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Jota

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    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Diapers
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  1. Oh, I believe you, in our main hospital, where he have the acute patients, there is no time for sleep either. Day or night, patients are always coming in. In the ER we receive hundreds of patients each day and in the wards, with so many acute patients, we receive calls all night for patients with acute decompensations. It's hard to recall a night, in the main hospital, where any of the staff could stop a little mid shift to rest. But this takes place in a separate secondary facility for chronic patients in the late stages of recovery, we move them to that place to make room for acute patients in the main hospital when they are stable. That's the reasons why it is so calm there and why there is only a doctor and a few nurses for all the facility at night. Between the team we call the nights there "rest nights" but at least one doctor must stay their during the night in case something happens (it's the best for the patients and it's also required by law). Usually, we divide the turns in the secondary hospital fairly between the team and they are all done as extra hours, you cant just do more shifts their to run from the shifts in the main hospital From what I know, and I have a few friends in the NHS, our emergency departaments work in a similar way, with chaos all night both for the surgical and medical specialities nurses, aids and doctors, we all suffer together through the night
  2. No, no, no. The problema is not disposing of the wet one. It's putting a new one without taking off my pants and shoes!
  3. After all the ruckus in the topic I thought this was better to be forgotten, that’s the reason I didn’t wrote to you anymore. But things are in the past and I’m certain we can all behave now. We are getting along, 6 months and still dating. We have a toothbrush and some clothes at each other’s house, so I guess we are doing fine. One main thing that changed for us is that we now never work in the same shifts, we prefer to separate our personal and work life. As you know, my girlfriend knew about the abdl/omorashi kink before we met (apparently, if you are an adult buying diapers online nowadays even on google you are bound to find some abdl diapers). That was actually good, because when I told her about my abdl/omorashi interests she was not taken by surprise and, from her side, it was also good to find someone who didn’t care about her bedwetting issues... Her bedwetting issue is actually not that severe, accidents tend to happen when she is more stressed, very tired, when we go for drinks or when she sleeps in new places (we both can’t explain the reason for the last one). The reason she uses protection during her nightshifts at work is the fear of wetting the hospital bed, which would be very embarrassing, she keeps using them although she hasn’t had an accident at work in years. She never wears diapers at her house and at my place she insisted in using them in the beginning, but that’s in the past. Regarding the abdl/omorashi side of our relationship, well, it evolved in an enjoyable way actually. At night, she only wears diapers when she feels she needs them, and prefers the regular diapers, she used abdl diapers at night sometimes in the beginning but not anymore. She doesn’t want to mix things; bedwetting is an issue for her and we both agree we should not engage in any behavior that may make it worse. During the day, at the weekends, she now often puts a pull-up or abdl diaper on to tease me since she knows I love it and she enjoys being pampered and gets along with some light ageplay I’m strictly forbidden to take pictures and even more to share them, so for now that’s off the table. But we are planning on going on vacations abroad soon, we never know how she’ll feel about that then, I guess we will be packing some diapers (she doesn’t know about this last phrase yet hehe). Also of interest, she is yet to decide about how she feels about me using diapers; she doesn’t mind, but she doesn’t find it attractive either. As a result, I actually have been using them less and less, but I don’t really mind, I still use them from time to time when I do a hold. So yes, life is good! Makes you wonder how your life can change due to the smallest coincidence…
  4. I love the idea of everyone posting their favorite videos. This particular video is also one of my favorites, I must confess. But, if this idea results in the posting of multiple videos already available on the website, I'm not sure if that is a god initiative. I'm not sure how much does the storage of these videos’ cost per month, I think the Website administrators should have a say on this before everyone starts uploading their favorite videos. @Zackwood I’m not trying to boycott your idea, but we all should zeal for the website. Covering the costs of the servers surely must be expensive, we should not increase that cost unnecessarily.
  5. There is a problem with pull-ups that always bothered me... If you need to change in a public bathroom you need to take your pants off... Diapers are easier to change with minimal undressing... Can you tell us what brand, please? @Imabedwetter
  6. Allerted_PullUps_inthepark&library View File Cute girl playing in the park in pull-ups; after playing for a while she needs to pee and wets her pull-ups with a small leak. Then she goes to a library nearby and later search for a bathroom to change. Very cute! Submitter Jota Submitted 01/12/2022 Category Female  
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    Cute girl playing in the park in pull-ups; after playing for a while she needs to pee and wets her pull-ups with a small leak. Then she goes to a library nearby and later search for a bathroom to change. Very cute!
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  8. I guess that the closer and most acceptable experience you could get to that, without crossing the borders of non-consent, would be through participation in a kink munch or convention. In these kind of events, consent is implicit, and participantes are expected to be more open about their kinks, without crossing the limits of personal space and rules established for that specific event. There are all kinds of gatherings, some directed at ABDLs alone, others to a more board selection of kinks. Maybe you could find a place of your liking.
  9. That's so exciting! I used to be in that situation until most recently, I was in long term relationship with a partner who did not enjoy my fetish at all before we broke and I met my new girlfriend. I remember taking those kind of opportunities to indulge on long diaper days. But personally, I preferred (and still do) to go get on my car and buy Tenas for myself from a supermarket not to close from where I live. Doing that makes me feel extra naughty, hehe.
  10. Another fun topic to discuss lost to our inability to tolerate each other... It's becoming a common issue around here... Solve your problems in private if you need it so badly, but keep the forum open for others to debate, discuss and talk in general. Even if it is your own topic. Unless someone is clearly rude, approaches sensitive topics with disrespect or starts a discussion on subjects that cross all borders of what is ethically acceptable, don’t destroy topics and conversations… and even so, if someone like goes over the line, the moderators are around. They proved that already on innumerous topics closed due to their content. Peace
  11. I never tried the hand-in-water trick. Given so, I can't be sure if it works or not, but can’t find any reasonable physiologic explanation for it to work. However, the hand-in-crotch-area trick might work. Context: urinary retention is a common problem after surgery at any age; also, for some patients who need absolute bedrest for any medical condition, peeing while lying down is extremely difficult. These problems are more common on male patients, given our anatomy, but can also happen on females. Quite often, the only way to resolve this issue is bladder catheterization. One trick nurses use to reduce the need for bladder catheterization is placing hot pack and lukewarm-water-soaked gauze on the suprapubic region; for some patients that’s enough to help them void, even while lying down. The heat feeling in the crotch or suprapubic region activates micturition trough a skin reflex that’s generally tonically inhibited by our central nervous system, but such inhibition is weaker during sleep and in patients with spinal cord lesions. Actually, there are many studies in these area to try to find consistent ways of using these reflexes to induce voiding in patients with neurogenic bladder due to spinal cord lesions or other neurological diseases. In some specialized centers, surgeons reenervate the bladder with nerves from other muscules and then patients are taught how to think about contracting that muscle to void, pretty aswome stuff. But for most patients that is not an option, most need to intermittent bladder catherization every day; other's use similar techniques to induce voiding, mostly that I know with tactile stimulation, I don’t actually remember anyone telling me they used heat. In short, I don’t understand the hand-in-water trick and I’m not sure it works, but warm water in the crotch area may induce voiding, at least there is a physiological reason for it If you want to red on the subject, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4348728/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8506593/ https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0135185
  12. Jesus, things escalated quickly. Let's not read to much on China Girl's less polite words... It's part of the persona, all her posts are like that. I got a little baffled at first, but I didn't take offense. I made some friends over the years a who are just as direct, it's part of them and they don't mean any harm. And truth is, sometimes they are the only ones with the guts to say things others can't muster the courage... Still I agree we always should measure our words, especially with strangers. And that's important even online, without a respectful environment these kind of forums don't work. Anyway, as I said, she is not from the community, although she was aware of this kink. Given so, we haven't mixed thigs and we'll take things slow. If we feel like sharing in the future, we will, but it's not something we even thought about yet. We need time to understand us first.
  13. Boa terra, passo aí em trabalho frequentemente. Vai-se a ver e somos muitos, o pessoal tuga é que é muito reservado.
  14. Sorry for only replying after such a long time... But one plays his cards well till the day he doesn't. And I almost ruined my chances. Fortunately, things turned out ok and now I write to you again... with consent Luckily for me, the community in this website is mostly a good example regarding the ABDL community. After visiting the site, she understood my excitement in sharing what was unfolding with you and why I felt the need to do so, although she did not like the idea at all in the beginning. So, the last time I wrote to you we were starting to see each other more often outside work. We were dating and having fun. With all the restrictions due to covid, night time activities were heavily restricted and I decided to invite her to my house. The first time she came we had dinner and then we saw a movie which was surprisingly easy to choose (I’m very picky regarding movies and fully aware of that, but our tastes seem to align). After the movie she stayed a while but, in the end, she politely declined to stay the night when I touched the subject and went home. And the same happened on the next visit. It’s interesting to write to you now knowing what was on her mind back then. She wanted to stay, but every time she couldn’t muster the courage to open up. At this point she thought I didn’t know about her bedwetting. She told me she suspected I knew about it in the beginning, but as time passed and the dates went on with me never bringing up the subject again, she assumed she was wrong and assuming too much. So yes, my now girlfriend is indeed a bedwetter. Her brother and cousins surpassed that when they were in their late teens, but I guess her bladder forgot to do so and the bedwetting continued into adulthood. Nowadays, she only occasionally wets the bed when sleeping at home and doesn’t use diapers every night, only a mattress cover. However, when she is more stressed or worried about something, not having enough sleep, drinks a little and, especially, when she sleeps away from home, wetting the bed happens much more often. That’s why she uses protection during night shifts at work. Things only moved forward the 3th she came over. Friday was coming and none of us had to work that weekend. I picked her from home, so she was not driving this time. We went first for a stroll near the beach and only came home around sunset. This time I didn’t cook. I invited two friends of mine she had met before over for dinner and we ordered sushi for everyone. With wine during dinner and desert and some gin & tonic after that, we all ended up drinking a little more than we should. When it got late my friends said their goodbyes, leaving the two of us alone together. We were good, a little romance was going on, but then she started to really look worried. And I asked her what was going on: “Are you ok?” – I said. “It’s getting late, I think I should go. And we both drank too much… I’m calling an Uber.” “You don’t really need to go. You can stay… And if you want you can use the guest room…” The alcohol was doing its work now. She was teary when she answered. “It’s not that...” And maybe it was the alcohol, but I finally blurted it out. “If it’s about the diapers… I know… And I don’t mind.” I could see she was shocked. She just stared at me for a while. “You know? How?” And I told her about that night when she thought she was alone on the upper floor. She was blushing while listening to how I first noticed her wearing diapers during the night shifts. She was also relieved, and it was after that that she finally opened up and told me about her bedwetting. Now that she knew I knew, it was easier. “Still, I can’t stay… I didn’t bring any diapers with me.” “Well about that... it’s my turn to tell you my secret.” And that’s when I told her about me being a DL. She actually knew about the ABDL community (I guess it’s natural you find about ABDLs when you buy diapers online these days…), which made things a little easier, but at this point I could feel that she was pleased with what she was hearing. “I’m sorry I didn’t tell you early, but I didn’t find the right moment. And don’t even think it’s only about that, I really like you.” “I really need to think… Maybe it’s better if I go.” “Stay, it’s late. And we’ll think about this tomorrow. And if you don’t want to use a diaper since you don’t use it everyday it’s ok, you can stay in my bed, it has a mattress protector.” In the end she stayed the night with me and we slept together all night for the first time. She accepted one t-shirt and one of my regular Tena diapers to sleep in. The diaper was too big for her, but did the job. She ended up seeing the ABDL diapers as well. Although she didn’t say anything at the time, she got very curious about them. She actually was the one insisting on putting the diaper on, I told it was fine if she didn't want to, but she didn’t want to risk my bed. I must tell you, at this point I was completely in heaven. Sleeping together with a girl with just a t-shirt and diaper next to me, I had to really make an effort to behave. The next morning went well as well, she made me quite a few questions about how I found out about her and me being an ABDL. The next weeks were paradise to me. But things turned out for the worst when I told her about this site. She didn’t react well when she found that I shared the story here. She didn’t want to see me for a while. Fortunately, after a while she accepted for us to meet again. And I explained how lonely it is not having someone to share the ABDL part of me and how that feeling is common in the ABDL community. She forgave me and consented to tell you how thing’s developed. Nowadays, she practically sleeps here everyday. And she likes the bunny-hops 4 tapes I bought her more than she cares to admit Things are fine as they are now, so I’m not gonna rush anything. I’m gonna introduce her to the ABDL stuff a little bit everyday. She’s very shy, but maybe we’ll have some more to share with you in the future
  15. Sorry, but I haven't had the time to be around. There was indeed a first and a second one already and we had fun Nice to find that I'm not out of the game after finishing a long term relationship last year and COVID-19 messed with all our lives. We had a great time and some things happened, but a gentleman never tells Regarding the "protection issue", she didn't talk about it directly, but at a certain point she asked me about my EXs and if "my problem" made me shy to seek for a girlfriend when I was in my teens. I didn't want to go further with lies, so I told her that at that time I tried to not let it interfere with my life, but never told anyone about it. Things are still very slow here cause of restrictions, so in the last date I told her to think about a day for us to have dinner and watch a film at my house. Waiting to hear from her
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