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On 5/23/2019 at 9:10 PM, deepAzure said:

What do you dislike about omorashi?

That it too much of a secret. So much that its difficult to meet people and talk about it. Only have met 2 that i have ben able to talk with but we have been out of touch for almost 10 years. 

I do like some of the secrecy because it feels like im getting away with something. And the fear of getting caught adds to some to the rush.

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Unlike some common and almost casual kinks like rope or wax, it's nearly impossible to find anyone nearby into omorashi.

Cleanup can be a pain (with diapers, it's fine... unless you have a pretty elaborate changing routine); Very hard to explain why it's a turn on - the common reaction is usually "eww... gross"; pl

I dislike the fact that when I get in the mood for it, i always have the hardest time trying to think of activities for wetting. I'm very indecisive, and it can get in the way of a lot 😂  For exa

I don’t really like omorashi videos where the desperation is only acted and the amount of pee released is tiny. There are so many videos where the model dances around for ages moaning about being desperate only to squat down and pee for about 5 seconds.

I also don’t like how omorashi is largely misunderstood in general. I remember telling an ex girlfriend that it it was a turn on for me to see her needing to pee and she was immediately disgusted by it, and thought I wanted to see her wetting herself, or that I’d want to pee on her/have her pee on me. After explaining to her that it is only the desperation aspect that I am interested in, she was more open to it and would sometimes mention to me that she needed a wee while we were out in public because she knew it turned me on. 

I think one of the fifty shades books/films (the second or third one maybe) mentions that a full bladder can  help a woman to orgasm, or to have a stronger orgasm. It’s good to see it mentioned in more mainstream media at least.

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16 hours ago, Despguy123 said:

I don’t really like omorashi videos where the desperation is only acted and the amount of pee released is tiny. There are so many videos where the model dances around for ages moaning about being desperate only to squat down and pee for about 5 seconds.

I also don’t like how omorashi is largely misunderstood in general. I remember telling an ex girlfriend that it it was a turn on for me to see her needing to pee and she was immediately disgusted by it, and thought I wanted to see her wetting herself, or that I’d want to pee on her/have her pee on me. After explaining to her that it is only the desperation aspect that I am interested in, she was more open to it and would sometimes mention to me that she needed a wee while we were out in public because she knew it turned me on. 

I think one of the fifty shades books/films (the second or third one maybe) mentions that a full bladder can  help a woman to orgasm, or to have a stronger orgasm. It’s good to see it mentioned in more mainstream media at least.

Only time I've explicitly seen omorashi in mainstream film is in Secretary. The guy makes his submissive sit at a desk until she pisses her dress. In terms of literature, Story of the Eye from 1928 has a lot of pissing during sex, though it's...rather more hardcore than what you're into.

It's also pretty reasonable for a woman to assume that a guy being into omorashi means he wants to watch her piss herself. Most guys into it do want to see that, and the 2 examples I gave do feature wetting. People just being into desperation are unusual.

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On 6/3/2019 at 6:32 PM, Despguy123 said:

I remember telling an ex girlfriend that it it was a turn on for me to see her needing to pee and she was immediately disgusted by it, and thought I wanted to see her wetting herself, or that I’d want to pee on her/have her pee on me.

Crikey, I would have thought all of those would be enormous fun! Maybe she knew more about omo than you thought! I hope you didn't lose that girl because of this.

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Well, I don't like having a kink related to such a normal bodily function that comes up in day-to-day life. I like to stay hydrated for not-kinky reasons, so I pee quite a bit, but I'm always afraid of saying that I need to pee too many times in front of the same person, holding it because I would rather not say I need to go at risk of "talking about pee too much", wondering if that behaviour is noticeable, etc. I'm sure some people think that I'm weird about the subject one way or another, so I would be mortified if someone found out I read and write about this kink in private and assumed that meant I had surreptitiously gotten off in front of them. Because, believe it or not, I'm actually not turned on when I need to pee badly in public in front of my friends.

I'm not into any kinks that frequently come together with omo, like BDSM, ageplay, or other bodily functions. No offense to anyone who is, it just makes it a little more tedious to skim through looking for scenes that I like.

Finally, I don't like the prevalence of content about teenagers. Yes, no shit, a fictional 16-year-old is not a real 16-year-old, but they're the idea of a 16-year-old, I'm subconsciously comparing them to myself or people I knew when I was in high school, and being in my late 20s that's a huge turnoff and something I do not want to think about in conjunction with kink stuff.

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5 hours ago, cilla said:

I'm always afraid of saying that I need to pee too many times in front of the same person, holding it because I would rather not say I need to go at risk of "talking about pee too much", wondering if that behaviour is noticeable, etc.

It certainly is to me. That's how I found out about one of the few people I know who wet themselves.

What don't I like? Women who make a fuss about needing to pee and then spread their legs or, worse, squat, and the flow misses their legs entirely. Fake desperation in another dislike.

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On 5/26/2019 at 3:05 AM, wishfulomo0572 said:

It's a scientific fact that your feeling of disgust is lessened when you're aroused. It's not uncommon for people to climax to some freaky stuff, only to ask themselves "WTF is this??" when the post-orgasm clarity sets in.

Well sort of, but the dampening of disgust isn't uniform. If the lady had seriously bad breath, that wouldn't get lessened, and indeed, it seems to me that disgust at pee isn't so much lessened, as turned into something else - sexual turn-on.

 

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I do regret that omorashi does not seem a more 'acceptable' thing to discuss outside the fetish. I've always felt I need to hide it away which causes a bit of self-loathing as keeping secrets has always felt wrong to me. I worry I'd sicken friends instantly if they ever knew and loose them, and I have worry that hiding fetishes and desires may actually affect people a lot (especially in how they approach relationships). I don't think omorashi would be a suitable topic for workplaces or public spaces, but it would be nice for it (and kinks in general) to be less 'freaky' a subject so people could feel more comfortable talking about it. On the upside I have sensed this is changing nowadays particularly with more common fetishes like bondage, and I have been surprised how accepting people have been when I've admitted some (I confessed to a friend once about my underwear and mild tie-up fetish and she actually chuckled "mate that's tame!").

Another is I've never liked the humiliation or shame reactions people usually go through if they do wet themselves. It is rare to hear or see cases where people are sympathetic, say to the person not to worry and help them out, or even joke with the person about it, and I've always wished that was the mainstream reaction to it happening. End of the day it's just an accident, we've all done it (at least during babyhood), and usually it can be cleared up quickly. I've never liked the thought for example of parents being angry about their children's wettings and punishing them; surely it's possible to discourage it without screaming or worse at them?

A less serious dislike is that I have heard from some stories that wetting or soiling can permanently ruin some clothes. I love seeing people in fancy/elegant clothes and underwear (silk/satin especially) so such is in many of my fantasies, but feel bad thinking of a lady for example staining a favourite outfit or lingerie set forever by having an accident (yes I am a worrier like that, even in private fantasies! XD).

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That my desperation tastes are a bit extreme and it interferes with things and is hard to b just ignore, because whoever I date has a damn bladder!  I suppose I'm really thinking of "What do you hate about having the fetish?"

That my desperation tastes are a bit extreme and it interferes with things and is hard to b just ignore, because whoever I date has a damn bladder!  I suppose I'm really thinking of "What do you hate about having the fetish?"

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I really dislike what a niche kink this is, making it hard to bring it up to people. I have other sexual interests that are much more "harmful/hardcore" but still very much more socially acceptable, while omorashi is somehow perceived as more taboo because it involves a (sterile) bodily fluid.

But in regards to the community itself, I don't like how it's constantly being grouped together with AB/DL. I know omorashi and ageplay often overlap (as do lots of other kinks) and I have nothing against anyone who's into it, but it's definitely not my thing and it makes me feel a bit odd whenever I accidentally stumble upon that kind of content.

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I have a love/hate relationship with desperation because it is my fetish numero uno, but it also triggers my hyperempathy and makes me very upset for the person involved. I can't really enjoy in person omorashi because of this. I also hate that I occasionally have to see members of my family, friends, or children desperate, as those are demographics that invoke disgust instead of sexual response. 

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16 hours ago, SalmonMcClearn said:

I have a love/hate relationship with desperation because it is my fetish numero uno, but it also triggers my hyperempathy and makes me very upset for the person involved. I can't really enjoy in person omorashi because of this. I also hate that I occasionally have to see members of my family, friends, or children desperate, as those are demographics that invoke disgust instead of sexual response. 

That's why I like laugh wetting videos, because they're often not hurt by their accident and are also consenting to the video being taken (or at least it's assumed).

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On 6/16/2019 at 2:24 AM, SalmonMcClearn said:

I have a love/hate relationship with desperation because it is my fetish numero uno, but it also triggers my hyperempathy and makes me very upset for the person involved. I can't really enjoy in person omorashi because of this. I also hate that I occasionally have to see members of my family, friends, or children desperate, as those are demographics that invoke disgust instead of sexual response. 

THIS! I hate hearing about the desperation my friend sometimes suffers at work because I worry about her so much, and I hate seeing it in person from anyone because more often than not they'd be mortified if the worst happened.

The reason I enjoy holding contests so much is because the desperation is at least intended, and I tend to have a hard time enjoying unintentional desperation on the first read; depending on how it ends, I may or may not reread it with greater enjoyment. 

On the other side of the coin, if I see videos of desperation/wetting, or personal anecdotes here, it's easier for me to enjoy it as it's easier for me to assume that the person is OK with us enjoying it of that manner if they uploaded it here, so I don't feel as bad.

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On 6/15/2019 at 9:55 AM, SomeOddGaijin said:

I do regret that omorashi does not seem a more 'acceptable' thing to discuss outside the fetish. I've always felt I need to hide it away which causes a bit of self-loathing as keeping secrets has always felt wrong to me. I worry I'd sicken friends instantly if they ever knew and loose them, and I have worry that hiding fetishes and desires may actually affect people a lot (especially in how they approach relationships). I don't think omorashi would be a suitable topic for workplaces or public spaces, but it would be nice for it (and kinks in general) to be less 'freaky' a subject so people could feel more comfortable talking about it. On the upside I have sensed this is changing nowadays particularly with more common fetishes like bondage, and I have been surprised how accepting people have been when I've admitted some (I confessed to a friend once about my underwear and mild tie-up fetish and she actually chuckled "mate that's tame!").

Well said!

You must be very lucky to combine a sound partnership and your omorashi kink. Either you have a serious relationship IRL and know (by cautious testing) that your omorashi will remain your own one-sided interest, or you have some few and anonymous internet friends who understand your feelings but you have no omorashi partner IRL. Only in rare cases a couple leads a happy everyday life and a satisfied intimate omorashi life.  It is not ideal to live with a partner and either keep one's omorashi fetish a secret or let him/her know without finding true acceptance, let alone enthusiasm.

What I really hate is that the number of male omorashi fetishists seems to be extremely big while the number of women who are into omorashi seems to be extremely small. Even worse for a hetero guy: Of the few omorashi girls, a large number are not interested in men...

Sometimes I can't believe that so many omorashi women in the net are lesbians (why?), and then I suspect that quite a number of them are fakes (i.e., guys who pretend to be female). In the internet, you never can be sure about faked gender and fantasies sold as facts. But if really a considerable share of women who are into omorashi are not interested in men, the situation for hetero omorashi guys is even worse.

Now I would not say that the internet is a good place to find a partner for your life. But the observed proportions signalize how difficult it is to find a sexually satisfying partnership IRL!

And this is what I dislike about omorashi on top of the above quotation.

It is a fascinating form of sexuality, but not at all easy to live with.

 

 

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On 6/3/2019 at 7:32 PM, Despguy123 said:

I don’t really like omorashi videos where the desperation is only acted and the amount of pee released is tiny. There are so many videos where the model dances around for ages moaning about being desperate only to squat down and pee for about 5 seconds.

I also don’t like how omorashi is largely misunderstood in general. I remember telling an ex girlfriend that it it was a turn on for me to see her needing to pee and she was immediately disgusted by it, and thought I wanted to see her wetting herself, or that I’d want to pee on her/have her pee on me. After explaining to her that it is only the desperation aspect that I am interested in, she was more open to it and would sometimes mention to me that she needed a wee while we were out in public because she knew it turned me on. 

I think one of the fifty shades books/films (the second or third one maybe) mentions that a full bladder can  help a woman to orgasm, or to have a stronger orgasm. It’s good to see it mentioned in more mainstream media at least.

I agree totally with you, nearly all omorashi videos are turning off. You can see clearly that the girls only acting that they need to pee. The pee dance they are doing has nothing to do with reality and erotic.

One of the good videos is called „ Girl utterly desperate to piss“ at pornhube. This slim girl pissed really a lot! It is total credible that she was needing to go really bad.

I agree with you too, I like pee holding and desperation more than panty wetting 

I love the moves that a girl is doing if she needs to wee really bad. I like how she is rubbing her knees on each other , how she press her thighs together, how she cross her legs and how she sometimes massage her overfilled bladder.

I like to see her bladder bulging and I love to hear or to know that a girl did not have a pee for extreme long and that she is needing to go for hours.

The longer she did not or could not pee, the more I like it.

I like to see a girl wetting and leaking too, but not deliberately, I like it ithan if she is doing her best to hold it, but can’t hold it anymore.

I think there are so many habits and preferences so that everyone should be happy with his own and every body should appreciate the others.

I like this forum, because you can find people’s who likes exactly the same as you.

EP was good too.

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On 6/16/2019 at 3:24 AM, SalmonMcClearn said:

I have a love/hate relationship with desperation because it is my fetish numero uno, but it also triggers my hyperempathy and makes me very upset for the person involved. I can't really enjoy in person omorashi because of this.

Ugh, yes! This too.

I've had the "opportunity" of seeing all of my ex-partners really desperate, and one of them even wet herself in public. She started crying and I just felt so, so awful and protective of her. It's been years but that experience remains weirdly unsexual for me (considering it's one of my main kinks and what happened was basically my #1 fantasy scenario), the hyperempathy just takes over whenever the memory of it even crosses my mind.

It's why I think this is a fetish I could never truly enjoy irl. If it's forced/planned desperation, it's just not hot for me - but if it's genuine and humiliating and painful and I know the person going through it then I just feel terrible about it. Can't seem to win. lol

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6 hours ago, wtv said:

Ugh, yes! This too.

I've had the "opportunity" of seeing all of my ex-partners really desperate, and one of them even wet herself in public. She started crying and I just felt so, so awful and protective of her. It's been years but that experience remains weirdly unsexual for me (considering it's one of my main kinks and what happened was basically my #1 fantasy scenario), the hyperempathy just takes over whenever the memory of it even crosses my mind.

It's why I think this is a fetish I could never truly enjoy irl. If it's forced/planned desperation, it's just not hot for me - but if it's genuine and humiliating and painful and I know the person going through it then I just feel terrible about it. Can't seem to win. lol

Being protective of her is part of the appeal, though. Compassionate dominance.

Maybe I'm just a lot less empathetic.

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I love watching a woman get increasingly desperate, and holding it until she starts wetting her pants, but still struggles to hold on until all her pee comes poring out.  I really enjoy her talking about how desperate she is . 

But it has to be real. An over acted video that is  obviously fake is a huge turn off.  Don't squirm and dance, and complain how desperate you are , then only pee for five seconds.

While I like true desperation, I prefer it to be in private, unless she wants it to be public. I don't want to see anyone humiliated or embarrassed. I feel like a creep if I watch someone about to wet in public. It makes me uncomfortable, so IRL I probably would look away.

To each their own, but I don't understand the attraction of diapers. The only one who knows the person is peeing, is that person.I want to see and be seen.

I prefer to have a female enjoy watch me wet my pants, and her to reciprocate ( thus my name wettingman). However watching it come from the source has its own attraction too.

I post videos on X-Tube under the same name of wettingman. I take request from woman. I receive significantly more requests for, and positive feedback from woman who want to see  me naked while I desperately hold on until my pee pushes out  because I can't stop it . They love the way I talk about my need.

So I have a question for the ladies. Do you prefer to see a male wet his pants, or pee naked, just not in the toilet. Technically not omorashi but a close cousin 

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6 hours ago, wtv said:

I mean, yeah. I find that super hot when reading stories and such, but when it happened irl it felt very different. Like something was off?

The obvious difference is that you're dealing with real suffering, rather than imaginary suffering. I can't say it makes a massive difference to me, because it's not extreme suffering; she only pissed her knickers, it's not like she had her leg amputated. It's a lot easier if she finds a shameful pleasure in her humiliation, though, which a lot of women obviously don't.

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