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Generally no, I'm very grumpy about it when I first wake up, lol. Waiting like 15 minutes is really stressful. But sometimes something wakes me up really early, and I pee and go back to sleep. Then if I sleep like 3 more hours I might need to pee but can hold it for fun if I want to.

This happens to me if my blood sugar is low, like if I haven't eaten enough that day. Recently it also happened after I held it for fun for a really long time. After I finally peed, I felt full again very quickly, a few times.

It probably depends on how full. If it's aching but mostly because my muscles are holding too tight, rubbing can help relax them a little. If I'm genuinely bursting that won't help because they need to be holding on that tight. 😅

Yeah! I'll also add that I'm transgender and when people who are born with vulvas take testosterone, the clit actually grows longer and bigger, and can stick out those couple of inches even when "soft". It does feel and react like a penis. We all have similar parts they just got arranged differently. Most of the clit is inside! That's really interesting your girlfriend's is like that without extra hormones.

I thought I couldn't get a bulge because I'm big too, but when I feel right over my bladder, like between the mound and where the belly really starts, it often feels hard if I press on it when I'm full. My partner too, it's really hot. Re vibrators, I do that all the time. I have a wand and lie down on it, so the handle part pushes really hard on my bladder and the head does it's usual job. It makes both the holding and the stimulation way more intense. It feels really good, and sometimes painful, but I like that within what's safe. 😊

Last year I lived in a big house with roommates, but they were both gone for about 3 whole months. I had the house to myself and in unit laundry so I figured it was a great time to try some things. Several times I filled up as much as I could, then lied on top of a towel on the floor. I would bunch up some of it to push on my bladder, then as I got close to desperate, I moved to push on my crotch to hold on a bit more and really feel the warmth and pressure when I finally let go. When I couldn't wait anymore I would pee through my underwear and soak them, the towel, and the floor. It felt incredible. It was a lot of clean up so I didn't do it as much as I would have liked, but it was still an amazing experience to wet myself somewhere I usually couldn't. I live alone now but shared building laundry, so I've never wet clothes here. But without sharing a bathroom, I play holding games all the time and can really push it. Do you ever have extended time alone at home to experiment or indulge? What have you tried? Is it more fun living alone or with people?

That's such a good idea! I love finding things to push on my bladder with.

When I got one the tech actually told me to pee, stand up and wait 30 seconds, and then try again. She said because my bladder was so full it might not empty fully unless I gave it another chance. I think I did actually fully empty my bladder the second time and it was amazing. I feel like they always tell people to drink too much water. You only really have to be regular full, not ready to explode full, and they don't tell you that, lol. My tech was like "good job on having a full bladder" and it was definitely more full than necessary. It's a good story though, at least. 😅 Thanks for sharing yours.

I also hate vandalism stuff, I can't watch it. Even if it's their own house I think too much about the clean up. Occasionally I see "peeing on stuff" that works because it's clear they can clean it up well but it's hard to find.

I'm a trans man, in my early 30s, bisexual and in a relationship. It's usually once a day for me, occasionally 2-3 if something is mentally really exciting that day. I see my partner 2-4x a week and we typically have sex every time; I often still masturbate though, if I'm horny before I see them or horny from sex we didn't cum from.

A lot of the clitoris is actually inside! some is kind of hugging around the vagina which is why the pressure of penetration feels good for a lot of people. An erect clit feels probably similar to a penis. There's a similar sense of pressure building and it's sensitive. If you touch the outside part it's more firm than it would be outside of arousal. For me penetration feels like getting at the rest of it which can be really nice. It's also similar in that it's mostly hard when you're aroused but can get hard randomly too.

Hi all! I saw this tiktok about the things wealthy women would use to pee in the 1700s. I haven't gone and looked any of this up yet but I thought you all would find this interesting and maybe be useful for writing period fiction. ☺️ Enjoy! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRPKvM3c/

Definitely. It's the only easy clean up place to just stand and go on the "floor". When I lived with other people I aimed for the drain more, haha. But now I often just stand with my legs completely shut and pretend I'm desperate in public and just can't hold it I also have a shower chair cause standing the whole time hurts my legs, but a really fun side benefit is having waterproof furniture. I sit on it and pretend I'm letting go on a regular chair, fantasizing that it's either on purpose, because I just can't resist, or that I'm losing control. I like feeling it pool under me and spill down.

Maybe your body responds differently but when my bladder is actually full, like is actually stretching to hold it all, it starts to hurt. Like the actual organ. I also got an ultrasound once, and with all the water they tell you to drink it's very unclear that yeah, like hemakserherwet said, they just need you regular full. It hurt soooo much. I couldn't think, and started to feel like I actually would wet myself, so I went and let some out until it felt like I could hold it. It still hurt. It felt like my bladder couldn't fit anymore and couldn't stretch anymore either.

I also get anxiety when other people are desperate. I empathize too much, plus I feel awkward that if it was fictional I'd just be completely turned on. Though some fiction also feels bad/gives me anxiety. Sometimes afterwards if I know it turned out okay I can think about it and enjoy it, but sometimes even then, even with partners, it feels kind of bad. It can remind me of times I couldn't access a bathroom and I just get upset. Some circumstances are different - like if it's someone I know well, and they're not upset, I enjoy it. I don't really feel guilty about being a bit turned on if they're not suffering.