Gender-fluidss

I'm Ali (pronounced 'Ollie'). I am in my mid-late 30s, nonbinary/genderfluid, recently divorced, and starting to explore my sexuality within my constantly evolving gender identity.  I am a contradictory, analytical, hippie punk. Generally speaking, into self-exploration, meditation, animal rights & social justice, music and horror movies. Sexually speaking, I like a good dose of pain with my pleasure and prefer femme or nonbinary partners. I like public sex, watching and being watched, teasing and edging. I like cumming while desperate and watching others desperate and horny as well.  However, I am shy about sharing videos & phone calls, and generally prefer to read stories and experiences. 

Hard limits include humiliation, degredation, gendered language in (and out of) bed, messing and choking.