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Jota

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  • I'm into..
    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Diapers
    Humiliation

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  1. For me it was exactly like @ghost girl. The first it happened to me when I wake I was already wetting the bed. I was also around that age, curiously.Since then, every time I dreamt of using the toilet I never wet the bed, I always wake up in time to go the toilet. Guess our bodies learn from the shock of the first time, hehe.
  2. I'm not American. And when I look at this situation from a foreign perspective, I don't see a problem with the USA. I mean, like every country, the USA have their own problems, but slowly doing the right moves to correct things. What I see, is the Supreme Court of the USA undermining its own credibility. How can that group of judges be responsible for such sensible tasks as regulating legislative and administrative powers in the USA? If I was a citizen of the USA, my actions regarding this matter would be to pressure the government institutions to rethink the supreme court, how the judges are appointed and how much time they stay in office (a permanent seat is a call for abuse of power).
  3. It's just a job. With the years you get to understand that. Without the nurses, the assistant staff, the radiology technologists who operate CT scanners and MRIs, the engineers who keep the oxygen flowing and other vital equipment running, the IT department who keeps the informatic systems alive, without all of them a doctor is nothing special 🙂 we have to take decisions, we have knowledge and skills to help our patients, but we rely on teamwork to be able to provide treatment and care.
  4. If it is for you to know, things will unfold. Just mind that you know something about her that she isn't expecting you to know. Maybe kink, maybe disability, you can't be sure for now if it something she is confortable with to talk about or share even with people closer to her. Play your cards well. In the process of knowing her you'll have plenty of time to give her openings for her to talk about it without being to obvious if she wants to do so. But most important, dont rush things because of people here asking for detailed nor post here information that could jeopardize your relationship later. We are all curious, we all rooting for you 🤞, but we can wait.
  5. Oh, I believe you, in our main hospital, where he have the acute patients, there is no time for sleep either. Day or night, patients are always coming in. In the ER we receive hundreds of patients each day and in the wards, with so many acute patients, we receive calls all night for patients with acute decompensations. It's hard to recall a night, in the main hospital, where any of the staff could stop a little mid shift to rest. But this takes place in a separate secondary facility for chronic patients in the late stages of recovery, we move them to that place to make room for acute patients in the main hospital when they are stable. That's the reasons why it is so calm there and why there is only a doctor and a few nurses for all the facility at night. Between the team we call the nights there "rest nights" but at least one doctor must stay their during the night in case something happens (it's the best for the patients and it's also required by law). Usually, we divide the turns in the secondary hospital fairly between the team and they are all done as extra hours, you cant just do more shifts their to run from the shifts in the main hospital 🤣 From what I know, and I have a few friends in the NHS, our emergency departaments work in a similar way, with chaos all night both for the surgical and medical specialities 🤣 nurses, aids and doctors, we all suffer together through the night 🤣
  6. No, no, no. The problema is not disposing of the wet one. It's putting a new one without taking off my pants and shoes!
  7. After all the ruckus in the topic I thought this was better to be forgotten, that’s the reason I didn’t wrote to you anymore. But things are in the past and I’m certain we can all behave now. We are getting along, 6 months and still dating. We have a toothbrush and some clothes at each other’s house, so I guess we are doing fine. One main thing that changed for us is that we now never work in the same shifts, we prefer to separate our personal and work life. As you know, my girlfriend knew about the abdl/omorashi kink before we met (apparently, if you are an adult buying diapers online nowadays even on google you are bound to find some abdl diapers). That was actually good, because when I told her about my abdl/omorashi interests she was not taken by surprise and, from her side, it was also good to find someone who didn’t care about her bedwetting issues... Her bedwetting issue is actually not that severe, accidents tend to happen when she is more stressed, very tired, when we go for drinks or when she sleeps in new places (we both can’t explain the reason for the last one). The reason she uses protection during her nightshifts at work is the fear of wetting the hospital bed, which would be very embarrassing, she keeps using them although she hasn’t had an accident at work in years. She never wears diapers at her house and at my place she insisted in using them in the beginning, but that’s in the past. Regarding the abdl/omorashi side of our relationship, well, it evolved in an enjoyable way actually. At night, she only wears diapers when she feels she needs them, and prefers the regular diapers, she used abdl diapers at night sometimes in the beginning but not anymore. She doesn’t want to mix things; bedwetting is an issue for her and we both agree we should not engage in any behavior that may make it worse. During the day, at the weekends, she now often puts a pull-up or abdl diaper on to tease me since she knows I love it and she enjoys being pampered and gets along with some light ageplay 😊 I’m strictly forbidden to take pictures and even more to share them, so for now that’s off the table. But we are planning on going on vacations abroad soon, we never know how she’ll feel about that then, I guess we will be packing some diapers 😛 (she doesn’t know about this last phrase yet hehe). Also of interest, she is yet to decide about how she feels about me using diapers; she doesn’t mind, but she doesn’t find it attractive either. As a result, I actually have been using them less and less, but I don’t really mind, I still use them from time to time when I do a hold. So yes, life is good! Makes you wonder how your life can change due to the smallest coincidence…
  8. I love the idea of everyone posting their favorite videos. This particular video is also one of my favorites, I must confess. But, if this idea results in the posting of multiple videos already available on the website, I'm not sure if that is a god initiative. I'm not sure how much does the storage of these videos’ cost per month, I think the Website administrators should have a say on this before everyone starts uploading their favorite videos. @Zackwood I’m not trying to boycott your idea, but we all should zeal for the website. Covering the costs of the servers surely must be expensive, we should not increase that cost unnecessarily.
  9. There is a problem with pull-ups that always bothered me... If you need to change in a public bathroom you need to take your pants off... Diapers are easier to change with minimal undressing... Can you tell us what brand, please? @Imabedwetter
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    Cute girl playing in the park in pull-ups; after playing for a while she needs to pee and wets her pull-ups with a small leak. Then she goes to a library nearby and later search for a bathroom to change. Very cute!
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  11. Allerted_PullUps_inthepark&library View File Cute girl playing in the park in pull-ups; after playing for a while she needs to pee and wets her pull-ups with a small leak. Then she goes to a library nearby and later search for a bathroom to change. Very cute! Submitter Jota Submitted 01/12/2022 Category Female  
  12. I guess that the closer and most acceptable experience you could get to that, without crossing the borders of non-consent, would be through participation in a kink munch or convention. In these kind of events, consent is implicit, and participantes are expected to be more open about their kinks, without crossing the limits of personal space and rules established for that specific event. There are all kinds of gatherings, some directed at ABDLs alone, others to a more board selection of kinks. Maybe you could find a place of your liking.
  13. That's so exciting! I used to be in that situation until most recently, I was in long term relationship with a partner who did not enjoy my fetish at all before we broke and I met my new girlfriend. I remember taking those kind of opportunities to indulge on long diaper days. But personally, I preferred (and still do) to go get on my car and buy Tenas for myself from a supermarket not to close from where I live. Doing that makes me feel extra naughty, hehe.
  14. Another fun topic to discuss lost to our inability to tolerate each other... It's becoming a common issue around here... Solve your problems in private if you need it so badly, but keep the forum open for others to debate, discuss and talk in general. Even if it is your own topic. Unless someone is clearly rude, approaches sensitive topics with disrespect or starts a discussion on subjects that cross all borders of what is ethically acceptable, don’t destroy topics and conversations… and even so, if someone like goes over the line, the moderators are around. They proved that already on innumerous topics closed due to their content. Peace ❤️
  15. I never tried the hand-in-water trick. Given so, I can't be sure if it works or not, but can’t find any reasonable physiologic explanation for it to work. However, the hand-in-crotch-area trick might work. Context: urinary retention is a common problem after surgery at any age; also, for some patients who need absolute bedrest for any medical condition, peeing while lying down is extremely difficult. These problems are more common on male patients, given our anatomy, but can also happen on females. Quite often, the only way to resolve this issue is bladder catheterization. One trick nurses use to reduce the need for bladder catheterization is placing hot pack and lukewarm-water-soaked gauze on the suprapubic region; for some patients that’s enough to help them void, even while lying down. The heat feeling in the crotch or suprapubic region activates micturition trough a skin reflex that’s generally tonically inhibited by our central nervous system, but such inhibition is weaker during sleep and in patients with spinal cord lesions. Actually, there are many studies in these area to try to find consistent ways of using these reflexes to induce voiding in patients with neurogenic bladder due to spinal cord lesions or other neurological diseases. In some specialized centers, surgeons reenervate the bladder with nerves from other muscules and then patients are taught how to think about contracting that muscle to void, pretty aswome stuff. But for most patients that is not an option, most need to intermittent bladder catherization every day; other's use similar techniques to induce voiding, mostly that I know with tactile stimulation, I don’t actually remember anyone telling me they used heat. In short, I don’t understand the hand-in-water trick and I’m not sure it works, but warm water in the crotch area may induce voiding, at least there is a physiological reason for it 😛 If you want to red on the subject, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4348728/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8506593/ https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0135185
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