Stanley79

I was having a mildly disturbing dream about being outdoors and needing to pee with no place to. Then a nuclear weapon exploded toward the horizon. A few seconds later another. A few seconds after that a bomb seemed to explode right on top of me. Instant waking sitting strait up trembling. I'm in my bed frightened out of my wits. What's happening. A flash penetrates my curtains. Seconds later a low rumble. Just a lightening storm. As I clammed I felt my pee stopping. Until then I hadn't even realized I was peeing. I'd obviously emptied a full bladder.

Well thought out replies. Thanks to all who have responded.

Considering Hollywood celebrities have an ever-changing schedule: filming in a studio one day and a desert the next, different caterers at different locations, guest appearances, tours, and so on, it's amassing they control themselves as well as they do.

Close enough for you. I seldom visit Oregon. Even so I've peed myself on highway 26 from Gresham to Madras a couple times. But then I hydrate for summer drives east of the Cascade Mountains.

My BSET degree required 8 credits in "Non-Western Studies." The available classes were Appreciating Asian Art (not manga) and Chinese Religion. As turned out most of my employers in engineering technology had many Asian team members. A bit more on topic: Have any other autistic participants had delayed toilet training? At age 5 I still wet occasionally. Dry weeks happened when a parent, aunt, older cousin and even a neighbor girl my own age sent me to the bathroom about every 90 minutes. In reality I was not managing my bladder. Everyone else was.

A couple days ago I looked up "potty training an autistic." One site mentioned a child not potty trained at age 7. (I still wet regularly at age 5.) Nearly all, recommended reward for successful days (pants neither wet nor soiled). The sites all put emphasis on positive training. My parents were the opposite. I remember their "method" from age 5 onward. Mom would tell me if I wet again, I'd be put into training pants or diapers. She kept a pair of training pants with my underwear so I'd see it every day and remember her threat. Mom restricted my fluids and constantly sent me to the bathroom. (The web sites say this deprives children of learning to recognize bladder signals.) Tending to space out, I probably didn't notice my bladder signals. Dad would tease me unmercifully anytime I didn't notice my bladder signal until it got bad. At age 11 mom outed me to the doctor about my returned bed-wetting without preparing me. Mom could have told me other kids sometimes wet. A boy cousin a year older bed-wet in part due to type 1 diabetes. A girl cousin 5 years older had giggle incontinence that never cleared up. One of my playmates could only hold a few minutes. Another bed-wet (and told me). My mother knew their mothers (and was aware of more wetting offspring than I was at the time.) If she'd thought it through, she could have lightened up about my bed-wetting. She could have given me diapers for long car trips and nights in motels. I didn't get over my embarrassment about my bladder until adulthood when I started adding up all the people I knew with some sort of wetting. By then I knew at three twenty-something women who said they still dribbled or wet.

This sounds something like my reality. Just after my 11th birthday I lost my night training. I regained it around my 14th birthday. Two friends each a year younger than me teased me about needing to pee more often than they did. I again lost night training at age 19. During my early teens I also would become completely focused on an educational toy and ignore my bladder signal. I reenact those times solo. Reenacting those times on line would be fun.

In one of Barry's fictional works, a main character tells another diapers hold more when peed in a standing posture. In real life it seems true of my pull-ups.

This year some stores have increased their adult (and possibly other) diaper stocks. Are diapers becoming more acceptable for long summer travels? Noon through star-watching undeveloped-breach visits? High-impact sports? Soda and ice-cream sleepovers? Hikes? Something else? In your opinion would greater diaper acceptability reduce the fun? Increase your comfort buying diapers at local stores? Give you greater freedom from uncomfortable holds and squirming?

Actually, my cousin's ability to pee anywhere without getting caught minimizes the stories about her. I've told the one about my falling off a raft into frog pond making her laugh to the point of peeing herself too many times already.

You could also ask about tissue. At least in my extended family, more choose tissue than pads. It does not work very well. One who said she used tissue overflowed it for about the 15th time during a pregnancy and just gave up -- continued chatting while her maternity pants become increasingly wet. She'd also become visibly wet in public. But she kept using tissue anyway. (Apparently, during pregnancy, her bladder leaked without becoming uncomfortable.)

Bulge Diary hit a peak around 8 to 9 years ago. Since then significant pictures have been removed and links to external sites where members originally posted photos broken. It also accumulated consider banter about how to photograph a bulge. New material could be posted there with a guide to previous material. New threads, one containing members' photos, videos, oppositional volume held and oppositional resulting torrent noise and another containing tips for lighting, photo angle, etc would get more attention from me. The second would be for opinions to be said one time. Because bulges are one color, tip on getting a sense of depth etc would help.

A basement bathroom and laundry room combination would allow options and easy cleanup. Include attractive walls and maybe a wall picture. Being off a recreation room where the owners often entertained would justify attractive. A nearby storage room containing containing extra towels and clothing would help hide evidence.

@silvermoon So if I remember right, after you last posted here, you did a sort of holding contest while stimming? 1. Wet your pants accidentally Done 2. Wet your pants on purpose Done 3. Peed in bed Done accidentally and on purpose 4. Peed outside Done 5. Wet yourself in public Done 6. Peed in the bathroom, but not in the toilet Done – especially in the shower but sometimes accident on seeing the toilet 7. Measured how much You were holding Done 8. Peed in the pool Done 9. Had a holding contest with someone Not done 10. Peed in an ally/park to avoid an accident Done both 11. Peed in the car Done – especially on long drives and after clubbing 12. Peed in a diaper/pull-up Done 13. Held it for 10+ hours Done in my early 20s – can’t do now 14. Peed in a towel/pillow/cushion Done 15. Been tickled/startled into a pee accident Done startled 16. Been denied the bathroom when you were desperate Done – was out clubbing and really needed to pee while driving home. Stopped at a fishing pier with a restroom. Two girls at the entrance were giggling and blocked the men’s. They said a 3ed girl was using the men’s. Seemed like she took forever. 17. Let some out to take the pressure off Done 18. Tried to see how far your stream could go Done 19. Wet yourself in someone’s lap Not done 20. Had to make up a story on the spot to avoid embarrassment. Done Write your score (things you have not done)! My score is 2 This was a pretty tame list. Add a topic and maybe I’ll make a round 2! – Been wet on by another adult – Wet on porch before getting door unlocked – Wet without realizing it – Used rain to hide peeing – Used long coat or raincoat to hide peeing

In this regard my omo cousin is the bravest I know. I believe some or all of her public pees violate omorashi.org standards and state laws here. She does obvious pees squatting in lakes and ocean beaches with crotch submerged and also squatting with her peeing parts hidden by a bush or stump. She will shorts/swimming-suit pee down the back of logs or garden walls she's sitting on, into grass and into sand. She will also pee while buried neck-deep in sand and talking to someone. In these cases she stays put with her lower parts hidden until her swimming suit or shorts dry on her. If she's still wet from wading waste deep, she will pee her clothing (including peddle-pusher slacks). She will pee her clothing during a hard rain. She will not pee clothing when someone can tell she is peeing or tell she recently peed herself.