supernerd222

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  1. How?

    I'm also pretty pessimistic about the possibility of 'curing' a fetish. I've also been this way basically since I got out of diapers, and I think those connections in my brain are too strong. I've known a couple of people in the community who tried to get themselves cured, and it didn't work out. I see it kind of like gay conversion therapy: you can suppress the urge to do diaper stuff, but that doesn't magically make you a vanilla person. I think if I could somehow get rid of my fetish, I'd be left nearly asexual. If you like the serenity prayer (I don't, but still) I see this as being in the category of things that can't be changed.
  2. Pee Book List

    Remembered another one: Mixed Magics by Diana Wynne Jones . It's a collection of short stories. In one of them, an incompetent wizard steals a car without noticing that there was a girl and some kind of semi-intelligent magic dog guardian in the back seat. The girl is a complete brat, and the dog forces the wizard to do whatever she says, so it's like a reverse hostage situation. After degrading the wizard's sanity for some time, the girl wets and/or soils herself, probably on purpose, and blames the wizard for not taking her to the washroom (she didn't ask him to take her). She makes the wizard change her clothes.
  3. Omujo Omutsu Joshi

    Chapter 15 is out, if you missed it. Link
  4. How?

    This is something I have trouble with. I have trouble thinking of my fetish as anything other than a shitty broken-down sexuality, and I'm not hopeful about finding a happy, fulfilling LTR. Having a fetish sucks sometimes. I had a generally good three-year relationship. I told her about my fetish maybe 4-6 months in, and she was open-minded and accepting about it, because she was an open-minded, accepting, sex-positive type. The thing is, when your partner isn't into it, they're constantly doing you sexual favors, and that wears them down after a while. You (well, maybe not you, but I) get worn down too. It's really hard when you know that every really good sexual experience in the relationship was - at best - neutral for her, and that's when it wasn't more like a vaguely unpleasant chore. You can try to offer something in exchange. Maybe explicitly as a transaction, maybe not. The fetish reciprocity idea might work for some people and be a disaster for others. In my case, we had a one-way open relationship. It was never set up as a deal, like "ok, if you put on a diaper occasionally, you can sleep with other guys", and we had the open relationship clause way before I told her about my fetish. Maybe she never even made the connection, but I think it made her more willing to try stuff she wasn't into. Towards the end, she told me that although she had consented to wear a diaper occasionally, it wasn't enthusiastic consent. She proposed that the one-way open relationship become two-way, so that I could go and find someone able to give enthusiastic consent. We broke up maybe a month or two after that conversation, because we (I) finally accepted that our career goals were incompatible. My fetish wasn't a major contributing factor, but it was a factor. I never found someone able to give enthusiastic consent. This post didn't contain any answers, but that's because I don't have any.
  5. What Not To Do - News Story

    Just logged on intending to post this. People make me sad. I used to think like this. Now I don't think that public acceptance is realistic or that it should even be an abstract goal for the community. I think what we should be going for is a world where if someone isn't into ABDL, or sleeping with with someone who is, they will never find out that it's a thing.
  6. By not having kids. works for me...
  7. That's actually a reasonable compromise. I'll definitely keep this in mind as a porn option. Also, thanks for the work you do.
  8. Bring back the option to purchase and download individual videos. I spend some money - maybe $30 a month on average - on diaper porn. I used to spend some of that at your site, but now I just use clips4sale. The reason for that is that I'm only interested in a small subset of what's available. I want to buy the few clips that I like, and have them forever. Paying a monthly subscription for access to a big catalog is unappealing, because I'd still be sifting through for the ones that interest me and fapping to them again and again. If you charged $1/min + $1 to download a video (the going rate on clips4sale), I would probably end up spending more than the cost of a subscription every month at your site.
  9. In this video, a woman "pranks" her husband by pretending to need adult diapers. She wears one, but barely shows it (thumbnail notwithstanding), and the editing is pretty obnoxious. The scenario is kind of fun at least.
  10. I've had the same thing happen to me. Years and years ago, I was texting a friend, sharing news. I told him that I had recently found a new gf, and he straight up asked if she looked cute in a diaper. I didn't know what on earth to say to something like that, so I didn't respond, and still haven't. It was really spooky because I'm not a heavy drinker. At the time, I was a student and would do the normal binge drinking thing once in a while, but I almost never get blackout drunk. I can't imagine myself getting blotto and being like "I should drunk-text/facebook my highschool buddy who I haven't seen since I moved for university, and tell him about how I'm into diapers." Maybe he found out from someone else who knows.
  11. That moment...

    Protip: if you don't have a points card and don't want one, pretend to mishear or misunderstand the question. When they ask "do you have a points card?", pretend that you heard "do you want a points card?" instead, and instead of saying "no" and inviting a pitch, say "no thanks". I've been doing this for 2 or 3 years now, and I can't remember the last time I've been pitched for a store membership. That said, the awkwardness and embarassment is the whole fun of buying diapers at the store.
  12. Favorite "Medical" Diaper

    Kendall Lille is a lesser-known brand of diaper, but I've found them to be really nice clinical diapers for when you don't want something as bulky as an abena or molicare.
  13. I ordered a bunch of different types of diapers from Rearz a while ago. Two of the varieties I got have only one tape on each side, baby diaper style. Seems fun, but is there a trick to getting them to fit properly? If I just try it from the angle I would with a normal diaper, the tape landing area gets bunched up and the tape doesn't stick well. But then if I line the front and back up so that the tape lands flat, I can make the legs tight enough, but the waistband becomes totally loose. After trying like 10 times, the tapes lost most of their stick. I know one tape is never going to work as well as two, but is there a way to get these to fit even reasonably well? Other than me gaining like 20 pounds of belly fat?
  14. For me, it's just a pure fetish. It has been that way as long as I remember, and it dominates my sexuality. I could list all of the aspects of diapers I find sexy, but those aren't reasons I like it, they're things I like about it. I just have some wires crossed, and probably always will.
  15. That's where I live! Specifically in Richmond, which is 49% ethnically Chinese (source) . Multiculturalism definitely has its benefits if you know what I mean. Sadly, it doesn't get that cold here anymore. We had a couple of snow days this winter, but the ocean regulates our temperature and it never stays cold for long. There are a lot of Asian people in Toronto though, and it gets really cold there sometimes. The city does a New Year's celebration. I've never been, but apparently it's the largest in Canada. I know the area where they do it though, and there are lots of bathrooms around there. Also I don't think there's any nonsense like fencing the area off and not letting you go in and out.