My ex was like this and he was a complete asshole, every time he treated me like crap and i would point it out he would blame me for it. When i wouldnt fully understand something he would start fights and arguments saying i was ignorant and dumb and everyone is gonna hurt me for not knowing who the fuck some black historian was ( he was african american and took black history seriously) He would never admit he was wrong and constantly brought up stuff from the past and never let go, so that way every argument that started immediately became my fault, and make himself the victim of every situation, i finally started doing what people call " the guy ignoring you" response and just go uh huh..... uh huh.... really?... oh ok..... uh huh ( he was also a mamas boy so he was kinda a pussy) using his disability as an excuse for his behavior,like forcing me to gain weight because thats the only reason why i could be beautiful is if i was 600lbs ( literally sent me photos of what he wanted me to look like) the day i left him changed my life for the better and i am with someone WAYYYYYY better.
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