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Can’t wait to try it!! When it’s finally published, could you post a link here….please 🙂

I love this idea!! Hopefully someone could put something together!

I definitely agree with the pajamas and bikinis. Otherwise I would probably say for women at least, dress/work pants you don't see a lot of. I love them especially light colored pants because they are usually really tight with some good stretch so a wet spot would look incredible. A wedding dress or frilly dress could be fun too.

So I love the pokemon games (all of them 🥰) and when I get a chance, I’ll usually try to set up a challenge for myself to hold until I complete something lol. Whether it’s having my team reach a certain level or catching a hard to find pokemon or beating a gym or sometimes just getting to a specific poke center; ive always had a fun time with these kinds of challenges. Being on mostly handheld systems also helps because I can change positions or move around while I’m trying to hold.

Yes, I absolutely have to plan my holdings and other fun times. Trying to balance being a mom and having all the responsibilities of being an adult, I do try to plan when I can enjoy holds and “accidents”. Unintentional times can occur and I think about it but those times aren’t as enjoyable in the moment.

We are able to joke about it some to this day but it’s still a little embarrassing for me esp when he brings it up around some other people or reference it as like an inside joke.

Wow!! I never knew there were so many ways to lock up jeans but I now want to try a few of these methods!! everyone is super creative!!

I can only think of one time where my friend and I were out at a street fair and I got really desperate and the lines were super long. I didn’t completely wet myself but I leaked quite a bit in my jeans before finally being able to pee. I asked how noticeable it was and it wasn’t bad but there was quite the dark patch. He said we should probably leave and because he was my ride we had to talk the whole ride back to my place. I was so embarrassed 😶

how much longer do you think you can hold? Are you standing or just sitting?

how are you holding up? Thats quite the mixture of drinks!!

Well usually when I'm leaking or starting to lose control and start having an accident, there's always that little hope like I can hide the wetness from others so I can maintain some dignity. Also my only genuine accidents have usually been in a more public setting.

Same!!! My last relationship I was debating bringing it up but every time I thought about it or planned to talk about it, I remember how bad it went and I then avoided it entirely.

I remember when I told my exhusband about it and he was not into it at all. He thought it was rather childish and always seemed disgusted about it. Whenever we fought he would always use it against me or if we were in the car and I would mention I needed to pee, he always looked at me like 'are you doing this for a thrill or do you really just need to go'. We lasted a little while after that before other issues in the relationship occurred and we eventually split. I will say its been harder to bring it up with other partners since having that kind of rejection.

The few times I've had an unplanned accident, I definitely tried to regain control and try to limit the damage. Mostly because I would hope to cover myself with a coat or shirt or something to see if I could hide what I did to others. You are right that its harder to hold after that after already being wet and having tired muscles.

If I plan a hold, I usually will start with either hot or iced tea and then switch to water. I might add some flavoring to my water if I get too bored of water or need some taste.