pdeferred

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pdeferred last won the day on October 10 2012

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About pdeferred

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  • Birthday June 7

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  1. pdeferred

    Favorite part of holding your pee?

    I think it's the little losses of control - not so much spurting, but the shivers and shakes and "hold yourself or pee yourself; your choice" moments. That final "I can't *not* pee" moment is high on the list for me, but also one of the most fickle.
  2. pdeferred

    What's with wake-up desperation?

    I think this depends on a lot of things. Yes the kidneys slow down while you are asleep, but your bladder's emptying reflex is dulled as well. So some people end up with a quite distended bladder and can't last much past the time they wake, while others haven't quite managed to fill up. And we wake up after having not had any liquids for many hours ... it's no wonder that what you wake up with is what you get ... whatever that is. It takes hours for our tissues to rehydrate and our bladders to begin filling again.
  3. pdeferred

    Live Action Omorashi

    Ever find yourself putting off a trip to the toilet for just another minute or two ... and realize you're investing *way* more time and energy in that operation than whatever it was you were trying to accomplish before peeing? I guess I have to go worse than I thought. Not a really serious hold right now, but I'm going to try to put it off a little longer.
  4. pdeferred

    Live Action Omorashi

    How long ago was 09:00 where you are?
  5. pdeferred

    Peegasm

    It's interesting how the mainstream media headlines are almost all in the vein of "Do Not Do Super Fun Trick", and the rest are sort of "This is Really Weird"... and yet somehow I just cannot see how it would be possible for anyone to read this and not try it out. Not that they'd tell anyone. Ever.
  6. pdeferred

    Desperation Online Communities

    Yeah - as another refugee from the rest of the internet I'd have to agree - there is a *lot* of desperation content here, and somewhat less of a focus on straight holding for its own sake, but it's really a very welcoming site given the breadth of interests that find expression here. I think the generic problem still remains that even among those who are into "holding", there is quite a lot of variation surrounding what that means to any one individual. For myself, even the holding boards were an exercise in mining for the occasional pure gold nugget ... but it was worth it when the amount of content was enough to support that. The same applies here - the more content you post that matches your particular angle on things, the more you will find a like-minded community to share it with.
  7. pdeferred

    Forest Wetting Fun [Pics]

    Like a cola at the Olive Garden? Came for the panties ... stayed for the hilariously entertaining writing. Thanks, Rachel!
  8. TIME is one of the hardest things about desperation play.  It's not something you just pick up for an hour.

  9. pdeferred

    Testing Pads – Stayfree Period Pad

    I admit that these reviews have me fascinated and somewhat inspired and I don't really know why. Thanks for your sacrifices in the name of Science!
  10. pdeferred

    Bladder Size Index - what's yours?

    @LilMissMandi that puts you at 29 on the chart. Not that I'm sure what that means either. Comparatively speaking, at 6'0 and 800ml, I apparently rate a paltry 18.
  11. Nice! The pink jeans really show the wetness.
  12. pdeferred

    Unplanned full wet

    I think you may have stumbled on a way to lose control for those who are always looking for a way to lose control. Thanks for the gorgeous pics. And yeah. Blame the dog. :)
  13. pdeferred

    Live Action Omorashi

    I guess that depends on how full you feel. Below a certain threshold, nothing really makes it worse. Above a certain threshold ... on the other hand ... there are worse things you could do than throw a pack of playing cards on the floor and pick them up ... in order.
  14. pdeferred

    Live Action Omorashi

    Drink Water. Don't Pee. ( Captain Obvious strikes again! )
  15. pdeferred

    Live Action Omorashi

    It's really easy, then. All you need to do is not pee.