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it's become a fantasy of mine to pee during sex (obviously with a consenting partner)

i imagine the feeling of being completely desperate, then slowly losing control with your partner on top of you as you realise there's nothing you can do but let go is so amazing. then as it spurts out feeling the relief and the wetness between your legs...

any girls (or guys) have recommendations for this? :)) i've had a good amount of vanilla sex with men, and limited experience with other girls -- my guess is it's easier with something inside, pressing on your bladder and making you squirt uncontrollably with each thrust... 😉

how best should i go about training myself to be able to let go?

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14 minutes ago, Vika said:

My main suggestion, if you're going at this with someone, bring it up, and make sure they're open to this.

of course! i'd never want to spring this on someone they didn't explicitly say they were ok! i mentioned something similar to a girl once and she said she might be interested, but never worked up the courage to suggest it haha

14 minutes ago, BlueWetter said:

Mmmmmn, sounds really hot..

Maybe try to train yourself by getting desperate, then have some fun with a few sex toys?

hehe it is isn't it ;)) i wonder what toy would be best....

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I have a lot of experience with this. I think you have to ramp up slowly towards being comfortable with it if it's something you want. When you're out with you're partner, let them know you're really desperate and then leave the door open whIle you pee and tell them how good it feels. Eventually, you can lead them by the hand into the bathroom with you and make out with them while you relieve yourself (or vice versa)

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1 hour ago, lsn1 said:

I have a lot of experience with this. I think you have to ramp up slowly towards being comfortable with it if it's something you want. When you're out with you're partner, let them know you're really desperate and then leave the door open whIle you pee and tell them how good it feels. Eventually, you can lead them by the hand into the bathroom with you and make out with them while you relieve yourself (or vice versa)

thank you! that's super good advice from the social side of things

17 minutes ago, Here4theFun said:

I guess get desperate before... Idk I always need to pee after sex and once had to stop just so I didn't loose it while. 

Yeah you could try with a toy, maybe agle it so it also hits your bladder from inside or a curved one. 

And always ask consent unless it was really a true accident. 

peeing after sex is also good from a health perspective! thanks for the toy advice :))

(and absolutely with consent, i think it's disgusting when people try to force this on others, like hotel wettings eek)

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I don’t know if I’d be able to wet during sex, but I know I’ve leaked a few times! And yes, penetration will definitely encourage that if the bladder is full enough.

maybe even just going into it already desperate.

until you find a consenting partner, why not try peeing while masturbating, maybe even in the toilet or shower so you can get around some of the mental block aspect?

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13 hours ago, Polkadotpuddle said:

I don’t know if I’d be able to wet during sex, but I know I’ve leaked a few times! And yes, penetration will definitely encourage that if the bladder is full enough.

maybe even just going into it already desperate.

until you find a consenting partner, why not try peeing while masturbating, maybe even in the toilet or shower so you can get around some of the mental block aspect?

thank you! this is amazing advice -- i'll definitely be trying it :))

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On 5/6/2019 at 6:54 PM, littlerush said:

i imagine the feeling of being completely desperate, then slowly losing control with your partner on top of you as you realise there's nothing you can do but let go is so amazing. then as it spurts out feeling the relief and the wetness between your legs...

If you are going to pee during sex (hot) I would prefer you were on top, so I would feel the full effect of you pee on my body not just my penis. I love how you think though.

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this is something that happens a lot in hentai. unfortunately it's something only girls can pull off. I think just asking ther other guys here, have you ever tried to pee with an erection? not very easy. and usually you can't get your bladder to empty all the way, it will only come out when you're about to burst and only enough to relieve that overflowing feeling.

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On 5/8/2019 at 8:10 AM, madalu said:

In our experience, it's much easier without "something inside", which tends to squeeze the urethra closed and prevent peeing no matter how hard she tries.

interesting..... i could definitely see that happening to me! will have to try it out both ways

18 hours ago, wettingman said:

If you are going to pee during sex (hot) I would prefer you were on top, so I would feel the full effect of you pee on my body not just my penis. I love how you think though.

it’s one of my favourite fantasies ;)

12 hours ago, ntiu_123 said:

My girlfriend always want me to be full of piss before having sex. The feeling is amazing 

i definitely find it more intense, and after speaking to some friends without this kink, it seems to be a universal experience ! very intriguing 😂

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I've heard that it's quite common for girls to need to pee during sex.  Something to do with female anatomy in there.  

I had a girlfriend who would regularly rush to the bathroom after sex.  She once also squirted on me.  It was an amazing feeling with her warmth spreading across my balls, but she got all embarrassed and ended the session.  Still left a wet patch on the sheet though.

Would definitely be into having sex with a girl with a full bladder until she had an accident on me in bed. One of my fantasies.

 

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I actually experienced this once with my now ex-wife. While she said pee play did not excite her she loved having sex with a full bladder. She said it felt better. I kept asking her how her pee felt and she replied "like it's going to come out, but it feels too good to stop.

She almost always managed to hold it in , no matter how badly she needed to go. Although I never heard of this perhaps what madalu said could be accurate. I know I could not pee inside a woman if I tried.

On 5/8/2019 at 3:10 AM, madalu said:

In our experience, it's much easier without "something inside", which tends to squeeze the urethra closed and prevent peeing no matter how hard she tries.

Anyway, this one time she was about to climax, when I felt a big hard spurt of pee on my penis. I shot my load immediately. She said she was unaware this happened, and was a bit embarrassed. I told her don't be I loved it. 

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On 5/10/2019 at 5:44 PM, David_E said:

I'd love to be able to give oral sex to a woman who would pee as she came. I've had a woman ejaculate at that point, and that is supposed to be dilute pee.

David

Inaccurate actually, it’s not dilute pee. As someone who experiences this phenomenon I’ve researched a far amount. What you see in porn, shooting out like a geyser is often pee as it’s easier to control and ensure it happens. But female ejaculation actually has a different consistency to urine.

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On 5/10/2019 at 5:44 PM, David_E said:

I'd love to be able to give oral sex to a woman who would pee as she came. I've had a woman ejaculate at that point, and that is supposed to be dilute pee.

David

As has been said, female ejaculation and peeing are two separate things. I have tasted both and both are wonderful. 

When my wife was able to be intimate / have sex  she was able to ejaculate. I would say it was my favourite part of lovemaking.  She was constantly afraid she would pee (and knew I did not care if she all but drowned me either by accident or on purpose). It was a bonus if she forgot to wipe all before she hopped back into bed,  I took my time with her and kept her hydrated (very important for pee play and female ejaculation).

By the time we had been able to reliably bring about her ejaculation, she became less worried that her bladder always had something left. When she was really, really horny (and to this day, I do not know if she said this to excite me more or because she did actually do it, or both) she would sometimes say:

"Oh! I think I just peed in your mouth!"  (Which would make me more horny / lick her harder / play with her G-Spot in a slightly different way...)

or

When she would sometimes be nearing her ejaculation, she would say. "I don't want to stop, but I have to pee. I know I just peed like 10 minutes ago, but I might have to pee again ... " (My usual answer was "I don't care, I love you and if you don't want to get up I don't mind. I love the way all of you tastes, every molecule excites me and I am lucky to be with you. ( Aside: (It took a very long time to get her to relax to be able to be interested in sex, let alone orgasm because of childhood abuse and religious guilt).

Occasionally, she would get up, and maybe she could push a tablespoon of pee out. Most of the time, she stayed. I would continue and she would ejaculate, usually filling my mouth, soaking my face, hair and chest. 

Very rarely (maybe four times over 7 years), I would accompany her to one of her our of town committee meetings. Her committee members loved drinking at night and she would get very tipsy and adventurous. Unfortunately, she does not recall everything that happened, but (trying to stay on topic) one of my favourite things she would do is not be bothered to go to the bathroom and leave herself desperate. This left me for some wonderful memories. 

Once, we were heading out to dinner (a 1 1/2 hour drive in a 12 passenger van with no toilet). She and I were in the very back and she had to go. She said she could wait if she could take the edge off and asked if I had a towel, cup, Gatorade bottle, etc. I said I think so. The committee leader called to her (from the front of the van so she stood up. Her panties were already off. I was looking on the floor and seat for the plastic cup I had seen.  I did not hear her say "Ready?" and I was just getting the cup up to her lips, when she let a spurt go. Her stream was loud and hot. My thumb was wet. The cup had a crack. She pushed out another spurt and slid over to the other side of the bench, still talking to the committee chair. I was behind the seat, half squatting. The crack was not going to hold in her pee much longer and I had no where to dump it and no paper towels to stuff inside the cup. No one was looking (or so as I could tell), so I drank her pee.

Later, she asked me what I did with the cup. I told her I found a small hole in the floor of the van can carefully poured the pee out onto the highway.

After dinner, she was more than tipsy. We made it back to the hotel room and she was horny. We played around and I pulled her to the edge of the mattress and stared licking her. She was sopping and using more kinky language than normal. As I was getting ready to orally bring her to orgasm, she half sat up and said, "Oh! Shit, I have to piss ...." 

She passed out and peed in my mouth, all down my chest, all over my underwear and legs ...

I drank all I could. I cleaned her up and tucked her in. She asked me later what had happened. Since she never really got excited by pee play, I told her she came big time and fell asleep. 

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On 5/11/2019 at 11:21 PM, Polkadotpuddle said:

Inaccurate actually, it’s not dilute pee. As someone who experiences this phenomenon I’ve researched a far amount. What you see in porn, shooting out like a geyser is often pee as it’s easier to control and ensure it happens. But female ejaculation actually has a different consistency to urine.

Actually there seems to be some controversy over this matter. One theory is that female ejaculate is produced by the Skene glands, but others say these are too small to account for the amount of fluid released. In one experiment women who were able to make themselves ejaculate themselves, were scanned - in might have been with ultrasound - as they did just that! What was found that their bladders seemed to fill up very fast as these women became aroused, and their ejaculate came from their bladders.

My only experiments have been rather more intimate 😊 I find it hard to be sure of what I am tasting by the time my partner orgasms, but smelling the wet patch in the bed afterwards, it smells like dilute pee - which corresponds with the experiment.

It doesn't really matter, of course, particularly for those who appreciate the sexiness of pee. Perhaps the other stories were started by normies who couldn't bear the thought that their women actually pissed in their faces with excitement!

Obviously in porn shoots the ejaculation may well be faked as you say.

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1 hour ago, David_E said:

Actually there seems to be some controversy over this matter. One theory is that female ejaculate is produced by the Skene glands, but others say these are too small to account for the amount of fluid released. In one experiment women who were able to make themselves ejaculate themselves, were scanned - in might have been with ultrasound - as they did just that! What was found that their bladders seemed to fill up very fast as these women became aroused, and their ejaculate came from their bladders.

My only experiments have been rather more intimate 😊 I find it hard to be sure of what I am tasting by the time my partner orgasms, but smelling the wet patch in the bed afterwards, it smells like dilute pee - which corresponds with the experiment.

It doesn't really matter, of course, particularly for those who appreciate the sexiness of pee. Perhaps the other stories were started by normies who couldn't bear the thought that their women actually pissed in their faces with excitement!

Obviously in porn shoots the ejaculation may well be faked as you say.

I’ve also done the taste and smell test lol. It generally feels slightly more viscous than straight pee. Though it could likely be a complex mixture of factors that vary which could account for why it’s so hard to get a definitive answer as to how and why if happens.

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On 5/8/2019 at 2:10 AM, madalu said:

In our experience, it's much easier without "something inside", which tends to squeeze the urethra closed and prevent peeing no matter how hard she tries.

As someone that does it relatively often, yeah, this is pretty much accurate ^

Some tips I'd recommend:
-Obviously, consent. You already know that by the replies you've given.
-Make sure you protect the floor or area you're going to be using. There's nothing more fun-interrupting than realizing that your movements are getting pee where you *didn't* want it and you end up cutting sex short because you're afraid of destroying the furniture. Over-protect things rather than under-protect. With a full bladder and people's weight on top of each other, unless you're on an entirely hard surface, every other surface will "sink" (bed, etc.) for a puddle that you'll be splashing in.
-I'd recommend having a very full bladder before you start. For kink purposes, if that's what you're into, and just because it makes it easier.
-Don't be surprised if you have a hell of a hard time peeing - especially the first couple of times. Talk about this beforehand, and if you're getting frustrated, just enjoy staying still together without movement/active sex until you're able to pee some out. It'll get better with practice. Turns out, the body isn't so used to peeing with another human attached to it. Go figure. (If you want to try to actively practice for this part, dildos or other insertables would be a decent idea.)
-As mentioned above, it's actually surprisingly hard to pee while there's something large and inside you - especially if it's moving. You might find that it works better if you ask your partner to do full, slow strokes - gently pulling all the way out then sliding back in. Actively "push out" during the entirety of it. It'll feel really nice, and pee will easily escape in-between each thrust. There's a reason that most porn that features this shows the guy entirely outside of her body - it's because it's surprisingly hard to pee with so much pressure on the urethra and so much movement.
-Urine can "wash away"/dilute a lot of the vaginal natural lubrication. If you're actively doing penetration, as hot as you may find it or enjoy it, especially with a condom-covered penis, things can get a little too friction-y. I recommend having some good lube nearby to apply afterwards if you two want to keep sexing.
-And depending on how long you want your sex-ing to go, make sure you keep in mind that your "was super hot" pee puddle will get cold. And sex in a cold puddle is less-fun. So if it isn't an instantly-done-afterwards kinda situation, have alternative plans if you plan on continuing to play for awhile after.

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