jadin

Yes! This! Jesus. What does it take to get more male content on here??? Please let me know and I will do all I can to help/encourage more videos from male posters.

Does it have to be both or can it just be someone wetting their diaper?

Very nice! Would love to see more!

So as I said I am usually very good at holding. But when I have a spasm I have to clench to hold. I believe what happened was when my spasm hit me and I didn't clench a spurt of urine escaped I normally would have held back if clenching. So I had a wave a release instead of a spasm. As soon as the wave ended I was able to controls again without effort as that is the natural state of things for me. Once the intensity ended (normally with a wave of intense clenching, but this time with a release that brought me some relief from holding) I was able to regain my usual control. Does that make sense? I'm not sure how else to explain it.

I'm not sure if this counts but I will do my best to answer. I one time drank a lot while grocery shopping and became much more desperate than I intended during the shopping trip. I am not in any way interested or turned on by public wettings and never have had a complete loss of control despite severe desperation and bladder spasms during holds at home. So I felt pretty confident despite my discomfort. Perhaps that's why this happened. I was walking to my car feeling desperate but didn't want to look desperate as I walked. So even though I was getting waves of painful spasms I decided to walk normally and not clench/clamp down with the sudden urges like I normally would thinking I could make it to my car pretty fast with no issue. So the next wave hit and I remained walking upright, my normal gait no clenching. Everything seemed fine at first but I was confused because even though I hadn't "let go" technically and didn't feel like I was doing anything (other than NOT clenching), at the moment I would normally clench I instead felt a warming sensation between my legs. So subtle at first I thought I imagined it. Except it began to expand and the usual intense pain I would experience when clenching to hold didn't happen this time. Instead, I began to feel a sensation of relief just as the warming sensation began spreading. I realized then I was wetting myself. I stopped in time before it became obvious but was genuinely shocked. So to answer your questions in order. Q1) I would say the sudden intensification before leaking happened at the peak of my urge and that is when I began my release which resulted in a receding urge and the signal that I was in fact wetting right then. I wouldn't have known for sure until the relief sensation hit me even though my crotch was warming up...it was like I became numb for a second and then felt relief. Q2) I have had triggers such as seeing a toilet that made me need to go more but didn't necessarily result in a wetting. I would say my confidence in my ability to hold was my downfall here. I didn't think it would happen and therefore didn't try hard as I could which resulted in wetting myself without even realizing. Q3) During my desperation and waves of urgency my entire pelvic floor and sphincter twitches uncontrollably even if I'm successful at holding. It feels sort of pleasurable to me. However, during the episode of actual wetting due to my lack of restraint I suddenly stopped twitching and had a numbing sensation instead. I almost wonder if this was my bodies way of tricking me into release and relief. I couldn't even tell I was losing control until I made the connection of spreading warmth with a sudden relief from the twitching and my urgency steadily declining. Q4) again it wasn't a sudden sensation so much as a sudden lack of sensation. No longer having urgency is a huge clue. You don't suddenly get the feeling of release and decreased bladder pressure just as you thighs warm up for no reason. Q5) my state of mind was a little chaotic since I didn't want to actually have a complete wetting in public. But I also was excited because I had never wet myself before like that. My breathing definitely increased and I felt a pleasure sensation on realization. When I got to my car I checked for and felt the wetness to confirm and by the time I got to my apartment I had another burst of warmth before I could change which this time I was able to recognize. I was to my door by that point and was so caught up and The sensation that I did feel a sense of resignation if one of my neighbors were to come out and notice the staining on my crotch and inner thighs. The numb tingly feeling continued to keep happening and whenever it did the warmth would well up between my legs before spreading a little downwards. I hope that answered all your questions feel free to ask me more or DM me if you need any more information!

Good job! This is great! I hope you were able to relax and wet subconsciously. Training your subconscious is the biggest step. Loved the video! Watching you relax into the diaper and seeing the wetness spread was divine! Please update with more!

Amazing! I am rooting for you. Do you have an update? How's it going? How's it feel to use your diapers consistently? Do you feel your body is adapting to the automatic release? I really hope so. How exciting! Let me know how it's going!

Love this video! Thank you! 😍

I loved doing it! I felt so relaxed and was able to completely let go without holding back.

https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1086393882985644083/1127359526060957736/YouCut_20230708_175852181.mp4 Here's my video as promised! Sorry it's not perfect. It's my first video! Let me know what you think 🙂 Forgot to share the aftermath so I took a screenshot of the video after getting up from my puddle

I apologize for how long this took, how short this and how inexperienced I am at videos. Sorry if this is a disappointment. For some reason I am not allowed to upload files larger than 75mb so I had to cut it down quite a bit....which I'm sure ruins the anticipation. I'm not sure if this is something I can increase with tenure here or not but here is what I managed to make. Sorry about the wait! YouCut_20230708_183247354.mp4 And some aftermath pics

Why wouldn't it be? Just because there's no clothing to moisten? To me loss of control or even just letting go while not in a "proper" toileting area is wetting oneself. But that's my opinion

I often feel the same way!

I ordered one through amazon that should arrive tomorrow. But let me get in my plug real quick: I also am wetting my bed before it arrive for the first time tonight and let me tell you, it's amazing. If you can do it at least once. I'm loving how my bet and mattress readily accepts what I have to give it. Feels soooo good. Try it at least once. It is great.

I would be interested mostly to use for convenience. But what is your fantasy and what are you both looking for? DM me if you like