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  1. If one wanted to make a good-faith attempt to support OP by conveying the same information in a respectful way that doesn't make others suspicious of one's motives, here's an alternate way of phrasing it that I wouldn't personally consider objectionable: "Did you know estradiol and spirolactone can be detrimental to "potty training"? I've heard it from many other trans women on HRT. Apparently it can be a side-effect of the increased estrogen levels. Maybe something to look into if you weren't already aware."
  2. OP mentioned that she is a woman.
  3. I love that the brand somehow came out as "poose" pads. Maybe the slogan is "She poose herself and no-one knows" or something.
  4. Fantastic work! I tried to do exactly this with the previous generation of AI translation software, but it didn't work. Looks like you got actually comprehensible results, which is great because I always wondered what she was saying. Can't wait to see more episodes!
  5. Would you mind DMing the name to me as well? I'm impressed with your results, and this is something I'd love to play around with.
  6. Incontinence is rarely depicted in fiction, and I'm not aware of any films that feature an incontinent main character. I guess that Tom Hardy Al Capone movie that came out a while back. So I was interested to find out today that there's a new Chinese romance/drama film that has been playing at festivals about a relationship between an incontinent woman and a man. The synopsis is that in an impoverished village in present-day rural China, a middle-aged man and woman are forced into an arranged marriage by their families, who see them as burdens and don't want to take care of them anymore. The man, Ma, is a socially inept misfit type, and the woman, Cao, has a number of disabilities, including urinary incontinence. They've both faced a lot of abuse and ostracization in their lives. They move in to a little house and do some farming, and eventually fall in love with each other. I don't know how it ends, but I would guess tragically. I mean, the movie is called Return to Dust, not Happily Ever After. This movie has no set general release date, I don't even know which streaming service it's going to be on. If you google it, you can find a lot of positive reviews from folks who saw it at a film festival. You can't see anything related to the incontinence situation in any of the trailers, clips, or stills on the internet. From the way the reviews talk about it, though, it sounds like it's not just a minor detail in the movie. Every review at least mentions her incontinence. Others alluded to scenes where Cao is shooed out of someone's home for wetting herself, a scene where Ma buys her a coat to cover up an accident, scenes where Cao leaves wet patches on surfaces she was sitting on, and one review had a vague reference to Ma attending to Cao's urinary issue - which might be the same as the coat scene, or might be something else. This movie sounds really sad, and I doubt I'm going to want to wank to it or anything, but I'm still looking forward to it because I'm always interested in seeing the ways incontinence gets depicted in media. This sounds like it will a rare instance of a depiction that's sensitive, sympathetic, and relatively detailed. Here's a trailer:
  7. If you believe that pullups aren't diapers (I personally don't), then do you think that liking pullups is a different fetish than liking diapers? In the other thread that asks whether people prefer pullup diapers or tape-on diapers, some people said they preferred pullups. Are those people not diaper lovers, but pullup lovers? Should we expand the acronym to ABDLPL - adult baby / diaper lover / pullup lover?
  8. Some more for you all: Plenitud pad ad: Depends in the gym changeroom: Spanish-language Tena ad: Another: Tena Nocturna: Red dress over depends: Classic Tena ad: More diaper solidarity (seems to be a theme in these Asian ads): Sexy Japanese incontinence panties: Another: Japanese incontinence pads: Hot Asian lady wears diapers: Packing Tena pants for a cruise: Leaking while picking up a tray: Leaking pee while laughing:
  9. A few from Depend Korea: At the driving range: With different outfits: Packing for a trip: Mom buys depends so she can visit her daughter: Daughter convinces mother to wear depends so they can go hiking: Couple's marriage is revitalized after they start wearing depends: Man records and edits an emotional video to convince his wife to start wearing depends: People ride the subway in depends with no pants: Man accidentally discovers his wife wears depends, wears one in solidarity: Infomercial: Bonus Tena ad:
  10. Small ones, yeah. But not effective at all. With something like depends, the gather is part of the waterproof underwear part, so as you pull it up, the gather sort of stands up and forms a seal against your legs. With these, the gathers are just part of the pad, so there's not really any tension in the elastics to cause them to stand up, and they tend to just get flattened and crumpled and just sort of sit there. The pads themselves are not waterproof, so the gathers would do very little to stop pee from escaping anyway.
  11. I tried these and regretted spending money on them. They come in variants that have the pads attached and ones where the pads and the underwear are separate in the package and you have to apply the pads yourself. Either way, the pads are unanatomical rectangles with a little dot of adhesive at each end, so they don't stick very well, bunch up in the middle, and get displaced. They also have no plastic backing, so if you pee into them with any force at all, your pee will just go out the other side. You can't lose control in them, you have to do a deliberate slow dribble. Under ideal circumstances i.e. peeing slowly into a new, well-placed pad, the highest "overnight" absorbency will hold MAYBE half a bladder. And even then, it will leak a little bit, making the underwear wet, defeating the purpose of having the seperate pads and underwear. The pads are soft and the surface has a sort of wrinkled texture that feels nice, but they're not functional. The underwear is kind of comfy at first, and looks a little bit more underwear-like than offerings from Depend etc. Their main problem is that they hid the seam by putting it on the inside. You know how all adult pullups have that seam on either side where they glue the stretchy material together and it forms this little tab that sticks out? They put that on the inside, so if you wear these for more than half an hour, expect to have an itchy red mark on each of your hips from this pointy, slightly sharp seam sticking into you. I bought a pack from ebay and grossly overpaid as a result. Because market, formerly known as Willow, sells a version of these that have the pad more firmly and permanently attached. They might be marginally better due to the pad not moving around. I do not recommend these diapers to anyone.
  12. It's like there's a wall some of us hit around 29. That was also the age I was when I was having a hard time and building a sex robot. Maybe it's just the threat of turning 30 and being judged as a full adult. How did things end up getting better for you?
  13. Hi everyone. This is a sad post. I thought about putting it in the off-topic area, but it's a post about an aspect of the ABDL fetish that doesn't get talked about a whole lot, and it's something that I'd like to say to the ABDLs of this forum specifically. In early 2017, through this forum, I came into contact with a guy called Mike. You might have encountered him but you probably don't remember him, he posted under the username "poads". We traded PMs for a while, and eventually started calling each other on the phone. I saw something of myself in him, and even though we lived very different lifestyles on opposite corners of the continent, we had a great rapport and ability to relate to each other. Our brains seemed to work the same way, sometimes we would comment that we were like the same person in different circumstances. For years, we called each other about once a month to talk about life and ABDL stuff, and to share porn if either of us found anything good. We were even going to meet in person, but that trip was yet another victim of the pandemic. Mike was intelligent and thoughtful and funny. He was also a physically attractive guy who kept in really good shape. He ran marathons and biked all up and down the coast in his area. But his tragic flaw was a deep-seated shame and lack of self-confidence that was rooted in his diaper fetish. I know that some of us can relate to that feeling. I can relate to it because I spent most of my free time in 2019 designing and building a sex robot because, just like Mike, I was convinced that I would never find a meaningful relationship with a woman willing to put up with my weird sexual predilections. Around the beginning of covid, I found myself proven wrong. Through no doing of my own, my ideal romantic partner entered my life. I didn't go out and make myself a better person and do the hard work of finding someone I'm compatible with, she just materialized herself, and I threw myself at her like my life depended on it. I was very lucky, and Mike wasn't. Things seemed to keep getting worse and worse for him. He numbed the shame he felt about being ABDL with hard drugs, which he got addicted to. He made a serious effort to put himself out there and meet local ABDL girls, but his drug use was at a point where it scared normal people away. He lost his job and got a DUI. He tried to get sober a few times, but there was no motivation behind it. There was nothing to hold him to this life. He was convinced he was unlovable and incapable of love, he had no solid circle of friends in his area, he had no particular hobbies or passions other than competitive pokemon, and he got banned from that for bullshit reasons. He loved diapers, and hated himself for it. He saw no point in trying to climb out of the deep hole he was in, because he didn't see anything up here for him. Mike took his own life last week. He was 29. As a kid, I read the King Arthur stories, and one of them was about a character called the Fisher King. The Fisher King had a crippling wound that could only be healed if someone asked him a particular question. In our many hours of conversation, on the days Mike wasn't doing well, I wondered if there were words I could say to him that could help him see value in his life even if there wasn't a girlfriend in it at the moment, or convince him that a happy existence is possible even if you have a diaper fetish. Our brains aren't always wired the way we want them to be, and there's nothing we can do about that. None of us can stop being ABDLs, and we only make ourselves miserable trying, but it's also miserable to be forced to accept that you can never be who you want to be. ABDLs get kink-shamed a lot on (and off) the internet in a way that most other kinks don't. There's an inherent grossness to our fantasies that makes the normies want to laugh and cringe when they're not conflating us with pedos. There's also a very profound gender imbalance in our community that makes some guys feel like dating an ABDL girl is an unattainable fantasy. We can say that if being ABDL is a dealbreaker for the girl you like, she wasn't worth dating, but the reality is that being rejected hurts, and being rejected for something inherent to yourself that you were already ashamed of hurts a lot. I'm moving in with my girlfriend in two weeks. My life is good, and I feel guilty about that. It's not like I was smarter or made better decisions or did anything to deserve a better life than Mike. I have also reached a point of near-nihilism when this fetish felt the most burdensome. I was just seemingly randomly selected for an opportunity to Choose Life, and I took it. I'm positive that if Mike had stuck around, eventually he would have gotten a chance to do the same, but even if he did, would he think enough of himself to take it? He lost the ability to imagine things getting better for himself. I think it's important for us as a community to talk about times when being an ABDL is not easy or fun and when we wish that this weird thing was not a part of ourselves, because for many of us, that's part of the experience of being an ABDL. We're all human beings with dignity. We ought to be nice to each other, because sometimes nobody else is. I love you all.
  14. Data point: My SO has about one accident a month if you average it out (though they tend to be clustered rather than evenly spaced). She has worn a diaper, of her own accord, to protect against potential accidents, exactly once. She was going to be on a plane with no bathroom (the diaper didn't end up getting used). And even that incident, I'd put it in a grey area between serving a need and indulging my fetish. I don't think she genuinely thought she was likely to have an accident, and if she didn't already have diapers in the house for fun, she wouldn't have gone out and bought them for that occasion.
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