I kinda like casual wetting, but it's kinda boring for me because my thing is desperation. But it kinda reminds me of a concept I really like, what I would describe as casual desperation. (I don't do omorashi stuff myself, btw. I just like to see women have accidents. Just for clarity) The subject really has to go, but just doesn't feel like going to the bathroom, or just straight up doesn't care. They don't want to just let go either, so they hold it, but they just really don't care about making it to the bathroom. Eventually they can't hold it, so they have an accident, all the while not having given a single shit. (I mean unless it wasn't just pee, lol. Sorry if that's gross.)
I was having the exact same problem, but I wasn't sure if the suspended process was actually the problem, and I didn't know how to stop it either way. It started working fine after Windows updated though, which honestly seems kinda weird now that I think about it.