bladder. Other than that, sometimes I get a sudden urge right after I've just gone after holding for a while, and sometimes it gets harder to hold after I stand up from sitting. Have you ever leaked your pee? Sure, but from what I've heard this is more of a me having female reproductive bits rather than me having a small bladder. This usually happens to me when I'm walking while desperate, but I also get intermittent spurts when I'm on the verge of losing it. Do you rush into the bathroom because of the urge to pee? (and how often?) Maybe once every couple of days? Usually most times when I sit down to read or play video games. When do you have trouble with a small bladder? The biggest problems I've run into are longer, in-person meetings. For car rides and when I'm asleep I can use a pullup, and when I'm at home or even in a zoom meeting I can slip away to the bathroom; the main real sticking point are those in-person times when I just can't excuse myself.

I've got some white panties that I got really cheap and in bulk a few years back and I wear them for planned accidents, since they show a wetting really well and I don't need to worry about staining them, since I can just throw them away if I need to. As for a full wetting outfit, by now pretty much all of my clothes have suffered at least one wetting by now, be it planned or unplanned, and I haven't really had any problems with smells or staining save for sometimes with a pair of white pants I used to own (and a hotter wash cycle than normal and some bleach usually sorted those out, anyway).

I think I agree with the other people who've already talked here. I’ve had… a good many accidents, and while messy ones are pretty much always way more embarrassing, it’s usually a good bit harder to hide a wetting. My “usual” outfit, such as it is, is a skirt and either some leggings, maybe tights, or just shorts, depending entirely on what’s clean at the moment and if I’m okay with looking like the kind of dork who wears a skirt with shorts under it. Anyway, this means that, if my pants layer is dark, I can get away with a wetting without obvious stains. However, even if it is, I still leave behind a huge puddle, which then I have to at least try and clean up, and if I’m not in dark pants then between the obvious stain and the puddle it’s totally obvious what happened. Messing, on the other hand, is usually concealable. It stinks, and much more so than after a wetting I just get completely swamped by embarrassment, but if it isn’t too wet of a mess then the only signs are a bulge that my skirt hides, maybe a slight brown stain around my bum, and, of course, the smell of a messing. And yeah, while that’s an obvious smell that can be hard to get off of you (I used to carry perfume when I was out-and-about on longer errands for this reason), most people are more inclined to think that it was just a particularly bad fart, and as long as they didn’t see you actually mess yourself and you don’t stay in a room with them for too long, most people aren’t going to jump to assuming that you just filled your pants. It’s also worth noting that, from my experiences, people are more okay with someone wetting themselves than messing—maybe because of the smell, maybe because everyone’s wet themselves before—and while there’s sympathy for both, wetting accidents just seem a bit more societally “okay” for an adult to have, when bystanders notice they’re a bit more likely to either try to help or to just not particularly pay it much attention.

Welllll, it is a lot of work finding a bathroom when I need it, and I'm sure I can convince myself that I can hold it, which is just about as good as actually being able to hold it... 😛

1. Wet your pants accidentally - A tiny bladder and sometimes putting off going to the bathroom has led me to this probably too many times 😛 2. Wet your pants on purpose - (Just insert the "that's... why I'm here" meme here) 3. Peed in bed - I've still got problems with bedwetting, so yep, many many times. 4. Peed outside - I don't really like to go outside, but it's happened once or twice. 5. Wet yourself in public - I've had more than my share of public accidents. 6. Peed in the bathroom, but not in the toilet - When you've just barely made it out of bed dry, sometimes it's easier to just run into the shower and try to strip there than to use the toilet. 7. Measured how much You were holding - I've done this once or twice. 8. Peed in the pool - I mean, who hasn't, really? It's always cold and that just makes it so hard to hold, and it's not like anyone notices. 9. Had a holding contest with someone - Only online, but I've done a few! 10. Peed in an ally/park to avoid an accident - I really don't like just popping a squat outside for some reason, but I can remember I time when I was coming home from some college party where I had to use an alley (and where, despite being tipsy, I actually thought to use an alley instead of just letting go in my pants). 11. Peed in the car - Back when I had to commute to work this happened once or twice, and I've had accidents in the car on road trips before that (some from falling asleep and wetting, some from lack of rest stops, some because I wore a diaper to avoid the hassle and just went when I needed to). 12. Peed in a diaper/pull-up - Yep, totally. 13. Held it for 10+ hours - I can barely hold for two hours at the best of times. How people can manage ten hours, I've got no clue. 14. Peed in a towel/pillow/cushion - I've woken up after a bedwetting completely tangled in my sheets and with a completely soaked pillow jammed between my thighs, so I'm going to count that. 15. Been tickled/startled into a pee accident - Haven't been tickled into one since I was a kid as far as I can recall, but I've definitely been startled into one; just a few weeks ago I accidentally spilled an absolutely freezing glass of water all over myself and leaked pretty badly in shock. At least I was able to blame the water for the stain! 16. Been denied the bathroom when you were desperate - Not since college, but since that was only a couple years ago I'll count it and say yeah, a few times during finals. 17. Let some out to take the pressure off - I mean, I've tried to do this. Can't say I've ever actually succeeded if success is needing to go less and/or not accidentally losing it all the way and making a puddle. 18. Tried to see how far your stream could go - Well, I hadn't at the beginning of this test, but I needed to pee and came to this question and now I can say that I can pee like... a foot, or so. Most of it just sorta sprayed down my legs; I need to work on my peeing-standing-up technique 😅 19. Wet yourself in someone’s lap - Unfortunately, I can't say I have. I had a very drunk friend do it in my lap at a party once, and that was both delightful and very awkward, but I haven't done it myself. 20. Had to make up a story on the spot to avoid embarrassment - I've done this too many times, but I'm pretty awful at lying honestly and I don't really know how often people have believed me. Pretty sure it worked with the water spill I mentioned earlier, at least! Alright, all but one of these is something I've done, so that's a resounding success/sign that I need to use the bathroom more frequently while out and about.