leicesterfan 62 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 Firstly I'd like to apologise if this is in the wrong section, mods please feel free to move it if necessary. Ever since I can remember discovering the wonders of masturbation, I've stuck to omo content for about 95% of the time. The trouble (?) with this is that when I do switch to regular porn it takes a lot longer to climax, and I've also had experiences during sex where the same is true. It's as though my brain takes a lot more convincing when the content isn't omo related. My concern is that I don't want to find myself in a situation during sex where I am taking an unusually long time to come, or as has happened once, not be able to come at all. So I wondered what other peoples' experiences with this are and if anyone had any advice? Is it just a case of mixing up the content a bit more? EmmaWees and wettingman 2 Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 You may have to develop some good omo fantasies to run through in your mind if you need the added stimulation. The ideal, of course, is to find a partner who is also into the fetish, or who at least understands it and is willing to role play. Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 Yeah whenever I watch non-omo porn I always just end up imagining that the subjects are desperate lol. I assume I'd do the same for actual sex. bladderxplode and EmmaWees 2 Quote Link to comment
AliasnameTO 335 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 Actual sex and masturbation can be quite different. With another person, I often fantasize, but sometimes just the awareness of sharing intimacy with someone and letting your feelings show is enough. Kind of a tantric "resonance" attitude if you will. But if you can, it's also possible to imagine that your partner's noises and movements are due to having to go and they're too shy to say so. Whatever works. 🙂 Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted July 12, 2019 Share Posted July 12, 2019 5 hours ago, leicesterfan said: Firstly I'd like to apologise if this is in the wrong section, mods please feel free to move it if necessary. Ever since I can remember discovering the wonders of masturbation, I've stuck to omo content for about 95% of the time. The trouble (?) with this is that when I do switch to regular porn it takes a lot longer to climax, and I've also had experiences during sex where the same is true. It's as though my brain takes a lot more convincing when the content isn't omo related. My concern is that I don't want to find myself in a situation during sex where I am taking an unusually long time to come, or as has happened once, not be able to come at all. So I wondered what other peoples' experiences with this are and if anyone had any advice? Is it just a case of mixing up the content a bit more? I could have written this statement. I have had the exact same experience, not with porn, as I exclusively use pee related material. Instead I have experienced taking forever to cum, in real life with a woman, after many years without a partner, and using OMO to masterbate with.She was upset because despite her best efforts she seemed not to please me. I could not tell her why. I ended up thinking about pee stories while we had intercourse. It took a bit , and she noticed I was distracted, but it got the job done. She did know I was into pee. Not good for a relationship. Quote Link to comment
leicesterfan 62 Posted July 13, 2019 Author Share Posted July 13, 2019 I'd like to be able to enjoy real sex for what it is rather than having to fantasise about a different scenario. In fairness I wouldn't say that any of the sex I've had has been in a particularly romantic relationship so perhaps if I find the person I can be genuinely intimate with, it may be different. I wish it was possible to switch between the two easily to get the best of both worlds! Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted July 13, 2019 Share Posted July 13, 2019 I have to ask how old are you, and have you ever had a serious relationship with another person. While I now find myself in the same situation, back in my younger years, I did enjoy "regular"intercourse with my girlfriend/ wife. Nevertheless, pee stuff always enhanced it. Quote Link to comment
Dunney 475 Posted July 13, 2019 Share Posted July 13, 2019 Relax and enjoy the sex. So what if you take a long time to cum? I always enjoyed my long sessions more than the short ones. Quote Link to comment
leicesterfan 62 Posted July 13, 2019 Author Share Posted July 13, 2019 19 hours ago, wettingman said: I have to ask how old are you, and have you ever had a serious relationship with another person. While I now find myself in the same situation, back in my younger years, I did enjoy "regular"intercourse with my girlfriend/ wife. Nevertheless, pee stuff always enhanced it. I'm in my mid-twenties now, and I wouldn't say I've ever been in a serious relationship no. The sex I have had has been on a casual basis so I guess I've never had that intimate connection. Maybe I'm worrying about a bit of a non-issue here then Quote Link to comment
whitequeen 22 Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 i have the same issue, i can get off watching regular porn, but it always takes way longer to get wet and come, and often if it's taking too long i just end up watching a wetting video or imagining something pee-related to speed up my climax Quote Link to comment
allthefun312 15 Posted July 16, 2019 Share Posted July 16, 2019 I often have the same problem. I find what helps me is to not worry about climaxing, and just focus on enjoying the moment with the other person. Quote Link to comment
Toady567 235 Posted July 16, 2019 Share Posted July 16, 2019 I have the same issue. I’ve just grown accustomed to having sex for a longer period of time. It’s not like it doesn’t feel good. Quote Link to comment
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