Stanley79

These sort of things started happening to me after having a prostatectomy. Since then they've continued and become more frequent. 1) have you ever peed yourself right before taking off your undies in the bathroom. Yes. This happens multiple times per week and sometimes multiple times during a single day. It happens most frequently when I'm at home. 2) Once you got in the bathroom, did the urge to pee get stronger? Did it make you accidentally leak a bit? No. It just feels like something (a conditioned reflex?) has taken control of my urinary sphincter and won't let it close my urethra. 3) Did you feel like you had to go even more once you got in there, and did it cause you to leak a little bit? Sometimes I feel a greater need to pee. But sphincter disobedience causes the leaking. 4) How much did you end up leaking? Did it come out in spurts or just a little bit at a time? It comes out as a dribble every few seconds. In rare extreme leaks they make a puddle a little smaller than a dinner plate. (As I live alone, I sometimes strip in my bedroom. Then to the bath to pee or pee and shower. Then back to my bedroom to dress. These are the situations most likely too leave puddles.) 5) Did you try to stop the leak once it started? Could you actually stop it? I try to stop dribbling. But I cannot. 6) So after you started leaking, did you just go ahead and pull your undies down and pee normally? Or did you give up and just sit on the toilet in your undies to pee? Or did you just stand there and keep leaking? I always pull my pull-up out of the way.

Instead of towels and bedding you could pee on a size large Pea Pod Mat or other reusable bed mat (if any exist). Pop one into the laundry and two hours later it's ready to absorb more pee. I've been using one for several years and not needed to replace it yet. Some uses: In the video room so you can watch long movies without pausing the DVD. In a sleeping bag (which is otherwise expensive to get cleaned. On the bench a klutzy child uses a chemistry set on (size small for this). If you unfold and fold it with the rubbery side in, it appears to be a terrycloth beach towel. But the wet spots do show.

I often sit at home and in motels -- especially if the sun has gone down and I want to be ready for sleep. Also, sitting makes checking and changing my pull-up easier. If I think I've leaked a lot, I sit in public restrooms to check. On one occasion the woman ahead of me in a checkout line had leaked to the point of perfectly outlining her pull-up. I've been paranoid about leaking since seeing that.

The tracking sheet is adapted from Big Girl Stacy's Bed-Wetters' Cabin at Camp story. The original received many positive comments.

Forests, woodlands and beaches. Because of my poor control, my girl cousins (who mostly looked after me) taught me to pee in such places. They also peed in those places. But then so did everyone on my mother's side. Likewise, with the neighborhood boys and girls. I never met anyone who couldn't pee in woodlands until I was grown. With the exception of my next older cousin, we chose places that completely hid us from the waist down. As to my next older cousin, she chose places where boys could tell she was peeing.

5' 8" and 660 mL (old numbers). So 18. I should measure again. But no mystery about always being the first to need a restroom.

Normally, I wake wet once every 8 to 15 days. Unfortunately, I neither saw this thread nor kept my tracker up to date. So I don't know my first wet waking for this year. However, I do know my first soaked waking. I took a photo which shows only the leakage beyond what my pull-up absorbed. On top of waking from the night soaked, I woke soaked from a nap--a very rare thing for me.

I have to count a day I can last three hours without peeing, a good-bladder day. Out socializing for 6 hours without a restroom would make me soak myself.

Just noticed Weekend ended in December 2019 and still collecting positive comments in August 2022. That's impressive!

Bulging Bladder Questions Other than on omorashi forums: 1. Have you heard a manners expert opine on the social acceptability of being in public with a bulging bladder? What was the opinion? 2. Have you been in public with a visible bulge? Intentionally? 3. Have you commented to someone about their bulge? 4. Has someone commented to you about your bulge? 5. Does putting tight clothing (such as a girdle over a bulge make it harder to hold? Other comments or questions?

How many sensations when do you feel when peeing and where? A couple geologic ages ago my ex mentioned feeling her bladder shrinking while being catheterized in a hospital. She found it odd to feel her bladder shrink but no sensation of flow in her urethra. It struck me as odd because I don't feel my bladder shrink when I pee. I just feel urethral flow until the flow stops. Then I feel my urinary sphincters spasm a couple times pushing out a few additional drops. Finally I feel my sphincters firmly close. What do others feel? Do ladies also feel flow through their labia?

That makes feel my behind feel warm like I just wet myself. But for me it has neither a flowing feeling inside nor outside my body. So it feels more like sitting on a heating pad.

Uh. I don't drink alcohol anymore. But when I first did a few sips of certain wines. At a family party where I first experienced the effect, my girlfriend came over to me saying, "This wine makes me want to pee." Can't remember what wine it was.

Entering an air-conditioned building from a hot outdoors (sometimes just being cold). Leaning toward my desk in a way the pushes my belt into my tummy. Sometimes wondering whether I should pee, my body answers, "No. . . Yes! Right now!"

In the thread: Accident Right Before Getting Dressed Silvermoon describes an autistic-students' friendship circle. Silvermoon and a few friends wet during visual stimming sessions (she explains that phrase). Some have had accidents when not stimming. Seemingly Silvermoon's friends seldom tease, except when prompted by Silveroon's brother. The thread ran from August 10, 2021 until December 15, 2021 with an occasional afterthought added (not by Silvermoon).