LilMiss

Aww sounds traumatic. I’m sorry!

Wow I feel like I could have written this OP! But I’m a bit older than you…still nice to see something I can so strongly relate to!

So what happened after? Did you see the doc? What did you wear? Also did anyone mention it was weird that you didn’t try to stop it? Sorry this sounds kinda traumatic. Hope you’re ok.

Glad you’re taking care of your health and that it wasn’t more than the small leak. Has this happened before?

Just keep going slowly and pivot when she wants/needs to. Ditch the script when needed. And make sure if there’s anything she’s into you mix it up a lot. Have fun.

Oh that’s so sad, I’m very sorry you went through this and then quit your job too. Hugs

Adding my name to the list of folks that would like to read more.

Yes, me too. Sometimes I am literally 1 second away from the right place.

Im interested!

I'd keep an open mind to the possibility of a UTI...bladder infection. Easy pee in a cup at the doc.

Ha well I can tell you from experience the entire show would be over in 30 seconds or less. I'm actually holding right now. I've had a few cocktails, because Friday. I'm feeling pretty loose and I'm a wee bit slurry. Oops. I thought of wandering outside but just checked and it's 45F out there. I'm sitting on the couch with a garbage bag underneath just in case, chilling and watching a movie. If I feel like posting updates I'll do it in the proper place. But I might not...I'm a teensy bit tipsy.

I actually let the pants dry naturally and am considering a planned wetting later. Maybe I can try to recreate my backyard sneeze story the other day, but privately this time. Which admittedly is not as exciting to me, but I think I could get some enjoyment out of something that was fairly traumatic the other day....wouldn't want a good wetting to to to waste.

The best laid plans... I was wearing light protection today as that's my new everyday attire, and I bent down to lift a heavy amazon box that got delivered (ironically filled with a case of my padded nightwear). I sneezed right as I was in a half squat kind of and the gush apparently just went out the side of the gusset and didn't soak into the underwear at all. I didn't really try to stop the sneeze because, first of all, hard; second, I knew I had a small barrier to catch little leaks. Or thought I did. So I guess in the future I should rethink that. It shot straight through my pants more on the left side and I got a small 2 puddles on the floor.

Nice to know I'm not alone. For questions....Under stress (sneeze, cough, laugh etc) there are times where it seems like I'm only able to hold pee in by using my outer muscles (inner thighs?) and my leg positioning or hands to physically stop it. So the gush happens at the same time as the sneeze. If I'm sitting or standing, I can squeeze all that and usually keep from wetting. When I'm doing something where I'm mid-stride, bending or lifting, I first have to get back to a stable position and sometimes I just don't have time before the gush. Sometimes even when I can hold back that initial gush, it can be really hard to hold back right after that and I can develop one of my slow leaks that goes for a bit. The other night, both happened. I was probably very slowly leaking for 5 minutes after the initial gush that made me slam my butt down in the chair. I tried to get up but as I did that, when I'd raised my butt about 5 or 6 inches, I could feel myself starting to really lose it and sat back down and jammed my hand in. That stopped it but I felt it was tenuous. I contemplated life (ok, freaked the hell out), took a picture, and posted. While doing that (a couple minutes passed) I felt a tiny spasm and then the slow trickle started (this is more than what I consider "a leak"). It was over in about a minute maybe, the main event. But then after was a series of slow trickles again, just the last working its way out seemingly by gravity. Also I haven't gone over to my neighbor's again. They sent their daughter over to pick up the dish (blush).

That is amazing, sweet, and hot. What a great relationship...hope it's as fulfilling in all the other areas as well. It would be cool to find someone as into wet pants too, as I am so utterly accident prone.