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Dynamic

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  1. That's okay, you can always retcon your backstory. They do it all the time in movies and TV shows.
  2. Hello. I think that's one thing many of us struggle with, and I can probably broadly describe my own journey in terms of before and after I got comfortable with myself and my interests. It's especially difficult because there usually aren't other people to talk to about this, so it can be very lonely. As such, I am also glad places like this exist.
  3. Cascading on sheets, huh? I like your style.
  4. I didn't know people were into Computer Numerical Control like that. I mean, fabricating stuff precisely out of various materials is pretty cool, so I guess I can kind of see it. Oh, maybe you meant something else.
  5. That sounds awesome. Out of curiosity, how do you get yourself out? And since you can, what kind of incentives do you give yourself for waiting to attempt to get out? Diapered desperation is one of my favorite things, but it can be a bit of a contradiction. I'm always interested in the rationalizations for purposefully waiting.
  6. That was my first thought. Maybe contracted an infection after spending that much interrupted time padded.
  7. Is there a better combination than this?
  8. I'm not much into public things, but I do love diapered desperation. It's one of my favorite things, but unfortunately kind of rare.
  9. I have the feeling that I may understand, but I can't easily put it into words. It sounds like an interesting thing to explore, if only in fiction.
  10. Yes. I've been working on some stories, little by little, for years with no end in sight. When I first started posting stories (on another forum) I just went right into it and started posting, making up the story as I went along. It led to perhaps not the best final product, but I wonder if that was better than having a really good plan, but no actual stories to share with actual people.
  11. Welcome! This seems to be pretty common, which is a bit ironic if you think about it. I can safely say that, with the right preparation, it can be done even if you have very strong control. The jury is still out on safety, though... Good luck, and be safe!
  12. I don't think anybody can fully explain the appeal they find in a certain kink, but I think I can at least strike near the target. Everybody, even people who share the same broad interests, is different, but for me at least I think it comes down to a control dynamic. I think for some people who are into ABDL / omutsu stuff it's about giving up control, sometimes to someone else and sometimes just in general. For me particularly it's more about a safeguard against the potential loss of control. It's an admission that something might happen, which to me is exciting. I've always been more into the omorashi / desperation stuff so for me diapers are an extension of that. Plus, it makes cleanup so much easier. And they feel really nice too. I started off having only a cursory interest in diapers and related materials, but over time that interest grew to be more dominant. Now they are integral to this side of my personality.
  13. I don't recognize most of the names or things you mentioned, but I must admit I find the idea of a reenactment of younger years to be interesting. I don't think I'd attempt something like that per se myself (maybe instead using more modern means to try to capture the 'spirit' of my earlier years), but the idea itself is fascinating. It's a pity that nostalgia has to be so subjective. It's often hard to find people to share it with, because each person's life experience is so unique. Still, those rare, fleeing moments when someone else "gets it" can be magical indeed. I wish you luck in finding them.
  14. Okay, I'm sorry but that is extremely unfair. You've cherry picked a part of the person's quote to make your point, while blatantly ignoring the first part of it. They also said: This is tolerance. They're basically saying do what you want, even if they don't agree. They have a right not only to disagree, but to voice their opinion just as you do. This thread has been pretty cordial, some people just disagree. I think you're blowing someone disagreeing with your opinion way out of proportion. And even if you say you won't be checking this again, I don't believe you. Even if I did, that doesn't mean I'm not going to respond. Was that an attempt to shut me down? Frankly, I think this unwillingness to even listen to the opinion of others is very intolerant. Funny thing about humans is we tend to accuse others of that which we fear in ourselves.
  15. I don't think that's fair. It looks to me like the people in question aren't intolerant at all, but are rather just tolerant. Your standpoint seems to only narrowly address those who are wholeheartedly with you, and those who are wholeheartedly against you. It's possible to simply be neutral. If someone isn't pro-something that doesn't mean they are against it. They could just be indifferent. Tolerance is a good thing. It basically means being okay with what other people do while not necessarily wanting to partake yourself. If a person only accepts people who echo their own opinions 1 to 1 then I would say they are the intolerant one. Diversity is only possible with tolerance. Seriously, when has "if you're not with us you're against us" gotten anyone anywhere good?
  16. It was a widely held belief for a long time, so I'm sure you can find plenty of (old) articles that support your position. Even doctors were trained to believe that urine is sterile. However, recent studies have proven that to be false. Urine is not sterile. I'm not going to link a bunch of articles because this is off topic and I don't want to clutter the thread. However, I challenge you to type "urine sterility" into your search engine of choice and at least read the titles of the first couple pages of results.
  17. It's a persistent myth, but disproved. Confirmed: Urine Is Not Sterile
  18. Not so. That is unfortunately a persistent urban myth. Also, as a guy I do on occasion wipe, though I'd say it's more of a dab. Whether or not I do depends on several factors.
  19. Well, as the void I don't know if I can offer any useful advice, but I'll give it a try. I have "come out" as you put it to every girlfriend that I've felt serious enough about, because personally I don't want to get too deep into a relationship knowing that I won't be able to express what I consider a very important part of myself. That being said, different people I've dated have had different reactions, from being pretty weirded out in one case, to another embracing it fully. So, having experienced both ends of the spectrum, I can offer this - it's about your priorities. Having dated a woman who was totally into being a DL I can safely say that it's not enough to sustain a relationship. That aspect alone can't compensate for not having genuine compatibility. We were together for quite a long time, and I cherish the memories we made, but ultimately we broke up and were unable to reconcile. There were very large problems between us that ultimately won over the things we shared in common. Having also dated women who were not really interested in the DL stuff I can also confirm that, from time to time, they were willing to indulge me. When you care about someone you'll compromise when you can. Now, these women were also very understanding and weren't totally repulsed, so I was fortunate there. Of course I waited to get to know them well enough before making that leap. Even if you're not totally sure how someone will react, you can gauge their reactions to other things to get a pretty good idea... if you're savvy at that sort of thing (I am). Being sure they won't use the information to hurt you down the line is especially important. Ultimately, it wasn't enough for me to just be indulged. I decided to hold out for someone who was really into it. That's my priority. It may not be yours. In your case, since you're already really into this person, and have already bit the bullet and came out to her, I think you're in a somewhat tricky situation. If your priority is to stay with her and make her happy, then I tell you that you must not let this get you down. You have to be brave and face the uncertain future together. She may warm up to the idea in time, or she may not, but if she feels pressured in any way then that can lead to resentment. Let her take the time she needs to process this stuff and sort her own feelings out. And if you're too stressed over this she's going to sense it. People can sense a lot about the mood of another, whether they realize it or not. That can lead to making hasty decisions, which often doesn't end too well. If you choose to stay the course then do so with your head held high. Maybe you're a deviant, but you should still be proud to be yourself. If she loves you she will accept you for who you are. The only thing that concerns me is the therapist angle. You said she contacted her friend to get her opinion on the situation, which is understandable, but I have to ask: did you consent to that? If she exposed your secrets to anybody, professional or otherwise, without asking you first then that's a major red flag in my opinion. Honestly, if that happened to me I'd be out. To me, that would be a massive, unrecoverable breach of trust. A deal-breaker. But, again, that's me. You end your post by saying you're "a 30 year old baby." You must not think of yourself this way. You are an adult, with obscure but very real and legitimate interests, but still an adult. I know that the parlance is to call yourself a "baby", at least if you're into the AB side of things, but that's just for fun. You must acknowledge your adulthood and lead with that at the forefront, because you're in an adult relationship and maturity is the only thing that's going to carry you through. At least, that's what I think. Different women are into all sorts of different things, so maybe I'm way off here. Ultimately I'm just a weirdo on the internet, and it's up to you if and how you want to use this advice. In any case, I wish you good luck.
  20. I also recognized your name from that story. I used to post on ABDLStoryForum before the big move, as user name RT. It's not that big a community after all, and stories like that are very rare.
  21. So I had a thought: what if Fern runs out of sunshine stickers? Does that mean that everybody just has to wet themselves? I would like to see how that conversation would go down.
  22. Yo I'm a stranger. Welcome though.
  23. I suffer from OCD, which falls under the blanket of anxiety disorders. I had almost no trouble at all getting treatment. Follow up care was where I ran into problems, but that was more due to availability of psychiatrists in my area.
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