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LuierDraakje

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  1. I'm not going to ask you what a woman is. It would be a waste of time. Regardless, we're talking about physical health here, not about gender identity. Biological sex is what matters when discussing hormones and their effects. Ones gender identity has no physical influence on that.
  2. We're talking about biology here. How someone identifies is not relevant to physical health, in this case. The adverse effects of HRT and other transgender medication and surgery are discussed way less often than they should. The fact you immediately jump to the conclusion that I don't "address OP as a woman is to be rude" is rude in itself. If I wanted to insult anyone here, I would not put any effort into being polite. This is what I strongly dislike about gender ideology. Anytime someone says something that is not in line with the ideology, or asks a forbidden question (e.g. "what is a woman, without using the word 'woman'?"), the situation is twisted in such a way that the person acting 'out of line' with gender ideology is demonized. The most non-open and intolerant people I've had the displeasure of meeting were all subscribed to gender ideology. If you what you believe is true, you would not be afraid of questions. Lastly, from a logical and semantical point of view, I would advise you not to use the phrase "trans women are women". Either they are, in which case the sentence is a redunancy, or they are not, in which case the statement is false. If trans women are women, the "trans" prefix would be unnecessary.
  3. Quote: "I am a trans woman and have gone thru hrt" In other words: OP has a Y chromosome, therefore a male body, which is not used to high levels of estrogen. I'm talking about biology here, not gender.
  4. Did you do know estradiol and spirolactone aren't exactly beneficial to "potty training"? I've heard it from many other men on HRT. The male body somehow has this reaction when confronted with an amount of estrogen it wasn't designed to handle. Call it a side effect.
  5. They do. It's called BetterDry. That's the same diaper as Crinklz, but all white, without print, and branded as a medical diaper. There's also a daytime variant and a relatively decent pull-up in that brand. I'm in Europe, where the brand is readily availabe. Don't know about the US when it comes to this, though.
  6. Yeah, and I totally agree with him. That girl literally has a channel that had the word "Mindless" in the title. If I recall correctly, she has experienced quite some abuse and is extensively using regression and ABDL to escape from real-world problems. Kink is never a replacement for therapy (and I mean actual therapy, not the charlatan kind that just 'affirms' your mental illness and pretends it's not mental illness). This girl needs therapy. And Jesus. Mostly the latter.
  7. You can really spare to upload those 1-5 second clips. They're bascally a GIF with sound.
  8. Not everyone who disagrees with you, or has a different lifestyle, is dumb or uneducated. There is a LOT of degeneracy, debauchery, and other nasty stuff going on within the ABDL "community". It's just that the nastier the stuff is that people do, the less likely they are to admit their degeneracy. And that doesn't begin or end with glorifying being a 'slut' or a 'slave'. Now allow me to put a bag of corn in my microwave, while I kick back and relax, completely ignoring any hateful message I definitely WILL receive because I stated this.
  9. What's the point of these 1-3 second "clips" of someone that happens to be wearing a diaper? Why does anyone even make these, let alone save and collect them? Even the stills of those clips say nothing.
  10. Tena isn't as good as it used to be anymore. The Active Fit does have plastic backing, but it still stretches too much for me. The Maxi used to feel secure, now it's just thin and way too supple. If I wear one overnight, I risk leaking because a nightly erection. Doesn't make me feel safe at all. I have no such problems with BetterDry, and I even use the BetterDry Day (absorbancy 7 instead of 10) as my overnight diaper for work nights.
  11. Betterdry is a good brand too. It's my go-to overnight diaper!
  12. It doesn't "upset" me. Baby talk is annoying, not upsetting. It's important that people talk intelligibly. Baby talk takes an unnecessary amount of effort to read, especially for people who do not have English as a first language. This is not the same as refusing to use commas or apostrophes - which is annoying as well, but requires less effort to ignore. If you have something to say that is worth sharing with other people, please do so in a way that is intelligible.
  13. Woke people online tell me how to talk all the time, but I'm not allowed to find that rude, so...
  14. Dude, skip the baby talk. It's not cute, it's annoying.
  15. I was specifically referring to the denigrating tone the guy uses in the video. I think there's nothing "cute" about that. If my partner would talk to me like that, or get turned on by talking to me like that, I would show her the door. I don't care if it's your "kink", you don't talk to me like that if you love me.
  16. Lovely? The off-cam guy is being downright mean to the girl (and no, I don't care if that's part of "play"). I've actually met these people once, and he sure as hell gave me the creeps.
  17. Dutchie here. I wrote this story: https://www.reddit.com/r/abdlstories/comments/t41s63/rowans_redemption_chapter_1/ Given your tastes, you might just enjoy it 😉
  18. If you're in Europe, try diaper-heroes.be. They might have what you're looking for. Also, Rearz sells Felicity, which are pink printed pull-ups. You can find those at abdlfactory.com
  19. Absolutely the diaper. It was made for the body of a grown adult, and it can be trusted to take a large wetting without leaking.
  20. I have memories of wanting to wear diapers as early as six years old, maybe even younger. The moment that desire started, probably coincided with the moment I discovered I was significantly different from the kids around me. I'm not neurotypical (not autism or disability related), and I realized quite quickly that I looked at the world differently and experienced it in a different way. My parents did the best they could, but there was hardly any knowledge or expertise to help them. My therapist and I concluded I might have developed regressive desired because I wanted to return to the time when my parents fully understood my needs, and I didn't think of the world and social interaction as difficult, confusing and draining yet. I didn't start actually wearing diapers until my teenage years, and didn't actually buy them in larger quantities until my early twenties.
  21. This. This so much. I do think regression and age play is a form of escapism, yes. But just like coping, it should be a temporary thing. I, too, suffer now from subconscious psychological mechanisms I have taught myself to (mentally) survive. I still live by those principles, as they're subconscious and I'm not fully aware of how they're influencing my behavior, self image and decision making. I'm working with my therapist to uncover that, however. Also, these mechanism are still there, even though the situations and circumstances that caused me to apply them are no longer present. Yet, they stunt me in my growth and development towards an emotionally healthy person that can verbalize his feelings when he wants to. My therapist agrees with me that age play and regression in itself is not necessarily harming me, but the fact that I grab that as my method of dealing with something hard, instead of actually dealing with that obstacle - that's when coping mechanisms become unhealthy.
  22. Or you save up longer chapters and post the entire chapter at once. Or you just post each chapter as an individual thread, like other people do. Some people don't like having to login to yet another site. Just sayin'.
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