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Anna B

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  • Birthday 06/06/1981

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  1. Wow, you did amazingly well, Legscrossed! Managing to struggle on for so long at that age when you were so desperate. I think I would have lost it just in the last few moments.
  2. Haha, it's not exactly a way of life for me, but yes I have had several occasions when I've been desperate enough with no toilet available to resort to peeing like I described. Maybe not the whole lot, but enough to give me enough relief for a while. As to "normal" peeing outdoors, yes, I'd prefer to squat in the bush rather than use a filthy public toilet any day! (Toilets in shopping centres are usually clean enough, although I still prefer to wait until I get home) I'd still kneel, not only to avoid getting my sandals or thongs wet, but to avoid it being so obvious that i was peeing down my legs.
  3. A skirt or dress is definitely the way to go if there's any chance that there mightn't be a toilet when one is desperately needed. It's much easier to pull down just panties than shorts or jeans as well, and the dress still offers some cover around the back. And if things are really dire, with almost no privacy at all, you can simply kneel somewhere (preferably thick grass) and pee through your panties, keeping your legs together. Kneeling avoids the problem of soaked shoes, and there's less visible leg length for anyone to see the pee rushing down. (It's helpful to be able to stop part way if necessary, like if someone comes walking by too close) Then all you have to do is subtly wipe away the wetness from the inside of the thighs and avoid sitting down for half an hour or so.
  4. Definitely the uncertainty of how much longer I'm going to have to wait, and if I'm going to be able to make it.
  5. How ridiculous! Poor precious, delicate little flowers. No worse than squatting in the bush; no need to touch anything, and definitely no need to be so dependent on toilet paper. Our ancestors never even knew of such a luxury. Could of course be fun for fellow travellers though, seeing the resultant desperation later on!
  6. I find it generally easier to hold in public, for all the reasons that others have stated, eg fear of embarrassment, distraction, and simply knowing that I have to hold on because there are no toilets close at hand. And I'm very prone to latch key desperation; many are the times I've been busting while out but still well in control and quite able (albeit with some effort) to hold on until I get home, but then end up squirming in desperation and occasionally even spurting as I unlock the front door!
  7. It's mostly actually a bit impractical if the pad is there for an actual period. Generally by the time you're busting enough to be needing to let a little bit out to buy a bit more time, the pad has been in place for enough hours that it will have quite a bit of blood in it. Adding a squirt of pee carries the risk that it will mix with some of the blood and carry it off into the clothes, which could be rather more obvious than just a small pee wet patch! And if you're like me and find it hard to stop, it's likely to be the first (intentional) spurt, followed by another accidental one. And some women apparently can't stop at all, or at least for several seconds, which would very quickly overflow a period pad. Of course if the period is almost finished or the pad was put on especially to catch a bit of pee it can be entirely successful, and quite helpful, so long as you know you're going to be able to stop reasonably reliably.
  8. That doesn't help, unless maybe there's enough pressure to go right through, like leaning forward on a bike seat or horse saddle. What I find does help is pressure on the pee hole, especially if it's a bit of a massage. That of course works best pressing right between the pussy lips, not onto them, which really only requires one or two fingers. (maybe one on top of the other) Another thing that can help, although the effect is not immediate, is stimulating the clit. (discovered accidentally when i was a teenager) I find once I start feeling turned on I can hold on better. There is a potential danger in that though; if I'm really badly busting and go too far and have an orgasm I'm likely to spurt a few times during the orgasm.
  9. If I'm in public I DEFINITELY try to stop, and am always able to, although there have been times when I've ended up with a visible wet patch which I then have to try to hide. The last time I had a completely out of control wetting in public was when I was a Brownie. I'd been busting for some time, but managing to keep control with a lot of pee dancing, but then when we had to stand in formation near the end I couldn't hold it with having to stand still and completely lost control. On that occasion it would have been better to just let it go, because it just would have fallen down under my uniform dress. But in my desperate struggle to stop it I grabbed and held myself, which still didn't stop it, but did thoroughly soak front of my Brownie uniform!
  10. Yes, definitely. If I get carried away with holding and keep on as long as I possibly can, for the next day or two my bladder will become hyper-reactive. The effect is that at only moderate levels of fullness, when normally I'd be able to reliably control any urges that happen and safely hold on for some time, suddenly with little or no warning I'll get extremely powerful urges that are extremely hard to control. This can be very inconvenient and awkward, as I'm likely to all of a sudden be utterly struggling not to wet myself in some normal everyday situation with people around, such as at work. Needless to say there have been occasions when I have actually started wetting, although fortunately I've always managed (just) to prevent it becoming a complete loss of control. For this reason I now normally try to avoid going too far if I'm holding for fun!
  11. I can't believe how "overcivilised" and wimpy some women are about peeing outdoors and/or without anything to wipe with. I was brought up on the land, and it was entirely normal to squat somewhere for a pee. As it is for anyone who does any bushwalking. Sure, you might end up with a small wet patch in your panties, but you don't notice it and it's dry in 15 minutes or less anyway. Get over it, get a grip on reality and stop being so precious!
  12. It's happened numerous times to me, but the most interesting was when I was young and I had an older cousin staying with me in my room. In the morning I woke up busting and headed for the toilet, but it was occupied so I came back to the bedroom and started pee dancing and holding myself while I waited for the toilet to be free, thinking my cousin was still asleep. But then she laughed at my performance and I realised she had not only been awake, but watching me. I was very embarrassed and tried to cover up by getting dressed, but in my hurry I fumbled a bit and caught my toes in my panties as I was trying to pull them on and nearly fell over. I was already quite "close to the edge" and that brief loss of balance upset my tenuous control enough that a big hard spurt shot down onto the floor, which my cousin saw. "Ohhh, you can't wait!" she crowed.
  13. I loved the pictures of real, candid desperation and was very sorry when they stopped updating it with new contributions. Does anyone know of another site like that, where people send in photos of real desperation they've been lucky enough to snap?
  14. I totally get the fun of becoming desperate when you're driving (alone) and I've done it many times too. But why get panicky when it was so far to the next town? If you're no longer enjoying the desperation or it's getting too much to manage, just stop and pee in some bush, or at worst if there's no cover, on the far side of your car with the doors open for a bit more privacy? Easy peasy! BTW, I love your method of getting desperate by drinking a glass of water every 15 minutes or so. (your Rapid Desperation post) That's how I do it too.
  15. Yes, I've been caught both peeing and about to pee. Both times I hurriedly stood up and tried to look as if I'd just innocently squatted down for some other reason. The time I actually had been peeing I'd nearly finished so was able to stop immediately and quickly drag up my jeans, but the time I was just about to, I was just going down and pulling down my panties (I was wearing a skirt) when I suddenly realised someone was there so immediately reversed what I'd just done. The trouble was that I was seriously desperate, and with being right on the cusp of relieving myself I wasn't able to prevent it starting, and ended up gushing 2 or 3 seconds worth of pee into my panties before I was able to stop it.
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